FabSwingers.com forum: Sexual confidence

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a sexually confident women. I know my abilities and I know what I want

but i have found that this can scare men or they think I'm some sort of sexual predator why is this ?

I'm obviously not talking about the ones on here I mean in the real world.

Miss giggles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your confidence makes them nervous and they worry they won't be able to perform to your expectations

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By *i fem huntersCouple
over a year ago

london

We find confident women a turn on

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By *RS79Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I am a sexually confident women. I know my abilities and I know what I want

but i have found that this can scare men or they think I'm some sort of sexual predator why is this ?

I'm obviously not talking about the ones on here I mean in the real world.

Miss giggles.

Bring it on i say! The more confident the better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't mind if a girl isn't sexually confident, in fact I find a little shyness can be quite appealing in the bedroom (so long as it doesn't actually prevent us from having sex of course), as my usual approach to sex is simply 'lie back, relax and let me lead', and most girls respond very well to this - great sex should be a dance, not a tug of war.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont know, but when i first started seeing other men i used to meet them at the pub i would put my arm around them and be affectionate, my husband said men dont like it and it could put them off so i am the exact opposite now and i always wait for them to make the first move. this was when i was on a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a sexually confident women. I know my abilities and I know what I want

but i have found that this can scare men or they think I'm some sort of sexual predator why is this ?

I'm obviously not talking about the ones on here I mean in the real world.

Miss giggles.

Some will some won't I am no shrinking violet but don't have this problem with men.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Confidence is great unless it becomes over confidence. It's not always easy to tell when one starts to become the other. I think it's better if you are a naturally empathetic person and can pick up on where the other person stands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a sexually confident woman and have only ever made one man feel indimidated...

I don't think it's a bad thing as long as you know how to use it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am a sexually confident women. I know my abilities and I know what I want

but i have found that this can scare men or they think I'm some sort of sexual predator why is this ?

I'm obviously not talking about the ones on here I mean in the real world.

Miss giggles.

Some will some won't I am no shrinking violet but don't have this problem with men. "

It's not a problem cos if they can't handle me out side of the bedroom they certainly won't inside lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't think I'm intimidating, well no one has ran off yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I'm not submissive at all ..I like confident woman.

Defo. It's a turn on.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I don't think I'm intimidating, well no one has ran off yet

They are all still chained to your radiators....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I'm intimidating, well no one has ran off yet

They are all still chained to your radiators....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not confident out of the bedroom but with the right person I think I do ok

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

im a confident woman however when meeting a new guy i imediately try to gauge how at ease he is ...as for it to work we both have to be comfortable

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I don't think I'm intimidating, well no one has ran off yet

They are all still chained to your radiators....

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I don't think I'm intimidating, well no one has ran off yet

They are all still chained to your radiators....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am really shy

But very sexually adventurous and confident when I am intimate with someone

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I could be described as confident I guess *cough*... but don't really have a problem sifting out confident men, who appreciate someone who knows their own mind.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I don't think I'm intimidating, well no one has ran off yet

A little pussy cat!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Reasonably confident here, I guess...depends on how you measure it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confident with men, just exploring women and so not so confident - yet!

I love to know what makes the person I'm with tick, but quite often, I find they're shy of saying what they want or expect me to work it out. Honestly - tell me and let's have a good time!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite confident. i know my likes, my dislikes, my fantasies and the things i want to ttry. i communicate that up front. if they aren't floating my boat i will tell them what to do. I've so far been called demanding, but never intimidating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I was more confident but I just let men take the lead and it works for me (good girl)

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I am very sexually confident when I meet with some one, I know what I like and how I like it done. Sadly I am very shy as a male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair though having a rag with chloroform drenched on it saying to your victim......er man "does this smell funny to you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I don't mind if a girl isn't sexually confident, in fact I find a little shyness can be quite appealing in the bedroom (so long as it doesn't actually prevent us from having sex of course), as my usual approach to sex is simply 'lie back, relax and let me lead', and most girls respond very well to this - great sex should be a dance, not a tug of war."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be quite confident, lost it but regaining slowly. I still prefer to meet a confident man though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There are certain situations that I'm not confident in of course we all have a little hang ups and it's clubs for me.

You just would of thought that a women that is into her sex and openly admits it would get men going not shy away lol.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As long as you meet compatible men, there isnt a problem. If you want a guy who is more into traditional roles, and expects to be the one with more sexual confidence, then it may not be quite as easy. I dont believe in compromising your own self though, so better to find the right guy who is flexible and not intimidated by someone like yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite a shy person, I feel a lot more comfortable in clubs than I do when we have private meets, that being said tho it doesn't take me long to get over the nerves and become more confident

Fem

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I could be described as confident I guess *cough*... but don't really have a problem sifting out confident men, who appreciate someone who knows their own mind."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it very much depends who im with. If im really comfortable then sexually im very confident. If im less so or perhaps thinking someone is out my league then im more inclined to follow their lead.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm very timid and easily intimidated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual confidence is a hugely attractive trait in a women. We find it a huge turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep my hand on my hapenny

Her

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Confident with men, just exploring women and so not so confident - yet!"

I'm the same. I've often missed out on girl fun because I'm too shy to jump in but with a guy no problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very timid and easily intimidated

Me too..but I'm actually not being facetious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very confident . I am effin great

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am very confident . I am effin great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it very much depends who im with. If im really comfortable then sexually im very confident. If im less so or perhaps thinking someone is out my league then im more inclined to follow their lead.

Me too.

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