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By *ipmummx OP   Woman
over a year ago

milton keynes

So a couple have looked at my profile quite a few times which i really dont mind. i do have pics and face ones for friends only. There profile has no pics no veris and states that others must have a face pic or they wont reply... Is this just double standards or a little strange ??

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Each to their own

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By *az_1976Man
over a year ago

Peterborough/Huntingdon

Double standards but it seems to happen a lot on here

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

maybe they have their face pics n their private gallery

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By *ipmummx OP   Woman
over a year ago

milton keynes


"maybe they have their face pics n their private gallery"
doesnt that usually say ??

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I tend not to over analyse such things.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"maybe they have their face pics n their private gallerydoesnt that usually say ??"

if they are in friends only yes but not private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not contact them. Do you want to have sex with people who have such double standards? Freedom of choice or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They try and dress it up as being about discretion whereas imho it is usually just a case of 'you show first and if we fancy you, you will get to see us'

If they don't fancy you, you ain't got a cat in hells chance of seeing their boat races ...

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By *o1mrtlcMan
over a year ago

cannock


"Double standards but it seems to happen a lot on here"
yes there a lot of people on this site who have double standards

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By *ipmummx OP   Woman
over a year ago

milton keynes


"They try and dress it up as being about discretion whereas imho it is usually just a case of 'you show first and if we fancy you, you will get to see us'

If they don't fancy you, you ain't got a cat in hells chance of seeing their boat races ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I get your point....

if they'd messaged asking for a photo and refused to give one in return I get that's double standard but surely looking is just that ~ looking ?!

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By *ipmummx OP   Woman
over a year ago

milton keynes


"maybe they have their face pics n their private gallerydoesnt that usually say ??

if they are in friends only yes but not private"
i didnt know you could do that, something else i have learnt

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"maybe they have their face pics n their private gallerydoesnt that usually say ??

if they are in friends only yes but not privatei didnt know you could do that, something else i have learnt"

happy to help

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"So a couple have looked at my profile quite a few times which i really dont mind. i do have pics and face ones for friends only. There profile has no pics no veris and states that others must have a face pic or they wont reply... Is this just double standards or a little strange ?? "

Have you spoke to this couple or have you just been looking at each others profiles?

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By *ipmummx OP   Woman
over a year ago

milton keynes


"So a couple have looked at my profile quite a few times which i really dont mind. i do have pics and face ones for friends only. There profile has no pics no veris and states that others must have a face pic or they wont reply... Is this just double standards or a little strange ??

Have you spoke to this couple or have you just been looking at each others profiles?"
i noticed they had a look at my profile quite a few times so thought i would take a look at theirs but not much on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block em!I wouldn't give them the time of day!!

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

I've met people before now without seeing them.

OK, it was fairlt local, but we'd exchanged mails and from that thy seemed appealing. They were.

Had thy not been, I would have probably have chatted, before politely walking away from the meeting.

I guess we all make our choices and sometimes, despite being a bloke, the visual thing aint the be all and end all.

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By *ipmummx OP   Woman
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Block em!I wouldn't give them the time of day!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a couple have looked at my profile quite a few times which i really dont mind. i do have pics and face ones for friends only. There profile has no pics no veris and states that others must have a face pic or they wont reply... Is this just double standards or a little strange ?? "

People look, they probably look at you when you go down the street or in tescos too.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Each to their own, but if they don't appeal to you, just ignore. I had a couple look at me & wink, so I winked back then sent a short message. They read it but never got in touch. Best thing to do is shrug it off & go look at or talk to someone else

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Haha, just this minute I saw that I had a new wink. I clicked on the persons profile & they had blocked me. So they like me, but don't want to talk....

Nowt queer as folk haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a couple have looked at my profile quite a few times which i really dont mind. i do have pics and face ones for friends only. There profile has no pics no veris and states that others must have a face pic or they wont reply... Is this just double standards or a little strange ?? "

A fake profile most likely ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a couple have looked at my profile quite a few times which i really dont mind. i do have pics and face ones for friends only. There profile has no pics no veris and states that others must have a face pic or they wont reply... Is this just double standards or a little strange ?? "

You can either play along or move along. Depends on how much of other people's crap you're ready to tolerate.

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