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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Alot of Ppl or women should I say.ask persons to read their profile before messaging them.

Some of them are so long that I get halfway And think Wtf hahahaha isn't there a shorter way to describe what you into or like and tell a little bit about your self?then I forget most of it by the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even the longest profiles take a mere minute or two to read. If you can't be arsed to put in a couple of minutes effort to read a profile, what does that tell a prospective playmate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just use it as a filter. If someone's profile is too long to read, they probably aren't the type of person you want to meet. Same as you won't be their type. Just find someone that is your type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even the longest profiles take a mere minute or two to read. If you can't be arsed to put in a couple of minutes effort to read a profile, what does that tell a prospective playmate? "

Exactly and believe it or not some ppl need told exactly what's required sometimes and even that is still ignored

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some profiles need Steven Spielberg to help maximise the drama within..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some profiles need Steven Spielberg to help maximise the drama within.."

And an ice cream interval halfway through reading.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Alot of Ppl or women should I say.ask persons to read their profile before messaging them.

Some of them are so long that I get halfway And think Wtf hahahaha isn't there a shorter way to describe what you into or like and tell a little bit about your self?then I forget most of it by the end. "

nope.... think of it as another filter...

if you get bored of a profile half way thru, I am guessing that you are not for them.... and they are probably not for you!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think the best thing is to try to make your profile entertaining. I've had a go with mine and whilst it may have a few laughs in it, it possibly puts people off as it does appear that I'm one can short of a six pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the best thing is to try to make your profile entertaining. I've had a go with mine and whilst it may have a few laughs in it, it possibly puts people off as it does appear that I'm one can short of a six pack "

Love your profile Tina, so many giggles to be had from reading.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

if i get halfway through and think wtf .. i give up and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The funny thing about this, is that I do read the long ones, and do reply to them with a reasoned response, but most of the time you get nothing back.

It seems the people who write the long profiles don't actually enjoy writing emails.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

usually 25 - 50 is the deal breaker for me .. no beards .. vwe .. bbc .. single guys we ll find you .. put any of that in the first line and im off and not wasting any more time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"usually 25 - 50 is the deal breaker for me .. no beards .. vwe .. bbc .. single guys we ll find you .. put any of that in the first line and im off and not wasting any more time"

What's wrong with being 25-50????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"usually 25 - 50 is the deal breaker for me .. no beards .. vwe .. bbc .. single guys we ll find you .. put any of that in the first line and im off and not wasting any more time"

Absolutely, but half the men on here are only carrying around about half a brain. The rest of their system is spending it's entire time trying not to fuck the sofa/letterbox/cat, so they just blanket email every woman with a pulse.

The rest of us, the ones who try, and actually do give a shit who they speak to/have sex with, get lost in the pile.

Its one big stinking vicious circle a lot of the time.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have hardly any text on my profile and yet I still get mail asking to meet etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excatly the same thread was done by a woman earlier lol.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

well im 57 no point in trying to message .. and i ll not lie about my age just to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm currently trying to trim mine down. I don't half chat a lot of bollocks on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just use it as a filter. If someone's profile is too long to read, they probably aren't the type of person you want to meet. Same as you won't be their type. Just find someone that is your type. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Absolutely, but half the men on here are only carrying around about half a brain. The rest of their system is spending it's entire time trying not to fuck the sofa/letterbox/cat, so they just blanket email every woman with a pulse.

The rest of us, the ones who try, and actually do give a shit who they speak to/have sex with, get lost in the pile.

Its one big stinking vicious circle a lot of the time."

Why do you feel the need to put down other guys? If they're that bad why would you get lost in the pile? Wouldn't you stand out?

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

.a quick look at the photos first usually saves reading the profile . . . im always too ugly or too nice x x X

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