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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When I was younger, I was massively attracted toward older women, and have been fortunate enough to enjoy swinging with a large number of them over the years. Now I'm in my thirties however, I find myself more and more drawn to younger women - any other guys (or girls) feel the same way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like a younger guy but no one young enough to be my son!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I have never been attracted to guys much younger than myself, and I would go as low as about 10 yours younger max whereas my upper age limit has always been siginifcantly more flexible. I think this is, for me anyway, reflecting the fact I am more drawn to a guy's personality and brain than his physical attributes if that makes sense?

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By *utecontradictionMan
over a year ago

Malvern

Yes I know the feeling....I don't know why it is. But then a lot of my sexual tastes and desires have changed over the years.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have never been attracted to guys much younger than myself, and I would go as low as about 10 yours younger max whereas my upper age limit has always been siginifcantly more flexible. I think this is, for me anyway, reflecting the fact I am more drawn to a guy's personality and brain than his physical attributes if that makes sense? "
* oopos "years" not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have all ways loved older women and still do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I know the feeling....I don't know why it is. But then a lot of my sexual tastes and desires have changed over the years. "

I think its the student/teacher affair, when I was younger I never purposely sought more mature women because I felt I knew nothing about sex, but I do feel like I was perhaps finding enjoyment through seeking and then gaining their sexual approval, now that I'm older and know what kind of people I find most attractive and the kind of sex I enjoy with them, it feels more like I'm the one who wants to take the young ladies by the hand and show them why this kind of sex feels so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always gone for older men, as a teen I saw guys in early 30's, at 27, my ex is 44, last sex was a guy younger than me,(less than a year) and I'm definitely sticking to older! 36-42 ideally.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I've always preferred those in my own age range whilst growing up, never crossed my mind to do anything else

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

im 57 ...there are no older women .. so i have to make do with younger ones

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Been trying to do a trade-in for a while; a 50 odd year old for 2 x 25 year olds.

All offers kindly received!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky for some I prefer my age or older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that I'm older I find I'm more attracted to younger men. My ex was 13 years older than me so I'm not sure if that's a factor.

My lower age limit has risen to what it was 12 months ago though but my upper limit is still 5 years younger than I am

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

any age if on offer, cannot have set limit, once more mature, just be glad a female is interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I've always preferred those in my own age range whilst growing up, never crossed my mind to do anything else"

Hey I'd love to mete more girls my own age too, they're just rare on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my tastes havent changed yet .. still prefer the older guy..

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By *utecontradictionMan
over a year ago

Malvern


"my tastes havent changed yet .. still prefer the older guy.. "

Now funny you should say that....Hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think, for some men (please note I said some ) its a case of trying to hold on to youth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think, for some men (please note I said some ) its a case of trying to hold on to youth "

I don't even like sports cars

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

when I was younger I liked older men,now im older they are too old still like the more mature man

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think, for some men (please note I said some ) its a case of trying to hold on to youth "

Definitely. I get guys in their 20's, 30's on all sites but far more in their 40's and 50's on here. I think men of all ages want sex with older women, but more often want to settle down with younger. Perhaps Sexybrain is getting broody!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Women drawn to younger males on here do seem to be very much in the minority, whereas mature males looking for younger women is far more common - certainly judging from the number of womens profiles I've encountered over the years, stating how many older guys are messaging them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age preferences haven't changed yet, I still prefer a man that's older than me. Although I find my attitude towards sex has changed over the last few years but I guess that's natural through experience and maturity

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My age preferences haven't changed yet, I still prefer a man that's older than me. Although I find my attitude towards sex has changed over the last few years but I guess that's natural through experience and maturity "

I think so, the more you explore sex with multiple partners, the more you'll start to get a better idea of what you enjoy and what you don't, and become more refined and specific in your sexual tastes.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Interesting question.

Age is a bit of a sticking point for me at the moment. As I've aged, my maximum age preference hasn't really gone up, whereas my minimum age has.

When I was around 28 I saw a couple of 18/19 year olds but in general my preference was for older. I think 10 years younger has been my biggest age gap with a younger man.

Now I prefer mid-30's to late 40's, although I'll consider early 30's. I just cannot see what a much younger guy would see in a fat 40 year old, I can't see we'd have much in common and, to be honest, I prefer sexually experienced and skilled partners. I'm more likely to find that in an older partner, in my experience, (although youth and vitality can be wonderful!).

