FabSwingers.com forum: Serious Question

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There's a bloke on here with multiple profiles, and recently he's popped up with a couples profile. I'm 99.9% positive it's just him. I know the drill, as in reporting and blocking on here. But my question is, do I let her know? We're not best buddies or anything, but we were in school together (primary and comp) and I wouldn't pass her in the street without stopping for a chat. I think it's wrong making up a couples profile in the first place, but I'm aware it happens. What's bothering me is that he's got pics of her up, it's such a horrible thing to do. I'm aware they're friends, so I'm also aware that telling her will more than likely cause a big bust up between them, which is awful in itself. I don't know what to do? Any opinions fellow fabsters?

Lauz x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would not get involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuff like that we'd leave well alone. What others do is their business.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm tricky. I would message on here and when you get an answer ask which one of them it is but maybe mention something about the last time you chatted with her in passing to see what the reaction is. Good luck

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Why not simply comment to your friend that you saw her new couples profile....

Her reaction will tell you if its fake or not....

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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago

Herefordshire

"There's a bloke on here with multiple profiles, and recently he's popped up with a couples profile. I'm 99.9% positive it's just him. I know the drill, as in reporting and blocking on here. But my question is, do I let her know? We're not best buddies or anything, but we were in school together (primary and comp) and I wouldn't pass her in the street without stopping for a chat. I think it's wrong making up a couples profile in the first place, but I'm aware it happens. What's bothering me is that he's got pics of her up, it's such a horrible thing to do. I'm aware they're friends, so I'm also aware that telling her will more than likely cause a big bust up between them, which is awful in itself. I don't know what to do? Any opinions fellow fabsters? Lauz x"

So to clarify, are they actually a couple or just friends? If they're a couple, maybe she's aware of the profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No, they're definitely not a couple in real life. She has a partner. They're ex work collegues who remain friends x

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By *abybladeCouple
over a year ago

Bacup

"Why not simply comment to your friend that you saw her new couples profile....

Her reaction will tell you if its fake or not...."

Yep. Get her told. Why should a bloke clams to be in a couples relationship just to get sex. Obviously his other profiles arnt working as most don't want single guys. If he's lying about the profile is he lying to his misses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hmm tricky. I would message on here and when you get an answer ask which one of them it is but maybe mention something about the last time you chatted with her in passing to see what the reaction is. Good luck

It's always him chatting x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not simply comment to your friend that you saw her new couples profile....

Her reaction will tell you if its fake or not...."

This is a good idea I think. I could just ask her how she's finding the site so far or something x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just been contacted by someone like that

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