FabSwingers.com forum: Personal space

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How close is too close?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I watched a gang bang video yesterday and one man was constantly rubbing himself and cock on the poor girl. Everyone else gave her a few inches but he was rubbing his cock in her hair and on her cheek constantly. I wanted to slap it away for her. There's close but there's too close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal space can be defined as the distance between your body and the tips of your fingers, arms outstretched in front of you. Intimate space is between the elbow and your face when you bend your outstretched hand in to touch your face; so effectively the length of your upper arm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why when and where ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personal space can be defined as the distance between your body and the tips of your fingers, arms outstretched in front of you. Intimate space is between the elbow and your face when you bend your outstretched hand in to touch your face; so effectively the length of your upper arm."

Never knew this!

I always thought it was in your kissing zone?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It depends. My home is definitely personal space that feels like it's being invaded if someone comes through the door sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it depends on the person and the situation. In the queue at Asda if you're breathing down my neck you're intruding my personal space...although right place and right person and biting would be allowed

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Depends for me too.

I have different personal space in different places.

At work I have a huge boundary, simply because of the type of people I work with.

In everyday life I'm very protective of my personal space, I don't like people getting too close.

With intimate or close friends I don't really have personal space, I'm very tactile, but respect that other people aren't.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

was given free condoms at the door when we went to a concert this bloke behind was so close to me I gave him the condom and told him if he got any closer he would need it

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

My personal space is when I get home from work knackered and don't want anyone invading it...other than that I love being close to someone

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"was given free condoms at the door when we went to a concert this bloke behind was so close to me I gave him the condom and told him if he got any closer he would need it "

Belly laughing at that one...bet he went red???

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"was given free condoms at the door when we went to a concert this bloke behind was so close to me I gave him the condom and told him if he got any closer he would need it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal space is when I get home from work knackered and don't want anyone invading it...other than that I love being close to someone

I have always got either a kid or a cat on my lap or next to me. I feel suffocated sometimes

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

.depends a lot on mood i think . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm out and about I deploy tactics to get people out of my space. I'm anally retentive about giving space in public owing to a couple of bad experiences as a kid.

If they sidle right up to my arse (often the case in a queue) I take a step backwards with one foot and if my heel contacts their foot so be it, they're too close, usually they just have to step back. I also let my bag fall off my shoulder and then hitch it back up by throwing it backwards. Again, if your 6 inches from my arse, you're going to get hit.

If they come too close to the front or side of me just a death stare and an obvious step away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posters are quite correct as our tolerance of other people is affected by mood and circumstance as well as familiarity and consent. I assume the lady being treated to a dick bashing had consented prior to the event...or just liked it that way.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"My personal space is when I get home from work knackered and don't want anyone invading it...other than that I love being close to someone

I have always got either a kid or a cat on my lap or next to me. I feel suffocated sometimes "

Ive got a gorgeous little pup who thinks she's got the god given right to demand all my attention...its like have a shadow bless her!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Im a touch more mediterranean with touching and personal space being fairly open. But not to creeps etc. Ive been groped on public transport, but always made it clear Im fair game. Im happier someone in a supermarket or other queue being behind me, even a touch close, than trying to push in, which I detest, as a true Brit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arms length for me.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I hate it when someone stands too close to me. A stranger anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate it when someone stands too close to me. A stranger anyway!"

Yet you have such magnetism.....must be difficult for you........

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"I hate it when someone stands too close to me. A stranger anyway!

Yet you have such magnetism.....must be difficult for you........"

A regular trial! Well, an occasional trial!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate it when someone stands too close to me. A stranger anyway!

Yet you have such magnetism.....must be difficult for you........

A regular trial! Well, an occasional trial!!"

You understate yourself....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like being touched or having anyone stood too close to me. Unless I invite them too

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"I hate it when someone stands too close to me. A stranger anyway!

Yet you have such magnetism.....must be difficult for you........

A regular trial! Well, an occasional trial!!

You understate yourself....

Well it does depend on what I've asked the stranger to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate it when someone stands too close to me. A stranger anyway!

Yet you have such magnetism.....must be difficult for you........

A regular trial! Well, an occasional trial!!

You understate yourself....

Well it does depend on what I've asked the stranger to do!

These things often have a gravelly ending.....no?

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"I hate it when someone stands too close to me. A stranger anyway!

Yet you have such magnetism.....must be difficult for you........

A regular trial! Well, an occasional trial!!

You understate yourself....

Well it does depend on what I've asked the stranger to do!

These things often have a gravelly ending.....no? "

Palms down .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if im stood in a queue and i can hear the person behind me breathing, thats too fucking close!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it in nightclubs when men feel it's ok to rub up behind me as I'm dancing. I have been known to throw and elbow in the direction of their ribs before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when I'm in a queue and someone feels the need to stand so close that they whack me with their basket or handbag. Really????!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal space is when I get home from work knackered and don't want anyone invading it...other than that I love being close to someone

I like my personal space when I'm tired, I don't want cuddling, I just want to sleep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal space is when I get home from work knackered and don't want anyone invading it...other than that I love being close to someone

I like my personal space when I'm tired, I don't want cuddling, I just want to sleep!"

You punched me when I tried to cuddle you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal space is when I get home from work knackered and don't want anyone invading it...other than that I love being close to someone

I like my personal space when I'm tired, I don't want cuddling, I just want to sleep!

You punched me when I tried to cuddle you

I'm sorry gorgeous

Where did I punch you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being in the same county was too close for some at the social last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mm mm..In your case babe...There wouldn't be a to close..because what just to Say you both were very hot and sweaty...and to save on water..decides to share a shower..I just know it would be full on contact . so no zones there lol xx

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By *udie_GirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale

Personal space : A totally alien concept to budget airlines!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal space is when I get home from work knackered and don't want anyone invading it...other than that I love being close to someone

I like my personal space when I'm tired, I don't want cuddling, I just want to sleep!

You punched me when I tried to cuddle you

I'm sorry gorgeous

Where did I punch you?

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the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal space is when I get home from work knackered and don't want anyone invading it...other than that I love being close to someone

I like my personal space when I'm tired, I don't want cuddling, I just want to sleep!

You punched me when I tried to cuddle you

I'm sorry gorgeous

Where did I punch you?

the head

I'm sorry

I'll kiss it better later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate people standing too close to me, unless i like them. I hate people sitting next to me when im eating lol i need space to move freely with no obstructions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How close is too close? "

It depends! If someone has BO though about 50 feet is too close

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