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women dont give new guys a chance on fabs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why to meet most women do you need a good history on fabs ? Everyone has to start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i meet non verified guys if i get on well with them. we all had to start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shame your from Boston then ! Haha

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

The first guy I met on here was fairly new and not verified.

As I really only meet at parties and socials now it's not an issue for me wether they are verified or not, plenty more fish in the sea if they didn't turn up.

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london

True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well why aren't there more women like you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know we are not a single bloke, but our first verification came from a house party.

I think its the way to go to be honest to start off, interaction face to face.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you assuming it is the fact that you are relatively new that is the issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps because a lot of guys,not all,talk the talk,but when arrangements are made don't turn up,that's our reason for only meeting verified single guys

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs"

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think newness has much to do with it. A nice profile goes much further than how long you've been here.

Your profile is a bit cock heavy - maybe, just maybe, a woman might want to see some charm before your cock?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I believe many women or couples just assume your not going to be reliable so dont bother actually getting to know you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've read threads about this before and some people don't mind meeting new unverified people. We were all new once! It take 43 days to be an old fab lag*

*Sydney University

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fare enough . Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because some women have made mistakes meeting the wrong types for them so want to be more careful about who they meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might just be me but I read his profile as, I'd like a beautiful woman but if not ill have a bbw cos they know what they are doing

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! "
sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FS, someone just fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might just be me but I read his profile as, I'd like a beautiful woman but if not ill have a bbw cos they know what they are doing "

Ha!

So non bbw women have no clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically its the womens loss if they say no lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit I've filtered unverifieds, purely for safety reasons more than anything else. I live in a very rural area and social meets in a busy place isn't always possible. Plus so many 'new' profiles come and go so even photo verified shows some commitment to the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FS, someone just fuck me. "

Ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bit of a fuck up in my wording ! Changed now haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might just be me but I read his profile as, I'd like a beautiful woman but if not ill have a bbw cos they know what they are doing "

No. It's not just you. I read it like that too.

Two rather poor cock pics are probably more a hinderance than the lack of veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might just be me but I read his profile as, I'd like a beautiful woman but if not ill have a bbw cos they know what they are doing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are you assuming it is the fact that you are relatively new that is the issue?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of a fuck up in my wording ! Changed now haha"

That's better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a few newbies before... Not a problem for us, they had decent profiles and took time to chat to us and vice versa!

Keep at it OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too little too late though dude!

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why to meet most women do you need a good history on fabs ? Everyone has to start somewhere "

Tell me about, I've not had a meet yet?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might just be me but I read his profile as, I'd like a beautiful woman but if not ill have a bbw cos they know what they are doing "
oh right, I need to go on these profiles, hmm enough said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun. "

What?

Seriously mate you seem to think swinging is just easy sex with anyone. And you are very much wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ladies have to be so careful on here. I can see why single males do struggle though. As with anything in life there is always a small minority that go out of their way to mess people about which in turn hinders the ones of us that are genuine.

Having said that I really struggle!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to have the same view as many other guys ( who we also wouldnt meet) that assume because this is a seingers site we will fuck anything that moves.

Afraid to say your wrong. This attitude of yours along wiv yo gangsta speek really puts us off and wouldnt meet you if you were the only guy left on the site. Hurtful but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun. "

Who on earth should we go for what we don't want? I'm not here to faff about. I want to meet reliable sexy men I fancy the pants off and not someone I'm not interested in!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun. "

That's possibly one of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard on here.

Why would I want to get naked with someone I have no interest in???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's possibly one of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard on here.

Why would I want to get naked with someone I have no interest in??? "

Because we need verifications! Be a good sport and take one for the team.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"FS, someone just fuck me. "

Another sympathy shag...ok then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FS, someone just fuck me.

Another sympathy shag...ok then "

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"That's possibly one of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard on here.

Why would I want to get naked with someone I have no interest in???

Because we need verifications! Be a good sport and take one for the team."

I said people I'm not interested in.

You aren't on that list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun. "

Is this your idea of swinging?? Any holes a goal?

Nah if we are not attracted to someone then there's no point what so ever in meeting them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do, or how does any man get his first Veri?

Admittedly some don't but I think that's fair enough....its one way of seeing if a chap is genuine in his intentions or not...as stated above, it may be that your profile is holding you back as much as your lack of verifications.

Getting a veri certainly isn't some magical key to the land of vag and boobies....its one very small part to enjoying your time on here so don't get hung up on it and work on other areas that will help you along.....all the information and advice you'll find right here on this site....go have a look around and good luck fella

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"You seem to have the same view as many other guys ( who we also wouldnt meet) that assume because this is a seingers site we will fuck anything that moves.

