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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)

What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sense of self preservation...

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"My sense of self preservation... "

Well your a chicken you don't know what you might be missing out on

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

bad pics and spelling always puts us off but most of all dirty hands and finger nails. yuk

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My sense of self preservation...

Well your a chicken you don't know what you might be missing out on "

I do but you never answer my messages...

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)

Fungal nail infections are a HUGE no no for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fungal nail infections are a HUGE no no for me "

Manky feet are a turn off for us as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I better keep my socks on then - only kidding

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The fact that i dont like them usually lol

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"The fact that i dont like them usually lol"

Well thats a good reason. What about Cumbrian if he keeps his socks on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might have peeked at them when ive seen them comment in the forums, if its relevent, i will message them ie the couple who put a note on about mystiques, i sent them a message. I wouldnt comment if i was just peeking if they are too young or too far away

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"The fact that i dont like them usually lol

Well thats a good reason. What about Cumbrian if he keeps his socks on "

Im too old for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact that i dont like them usually lol

Well thats a good reason. What about Cumbrian if he keeps his socks on

Im too old for him"

I will take the positives from that comment

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

when a profile says smoker

hate it so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles with that stupid disclaimer:

"Any persons using our profile and/or pictures, including Sydney University...blah blah blah"

I mean, what the fook would Sydney Uni want with a faceless photo of some bird getting shafted on her hands and knees?

As soon as I see that disclaimer I hit the 'Back' button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black men only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?"

Usually only if they have 'no single men' selected, kinda makes it a bit tricky!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

profiles that are aggressive.....

profiles that are hard to read..

people without pics demanding pics....

replies of 5 words or less... I'm trying to get to know you a little, not trying to draw blood from a fecking stone

i'll come up with more later... in the middle of a double helping of 24....

oooh i so love madam grumpy herself, Chloe

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?"

A restraining order.

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?

A restraining order."

You can get them here

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?

A restraining order.

You can get them here "

Seen polo posting much recently....?

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?

A restraining order.

You can get them here

Seen polo posting much recently....?"

He he he she is lovely and sweetness and light

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

yes, and any legal documentation she is in possession of is entirely coincidental!

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

text speak in profile and message, and if they do not meet my requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?

Lack of picture of any kind on profile, single, profiles that say not interested in single men, or MF profile that demand a heck of a lot when nothing offered

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?

Lack of picture of any kind on profile, single, profiles that say not interested in single men, or MF profile that demand a heck of a lot when nothing offered "

Sometimes its a blessing there is no picture!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol well yes sure, especially if just viewing profiles, but to meet? noooo never again had my share of disaters never again!

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"lol well yes sure, especially if just viewing profiles, but to meet? noooo never again had my share of disaters never again! "

The disasters add color to it all Mind you i pissed my self laughing after seeing one lot of pictures recently. You have to grin at some pics and know why some don't bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

User name: especially if "69" included.

Height: under 5ft 11 doesn't appeal.

Distance: if the ice in a vodka and tonic would melt before I got there your too far away.

Text speak, moaning, married, badly thought out profile, desperation...

Hmmm, I'm sure there's more, but that'll do for now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol colour, hmm thats very polite comncsidering my worst disasters lol but they not for public reading ...yet lol, mmm yes know what you mean about pics, think I may make all mine private heh heh

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"lol colour, hmm thats very polite comncsidering my worst disasters lol but they not for public reading ...yet lol, mmm yes know what you mean about pics, think I may make all mine private heh heh "

I once called at a door and the supposed woman opened the door (looking 20 yrs older) and asked if her daughter was in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"User name: especially if "69" included.

Height: under 5ft 11 doesn't appeal.

Distance: if the ice in a vodka and tonic would melt before I got there your too far away.

Text speak, moaning, married, badly thought out profile, desperation...

Hmmm, I'm sure there's more, but that'll do for now! "

5 foot 11? I really need to buy some stilts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well as you told me, here's one of mine....lol, chatted with this guy for weeks,(not on here) took a chance on meet without his pic (duh!) said he was 35 & muscled, when I opened door I said

"yes why are you ringing my bell?,

he said " we have a meet"

I said, "no it isn't pensioners day!" goodbye

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"well as you told me, here's one of mine....lol, chatted with this guy for weeks,(not on here) took a chance on meet without his pic (duh!) said he was 35 & muscled, when I opened door I said

"yes why are you ringing my bell?,

he said " we have a meet"

I said, "no it isn't pensioners day!" goodbye "

Lmao i might know him

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"bad pics and spelling always puts us off but most of all dirty hands and finger nails. yuk

