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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question for women and couples mainly.

You visit a guy's profile.

No public pics and in the profile's text they say : "If you contact me attach a face pic otherwise it gets deleted/blocked. If I like I'll send my pic in return but don't expect a reply if I don't like"

What's the impression you get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the impression we wont be contacting him/her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the impression we wont be contacting him/her"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say a similar thing. But I would always reply. I think it's rude not to. Especially if you have read their profile and attached a pic. The fact they say it makes it seem worse to me as well. So I would give them a miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the impression they can f**k off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the impression we wont be contacting him/her "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I get a pretty poor impression and move on to the next profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the impression we wont be contacting him/her

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the impression they can f**k off!"

I was being polite lol

Gimp

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I also get the impression that you are making a point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the impression we wont be contacting him/her"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also get the impression that you are making a point "

hahaha

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

If that was all that was on the profile I'd move on. I'm guessing somewhere around the corner there might be a "so how do women get away with it" comment lurking...in which case I'd say they don't always, but the ratio of men to women does put SOME women at an advantage as SOME men will do almost anything for the chance of a freebie shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hes an arrogant man who thinks its all about him so Id pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that was all that was on the profile I'd move on. I'm guessing somewhere around the corner there might be a "so how do women get away with it" comment lurking...in which case I'd say they don't always, but the ratio of men to women does put SOME women at an advantage as SOME men will do almost anything for the chance of a freebie shag"

Not from me you wont luv, Im in agreement in that Women have what blokes want and so many single blokes on here they need to know how to play the game..I know that anyone showing arrogance like that would Dry Nette up straight away

Gimp

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If that was all that was on the profile I'd move on. I'm guessing somewhere around the corner there might be a "so how do women get away with it" comment lurking...in which case I'd say they don't always, but the ratio of men to women does put SOME women at an advantage as SOME men will do almost anything for the chance of a freebie shag"

Gizzashag?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"If that was all that was on the profile I'd move on. I'm guessing somewhere around the corner there might be a "so how do women get away with it" comment lurking...in which case I'd say they don't always, but the ratio of men to women does put SOME women at an advantage as SOME men will do almost anything for the chance of a freebie shag

Gizzashag? "

Anytime chick...me legs are open, hurry round or the new hip'll seize up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I also get the impression that you are making a point "

I am an ass man and have a preference for smart asses

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"If that was all that was on the profile I'd move on. I'm guessing somewhere around the corner there might be a "so how do women get away with it" comment lurking...in which case I'd say they don't always, but the ratio of men to women does put SOME women at an advantage as SOME men will do almost anything for the chance of a freebie shag

Not from me you wont luv, Im in agreement in that Women have what blokes want and so many single blokes on here they need to know how to play the game..I know that anyone showing arrogance like that would Dry Nette up straight away

Gimp"

What's not from you Gimp? My point is that as someone else pointed out, there may be an agenda here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think it's a woman or a couple's profile.

Good point well made OP.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I also get the impression that you are making a point

I am an ass man and have a preference for smart asses "

That's me

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By *hoe_nixCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I get the impression they don't get many meets

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd just move on to one of the 94,000 other single guys' profiles in the hope they are more forthcoming.

Should it be a couple or single ladies' profile, then I would do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impression ........ Next ....... Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually think any overly-defensive and ranty profile listing your demands is counter-productive. No matter whether its a single or a couple.

You'll most likely succeed in deterring those you might be interested in because they think your profile is negative and off-putting.

Oh but the idiots they love it because (being idiots) if they actually bother to read your content they will do whatever they want regardless. I'm sure some people simply delight in attacking defences that people build up and breaking the 'rules' they set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that was all that was on the profile I'd move on. I'm guessing somewhere around the corner there might be a "so how do women get away with it" comment lurking...in which case I'd say they don't always, but the ratio of men to women does put SOME women at an advantage as SOME men will do almost anything for the chance of a freebie shag

Not from me you wont luv, Im in agreement in that Women have what blokes want and so many single blokes on here they need to know how to play the game..I know that anyone showing arrogance like that would Dry Nette up straight away

Gimp

What's not from you Gimp? My point is that as someone else pointed out, there may be an agenda here "

Ooops me fingers were working quicker than me Brain as usual lol

Ginp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd just move on to one of the 94,000 other single guys' profiles in the hope they are more forthcoming.

Should it be a couple or single ladies' profile, then I would do the same. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actually think any overly-defensive and ranty profile listing your demands is counter-productive. No matter whether its a single or a couple.

You'll most likely succeed in deterring those you might be interested in because they think your profile is negative and off-putting.

Oh but the idiots they love it because (being idiots) if they actually bother to read your content they will do whatever they want regardless. I'm sure some people simply delight in attacking defences that people build up and breaking the 'rules' they set."