Afraid to say your wrong. This attitude of yours along wiv yo gangsta speek really puts us off and wouldnt meet you if you were the only guy left on the site. Hurtful but true "
lol i ain't bothered abt u meetin me lol COs i rather meet up wit women who r fun and up for socialisin. And 4 d records there's nothin gangsta about d way i type lol. Its called shorthand form of typing. I ain't mad at ur comments tho coz i know u probably confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met unverified males,not so many meets regarding couples though as we have found a few of them to be single males posing as a couple then asking to be friends to look at your friend only pics

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Why to meet most women do you need a good history on fabs ? Everyone has to start somewhere "

OP the best way to get known is to get yourself along to one of the many socials that are held around the country throughout the year. You'll get chatting to like minded people and verified by some too. X

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Most of my meets have been with unverified men: their initial message and subsequent actions saw to that.

Personally, any profile that states "just out of a relationship" is ignored: I don't read past that as the writer, from my past experience, is bitter, suffering gender issues and a poor shag!

No ta!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I will do .thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe many women or couples just assume your not going to be reliable so dont bother actually getting to know you "

We have met lots of newbies at our local club in Gloucester . Those that make the effort to turn up get the benefit of a first veri and meet lots of new people .

Problem is , only 2 out of 10 ever turn up !

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

Is this your idea of swinging?? Any holes a goal?

Nah if we are not attracted to someone then there's no point what so ever in meeting them!! "
true say, everyone got their own opinion. I believe if u gona be real on here den be real and swing dat ass, meet up wit newbies and spread d joy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun. "

Quite simply THE most retarded comment I've ever seen on here.

And OP, ask yourself why you've had no meets. Take a good look at your profile and see if it's selling you properly.

Hint:The answer is probably no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why to meet most women do you need a good history on fabs ? Everyone has to start somewhere "

True but some woman like me choose to have newbies blocked,I've met a few people who.are photo verified or non verified, so do give a chance,at socials and parties as they have made the effort to go,I don't tend to arrange private meets as have a good track record,never been let down that because being selective in my meeting process works for me,unverified talk the talk don't always walk the walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why to meet most women do you need a good history on fabs ? Everyone has to start somewhere

Tell me about, I've not had a meet yet?!! "

So.....what's with the Veri? Is it fake, or are you telling us porkie pies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

Is this your idea of swinging?? Any holes a goal?

Nah if we are not attracted to someone then there's no point what so ever in meeting them!! true say, everyone got their own opinion. I believe if u gona be real on here den be real and swing dat ass, meet up wit newbies and spread d joy "

So to be real on here you have to meet newbie??

With this attitude you will go far!! Not

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun. "

Well fella by your own rationale, you ll be wanting to explore the male form,, not what youre interested in or attracted to but hey what an adventure,, enjoy the ride fella,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FS, someone just fuck me. "

I've got a broom handle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You seem to have the same view as many other guys ( who we also wouldnt meet) that assume because this is a seingers site we will fuck anything that moves.

Afraid to say your wrong. This attitude of yours along wiv yo gangsta speek really puts us off and wouldnt meet you if you were the only guy left on the site. Hurtful but true lol i ain't bothered abt u meetin me lol COs i rather meet up wit women who r fun and up for socialisin. And 4 d records there's nothin gangsta about d way i type lol. Its called shorthand form of typing. I ain't mad at ur comments tho coz i know u probably confused "

its called shorthand yet you spell that in full and miss the t off with lol and im confused lol.

Its your apparent bad attitude and the assuption that everyone on here is up for a shag regardless.

Just a guess but im assuming you may be waiting a while for a meet. But if you do good luck to you.

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"You seem to have the same view as many other guys ( who we also wouldnt meet) that assume because this is a seingers site we will fuck anything that moves.

Afraid to say your wrong. This attitude of yours along wiv yo gangsta speek really puts us off and wouldnt meet you if you were the only guy left on the site. Hurtful but true lol i ain't bothered abt u meetin me lol COs i rather meet up wit women who r fun and up for socialisin. And 4 d records there's nothin gangsta about d way i type lol. Its called shorthand form of typing. I ain't mad at ur comments tho coz i know u probably confused

its called shorthand yet you spell that in full and miss the t off with lol and im confused lol.

Its your apparent bad attitude and the assuption that everyone on here is up for a shag regardless.

Just a guess but im assuming you may be waiting a while for a meet. But if you do good luck to you. "
lol someone's takin it personal LOL, chill out u its only a forum lol not ww2 ( oh i 4got u not used to shorthand style of writin - ww2 means world war 2 ) and 4 d records i get pussy regardless of whether in on here or not lol.

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

Well fella by your own rationale, you ll be wanting to explore the male form,, not what youre interested in or attracted to but hey what an adventure,, enjoy the ride fella, "
lol crazy fella

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

Is this your idea of swinging?? Any holes a goal?

Nah if we are not attracted to someone then there's no point what so ever in meeting them!! true say, everyone got their own opinion. I believe if u gona be real on here den be real and swing dat ass, meet up wit newbies and spread d joy

So to be real on here you have to meet newbie??

