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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which forum poster would give the best advice ?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No idea!

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

You bitching girls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea!

thats a blind stag isnt it? lol lol

wot do u call a stag with both eyes gone?

still no idea!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who would give the best advice though?

Mr Nobody or Mr nutter? Which one??..... FIGHT

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Who would give the best advice though?

Mr Nobody or Mr nutter? Which one??..... FIGHT "

Don't YOU start....

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

Nobodies and Nutters give Bob advise...all hot air

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nobodies and Nutters give Bob advise...all hot air "

Its all French to me

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

More like bollox

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

combining the last two posts, that would be

bolleaux

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

combining the last two posts, that would be

bolleaux

"

Thats the adopted language of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meee!!! but when it starts botherin me then il give it up!! x

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"meee!!! but when it starts botherin me then il give it up!! x "

oh really? FIGHT ya

ps don;t tell matt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ?"

dont know about advice but u win best body !!!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"No idea!

thats a blind stag isnt it? lol lol

wot do u call a stag with both eyes gone?

still no idea!! lol "

lmao

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ?"

Lol well some people will always be unpopular as you cannot sugar an unpleasant nature.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ?

Lol well some people will always be unpopular as you cannot sugar an unpleasant nature. "

Very true. Usually transparent.

THINK they are popular tho, which is the buggest laugh ever.

Ooops, we talking about forummites here arent we- sorry, nah - nobody like that around here that i can see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ?"
Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ?

Lol well some people will always be unpopular as you cannot sugar an unpleasant nature.

Very true. Usually transparent.

THINK they are popular tho, which is the buggest laugh ever.

Ooops, we talking about forummites here arent we- sorry, nah - nobody like that around here that i can see "

Delusion is a wonderful think. It keeps the undesired living in imaginary towers living on baked beans on toast.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman? "

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something"

I can see where you are coming from - but how would you know that you are unpopular? I mean sometimes people will support your posts via pm, therefore privately because they dont want to be seen in public to be supportive?

So how would somebody know that they are genuinely disliked? Serious question.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something"

Naaa it wouldn't be you young lady your a smile maker

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something

I can see where you are coming from - but how would you know that you are unpopular? I mean sometimes people will support your posts via pm, therefore privately because they dont want to be seen in public to be supportive?

So how would somebody know that they are genuinely disliked? Serious question."

Thought the question was who could give the best advice not who was the most unpopular forum member.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something

Naaa it wouldn't be you young lady your a smile maker "

She does bring us sunshine - and she even gives good advice sometimes, excepton the subject of marmite of course!!!

((Grrrr ))

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something

Naaa it wouldn't be you young lady your a smile maker

She does bring us sunshine - and she even gives good advice sometimes, excepton the subject of marmite of course!!!

((Grrrr ))"

good advice lol, shame i cant take it myselfxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something

I can see where you are coming from - but how would you know that you are unpopular? I mean sometimes people will support your posts via pm, therefore privately because they dont want to be seen in public to be supportive?

So how would somebody know that they are genuinely disliked? Serious question.

Thought the question was who could give the best advice not who was the most unpopular forum member. "

Must have used my poetic licence when I read the bit about unpopularity.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something

Naaa it wouldn't be you young lady your a smile maker

She does bring us sunshine - and she even gives good advice sometimes, excepton the subject of marmite of course!!!

((Grrrr ))"

Nowt wrong with marmite! Try puttin a blob on your tuppence

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something

I can see where you are coming from - but how would you know that you are unpopular? I mean sometimes people will support your posts via pm, therefore privately because they dont want to be seen in public to be supportive?

So how would somebody know that they are genuinely disliked? Serious question.

Thought the question was who could give the best advice not who was the most unpopular forum member.

Must have used my poetic licence when I read the bit about unpopularity. "

Oh i shouldnt worry we all misread things at times

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something

I can see where you are coming from - but how would you know that you are unpopular? I mean sometimes people will support your posts via pm, therefore privately because they dont want to be seen in public to be supportive?

So how would somebody know that they are genuinely disliked? Serious question."

and how would someone respond privately to posts , to show support, to praise or otherwise comment if they are blocked?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something

I can see where you are coming from - but how would you know that you are unpopular? I mean sometimes people will support your posts via pm, therefore privately because they dont want to be seen in public to be supportive?