50 is an issue for me. I'm struggling to step over that boundary. There are some very hot 50-somethings on here but they are vastly outnumbered by those who, shall we say, haven't worn well. As soon as I raise my upper limit above 50 I get an influx of messages from men who look more like 60-70! I'm sure a lot of them are.

I don't want to put off the hotties, but I don't want to have to deal with a load of old men (as compared to the 50-somethings who aren't old at all - I'm not referring to physical age), many of which get uppity when I decline. My age limit includes them so I have a duty to meet them dammit! I understand their options are limited but I don't like pushy men.

I've also found that with 49 as my upper limit, if I message someone in their 50's who appeals, my specified age range puts them off, even if I explain why I'm messaging even though they are over 49.

60's is absolutely out because that's the territory of my parents age.

At 40 now, I'm limited with respect for older men unless I can get past the 50+ thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference has always been for older guys and women. Didnt even think of it, it was just how it went. My attitude in general has always been 'older than my years' as some may say, so i do tend to get on with folk who are older than i am.

As for sexual preferences...not so much changing as expanding and evolving lol have done so much and it makes me want to explore as much as possible

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like a younger guy but no one young enough to be my son!"

pick me pick me!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Out of curiosity, when a younger girl specifies 'older guys', around what age and upwards is she looking for?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Out of curiosity, when a younger girl specifies 'older guys', around what age and upwards is she looking for?"

Older than her, probably!

It'd be very individual, I'd expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was younger, I was massively attracted toward older women, and have been fortunate enough to enjoy swinging with a large number of them over the years. Now I'm in my thirties however, I find myself more and more drawn to younger women - any other guys (or girls) feel the same way?"

Yes.

Always prefered older (or at least slightly older women) and mainly dated women either my age or a few years older - I don't think I've ever dated someone younger. Now I generally tend to prefer younger women. Strange one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care how old they are as long as they know what they are doing. (Within reason obviously)

That being said the youngest I'd go on here is 25. Only 3 times have I gone lower so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity, when a younger girl specifies 'older guys', around what age and upwards is she looking for?"

I don't really have a set age. Not attracted to younger than me though so I would say 26 is youngest. Don't really know what my upper age limit is, I set it randomly on here just to limit the messages I receive

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

My preferences seem to have been fairly stable for the last 10 years, though there are always exceptions... I like guys in their mid-30's (or who at least look like they are)

When I was younger, I generally liked guys a year or three older... then in my 30's I started seeing the benefits of younger guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity, when a younger girl specifies 'older guys', around what age and upwards is she looking for?

Older than her, probably!

It'd be very individual, I'd expect."

Hence why I asked what general sort of age range an 'older guy' falls into, as I seriously doubt when a 20 year old girl on here states she's looking for 'older guys', a 21 year old is what she had in mind.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Out of curiosity, when a younger girl specifies 'older guys', around what age and upwards is she looking for?

Older than her, probably!

It'd be very individual, I'd expect.

Hence why I asked what general sort of age range an 'older guy' falls into, as I seriously doubt when a 20 year old girl on here states she's looking for 'older guys', a 21 year old is what she had in mind."

She might. She may well mean it in terms of simply "not younger than me".

I'd have thought checking her age range preference on her profile would clarify individual situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before joining fab id never been with a younger guy.. and 15 yrs older was my limit.

That has changed since joining here.

Now altho iv got age filters in place to limit messages, I dont realy take age into considereation as much

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Any hot 50-somethings want to help me with my age issues?

Or any fit 20-somethings want to demonstrate that it's not just the older men who have maturity and are experienced, good fucks?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Until recently I'd only ever been with guys older than me. It's an odd experience being the older woman for the first time, especially since I don't feel as old as I chronologically am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy I'm seeing went the opposite way. He said he had a habit of dating 21 year olds and when he got to his late thirties he started to feel he couldn't have a decent conversation where there was a lot of shared humour/life experience and he'd also never enjoyed the pleasure of a woman take the lead sexually which he craved.

I generally gravitate towards older men and have liked men in their 40s/50s all my adult life.