With this attitude you will go far!! Not "
was only expressin my mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wally, your typing isnt shorthand.

get over it

you type how you speak (probably)

to suggest people meet others they have no sexual interest in is, at best, stupid and ill informed.

do you just shag anything with a pulse?

actually, silly question

i already know the answer.

there are some horrific views towards swinging coming to the fore just lately.

i really dont know if this whole thing is our scene, if this is what being a 'real swinger' is supposed to be.

ridiculous!

3 more blocks today already

woot woot

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

As others have said, I've met several unverified single guys...if they've read my profile, we've clicked in messages and managed to arrange diaries then it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How bizarre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

Is this your idea of swinging?? Any holes a goal?

Nah if we are not attracted to someone then there's no point what so ever in meeting them!! true say, everyone got their own opinion. I believe if u gona be real on here den be real and swing dat ass, meet up wit newbies and spread d joy

So to be real on here you have to meet newbie??

With this attitude you will go far!! Not was only expressin my mind lol "
bit of poetic license going on here to say your using shorthand is stretching the truth a little but to blatantly lie saying you have a mind is definately OTT. Thsts over the top in case you eerent sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i really dont understand the problem couples have in meeting single guys ,there are some gr8 guys out there and can offer just as much as the married guys or is it the fact that theres also access to a women too ??

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London


"I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

Well fella by your own rationale, you ll be wanting to explore the male form,, not what youre interested in or attracted to but hey what an adventure,, enjoy the ride fella,

lol crazy fella"

Why is he crazy? That's exactly what you're suggesting women/couples do so why shouldn't it apply to you?

After all: "sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want".

Sounds like you should be getting on your knees and helping other news guys get verified to me.

To the OP: My first verification is from a couple I met at a club then later met privately. Get yourself out there!

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

Is this your idea of swinging?? Any holes a goal?

Nah if we are not attracted to someone then there's no point what so ever in meeting them!! true say, everyone got their own opinion. I believe if u gona be real on here den be real and swing dat ass, meet up wit newbies and spread d joy

So to be real on here you have to meet newbie??

With this attitude you will go far!! Not was only expressin my mind lol bit of poetic license going on here to say your using shorthand is stretching the truth a little but to blatantly lie saying you have a mind is definately OTT. Thsts over the top in case you eerent sure "
oh boy not u again lol, im startin to guess u on pmt lol ( just messin wit u man, don't go startin anoda debate about y pmt is abbreviated lol )anyway loosen up a lol and show sum mental maturity by being less aggresive and offended. Its only a post, i dare u to be more toleratin and broaden ur horizons abt meetin newbies or singles lol

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

Well fella by your own rationale, you ll be wanting to explore the male form,, not what youre interested in or attracted to but hey what an adventure,, enjoy the ride fella,

lol crazy fella

Why is he crazy? That's exactly what you're suggesting women/couples do so why shouldn't it apply to you?

After all: "sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want".

Sounds like you should be getting on your knees and helping other news guys get verified to me.

To the OP: My first verification is from a couple I met at a club then later met privately. Get yourself out there! "
lol dat was a gd one, im gona have to swallow my words on day one lol

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"wally, your typing isnt shorthand.

get over it

you type how you speak (probably)

to suggest people meet others they have no sexual interest in is, at best, stupid and ill informed.

do you just shag anything with a pulse?

actually, silly question

i already know the answer.

there are some horrific views towards swinging coming to the fore just lately.

i really dont know if this whole thing is our scene, if this is what being a 'real swinger' is supposed to be.

ridiculous!

3 more blocks today already

woot woot"
gd on u girl, i bet u get paid £1000 each time u block single guys on here. Hun 2 be honest i don't think d guys u blocked rili care, as everyone says there's plenty more fish in d ocean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wally, your typing isnt shorthand.

get over it

you type how you speak (probably)

to suggest people meet others they have no sexual interest in is, at best, stupid and ill informed.

do you just shag anything with a pulse?

actually, silly question

i already know the answer.

there are some horrific views towards swinging coming to the fore just lately.

i really dont know if this whole thing is our scene, if this is what being a 'real swinger' is supposed to be.

ridiculous!

3 more blocks today already

woot wootgd on u girl, i bet u get paid £1000 each time u block single guys on here. Hun 2 be honest i don't think d guys u blocked rili care, as everyone says there's plenty more fish in d ocean"

why would it cost to block people on here?

that makes no sense

and, this is not a girl, woman, bird, chick or any other derogatory term you may fancy labelling women with.

yes, there are plenty more fish in D ocean, but lest be honest, its not the couples moaning about not being given a chance ( well, except with single bi women anyway)

but hey ho, im sure there will be someone on here that will appreciate your almost neanderthal attitude to the way things work on here.

peace out!