So how would somebody know that they are genuinely disliked? Serious question.

and how would someone respond privately to posts , to show support, to praise or otherwise comment if they are blocked? "

They cant lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something

I can see where you are coming from - but how would you know that you are unpopular? I mean sometimes people will support your posts via pm, therefore privately because they dont want to be seen in public to be supportive?

So how would somebody know that they are genuinely disliked? Serious question.

and how would someone respond privately to posts , to show support, to praise or otherwise comment if they are blocked? "

I thought if you block somebody or if blocked by somebody you cannot and should not attempt to contact them or indeed quote them in the forums - I guess it means you cannot communicate with them at all? That is my understanding but I could be wrong

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If you are blocked or do the blocking you are not allowed to mention the blocking or discuss it in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are blocked or do the blocking you are not allowed to mention the blocking or discuss it in the forums"

Actually that makes a lot of sense - that way if two people dont get on (blocked each other etc) - there is no contact and no way they can spark off or get other people involved.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

Don't badmouth other members or "name and shame": If you have a problem with another member, block them and leave feedback using "Report Profile" link on their profile

Don't post phone numbers

Do not use the forum to try and contact people who have BLOCKED you

Don't promote commercial services or websites: Anyone spamming the forums will be removed from the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't badmouth other members or "name and shame": If you have a problem with another member, block them and leave feedback using "Report Profile" link on their profile

Don't post phone numbers

Do not use the forum to try and contact people who have BLOCKED you

Don't promote commercial services or websites: Anyone spamming the forums will be removed from the site"

Ah that is where I saw it

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"If you are blocked or do the blocking you are not allowed to mention the blocking or discuss it in the forums"

Possibly not but you do tend to block the dross

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something

I can see where you are coming from - but how would you know that you are unpopular? I mean sometimes people will support your posts via pm, therefore privately because they dont want to be seen in public to be supportive?

So how would somebody know that they are genuinely disliked? Serious question.

and how would someone respond privately to posts , to show support, to praise or otherwise comment if they are blocked? "

tell me in secret

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"If you are blocked or do the blocking you are not allowed to mention the blocking or discuss it in the forums"

I see. my ignorance. Male, you see, don't read rules etc

But presumably, i'm blocked because i'm a male, no pics etc not because i'm not the messiah or offended someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are blocked or do the blocking you are not allowed to mention the blocking or discuss it in the forums

I see. my ignorance. Male, you see, don't read rules etc

But presumably, i'm blocked because i'm a male, no pics etc not because i'm not the messiah or offended someone."

You know people are blocked by others for very different reasons IMHO - some genuinely don t like you or your opinions or what your profile says about you. Others block you kind of out of "sympathy" for a friend so you are disliked because of your association. Overall I think it is not worth worrying about being blocked because statistically you will only ever be blocked by a tiny tiny minority and there are so many people on the site who you may not have met because they dont post on forums. So dont take a single blocking or two to heart xx

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"If you are blocked or do the blocking you are not allowed to mention the blocking or discuss it in the forums

I see. my ignorance. Male, you see, don't read rules etc

But presumably, i'm blocked because i'm a male, no pics etc not because i'm not the messiah or offended someone."

I wouldn't worry about it as lots block or get blocked. Plenty more out there if you look around.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"If you are blocked or do the blocking you are not allowed to mention the blocking or discuss it in the forums

I see. my ignorance. Male, you see, don't read rules etc

But presumably, i'm blocked because i'm a male, no pics etc not because i'm not the messiah or offended someone.

You know people are blocked by others for very different reasons IMHO - some genuinely don t like you or your opinions or what your profile says about you. Others block you kind of out of "sympathy" for a friend so you are disliked because of your association. Overall I think it is not worth worrying about being blocked because statistically you will only ever be blocked by a tiny tiny minority and there are so many people on the site who you may not have met because they dont post on forums. So dont take a single blocking or two to heart xx"

not at all, i don't worry, i accept i will be blocked by a proportion anyway

and others where i have been a nawty boy and fully deserving

less in my email inbox that way too lol

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"If you are blocked or do the blocking you are not allowed to mention the blocking or discuss it in the forums

I see. my ignorance. Male, you see, don't read rules etc

But presumably, i'm blocked because i'm a male, no pics etc not because i'm not the messiah or offended someone.