Steve "

OMG - yeah 0 there was a really young couple i met at a social once, and they told me to look them up- then when i did a pic of her with a vibe, and mucky hands and disgusting fingernails,

Nope i didnt comtact them again.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


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Lmao i might be him "

Don't be so hard on yourself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao i might know him

phew I know by the body pic it wasn't you, but can you tell him to get real if you know him because I am never desperate ( I just like it often ) lol

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Lmao i might know him

phew I know by the body pic it wasn't you, but can you tell him to get real if you know him because I am never desperate ( I just like it often ) lol "

Does he look like Worsel Gummage on a bad day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thta was the other disaster lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And am going to correct myself & say he looked the Wicked Witch from Wizard of OZ with facial growth....yuck lol and he asked me to kiss....I almost threw up there & then

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"And am going to correct myself & say he looked the Wicked Witch from Wizard of OZ with facial growth....yuck lol and he asked me to kiss....I almost threw up there & then "

Sounds dreadful Did he take the hint and leave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave him a glass of wine to get over himself then said goobye, do like civilised meets afte all, even if the toe rags lie lol

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"I gave him a glass of wine to get over himself then said goobye, do like civilised meets afte all, even if the toe rags lie lol "

Well it is nice to be civilised at times. did he give you an excuse for the doctored pictures? I mean how on earth did he expect to be able to get away with it? Me i think its a bit sad really

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Really badly written profile, on for over a year but not pic verified, extremely explicit pics, scruffy rooms in background of pics, dirty looking hands and nails, sure there's more! Am I too picky?! Z xx

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By *hief858Man
over a year ago

Liverpool-Manchester-Northwest.

Vote Liberal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no I was daft & took chance without pics....silly me! never again as they have put me off "shadow profiles" for ever lol...and thank you for being good enought to keep replying on thread

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By *hief858Man
over a year ago

Liverpool-Manchester-Northwest.

Aye but vote Liberal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

foclmao...and relevance there is what? please do remember the election is over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really badly written profile, on for over a year but not pic verified, extremely explicit pics, scruffy rooms in background of pics, dirty looking hands and nails, sure there's more! Am I too picky?! Z xx"

Nope! You sound quite reasonable to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really badly written profile, on for over a year but not pic verified, extremely explicit pics, scruffy rooms in background of pics, dirty looking hands and nails, sure there's more! Am I too picky?! Z xx

no not too picky at all, or I as I would prefer to say - you use site the way you want to, the same as us all, but I do also say that we don't all want verifications ( that is purely for me , not a comment on anyone else )

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Really badly written profile, on for over a year but not pic verified, extremely explicit pics, scruffy rooms in background of pics, dirty looking hands and nails, sure there's more! Am I too picky?! Z xx

no not too picky at all, or I as I would prefer to say - you use site the way you want to, the same as us all, but I do also say that we don't all want verifications ( that is purely for me , not a comment on anyone else ) "

I don't mean personal verifications, I mean the pic veris to prove a couple is a couple really - when it's a 'couple' with no pic verification and on the site for a long time that rings alarm bells with me. Z

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)

I always wonder if they have been on fore a year with no meets! I would give up the ghost after a few months with no joy personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no profile or badly thought through profile, especially the ones that say "new to this, will fill in later" when it says they've been a member for 1yr +, or if they've sent a message that is wholly negative either towards themselves or others.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"lol colour, hmm thats very polite comncsidering my worst disasters lol but they not for public reading ...yet lol, mmm yes know what you mean about pics, think I may make all mine private heh heh

I once called at a door and the supposed woman opened the door (looking 20 yrs older) and asked if her daughter was in "

happens to me all the damn time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's fine wasn't, I promise, having a pop at your comment...have had a good laugh at some of your's over the last few months

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"lol colour, hmm thats very polite comncsidering my worst disasters lol but they not for public reading ...yet lol, mmm yes know what you mean about pics, think I may make all mine private heh heh

I once called at a door and the supposed woman opened the door (looking 20 yrs older) and asked if her daughter was in

happens to me all the damn time "

Don't believe ya! You look like your pics you cheeky minx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"that's fine wasn't, I promise, having a pop at your comment...have had a good laugh at some of your's over the last few months "

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's fine wasn't, I promise, having a pop at your comment...have had a good laugh at some of your's over the last few months

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx"

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx

thank you for that, have only started posting this evening & appreciate the advice

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"that's fine wasn't, I promise, having a pop at your comment...have had a good laugh at some of your's over the last few months

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx

thank you for that, have only started posting this evening & appreciate the advice "