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"wally, your typing isnt shorthand.

get over it

you type how you speak (probably)

to suggest people meet others they have no sexual interest in is, at best, stupid and ill informed.

do you just shag anything with a pulse?

actually, silly question

i already know the answer.

there are some horrific views towards swinging coming to the fore just lately.

i really dont know if this whole thing is our scene, if this is what being a 'real swinger' is supposed to be.

ridiculous!

3 more blocks today already

woot wootgd on u girl, i bet u get paid £1000 each time u block single guys on here. Hun 2 be honest i don't think d guys u blocked rili care, as everyone says there's plenty more fish in d ocean

why would it cost to block people on here?

that makes no sense

and, this is not a girl, woman, bird, chick or any other derogatory term you may fancy labelling women with.

yes, there are plenty more fish in D ocean, but lest be honest, its not the couples moaning about not being given a chance ( well, except with single bi women anyway)

but hey ho, im sure there will be someone on here that will appreciate your almost neanderthal attitude to the way things work on here.

peace out!"
boy day was some long text, try typin shorthand maybe it won't be so long and borin 2 read. Chill out man and catch sum fun on here, im startin to think u out 2 make enemies 2day. CHILL OUT its a gd day 2day peace out bless up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given 2 newbies a chance in the past.

Both turned out to be bellends.

There seems to be pattern emerging.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"boy day was some long text, try typin shorthand maybe it won't be so long and borin 2 read. Chill out man and catch sum fun on here, im startin to think u out 2 make enemies 2day. CHILL OUT its a gd day 2day peace out bless up "

when you say shorthand, you mean lazy?

dont need ot chill out

havent made any enemies

and if i have

i dont care

plenty more fish in D oshun (its shorthand)

those that know me on here know what im about.

those that dont, shit happens

you do know the idea behind shorthand?

maybe you should google the term rather than keep saying you use it when you dont actually know what it is.

respeck gangsta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"boy day was some long text, try typin shorthand maybe it won't be so long and borin 2 read. Chill out man and catch sum fun on here, im startin to think u out 2 make enemies 2day. CHILL OUT its a gd day 2day peace out bless up

when you say shorthand, you mean lazy?

dont need ot chill out

havent made any enemies

and if i have

i dont care

plenty more fish in D oshun (its shorthand)

those that know me on here know what im about.

those that dont, shit happens

you do know the idea behind shorthand?

maybe you should google the term rather than keep saying you use it when you dont actually know what it is.

respeck gangsta"

Word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why to meet most women do you need a good history on fabs ? Everyone has to start somewhere "

I joined a year ago last week, I had ZERO meets when I joined.

I got my first meet within a month, she has now left the site.

Don't assume you or anyone else has a divine right to a fuck.

I quickly figured out that women on here get spammed to death so reading profiles before I message helped.

If you read the profile you'll have something to say in the message.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Why are you assuming it is the fact that you are relatively new that is the issue?"

bingo.....

see.. and this is the thing...

people like to focus on the reason they have no control over.... its everyone elses fault! I am blameless!!! them nasty pastys!!!!

it may well be the reason for some, but I am betting it's not the reason for a lot of people...

the site gives you the tools to make it work... fully working club guide... fully working chatrooms...fully working social lists... fully working profiles...

use all of them, some of them, none of them....

you make yourself stand out from everyone if you want to.....

the onus is on YOU to be the best YOU you can be.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are you assuming it is the fact that you are relatively new that is the issue?

bingo.....

see.. and this is the thing...

people like to focus on the reason they have no control over.... its everyone elses fault! I am blameless!!! them nasty pastys!!!!

it may well be the reason for some, but I am betting it's not the reason for a lot of people...

the site gives you the tools to make it work... fully working club guide... fully working chatrooms...fully working social lists... fully working profiles...

use all of them, some of them, none of them....

you make yourself stand out from everyone if you want to.....

the onus is on YOU to be the best YOU you can be..... "

Will you stop being so reasonable, makes it very difficult to argue with you

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"boy day was some long text, try typin shorthand maybe it won't be so long and borin 2 read. Chill out man and catch sum fun on here, im startin to think u out 2 make enemies 2day. CHILL OUT its a gd day 2day peace out bless up

when you say shorthand, you mean lazy?

dont need ot chill out

havent made any enemies

and if i have

i dont care

plenty more fish in D oshun (its shorthand)

those that know me on here know what im about.

those that dont, shit happens

you do know the idea behind shorthand?

maybe you should google the term rather than keep saying you use it when you dont actually know what it is.

respeck gangsta"
lol sometimes ignorance is bliss, i cant believe u dedicated 2mins of ur time writin a long essay abt shorthand writin ? Hun incase u ain't noticed u givin a bad impression. No one cares if u made loads of enemies on here, and u keep goin on abt shorthand writin as if its a bad thing . People shorten their words 4rm time 2 time, doesn't mean they r lazy it just means they shortened their words. Boy i feel silly havin dis conversation wit u. CHILL OUT, relax, breathe and have sum fun. Bless up, wots ur star sign init

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think newness has much to do with it. A nice profile goes much further than how long you've been here.