You know people are blocked by others for very different reasons IMHO - some genuinely don t like you or your opinions or what your profile says about you. Others block you kind of out of "sympathy" for a friend so you are disliked because of your association. Overall I think it is not worth worrying about being blocked because statistically you will only ever be blocked by a tiny tiny minority and there are so many people on the site who you may not have met because they dont post on forums. So dont take a single blocking or two to heart xx

not at all, i don't worry, i accept i will be blocked by a proportion anyway

and others where i have been a nawty boy and fully deserving

less in my email inbox that way too lol"

dont worry about it mate ,if they dont like you or dont wanna know move on forget it .its a swing site not a tea dance

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ? Could I please clarify :

Is unpopularity defined as somebody who speaks their mind and is therefore his own man/ woman?

Well if it is i must be unpopular. I personally would define unpopular as people who are not liked but think they are. People who are self centred. People who usually have a dual purpose for doing something

I can see where you are coming from - but how would you know that you are unpopular? I mean sometimes people will support your posts via pm, therefore privately because they dont want to be seen in public to be supportive?

So how would somebody know that they are genuinely disliked? Serious question.

and how would someone respond privately to posts , to show support, to praise or otherwise comment if they are blocked?

tell me in secret "

Secrets are great ya know

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"

((Grrrr ))

Nowt wrong with marmite! Try puttin a blob on your tuppence "

well i suppose i could just about cope with that if i had a marmite lover to lick it back off - as i cant reach myself!!!!

As for the blocking thing.

How many blocks you got has NO SIGNIFICANCE at ALL as to how popular or not you may be.

My block list is very very long now (as been on here over a year now) and when read mail if its total bollox on the hello,, they get blocked immediately - it saves them messaging me bollox again, and saves me revcieving stupid mail.

So blocks count for shit -as some people may respond to the sort of mail i delete.

Its all swingers and roundabouts really.

Just enjoy - the rest of us are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are blocked or do the blocking you are not allowed to mention the blocking or discuss it in the forums

I see. my ignorance. Male, you see, don't read rules etc

But presumably, i'm blocked because i'm a male, no pics etc not because i'm not the messiah or offended someone.

You know people are blocked by others for very different reasons IMHO - some genuinely don t like you or your opinions or what your profile says about you. Others block you kind of out of "sympathy" for a friend so you are disliked because of your association. Overall I think it is not worth worrying about being blocked because statistically you will only ever be blocked by a tiny tiny minority and there are so many people on the site who you may not have met because they dont post on forums. So dont take a single blocking or two to heart xx

not at all, i don't worry, i accept i will be blocked by a proportion anyway

and others where i have been a nawty boy and fully deserving

less in my email inbox that way too lol

dont worry about it mate ,if they dont like you or dont wanna know move on forget it .its a swing site not a tea dance

"

very true and yet some people block you and then continue to mail you privately - weird or what?

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"

((Grrrr ))

Nowt wrong with marmite! Try puttin a blob on your tuppence

well i suppose i could just about cope with that if i had a marmite lover to lick it back off - as i cant reach myself!!!!

As for the blocking thing.

How many blocks you got has NO SIGNIFICANCE at ALL as to how popular or not you may be.

My block list is very very long now (as been on here over a year now) and when read mail if its total bollox on the hello,, they get blocked immediately - it saves them messaging me bollox again, and saves me revcieving stupid mail.

So blocks count for shit -as some people may respond to the sort of mail i delete.

Its all swingers and roundabouts really.

Just enjoy - the rest of us are "

You might have probably blocked, then re blocked as the blocked puts up another profile and blocked again and so on and so on! Who knows you might have blocked the same person dozens and dozens of times if they keep reinventing them self

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"

((Grrrr ))

Nowt wrong with marmite! Try puttin a blob on your tuppence

well i suppose i could just about cope with that if i had a marmite lover to lick it back off - as i cant reach myself!!!!

As for the blocking thing.

How many blocks you got has NO SIGNIFICANCE at ALL as to how popular or not you may be.

My block list is very very long now (as been on here over a year now) and when read mail if its total bollox on the hello,, they get blocked immediately - it saves them messaging me bollox again, and saves me revcieving stupid mail.

So blocks count for shit -as some people may respond to the sort of mail i delete.

Its all swingers and roundabouts really.