Think Mr D prefers women in their 30s/40's but he's never shown an interest in younger adults beyond appreciating great bodies.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

When I started swinging many years ago I did meet younger guys as I wanted to try everything, a sort of suck it and see experiment as it were, however I soon realised that its not for me, so since then I have mostly looked within my own age range of 40-50, although on occasion I have dipped under or over for someone I particularly wanted to meet

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

surely you used to like older women because you were young and now your older you like the same women but they are young

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guy I'm seeing went the opposite way. He said he had a habit of dating 21 year olds and when he got to his late thirties he started to feel he couldn't have a decent conversation"

That's something I've been concerned about when thinking about meeting a younger girl, but really it shouldn't be too much of a problem, as we'd both presumably have agreed to meet with an eye to possibly having sex with one another, by at least keeping the conversation about swinging and what you're both looking for from it, it shouldn't be too hard to know what to say to one another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger I always fancied older men. My ex is 11 years older than me. Now I go for around my age and younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose age changes your sexual preferences develop, as well as learning new sexual positions when i was younger preferred older guys and women now as i have got older I prefer younger guys from 25 upwards, went off woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my husbands much older than me, when i first started to meet other men i went for men who were the same sort of age as him but after meeting a few i have gone right off older men.

I like young men to look at and because they arent so grumpy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guy I'm seeing went the opposite way. He said he had a habit of dating 21 year olds and when he got to his late thirties he started to feel he couldn't have a decent conversation

That's something I've been concerned about when thinking about meeting a younger girl, but really it shouldn't be too much of a problem, as we'd both presumably have agreed to meet with an eye to possibly having sex with one another, by at least keeping the conversation about swinging and what you're both looking for from it, it shouldn't be too hard to know what to say to one another."

Yes if it's purely a casual and occasional thing it's less relevant although not sure I personally could sustain conversation just about swinging/what I want from swinging.

It's also not the case all 21 year olds behave like 21 year olds so you may find some common ground.

I think it's likely to be more of an issue if you need a lot of mental stimulation from meets to get aroused or are looking for something more than one off meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest. Age doesn't really play a factor for me. Doesn't matter if they are older or younger - but as long as we click then that's what does it for me. It's just a coincidence i think that i click more with older women than i do with those around my age.

Now, without blowing my own trumpet. I've been through a lot of shit in my life which meant i had to grow up a bit quicker and experience things which maybe i shouldn't have at a young age. But, that's what makes me the kind of person i am today.

I'm more of the relaxed, conversing with each other, pensioner minded kind of guy. So, in terms of age and sexual preferences changing. I think i'm still yet to discover them fully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest. Age doesn't really play a factor for me. Doesn't matter if they are older or younger - but as long as we click then that's what does it for me. It's just a coincidence i think that i click more with older women than i do with those around my age.

Now, without blowing my own trumpet. I've been through a lot of shit in my life which meant i had to grow up a bit quicker and experience things which maybe i shouldn't have at a young age. But, that's what makes me the kind of person i am today.

I'm more of the relaxed, conversing with each other, pensioner minded kind of guy. So, in terms of age and sexual preferences changing. I think i'm still yet to discover them fully.

"

You're a very old in the head 25 year old, an excellent example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't see why a man much younger than me would find me attractive. I prefer men about my own age. It is difficult enough to get men who ARE my own age! LOL

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Depends how much younger you mean....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest. Age doesn't really play a factor for me. Doesn't matter if they are older or younger - but as long as we click then that's what does it for me. It's just a coincidence i think that i click more with older women than i do with those around my age.

Now, without blowing my own trumpet. I've been through a lot of shit in my life which meant i had to grow up a bit quicker and experience things which maybe i shouldn't have at a young age. But, that's what makes me the kind of person i am today.

I'm more of the relaxed, conversing with each other, pensioner minded kind of guy. So, in terms of age and sexual preferences changing. I think i'm still yet to discover them fully.

You're a very old in the head 25 year old, an excellent example "

...doesn't help with filters that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it strange that I'm intimated by people of my own age?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's also not the case all 21 year olds behave like 21 year olds so you may find some common ground."

Well yes, I often say that age and maturity are not the same thing, and get messages from women on here saying I come across as very mature for my age, that I find strange, surely someone with three decades under their belt is expected to be somewhat mature in their outlook?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question:

Without me trying to generalise the whole age range. But, do you find that a lot of younger women have their preferences primarily based on looks and cock size alone?