Anyway ... when are you heading up north?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'd be tempted to respond with 'Who are you trying to kid!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually think any overly-defensive and ranty profile listing your demands is counter-productive. No matter whether its a single or a couple.

You'll most likely succeed in deterring those you might be interested in because they think your profile is negative and off-putting.

Oh but the idiots they love it because (being idiots) if they actually bother to read your content they will do whatever they want regardless. I'm sure some people simply delight in attacking defences that people build up and breaking the 'rules' they set.

Anyway ... when are you heading up north? "

That made me chuckle, very good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be tempted to respond with 'Who are you trying to kid!' "

This is what happens when I don't get the fun I was hoping for. So all the sexy ladies here I invite you to keep me busy to stay on your side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd get the impression they choose their preferences by looks. Don't like the look,don't send back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't bother

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'd be tempted to respond with 'Who are you trying to kid!'

This is what happens when I don't get the fun I was hoping for. So all the sexy ladies here I invite you to keep me busy to stay on your side "

So....who are you trying to kid?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be tempted to respond with 'Who are you trying to kid!'

This is what happens when I don't get the fun I was hoping for. So all the sexy ladies here I invite you to keep me busy to stay on your side

So....who are you trying to kid? "

You keep quiet! Don't u see am fishing here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be tempted to respond with 'Who are you trying to kid!'

This is what happens when I don't get the fun I was hoping for. So all the sexy ladies here I invite you to keep me busy to stay on your side

So....who are you trying to kid?

You keep quiet! Don't u see am fishing here? "

you're always fishing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hands justunme a rod....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'd be tempted to respond with 'Who are you trying to kid!'

This is what happens when I don't get the fun I was hoping for. So all the sexy ladies here I invite you to keep me busy to stay on your side

So....who are you trying to kid?

You keep quiet! Don't u see am fishing here? "

Fish away! Lol Fish away!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"A question for women and couples mainly.

You visit a guy's profile.

No public pics and in the profile's text they say : "If you contact me attach a face pic otherwise it gets deleted/blocked. If I like I'll send my pic in return but don't expect a reply if I don't like"

What's the impression you get? "

Only ever seen this on a female profile...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be tempted to respond with 'Who are you trying to kid!'

This is what happens when I don't get the fun I was hoping for. So all the sexy ladies here I invite you to keep me busy to stay on your side

So....who are you trying to kid?

You keep quiet! Don't u see am fishing here?

you're always fishing "

Lol I love fish cakes and u know that. Especially when its on buy one get one free offer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hands justunme a rod....

"

You asking for my hands or the rod?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hands justunme a rod....

You asking for my hands or the rod? "

Hmmm both?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hands justunme a rod....

You asking for my hands or the rod?

Hmmm both? "

If you can handle my hands just take them. I can't keep them to myself anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A 37 year old woman has made this first contact to a 37 year old man who state in his text that he has a preference for girls between 25-32 but he doesn't block girls outside that range :

Her: " Every time I come across your pics I waish I were 5 years younger to fit the criteria. Damn it :P"

Him: " Ok no problem bye"

Her: "!!!!!"

Him: " Not interested so don't waste your time replying back. Because I will just delete any msg you send me without reading or or replyingaback back too you. Goodbye"

End of communication.

What do u think of the 2 characters?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"A question for women and couples mainly.

You visit a guy's profile.

No public pics and in the profile's text they say : "If you contact me attach a face pic otherwise it gets deleted/blocked. If I like I'll send my pic in return but don't expect a reply if I don't like"

What's the impression you get? "

Hit delete faster than I can form any thought whatsoever!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"A 37 year old woman has made this first contact to a 37 year old man who state in his text that he has a preference for girls between 25-32 but he doesn't block girls outside that range :

Her: " Every time I come across your pics I waish I were 5 years younger to fit the criteria. Damn it :P"

Him: " Ok no problem bye"

Her: "!!!!!"

Him: " Not interested so don't waste your time replying back. Because I will just delete any msg you send me without reading or or replyingaback back too you. Goodbye"

End of communication.

What do u think of the 2 characters? "

She paid him a compliment, at the very least he could acknowledge the fact - he lacks both manners and humanity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A 37 year old woman has made this first contact to a 37 year old man who state in his text that he has a preference for girls between 25-32 but he doesn't block girls outside that range :

Her: " Every time I come across your pics I waish I were 5 years younger to fit the criteria. Damn it :P"

Him: " Ok no problem bye"

Her: "!!!!!"

Him: " Not interested so don't waste your time replying back. Because I will just delete any msg you send me without reading or or replyingaback back too you. Goodbye"

End of communication.

What do u think of the 2 characters?

She paid him a compliment, at the very least he could acknowledge the fact - he lacks both manners and humanity."

Thats exactly what I thought. The truth is that the she was actually me and the he was a woman.

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