Just enjoy - the rest of us are

You might have probably blocked, then re blocked as the blocked puts up another profile and blocked again and so on and so on! Who knows you might have blocked the same person dozens and dozens of times if they keep reinventing them self "

Yeah i suppose.

Never take too much notice to be honest.

Mail the people i like - and block any others that i dont want mail off.

Simples

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"If you are blocked or do the blocking you are not allowed to mention the blocking or discuss it in the forums

I see. my ignorance. Male, you see, don't read rules etc

But presumably, i'm blocked because i'm a male, no pics etc not because i'm not the messiah or offended someone."

loads think they are the messia mate ,if you dont then you got a healthy grip on life ,and who cares about pics

i know loads on here with no pics ..

at the end of the day ..get out there and do your best ,its al you can do eh

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"If you are blocked or do the blocking you are not allowed to mention the blocking or discuss it in the forums

I see. my ignorance. Male, you see, don't read rules etc

But presumably, i'm blocked because i'm a male, no pics etc not because i'm not the messiah or offended someone.

You know people are blocked by others for very different reasons IMHO - some genuinely don t like you or your opinions or what your profile says about you. Others block you kind of out of "sympathy" for a friend so you are disliked because of your association. Overall I think it is not worth worrying about being blocked because statistically you will only ever be blocked by a tiny tiny minority and there are so many people on the site who you may not have met because they dont post on forums. So dont take a single blocking or two to heart xx

not at all, i don't worry, i accept i will be blocked by a proportion anyway

and others where i have been a nawty boy and fully deserving

less in my email inbox that way too lol

dont worry about it mate ,if they dont like you or dont wanna know move on forget it .its a swing site not a tea dance

very true and yet some people block you and then continue to mail you privately - weird or what? "

Weird yeah. Maybe need analysing by Freud. As in analysis , not anal-ising, you know what i mean.

But people don't do they?

Chance would be a fine thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

dont worry about it mate ,if they dont like you or dont wanna know move on forget it .its a swing site not a tea dance

very true and yet some people block you and then continue to mail you privately - weird or what?

Weird yeah. Maybe need analysing by Freud. As in analysis , not anal-ising, you know what i mean.

But people don't do they?

Chance would be a fine thing. "

It is a bit bizarre - in my world once you kind of ended a relationship or have been left/ abandoned etc. it is over - there is no going back really - I would see it as a sign of weakness to go back, I suppose - or maybe an attachment which goes back to an unhappy childhood? Not over-analyising either here dont get me wrong - just kind of pondering x

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Consider me pondered.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"

Consider me pondered. "

What ya pondering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ?"

The type of person who would start a thread like this......

They'd win hands down in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every village has at least one idiot, and I can count a few on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe its just my twisted mind, but i dont mind when someone blocks me cause i know it means that iv really riled them!! xx

me and a good lady from here had a little disagreement and blocked each other then unblocked as we liked a chat! funny old world innit!!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe its just my twisted mind, but i dont mind when someone blocks me cause i know it means that iv really riled them!! xx

me and a good lady from here had a little disagreement and blocked each other then unblocked as we liked a chat! funny old world innit!!! xx"

Bloody typical women lol nowt gets in the way of a chat xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe its just my twisted mind, but i dont mind when someone blocks me cause i know it means that iv really riled them!! xx

me and a good lady from here had a little disagreement and blocked each other then unblocked as we liked a chat! funny old world innit!!! xx

Bloody typical women lol nowt gets in the way of a chat xx "

damn right!! see we can handle conflict unlike some..... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe its just my twisted mind, but i dont mind when someone blocks me cause i know it means that iv really riled them!! xx

me and a good lady from here had a little disagreement and blocked each other then unblocked as we liked a chat! funny old world innit!!! xx

Bloody typical women lol nowt gets in the way of a chat xx

damn right!! see we can handle conflict unlike some..... xx"

yeah agreed lol its my feminine side that lets me deal with it lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ?

Lol well some people will always be unpopular as you cannot sugar an unpleasant nature.

Very true. Usually transparent.

THINK they are popular tho, which is the buggest laugh ever.

Ooops, we talking about forummites here arent we- sorry, nah - nobody like that around here that i can see

Delusion is a wonderful think. It keeps the undesired living in imaginary towers living on baked beans on toast. "

And what, may I ask, is wrong with beans on toast!!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"Which forum poster would give the best advice ?

