FabSwingers.com forum: What to do?

By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Even though I'm a label hater, I class myself as situationally Bi and have only ever had 'relationships' with men. I do find women attractive but I can't ever imagine having a relationship with one.

However...

A week ago I was chatted up by a vertical woman (very lighthearted and friendly) and I liked it but now I don't know what to do with it!

I find myself thinking about her and have taken two opportunities to see and talk to her again.

Has anyone else found the self in this position and what did you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you explain to me what a vertical woman is, as I am confuddled?

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Vertical = non-swinger. It's a Femme Fatale original.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have fun.

There is no real need to make choices just now so run with it and enjoy yourself.

Let future you worry about that bridge when/if it comes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vertical = non-swinger. It's a Femme Fatale original. "

Oh, OK - my ignorance. If she is not too tall (sorry, could not resist), go with your feelings. You really do not need peoples' acceptance or views. If you are attracted to her, explore it. You are an adult.

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Vertical = non-swinger. It's a Femme Fatale original.

I wasn't asking for other peoples acceptance but other peoples thoughts or experiences will help me arrange my thoughts and actions.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I think you already know what you want to do - sometimes we don't know what we want until it jumps up and bites us. Explore it, you're more likely to regret it if you don't. The 'what ifs' linger far more than the 'what was I thinking' in my opinion.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Miss Topsy of the wondrous hair, thy only liveth the once, if you don't give it and her a whirl (don't give her a twirl, better chocs are available) you may always regret it. Go for it and see where it leads. It may be something truly fantastic

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

One day at a time and be honest with yourself and her throughout.

I have a friend who went from being straight to celibate to falling in love with a woman. Four years on they are still very happy together. She didn't expect to find anyone attractive again let alone another woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how do you know she was chatting you up though?

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