It takes a bit of getting used to doesn't it

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"that's fine wasn't, I promise, having a pop at your comment...have had a good laugh at some of your's over the last few months

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx

thank you for that, have only started posting this evening & appreciate the advice

It takes a bit of getting used to doesn't it "

It takes a bit of getting used to doesn't it

Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol YES it takes getting used to ( like life & all it has to offer I keep getting message saying I haven't quoted properly heh eh I need to take a min or 5 to suss that

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"that's fine wasn't, I promise, having a pop at your comment...have had a good laugh at some of your's over the last few months

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx

thank you for that, have only started posting this evening & appreciate the advice

It takes a bit of getting used to doesn't it

It takes a bit of getting used to doesn't it

Z"

I click on owt and prod it in. works well with the light off too that technique! If you get a scream you missed the quote

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"that's fine wasn't, I promise, having a pop at your comment...have had a good laugh at some of your's over the last few months

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx

thank you for that, have only started posting this evening & appreciate the advice

It takes a bit of getting used to doesn't it

It takes a bit of getting used to doesn't it

Z

I click on owt and prod it in. works well with the light off too that technique! If you get a scream you missed the quote "

lol Z xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep getting error that says, even though have included both, have to put [start quote] & [end quote] when have done it @=(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wonder if they have been on fore a year with no meets! I would give up the ghost after a few months with no joy personally "

C'mon now: haven't you heard? If at first you don't succeed, try and try and try again!

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Sheer terror!

Actually not that far from the truth!

When you think that you have the odds stacked against you ... single man of advancing years with comparitively little experience blah, blah blah .....

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"that's fine wasn't, I promise, having a pop at your comment...have had a good laugh at some of your's over the last few months

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx

it's better if you add a quote so we know who you're responding to! Z xx

thank you for that, have only started posting this evening & appreciate the advice

It takes a bit of getting used to doesn't it

It takes a bit of getting used to doesn't it

Z"

You will note the nice and funny stuff from this profile is followed by a

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_umpkin who was that commnt for? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?"

Since its predominantly single men I meet, pictures of them having sex without a condom on puts me off replying. Having questioned a few about this, the normal answer is, 'thats a pic of me and an ex long term partner'. Well that puts me off as well, cause im sure most of these 'long term partners' dont know their is a picture of them on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"User name: especially if "69" included.

Height: under 5ft 11 doesn't appeal.

Distance: if the ice in a vodka and tonic would melt before I got there your too far away.

Text speak, moaning, married, badly thought out profile, desperation...

Hmmm, I'm sure there's more, but that'll do for now! "

Hey, you've just described my profile!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If you cant add up ie a guy has just messaged me and said im not much below your 35 limit.........hes 24

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

i usually look at the verifications, and the content of their profile, if theyve met people that i aint keen on i wont message or reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YO DIAMOND - you cradle snatcher! xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"YO DIAMOND - you cradle snatcher! xx"

where you been hiding thought i may have poisoned you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Au Contraire ma Petite, you're cooking (especially chilly) is top notch! X

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Au Contraire ma Petite, you're cooking (especially chilly) is top notch! X "

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Au Contraire ma Petite, you're cooking (especially chilly) is top notch! X

"
is it??? where my invite then?

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By *ig bad OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Au Contraire ma Petite, you're cooking (especially chilly) is top notch! X

"

He how come the rest of us haven't been told about this chilli??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?"

My upbringing, "nice girls" just don't make the approach! Must remember I stopped being a "nice girl" so long ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"foclmao...and relevance there is what? please do remember the election is over! "

F.O.C.L.M.A.O ? Falling on the Carpet ?

Fucking Oversized Cows ? Feeling Over Cautious .... wha ? Filling Orange Cartons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?"

Aint many short couples on here lol

Its a bugger at parties and meets with the tall ones cause i end up getting trod on lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Demanding Profiles from People who sound up themselves, just puts me straight off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Demanding Profiles from People who sound up themselves, just puts me straight off "

I can understand some people saying what they like but some i have read are a bit intimidating. do you think they miss out on meets having profiles like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Demanding Profiles from People who sound up themselves, just puts me straight off

I can understand some people saying what they like but some i have read are a bit intimidating. do you think they miss out on meets having profiles like that?"

Yep i agree with Kev on that on xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?

Aint many short couples on here lol

Its a bugger at parties and meets with the tall ones cause i end up getting trod on lol xx "

Aw I'm shorter than you

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Why would anyone want to contact a profile that has a list of demands or comes across as agressive?

you can easily describe what you're looking for and what you're not looking for without ending up with an angry profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Demanding Profiles from People who sound up themselves, just puts me straight off

I can understand some people saying what they like but some i have read are a bit intimidating. do you think they miss out on meets having profiles like that?