I'd be honest. I see a lot of profiles on my feeds where younger women want a certain body type or a particular cock size (which she is more than entitled to try and find) but it puts me off messaging them. Whereas, with many older women it's more the ability to have a conversation, click on a mental level as well as a physical level that makes me want to message them.

My sexual preference tends to be a good night/weekend with fab company and sme damn good sex. For me, personally, preferences based on looks alone won't achieve that - that's what i think anyway from the updates they'd place later or from what many have said to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question:

Without me trying to generalise the whole age range. But, do you find that a lot of younger women have their preferences primarily based on looks and cock size alone?"

Sometimes, you come across a girl on here who is seriously good looking, I mean KER-POW! good looking, the kind who's smoking hot and she knows it. Now, often these girls won't have any meets nor verifications, perhaps because they're fake, or they can't find guys who excite them, whatever, but then you get those who DO frequently meet, judging from their verifications at least, and you'll see these are often from hyper masculine 'bad boy' types with big muscles and big cocks, who look to have wholeheartedly embraced what many would deem to be a stereotypically shallow image, yet these guys are the ones getting those girls. Ok, many women won't be attracted to guys like that, but these girls certainly seem to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question:

Without me trying to generalise the whole age range. But, do you find that a lot of younger women have their preferences primarily based on looks and cock size alone?

Sometimes, you come across a girl on here who is seriously good looking, I mean KER-POW! good looking, the kind who's smoking hot and she knows it. Now, often these girls won't have any meets nor verifications, perhaps because they're fake, or they can't find guys who excite them, whatever, but then you get those who DO frequently meet, judging from their verifications at least, and you'll see these are often from hyper masculine 'bad boy' types with big muscles and big cocks, who look to have wholeheartedly embraced what many would deem to be a stereotypically shallow image, yet these guys are the ones getting those girls. Ok, many women won't be attracted to guys like that, but these girls certainly seem to be."

But aren't you also looking for something stereotypcially shallow from what you said earlier? Surely if the ladies ability to hold a conversation is less important than her being young, having big breasts and a tight bod, that's pretty shallow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question:

Without me trying to generalise the whole age range. But, do you find that a lot of younger women have their preferences primarily based on looks and cock size alone?

Sometimes, you come across a girl on here who is seriously good looking, I mean KER-POW! good looking, the kind who's smoking hot and she knows it. Now, often these girls won't have any meets nor verifications, perhaps because they're fake, or they can't find guys who excite them, whatever, but then you get those who DO frequently meet, judging from their verifications at least, and you'll see these are often from hyper masculine 'bad boy' types with big muscles and big cocks, who look to have wholeheartedly embraced what many would deem to be a stereotypically shallow image, yet these guys are the ones getting those girls. Ok, many women won't be attracted to guys like that, but these girls certainly seem to be."

may i please just point out that there are most certainly those that you describe present in both genders. with regard to fab, these particular young ladies are after/drawn to what is basically a sexual trophy. some do that with regard to a more traditional relationship as well. someone they are proud to be seen with and that they think others will envy them for being with. again, it is an attitude present in some men as well. looks alone turn some on, regardless of age, gender, or perceived level of maturity. for others, looks are part of the overall turn on but they look at other things as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question:

Without me trying to generalise the whole age range. But, do you find that a lot of younger women have their preferences primarily based on looks and cock size alone?

Sometimes, you come across a girl on here who is seriously good looking, I mean KER-POW! good looking, the kind who's smoking hot and she knows it. Now, often these girls won't have any meets nor verifications, perhaps because they're fake, or they can't find guys who excite them, whatever, but then you get those who DO frequently meet, judging from their verifications at least, and you'll see these are often from hyper masculine 'bad boy' types with big muscles and big cocks, who look to have wholeheartedly embraced what many would deem to be a stereotypically shallow image, yet these guys are the ones getting those girls. Ok, many women won't be attracted to guys like that, but these girls certainly seem to be.

But aren't you also looking for something stereotypcially shallow from what you said earlier? Surely if the ladies ability to hold a conversation is less important than her being young, having big breasts and a tight bod, that's pretty shallow?"