Your profile is a bit cock heavy - maybe, just maybe, a woman might want to see some charm before your cock?

"

Nope a nice profile has nothing to do with it. I have seen a large number of profile that say if you got X verified meets and been on FAB for so long we / I will just delete and block you if you message them.

It is sad but if happens. There a lot of time waster no this site. Even people with a number of verification can be time wasters. Women and men and all the rest as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think newness has much to do with it. A nice profile goes much further than how long you've been here.

Your profile is a bit cock heavy - maybe, just maybe, a woman might want to see some charm before your cock?

Nope a nice profile has nothing to do with it. I have seen a large number of profile that say if you got X verified meets and been on FAB for so long we / I will just delete and block you if you message them.

It is sad but if happens. There a lot of time waster no this site. Even people with a number of verification can be time wasters. Women and men and all the rest as well. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe some attitudes on here. Swinging is not about giving anyone a chance. Women are not offering a service when they decide to swing.

People will message whom they like and will play with whom they like. Its about mutual attraction and kinship with others, not about bestowing acts of sexual kindness to men who haven't had meets.

Everyone is responsible for their experience of swinging, hordes of women won't fall into your lap the minute you create a profile. If you want to embrace it then join a club, go to socials, that's how we started.

And above all its only sex, a hobby, occasional pastime etc, there is no obligation or right to sex. Some men on here carry on as if their bloody tomcats

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Who can find the phrase 'nasty pasty's in this thread?

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By *EdaveMan
over a year ago

Billingham

BREAKING NEWS - wally-long man is in the lead in the latest Opinion poll for the role of fabswingers single male society spokesperson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only new guys ? ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your yoof puts me off, not the fact you're unverified by a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive very often been a first meet for newbies - either socially , clubs or otherwise x ive got 194 meet veri's and always happy to give new peeps a chance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbies can message me but like with all messages, regardless of who sends them have to catch my eye!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun. "

PMSL! That is absolutely the best "pleeeeaaasssseee will someone, ANYONE fuck me" post I have ever seen!

Class.

It has to be a joke account. Nobody could actually be this clueless, surely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I have the soft centres you don't like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im brand new on here too mate n.I've quickly come up with the conclusion that the people on here aren't here for an easy lay. Nor am I. It's a way of life some folk pal n some 'newbie' turning up full of spunk with his cock in his hand isn't anything new on here. That shit happens every day.

I guess it depends what you want yourself but ya not guna get woman throwing themselves at you here or anywhere for that matter.

Bit of respect goes a long way dude!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am absolutely crying with laughter reading this thread! I cannot believe some of the comments that have been made!

Some people on site DO give unverified single guys a chance, clearly, or no single guys would be verified! Simplest way to get verified is to get your arse along to a club and/or social! Read profiles before sending a message and eventually you'll catch someone's eye!

As for all this 'give us a chance even if we're not what you want' bollocks, FUCK THAT! I think I speak for most of my fellow sane (ok, semi-sane) forumites when I say, I'd rather not have sex than shag someone I'm not sexually attracted to! RIDICULOUS!!!

Some single ladies are very safety concious, another reason for not wanting to meet ANYONE unverified (includes couples and ladies sometimes too! In fact, I'd be less likely to meet an unverified single lady as I'd be worried about discovering she's a he!)

As for all the 'stop arguing' comments, you're continuing the debate, so surely put up or shut up?!

Stop bloody moaning about how you can't get a meet, no one's entitled here, it's down to you!

And breathe....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet unverified men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet unverified men "

Floozie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet unverified men

Floozie."

meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is hilarious,the OP must be sat at home in stunned shock reading through it

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"As for all this 'give us a chance even if we're not what you want' bollocks, FUCK THAT! I think I speak for most of my fellow sane (ok, semi-sane) forumites when I say, I'd rather not have sex than shag someone I'm not sexually attracted to! RIDICULOUS!!!"

There you go, all about what you want again! We're all here to get laid (apparently) so do your duty and put out, darn you. It's exciting and interesting to fuck someone you don't fancy (apparently).


"no one's entitled here, it's down to you!

And breathe.... "

Now don't be silly. It's A Sex Site FFS! (TM) and we're all here to get laid (apparently) so everyone is entitled. Now stop all this unreasonable pickiness, be a real swinger and get out there and fuck every desperate, hopeless case who asks. Think about how interesting it will be!

Pfft! Women having standards on a swinging site... bloody timewasters!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

The last unverified man I arranged to meet had begged me for a chance to get verified. He didn't turn up because he "overslept".