Yep i agree with Kev on that on xx "

I had one who messaged me saying that I should be more polite and respond in 24 hours last week.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Demanding Profiles from People who sound up themselves, just puts me straight off

I can understand some people saying what they like but some i have read are a bit intimidating. do you think they miss out on meets having profiles like that?"

oh absolutly 100%..... and the interesting thing is they are the people that normally moan and complain...

the ironic thing for me is when you suggest to these people it may be an idea to "soften" the profile a little.. they tend to get very defensive about it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Demanding Profiles from People who sound up themselves, just puts me straight off

I can understand some people saying what they like but some i have read are a bit intimidating. do you think they miss out on meets having profiles like that?

Yep i agree with Kev on that on xx

I had one who messaged me saying that I should be more polite and respond in 24 hours last week. "

And did you? lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Demanding Profiles from People who sound up themselves, just puts me straight off

I can understand some people saying what they like but some i have read are a bit intimidating. do you think they miss out on meets having profiles like that?"

There are ways of putting across what you want without being aggressive or sounding like you have the high ground, we all know some People get lots of hassle but they could miss out on meets with nice Folk who have been intimidated by their Profile and believe that's how they will be on a meet, it's down to Personal choice at the end of the Day I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Demanding Profiles from People who sound up themselves, just puts me straight off

I can understand some people saying what they like but some i have read are a bit intimidating. do you think they miss out on meets having profiles like that?

Yep i agree with Kev on that on xx

I had one who messaged me saying that I should be more polite and respond in 24 hours last week.

And did you? lol xx "

It was about 2 days later and I said I wasn't interested but I was a day late in replying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Demanding Profiles from People who sound up themselves, just puts me straight off

I can understand some people saying what they like but some i have read are a bit intimidating. do you think they miss out on meets having profiles like that?

There are ways of putting across what you want without being aggressive or sounding like you have the high ground, we all know some People get lots of hassle but they could miss out on meets with nice Folk who have been intimidated by their Profile and believe that's how they will be on a meet, it's down to Personal choice at the end of the Day I suppose "

Its not the single men these days in the main that are bad though. I have had three couples not get nasty and there is no need for it

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?"

If they are munters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously if I don't match what the profile is looking for, I don't send a message. But as many have said, the overly aggressive and/or demanding profile puts me off immidiately. The phrase 'ask if you want to know' or variations on that tend to put me off as well, it just seems so unimaginitive and lazy. But the main one that gets my goat is the profile that contains doodles made up of x's and o's etc. Now these may look good on a full size screen, but I use my phone to browse and it just means I have to scroll through a load of OXO, just to get to the main information!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?

If they are munters "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously if I don't match what the profile is looking for, I don't send a message. But as many have said, the overly aggressive and/or demanding profile puts me off immidiately. The phrase 'ask if you want to know' or variations on that tend to put me off as well, it just seems so unimaginitive and lazy. But the main one that gets my goat is the profile that contains doodles made up of x's and o's etc. Now these may look good on a full size screen, but I use my phone to browse and it just means I have to scroll through a load of OXO, just to get to the main information!"

Do you mean the huge cut and paste XOX pictures? If i log in on my phone i give up if its a huge long profile/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those are the one's, they just look like an advertisment for gravy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those are the one's, they just look like an advertisment for gravy! "

I hadn't thought about them in that way before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll haunt you now, everytime you see one on a profile, you'll think of a sunday roast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"profiles that are aggressive.....

profiles that are hard to read..

people without pics demanding pics....

replies of 5 words or less... I'm trying to get to know you a little, not trying to draw blood from a fecking stone

i'll come up with more later... in the middle of a double helping of 24....

oooh i so love madam grumpy herself, Chloe "

and you you keep messagin me........xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'll haunt you now, everytime you see one on a profile, you'll think of a sunday roast "

Oo I wish you hadn't all I can think of is meat, 2 veg and gravy now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure you won't be the only one on here thinking of meat and two veg!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sure you won't be the only one on here thinking of meat and two veg! "

Every other picture on here is meat and 2 veg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sure you won't be the only one on here thinking of meat and two veg!

Every other picture on here is meat and 2 veg "

Either that or a badly packed donner kebab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if anything keeps you from contacting or replying to someone after looking at their profile?"

No pictures or a badly worded profile is a flag to pass them by for us.

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