I've placed great emphasis on a good mental connection with my meets ever since I first started swinging, and today that's no different, this thread simply said that I'm starting to find younger girls increasingly attractive, the tight and big breasted ones most of all, and to find one whom I also share a mental sexual connection would be fantastic.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The guys I tend to meet on here are younger than me, not a great deal younger but around 5 to 14 years younger. Not sure if I've actually met anyone older. Haven't planned it that way its just how its worked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i went for an older woman i would get nicked for Necrophilia.

Gimp

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester

Not sure i would with much younger woman prefer around my age

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course, actually finding a substantial group of available younger women, that's the hard part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to do a trade-in for a while; a 50 odd year old for 2 x 25 year olds.

All offers kindly received! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now like black men

They seem to like the fact I've only been fucked by 2 black men and am a bit of a challenge

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

The only consistent characteristic I seem to prefer is wit and humour. Age, race, height, body type.... don't really seem to come into play with my choices but a clever funny man will have me eating out of the palm of his hand.

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester


"The only consistent characteristic I seem to prefer is wit and humour. Age, race, height, body type.... don't really seem to come into play with my choices but a clever funny man will have me eating out of the palm of his hand. "
i have some corned beef sandwiches here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only consistent characteristic I seem to prefer is wit and humour. Age, race, height, body type.... don't really seem to come into play with my choices but a clever funny man will have me eating out of the palm of his hand. "

So with you on the funny. Every chap I'm strongly drawn to can make me laugh, repeatedly.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3


"The only consistent characteristic I seem to prefer is wit and humour. Age, race, height, body type.... don't really seem to come into play with my choices but a clever funny man will have me eating out of the palm of his hand. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all change with time .... life changes its normal .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only consistent characteristic I seem to prefer is wit and humour. Age, race, height, body type.... don't really seem to come into play with my choices but a clever funny man will have me eating out of the palm of his hand.

So with you on the funny. Every chap I'm strongly drawn to can make me laugh, repeatedly."

I don't get to show it on here particularly often, but I'd say I have a pretty good sense of humour, and if I run short on jokes I can always show up to my meets with a feather duster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only consistent characteristic I seem to prefer is wit and humour. Age, race, height, body type.... don't really seem to come into play with my choices but a clever funny man will have me eating out of the palm of his hand.

So with you on the funny. Every chap I'm strongly drawn to can make me laugh, repeatedly."

What about the ones who can tell the time as well? C'mon that's impressive as well you know...

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over a year ago


"The only consistent characteristic I seem to prefer is wit and humour. Age, race, height, body type.... don't really seem to come into play with my choices but a clever funny man will have me eating out of the palm of his hand.

So with you on the funny. Every chap I'm strongly drawn to can make me laugh, repeatedly.

What about the ones who can tell the time as well? C'mon that's impressive as well you know...

"

What time is it?

*awaits reply that it's business time*

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

No my tastes are still the same, age doesn't really mean too much to me

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over a year ago

There are,in my opinion,women and that look incredibly attractive in all age ranges. For me therefore age is not a major issue .

Having said that I would not go below 35 because I think it unlikely that our life experiences would be compatible, that is to say their preoccupations would not be mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No my tastes are still the same, age doesn't really mean too much to me "
well see at 60/70 still saying same thing I hope you are. And feeling 31 x

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over a year ago


"To be honest. Age doesn't really play a factor for me. Doesn't matter if they are older or younger - but as long as we click then that's what does it for me. It's just a coincidence i think that i click more with older women than i do with those around my age.

Now, without blowing my own trumpet. I've been through a lot of shit in my life which meant i had to grow up a bit quicker and experience things which maybe i shouldn't have at a young age. But, that's what makes me the kind of person i am today.

I'm more of the relaxed, conversing with each other, pensioner minded kind of guy. So, in terms of age and sexual preferences changing. I think i'm still yet to discover them fully.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was younger, I was massively attracted toward older women, and have been fortunate enough to enjoy swinging with a large number of them over the years. Now I'm in my thirties however, I find myself more and more drawn to younger women - any other guys (or girls) feel the same way?"

And here was me thinking that you were going to "come out"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are,in my opinion,women and that look incredibly attractive in all age ranges. For me therefore age is not a major issue .

Having said that I would not go below 35 because I think it unlikely that our life experiences would be compatible, that is to say their preoccupations would not be mine."