Lol well some people will always be unpopular as you cannot sugar an unpleasant nature.

Very true. Usually transparent.

THINK they are popular tho, which is the buggest laugh ever.

Ooops, we talking about forummites here arent we- sorry, nah - nobody like that around here that i can see

Delusion is a wonderful think. It keeps the undesired living in imaginary towers living on baked beans on toast.

And what, may I ask, is wrong with beans on toast!! "

yuk i never eat beans or toast ,hate the taste of beans and limit my carb intake...but acknowledge thousands do like em ...good luck, bean eaters of the world unite .... lol

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

a lot of people on here, say they rate honesty very highly.but on forums being honest, could make you unpopular.all the people, cant like you, all the time.thats life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. You can often hear people saying. Oh I like them - they speak their mind. But they don't like it at all if someone holds a different opinion to them. They start finding names to call them, threads to start about them and any other reasons for not liking them. Good job some people don't court popularity.

NOW .....those are the ones that get up my nose. The shmarmies..... the arse lickers n boot kissers who all pretend to actually Lurrrrrrrve each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I don't like someone, I make sure he/she knows about it! No two-face arselicker here!

If peeps have a problem with me, it is their problem, not mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with your last line.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

What i dont get about this desire/NEED to be popular is-

WHO FUCKING CARES????

If you got your friends, and other people you banter and talk to - who gives a fuck what everyone else thinks??

I once had a time last year when a now RIP member was posting stuff about me on the forums,

I took it in the good jest it was meant - yet others (no mentioning names here) were horrorfied and were pm'ing joker and being rather horrid.

I didnt care - and will even join in about jokes agaisnt myself - lets face it - if you cant laugh at yourself - you have no right to laugh at others.

If people get the wrong impression of me, well hell, wont be the first time and wont be the last.

At the end of the day i am ME - and my dear friends know who i am, and to me THATS what counts, not on how many virtual buddies i can pretend to be mates with on a web site.

On saying that - all the banter is good, and if it means keeping things on a positive level, i tend to ignore the people who tend to pull things down, and billy up the people who tend to be more playful and want the fun side of things.

Wow - the deep side of Debz xxxx

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"I agree. You can often hear people saying. Oh I like them - they speak their mind. But they don't like it at all if someone holds a different opinion to them. They start finding names to call them, threads to start about them and any other reasons for not liking them. Good job some people don't court popularity.

NOW .....those are the ones that get up my nose. The shmarmies..... the arse lickers n boot kissers who all pretend to actually Lurrrrrrrve each other.

"

thats perceptive of you ,i have been on fabs since before it shut down and restarted up under the current owners,I have in that time seen a lot of people come and go,seen a lot of flame wars and cyberturf allegiances .It always makes me smile when i hear people constantly digging into others they have never met.

I have seen arch enemies online become buddies on meeting and the other way around,one thing is for certain ,its a fucking swingsite not the centre of the universe and if its the centre of your life maybe thats something you should reflect on,I know i did

...life is too short for virtual problems and squabbles to many real ones going on

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Fab is it's own little world and like out in the real world you find people, who you would trust with your life, people you can depend on in times of trouble, people you would do anything to help, people you wouldn't trust as far as you could throw and people that are just better avoided.

Do here what you do in your life, ignore, trust and love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is it's own little world and like out in the real world you find people, who you would trust with your life, people you can depend on in times of trouble, people you would do anything to help, people you wouldn't trust as far as you could throw and people that are just better avoided.

Do here what you do in your life, ignore, trust and love "

Whata great mantra - I subscribe to that.

Also - looking at what some people wrote about being yourself, being honest etc might sounds like a popular trait but sometimes is not well received if it does not agree with others... Now on that note, I feel as long as you own a statement as yours - you can have any opinion you like. It is when people, in the moment of a passionate debate, make genetral statemenmts about what is right and wrong - that is when healthy debates start turning into arguments and sometimes become personal.

Now I dont like housework - and I dont care what anybody else says - it is a futile activity which stops me from doing what I like most .......;-)

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Now I dont like housework - and I dont care what anybody else says - it is a futile activity which stops me from doing what I like most .......;-)"

Now which activity would that be, so many to chose from lol

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Think tonight Dorothy says it all about "pop-u-lar-ity!""

LOL

Its all shite, jsut enjoy the friends you think you have, lol

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