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

The only type of guy I bother getting to know is someone who has made an effort with their profile! And who can/has sent a decent message, so, no it's not us women not giving men a chance, it is mostly men not putting any effort in, so if this is you, amend your ways then complain! Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here to "get laid" and my meets with unverified men went very well. I didn't always get laid on the first instance,but I was never disappointed. For the record,there have been threads started by couples saying they can't get meets. It can happen to all of us

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I'm here to "get laid" and my meets with unverified men went very well. I didn't always get laid on the first instance,but I was never disappointed. For the record,there have been threads started by couples saying they can't get meets. It can happen to all of us "
^^^^ This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess some get how to make this place work and lots don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh we were all new once but thankfully we were not all bellends who know jack shit about swinging. Innit tho

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By *herrytomWoman
over a year ago

Morecambe


"FS, someone just fuck me. "

Say please and we have a deal.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"The last unverified man I arranged to meet had begged me for a chance to get verified. He didn't turn up because he "overslept"."
I take it you have given up the idea of all men and women on here getting along then...how long did that last for you?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I guess some get how to make this place work and lots don't "

Some don't seem to realise they need to make it work. They think that signing up and writing 5-10 words in their profile is plenty to have a host of beautiful nymphettes beating a path to their inbox. That's half the trouble.

I'm not sure what some people think swinging means and where the idea comes from that this is a place to get easy sex.

A lot of guys say meeting women on nights out is easier than here. I tend to find it easier to pick up guys in person too. This place has its benefits but I don't understand why there's the expectation it will be easier to get meets online, (speaking about singles meeting, I mean. For actual couples/group meets, here or clubs probably are easier). In person you have more chance of attracting someone because you're not limited to the written word and 2-D images.

I find it slightly bewildering tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am absolutely crying with laughter reading this thread! I cannot believe some of the comments that have been made!

Some people on site DO give unverified single guys a chance, clearly, or no single guys would be verified! Simplest way to get verified is to get your arse along to a club and/or social! Read profiles before sending a message and eventually you'll catch someone's eye!

As for all this 'give us a chance even if we're not what you want' bollocks, FUCK THAT! I think I speak for most of my fellow sane (ok, semi-sane) forumites when I say, I'd rather not have sex than shag someone I'm not sexually attracted to! RIDICULOUS!!!

Some single ladies are very safety concious, another reason for not wanting to meet ANYONE unverified (includes couples and ladies sometimes too! In fact, I'd be less likely to meet an unverified single lady as I'd be worried about discovering she's a he!)

As for all the 'stop arguing' comments, you're continuing the debate, so surely put up or shut up?!

Stop bloody moaning about how you can't get a meet, no one's entitled here, it's down to you!

And breathe.... "

Excellent post , well said

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The last unverified man I arranged to meet had begged me for a chance to get verified. He didn't turn up because he "overslept".

I take it you have given up the idea of all men and women on here getting along then...how long did that last for you?"

I'd still like us to get along. It won't happen but it would be nice. Every day is women this, men that.

Anyway, am I not permitted to mention an arraged meet with an unverified man on a thread about why unverified men can be treated with suspicion/caution?

If an unverified woman/couple had let me down I would have mentioned that too. I mentioned a man because the only unverified people I have experience of are men. And because the thread asks specifically about men.

Unverified women are more flaky, I expect, since quite a few of them are single men!

Since I posted however, I've realised I'm wrong anyway. My last meet was unverified and he turned up on time and in the right place.

I also have another potential meet in the pipeline with someone unverified.

I am willing to meet unverified people still but my previous experiences have made me more cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last unverified man I arranged to meet had begged me for a chance to get verified. He didn't turn up because he "overslept".

I take it you have given up the idea of all men and women on here getting along then...how long did that last for you?

I'd still like us to get along. It won't happen but it would be nice. Every day is women this, men that.

Anyway, am I not permitted to mention an arraged meet with an unverified man on a thread about why unverified men can be treated with suspicion/caution?

If an unverified woman/couple had let me down I would have mentioned that too. I mentioned a man because the only unverified people I have experience of are men. And because the thread asks specifically about men.

Unverified women are more flaky, I expect, since quite a few of them are single men!

Since I posted however, I've realised I'm wrong anyway. My last meet was unverified and he turned up on time and in the right place.

I also have another potential meet in the pipeline with someone unverified.

I am willing to meet unverified people still but my previous experiences have made me more cautious."

Yep like I said it not just single men, any one can be a time waster.

I lot of men feel left out under valued or that they seen a toy dog that have to jump over fence to just have a message. This is not the case with everyone I am very happy to say. thread like this will always pop up from time to time. I find they help how and then, if only to show that some people do give us a chance.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"The last unverified man I arranged to meet had begged me for a chance to get verified. He didn't turn up because he "overslept".

I take it you have given up the idea of all men and women on here getting along then...how long did that last for you?

