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By *etwife OP   Woman
over a year ago

hanworth

Why do some guys feel the need to hound you. Surely if you don't reply the first time get the hint. And who meets without seeing pic of person Rant Over.

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By *he ProletariatMan
over a year ago

axminster

just a quick reply saying 'no thanks' usually works...it does with me,i get loads of them lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deploy your block button. Take control.

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By *ibbyhunterCouple
over a year ago

keighley

quite a few threads on this forum criticising guys,what is it, lets all stick the boot into single guys day today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes its best to block them because they can be a bit cheeky especialy if you have said no thanks already. if they are pushy online they will probably be pushy when you meet them.

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By *he ProletariatMan
over a year ago

axminster

thanks for the support _ibbyhunter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They hate us, we can't do anything right!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

okay I'm going to take a guess as to why they might not take the hint...

certain pictures, profile text & status updates encourages men to message more, we know that that's why we use them to our advantage at times.

i would suggest you block the person after you've replied or delete the message & block.

this will stop repeat messages.

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By *he ProletariatMan
over a year ago

axminster

we're just trying to have fun like everyone else,except we're single,thats all

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

If you don't reply the first time it may just be that you've had so many messages that you haven't had time to read them.

If I send a message and it stays unread and undeleted then eventually disappears I sometimes send another a month or so later for that reason.

(Yes, I know they may have not looked at the message and gone straight to my profile)

Best just to delete them. And if you have time send a "no thanks". Block if necessary.

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By *etwife OP   Woman
over a year ago

hanworth

Im not moaning about single guys im moaning about the same guy constanly messaging you the same message over and over again surely after the first second even third time of no reply that im not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do some women whinge so much when they can block,filter or indeed say no thank you?

Is it because we're all meant to say awww poor you it must be terrible being a woman on here I don't know how you cope?

I don't find it terrible,I just use the filters when I don't want messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *etwife OP   Woman
over a year ago

hanworth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not moaning about single guys im moaning about the same guy constanly messaging you the same message over and over again surely after the first second even third time of no reply that im not interested"

Not necessarily, some people do need to be told. If you block him it's not being rude just another way of filtering out the people you do/do not wish to meet.

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By *etwife OP   Woman
over a year ago

hanworth

Love you pussy dora

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love you pussy dora"

Thanks, i like yours too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv stopped sending thanks but no thanks type msgs, always did to start with, to b polite, but too many who wouldn't accept no, or then decided to b rude, that I now just block. Do have a guy who despite blocking, I still get friends requests?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some women whinge so much when they can block,filter or indeed say no thank you?

Is it because we're all meant to say awww poor you it must be terrible being a woman on here I don't know how you cope?

I don't find it terrible,I just use the filters when I don't want messages "

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By *he ProletariatMan
over a year ago

axminster

i admit there are sum men who wont take the hint.as others have said,use the filters and the block option...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had to block a guy after 2 rude messages. We had only looked at his profile and not even message him!

Anyway, just block and forget. They're not worth worrying about. There's plenty of nice decent respectful guys on here.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some women whinge so much when they can block,filter or indeed say no thank you?

Is it because we're all meant to say awww poor you it must be terrible being a woman on here I don't know how you cope?

I don't find it terrible,I just use the filters when I don't want messages "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block button, drama ends.......

it really is that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"block button, drama ends.......

it really is that simple"

Some people don't like simple.They enjoy drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"block button, drama ends.......

it really is that simple"

I blocked the ones that kept mailing me and now I feel lonely and unwanted. whiiiine

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Terry Waite cuffed to the radiator in Beirut felt less fucking drama than some with frightful messages from the terrible menfolk of Fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some guys feel the need to hound you. Surely if you don't reply the first time get the hint. And who meets without seeing pic of person Rant Over."

Stop being so picky,...

And give it a shave

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Terry Waite cuffed to the radiator in Beirut felt less fucking drama than some with frightful messages from the terrible menfolk of Fab..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello, my name is Sir Henry Baskerville....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Terry Waite cuffed to the radiator in Beirut felt less fucking drama than some with frightful messages from the terrible menfolk of Fab..."

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some guys feel the need to hound you. Surely if you don't reply the first time get the hint. And who meets without seeing pic of person Rant Over.

Stop being so picky,...

And give it a shave "

No need for that mate. No need at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some guys feel the need to hound you. Surely if you don't reply the first time get the hint. And who meets without seeing pic of person Rant Over.

Stop being so picky,...

And give it a shave

No need for that mate. No need at all."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some strainge men out there

but we all should not be tared with the same brush as we are all different im just glad im the best out the lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some guys feel the need to hound you. Surely if you don't reply the first time get the hint. And who meets without seeing pic of person Rant Over."

I get the no thanks and leave it at that some guys must be a bit touchy

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

It's not just single men, couples and single women do exactly the same...there are just more men on here so probably seems like you're getting more off men...some people won't stop trying if they want something, use the filters to your advantage, that's what they're there for!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"It's not just single men, couples and single women do exactly the same...there are just more men on here so probably seems like you're getting more off men...some people won't stop trying if they want something, use the filters to your advantage, that's what they're there for! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some women whinge so much when they can block,filter or indeed say no thank you?

Is it because we're all meant to say awww poor you it must be terrible being a woman on here I don't know how you cope?

I don't find it terrible,I just use the filters when I don't want messages "

it's not rocket science is it really.

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