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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi am a single male are women more likely to chat if am a site supporter get a few that chat but getting 20 views a day and not even a hi.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

well, ONLY in my opinion, your username is off putting straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'd start by having a look at your profile. Needs a makeover big time. Search the forums there's lots of advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well, ONLY in my opinion, your username is off putting straight away"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your best of paying so u can change your username. I don't like it nor would I chat to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I'd start by having a look at your profile. Needs a makeover big time. Search the forums there's lots of advice."

this plus as others have said, your name is off putting. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I'd start by having a look at your profile. Needs a makeover big time. Search the forums there's lots of advice.

this plus as others have said, your name is off putting. Good luck."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks everyone i will look into changing my name and a wee make over of the profile anyone any suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pay a fiver, that's all it is, people may look too and think if he can't pay a fiver hecan't pay towards a social.

Just q thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lots of good advice going to pay the fiver change name then work on profile hate these things lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. I'd start by having a look at your profile. Needs a makeover big time. Search the forums there's lots of advice."

Had a look at your profile really good mate a bit of thought went into that need to get the thinking cape on

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"thanks everyone i will look into changing my name and a wee make over of the profile anyone any suggestions "

Does it reflect you, what you want, what you are looking for etc?? If yes then leave it, if not then change it so if does. No one knows these things but you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

changed name and paid for 60 days see if it helps. now lets see about the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"changed name and paid for 60 days see if it helps. now lets see about the profile"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Theirs been a lot of guys looking at my profile strange when am straight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theirs been a lot of guys looking at my profile strange when am straight lol"

They won't know your straight till they look

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

Supporting the site is good, but I doubt that it helps much in getting meets.

Having a good profile and name does!

And calling yourself a chubby chaser is not the way to go I think. Nor is making yourself sound desperate and living in the pits.

Go look at other single male profiles and see how many verifications by meets they have. Then use the more successful ones as a guide and source of inspiration.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theirs been a lot of guys looking at my profile strange when am straight lol"

Only my opinion but I'd take out the stuff about your ex wife and the one bed flat. It comes across as of you are on the rebound. Use the profile text to describe what you want/like but more importantly what you can offer. If you feel the need to discuss your former marriage then I'm sure it will come out in conversation. On the pics front more light and more variety. If you insist on cock pics then just the have one and maybe keep it in the friends only.

It's been said before but this is your shop window so dress it accordingly and sell yourself. Single men are in abundance so you have to stand out.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"Theirs been a lot of guys looking at my profile strange when am straight lol"

How can anyone judge your profile without looking at it?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

What's the point of changing your name then putting the old one in your status? It's still off-putting there.

Getting meets here can be difficult for men. Saying please get in touch if you want fun is unlikely to have a queue forming. You need to say why women should meet you rather than one of the thousands of other men on here (also offering fun). Make yourself stand out and make them want to meet you.

Effort is usually linked to success on here for men.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Theirs been a lot of guys looking at my profile strange when am straight lol

Only my opinion but I'd take out the stuff about your ex wife and the one bed flat. It comes across as of you are on the rebound. Use the profile text to describe what you want/like but more importantly what you can offer. If you feel the need to discuss your former marriage then I'm sure it will come out in conversation. On the pics front more light and more variety. If you insist on cock pics then just the have one and maybe keep it in the friends only.

It's been said before but this is your shop window so dress it accordingly and sell yourself. Single men are in abundance so you have to stand out.

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OP, the pirate speaks sense.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

As someone who was married for 12 years, take it from me, you don't need to mention that on your profile. It could look like you're going for the sympathy shag or rebound sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well i have tried updating my profile today what you you folks think

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"well i have tried updating my profile today what you you folks think "

Better but still needs work

My advice is read the examples of good profiles put up by admin. Then start a word doc and do a bullet list of points for your profile then expand them making it funny and informative and let your personality shine...

And dont make it a single paragraph, break it up and that way make it easier to read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks i'll have another go is it just me that finds this hard lol

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

Its not easy! LoL

All I can tell you is what I did...

I first worked out what I wanted, then I spent ages developing my profile. Eventually it got to a point where I was happy with it and those I meet are also happy that it reflects who I am.

I would suggest that all single males should do the same.

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