I'd still like us to get along. It won't happen but it would be nice. Every day is women this, men that.

Anyway, am I not permitted to mention an arraged meet with an unverified man on a thread about why unverified men can be treated with suspicion/caution?

If an unverified woman/couple had let me down I would have mentioned that too. I mentioned a man because the only unverified people I have experience of are men. And because the thread asks specifically about men.

Unverified women are more flaky, I expect, since quite a few of them are single men!

Since I posted however, I've realised I'm wrong anyway. My last meet was unverified and he turned up on time and in the right place.

I also have another potential meet in the pipeline with someone unverified.

I am willing to meet unverified people still but my previous experiences have made me more cautious."
You can do what you like, and usually do anyway..but you do get yourself wound up and in a tizz over something you allegedly don't want to happen.....yet perpetuating the very thing you wished a few days ago wouldn't happen.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

ahhaha just read this wally the scat mans a leg end . .you have to admit its funny . .

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The last unverified man I arranged to meet had begged me for a chance to get verified. He didn't turn up because he "overslept".

I take it you have given up the idea of all men and women on here getting along then...how long did that last for you?

I'd still like us to get along. It won't happen but it would be nice. Every day is women this, men that.

Anyway, am I not permitted to mention an arraged meet with an unverified man on a thread about why unverified men can be treated with suspicion/caution?

If an unverified woman/couple had let me down I would have mentioned that too. I mentioned a man because the only unverified people I have experience of are men. And because the thread asks specifically about men.

Unverified women are more flaky, I expect, since quite a few of them are single men!

Since I posted however, I've realised I'm wrong anyway. My last meet was unverified and he turned up on time and in the right place.

I also have another potential meet in the pipeline with someone unverified.

I am willing to meet unverified people still but my previous experiences have made me more cautious.You can do what you like, and usually do anyway..but you do get yourself wound up and in a tizz over something you allegedly don't want to happen.....yet perpetuating the very thing you wished a few days ago wouldn't happen. "

No tizz here. At least not currently. Too tired to think straight let alone fret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the op has a point, single bloke do have the cards stacked against them, it does seem hard work

i got a veri all be it a regular fb got the pics, friends only but always send some when sending pm

but been on best term with a few so called single fems got close arranged meet only for them to go quite on me!

may be bloke in disguise,

many profiles seem to expect the impossible hunk,

i know if someone don't sound right give them a wide berth but don't raise the bar too high

personally think my prob is when i mention im a trucker, stereo type nonsense again

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I think the op has a point, single bloke do have the cards stacked against them, it does seem hard work

i got a veri all be it a regular fb got the pics, friends only but always send some when sending pm

but been on best term with a few so called single fems got close arranged meet only for them to go quite on me!

may be bloke in disguise,

many profiles seem to expect the impossible hunk,

i know if someone don't sound right give them a wide berth but don't raise the bar too high

personally think my prob is when i mention im a trucker, stereo type nonsense again "

It seems difficult to you because that's the perspective you see. The grass may appear greener but no group has it easy on here when it comes to arranging meets.

The challenges vary but everybody has them.

A lot of women aren't looking for hunks at all. Guys do have to have a decent profile and be able to send good messages to have much of a chance though.

It's easy to say it's not my fault because women want hunks/women don't like truckers/I'm too young/I'm too old and so on but often the perceived reason isn't actually the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given plenty of new guys a chance over the years, non-verified doesn't mean much to me. I depend on my own judgement not anyone else's, a twat is a twat is a twat whether verified dozens of times or not at all.

Take responsibility for your own actions and approach to people and you can't go far wrong. Follow the herd mentality gets you just that, one of the herd and not a stand out individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've given plenty of new guys a chance over the years, non-verified doesn't mean much to me. I depend on my own judgement not anyone else's, a twat is a twat is a twat whether verified dozens of times or not at all.

Take responsibility for your own actions and approach to people and you can't go far wrong. Follow the herd mentality gets you just that, one of the herd and not a stand out individual. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to help verify women.

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"As for all this 'give us a chance even if we're not what you want' bollocks, FUCK THAT! I think I speak for most of my fellow sane (ok, semi-sane) forumites when I say, I'd rather not have sex than shag someone I'm not sexually attracted to! RIDICULOUS!!!

There you go, all about what you want again! We're all here to get laid (apparently) so do your duty and put out, darn you. It's exciting and interesting to fuck someone you don't fancy (apparently).

no one's entitled here, it's down to you!

And breathe....

Now don't be silly. It's A Sex Site FFS! (TM) and we're all here to get laid (apparently) so everyone is entitled. Now stop all this unreasonable pickiness, be a real swinger and get out there and fuck every desperate, hopeless case who asks. Think about how interesting it will be!

Pfft! Women having standards on a swinging site... bloody timewasters!