I think that's pretty much how I feel. I think unless someone very young is a bit of an anachronism I'd struggle to bridge 20 years and have commonality. It's not an essential at all if I'm wanting a one off meet, but if I'm seeking substance and something ongoing I would need that element.

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over a year ago


"The only consistent characteristic I seem to prefer is wit and humour. Age, race, height, body type.... don't really seem to come into play with my choices but a clever funny man will have me eating out of the palm of his hand. i have some corned beef sandwiches here "
what about the picadilly and crisps

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"There are,in my opinion,women and that look incredibly attractive in all age ranges. For me therefore age is not a major issue .

Having said that I would not go below 35 because I think it unlikely that our life experiences would be compatible, that is to say their preoccupations would not be mine.

I think that's pretty much how I feel. I think unless someone very young is a bit of an anachronism I'd struggle to bridge 20 years and have commonality. It's not an essential at all if I'm wanting a one off meet, but if I'm seeking substance and something ongoing I would need that element."

I feel the same.

It's all very well saying we'd be there for sex, not conversation, so common ground is not important, as some younger guys tell me but I'm not a 'fuck and go' type. There is usually time between 'rounds' which needs to be filled.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"No my tastes are still the same, age doesn't really mean too much to me well see at 60/70 still saying same thing I hope you are. And feeling 31 x "

Lol the way I see it is If something or someone entices me in a such a way then I'm up for it and hopefully I can still say that when I'm 69 (couldn't help it )

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over a year ago


"When I was younger, I was massively attracted toward older women, and have been fortunate enough to enjoy swinging with a large number of them over the years. Now I'm in my thirties however, I find myself more and more drawn to younger women - any other guys (or girls) feel the same way?"
2 years ago I was all for younger guys, say, 23-27. Now I am wanting slightly older the age range now is, 25-36

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over a year ago


"When I was younger, I was massively attracted toward older women, and have been fortunate enough to enjoy swinging with a large number of them over the years. Now I'm in my thirties however, I find myself more and more drawn to younger women - any other guys (or girls) feel the same way? 2 years ago I was all for younger guys, say, 23-27. Now I am wanting slightly older the age range now is, 25-36 "

Okay. I'd chase you again from December

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was younger, I was massively attracted toward older women, and have been fortunate enough to enjoy swinging with a large number of them over the years. Now I'm in my thirties however, I find myself more and more drawn to younger women - any other guys (or girls) feel the same way? 2 years ago I was all for younger guys, say, 23-27. Now I am wanting slightly older the age range now is, 25-36

Okay. I'd chase you again from December

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over a year ago


"When I was younger, I was massively attracted toward older women, and have been fortunate enough to enjoy swinging with a large number of them over the years. Now I'm in my thirties however, I find myself more and more drawn to younger women - any other guys (or girls) feel the same way? 2 years ago I was all for younger guys, say, 23-27. Now I am wanting slightly older the age range now is, 25-36

Okay. I'd chase you again from December

"

My chat up lines on pause for now then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any hot 50-somethings want to help me with my age issues?

Or any fit 20-somethings want to demonstrate that it's not just the older men who have maturity and are experienced, good fucks?

"
Is a 52 yr old on here I'd love to meet up with, and that's 8yrs older than iv gone by before.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've never been hung up on age.

Been with a range of ages of men (from 10 yrs younger a few years ago) to old enough to be my dad - ladies less of an age range, more through opportunity than planning.

I need the connection of humour and to find the person attractive (and I don't mean looks alone or cock size - thats never even been something I have thought about)

Men, I prefer older, as I can be quite submissive, but I don't find younger men can pull that off as well.

Have my tastes changed? No, but my confidence has so I now find sex way better, as I can actually get what I like out of the experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only consistent characteristic I seem to prefer is wit and humour. Age, race, height, body type.... don't really seem to come into play with my choices but a clever funny man will have me eating out of the palm of his hand.

So with you on the funny. Every chap I'm strongly drawn to can make me laugh, repeatedly.

I don't get to show it on here particularly often, but I'd say I have a pretty good sense of humour, and if I run short on jokes I can always show up to my meets with a feather duster."

Or the lady in question could take her shoes off under the table and pop her feet in my lap - it'd be a bit like When Harry Met Sally, only more giggly.

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