"
bless up, u talk sense babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have that same problem!! Hellp!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for all this 'give us a chance even if we're not what you want' bollocks, FUCK THAT! I think I speak for most of my fellow sane (ok, semi-sane) forumites when I say, I'd rather not have sex than shag someone I'm not sexually attracted to! RIDICULOUS!!!

There you go, all about what you want again! We're all here to get laid (apparently) so do your duty and put out, darn you. It's exciting and interesting to fuck someone you don't fancy (apparently).

no one's entitled here, it's down to you!

And breathe....

Now don't be silly. It's A Sex Site FFS! (TM) and we're all here to get laid (apparently) so everyone is entitled. Now stop all this unreasonable pickiness, be a real swinger and get out there and fuck every desperate, hopeless case who asks. Think about how interesting it will be!

Pfft! Women having standards on a swinging site... bloody timewasters!

bless up, u talk sense babe "

Man, tell me please that your persuing a career in comedy and this thread is some kind of proving ground for a sketch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have that same problem!! Hellp! "

If you have the same problem you need the same answers.....read the thread....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FS, someone just fuck me. "

(Shuffles by you.) Ooo hello

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Single blokes can meet each other and verify - you dont need to meet your dream shag as a first meet. Get out and about, dont just rely on fab for all interaction.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Single blokes can meet each other and verify - you dont need to meet your dream shag as a first meet. Get out and about, dont just rely on fab for all interaction. "

They can but then they are likely to get the "if you are straight why are you verified by a man" crap. Even if it says it was a social meet some people will jump to conclusions anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all need a chance haha

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"We all need a chance haha"

Effort and reward tend to be linked.

People who make the effort get the chances, usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all need a chance haha

Effort and reward tend to be linked.

People who make the effort get the chances, usually."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I must take my own advice and get round to doing new photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always give newbies a chance and chat with them. Give advice. Currently chatting to New guy and offered to do coffee so I can verify him. He is a nice, genuine guy. But he says girls want bad guys. That right girls lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

What?

Seriously mate you seem to think swinging is just easy sex with anyone. And you are very much wrong.

"

It is easy sex, you are very much wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

What?

Seriously mate you seem to think swinging is just easy sex with anyone. And you are very much wrong.

It is easy sex, you are very much wrong "

It is, if you have the right attitude.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

What?

Seriously mate you seem to think swinging is just easy sex with anyone. And you are very much wrong.

It is easy sex, you are very much wrong

It is, if you have the right attitude."

Or know how to play the game and can pretend to have the right attitude.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

except me x X X

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"True say, we r all strangers b4 we meet and for sum couples on here wit a strict policy of not wantin to meet single guys bear in mind u were once single aswell b4 u became couples. We r all here to get laid, so lets put d real meanin of swinging bak into perspective. Give d new guys or singles a chance and arrange a meet ffs

So couples that aren't interested in meeting single guys should meet them anyway??? Why would they do that?

I may be here to get laid as you put it but not by people I'm not interested in/attracted to.. I'm not desperate! sometimes in life uve got to let go of wot u r attracted to/ interested in and go for wot u don't want. It doesn't make u desperate, just makes d journey a lot more interesting and sparks up new adventures Hun.

What?

Seriously mate you seem to think swinging is just easy sex with anyone. And you are very much wrong.

It is easy sex, you are very much wrong

It is, if you have the right attitude.

Or know how to play the game and can pretend to have the right attitude."
bless up voluptous u hit d nail on d head. End of d day u don't walk into a swingers gatherin and d first question u get asked is 'have u got d rite attitude' d ladies probably wonderin if u got d rite tool to get d pussy wet and make Dem scream ur name out 45 times per minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why to meet most women do you need a good history on fabs ? Everyone has to start somewhere "

Most do give a guy a chance but some are more cautious can you blame them? (same gos for guys. You are after all meeting strangers and you don't want to end up in a dumpster in various pieces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why to meet most women do you need a good history on fabs ? Everyone has to start somewhere

Most do give a guy a chance but some are more cautious can you blame them? (same gos for guys. You are after all meeting strangers and you don't want to end up in a dumpster in various pieces. "

See this is why you let every other meet live. You still get verifications and no one suspects you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why to meet most women do you need a good history on fabs ? Everyone has to start somewhere

Most do give a guy a chance but some are more cautious can you blame them? (same gos for guys. You are after all meeting strangers and you don't want to end up in a dumpster in various pieces.

See this is why you let every other meet live. You still get verifications and no one suspects you."

Never fucked one to death yet but have come close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why to meet most women do you need a good history on fabs ? Everyone has to start somewhere

Most do give a guy a chance but some are more cautious can you blame them? (same gos for guys. You are after all meeting strangers and you don't want to end up in a dumpster in various pieces.

See this is why you let every other meet live. You still get verifications and no one suspects you.

Never fucked one to death yet but have come close. "
LMAO

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