FabSwingers.com forum: Was leaving this site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had great fun on FAB

But the hate messages just got too much and was going to leave

But so many nice people on here convinced me to stay

There's really nice people on here especially the couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didnt even know.

what hate messages?

wat have you been doing? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you did leave you'd have come back!!

They all come back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done pleased your staying. Dont let the minority os spitefull trolls ruin your time here. Ignore them as they are ignorant bigots.

Stsy and enjoy your time with the vast majority of great swingers xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not use filters or simply hide your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried to leave but couldn't. I also got some really nice messages encouraging me to stay. x

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

"I've had great fun on FAB

But the hate messages just got too much and was going to leave

But so many nice people on here convinced me to stay

There's really nice people on here especially the couples

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Some people are so insecure in their self that they have to pick on others to make themselves feel better about their short comings. Block them and move on because like you say there are some really nice people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not for one min saying it's not true but I can't believe there are people on here that do this....totally disgusting, why bother coming on here if your not genuine, what could one possibly get out of being so fucking nasty, it's called cyber bulling and there is no place for it here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not for one min saying it's not true but I can't believe there are people on here that do this....totally disgusting, why bother coming on here if your not genuine, what could one possibly get out of being so fucking nasty, it's called cyber bulling and there is no place for it here

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I agree some people are just horrible thank god we are not all like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The block button is one of the best tools on fab IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some really nice people on here.

When I get abuse I take it as a compliment. They must be really sad I turned them down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few really nasty messages when I was on here before that upset me a lot but I blocked and moved on I haven't had any for a while but the way I look at it is they have nothing better to do. Don't leave because of them or they would have won. Good luck what ever you decide to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take control of your profile more & use your filters.

if it's single men being rude when rejected then block them and look for men yourself.

if it's woman sending them then block women.

don't let others get to you it's not worth it...!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Even if you did leave you'd have come back!!

They all come back. "

well.... they leave... then come back 7 days later and pretend it never happened... oh that was never me blowing off everyone with an insulting last post... honest guv!!!

some people stay for the fun, others for the forums.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was gonna leave and everyone said ." Well fuk off then " So I have stayed to spite them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can understand single guys begging OP to stay, but she isnt into couples, so what would they get out of it? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some very uncalled for messages over the years, mostly for a polite no thanks but some just out of the blue. People like this are sad and insecure and try to feel better by being rude and belittling others from the safety of behind their computers. It used to get to me but now I just tell them to get an adult to help replace the dummy they have clearly spat out and try the ceebebies website as this is a site for adults not silly little boys or some other sarcastic but polite reply belittling them but they're not clever enough to see it! Just hide now and then like I do and take a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rant over

Its the internet...it happens and its easy to deal with unless you have a very delicate and sensitive nature and want to take shit from a stranger who doesn't know you as personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had great fun on FAB

But the hate messages just got too much and was going to leave

But so many nice people on here convinced me to stay

There's really nice people on here especially the couples

We need sexy girls like you here xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention seeker thats all,blame everybody except themselves

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

lovely to read that selfless couples have persuaded a single female to stay on the site

bravo, bravo I say......

enjoy the site for you

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"lovely to read that selfless couples have persuaded a single female to stay on the site

bravo, bravo I say......

enjoy the site for you

Another thread that if the OP was a single man would be very different indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lovely to read that selfless couples have persuaded a single female to stay on the site

bravo, bravo I say......

enjoy the site for you

if the OP was a single man how different this thread would read!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"lovely to read that selfless couples have persuaded a single female to stay on the site

bravo, bravo I say......

enjoy the site for you

Another thread that if the OP was a single man would be very different indeed.

I would still be dripping with sarcasm

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I was gonna leave and everyone said ." Well fuk off then " So I have stayed to spite them

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"I was gonna leave and everyone said ." Well fuk off then " So I have stayed to spite them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was gonna leave and everyone said ." Well fuk off then " So I have stayed to spite them

That's the way to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lovely to read that selfless couples have persuaded a single female to stay on the site

bravo, bravo I say......

enjoy the site for you

Another thread that if the OP was a single man would be very different indeed.

I would still be dripping with sarcasm

can't beat a drop of sarcasm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im bashing 2 coconut shells together......the white knights are galloping along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lovely to read that selfless couples have persuaded a single female to stay on the site

bravo, bravo I say......

enjoy the site for you

Another thread that if the OP was a single man would be very different indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not use filters or simply hide your profile?

Some people like to moan and using filters would mean they have FA to complain about.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"The block button is one of the best tools on fab IMO

OP, if you get any more hate messages just block them and forget about them, plenty of nice folk around on here.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Oh how different the responses would have been if the op had balls instead of tits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh how different the responses would have been if the op had balls instead of tits!

Ha ha 100% right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was gonna leave and everyone said ." Well fuk off then " So I have stayed to spite them

I was actually just thinking about your forum post and how different attitudes are depending on the gender of the person threatening to leave....it's a joke.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well I've never had any hate mail. It seriously makes me wonder what others do.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

let me explain to all the non English folk. . . . .its like when Andy Murray wins wimbledon except in a swinging context . . .. .they cant help it.

x x X

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Well I've never had any hate mail. It seriously makes me wonder what others do.

I've been here six years, never shy away from giving my opinion yet never received any hate mail: not one!

Where am I going wrong?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I've never had any hate mail. It seriously makes me wonder what others do.

I was thinking that exact same thing....I must be doing something right after all

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've had a few throw dummy out comments but no hate mail...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I've never had any hate mail. It seriously makes me wonder what others do.

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I never get mail full stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well maybe a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few throw dummy out comments but no hate mail..."

Can't say we've been on the receiving end of hate mail either, which I'm surprised at

It must be pretty crap though.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

i receive lovely polite texts just so happens they always end in fuck off for 4days

x x X

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Never had a nasty message... We give a polite thanks but no thanks on accasion, and block straight away, dont wait for no come back! And it works

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You can also use filters to block certain people from mailing you, it won't always stop any alleged hate/abuse mails but it will mean you can initiate mails instead.

Any alleged abuse mails you can report from the message itself.

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u do decide to leave OP..I'll just let u know I've laminated ur pics for wanking purposes xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even if you did leave you'd have come back!!

They all come back. "

Lol.

They all just hv to announce to all and sundry that they are leaving first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh how different the responses would have been if the op had balls instead of tits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have that song running through my head... Please don't go, please don't go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found sean connery squatting at my front door.and beneath him a fucking huge stinking steamer of a jobby and he turns his head and says

"I was leaving this shite"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u do decide to leave OP..I'll just let u know I've laminated ur pics for wanking purposes xxxxx"

have you laminated mine, I don't want to be left out lol...?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u do decide to leave OP..I'll just let u know I've laminated ur pics for wanking purposes xxxxx

have you laminated mine, I don't want to be left out lol...?!

Do you really have to ask? This is pads we are talking about right?

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

"If u do decide to leave OP..I'll just let u know I've laminated ur pics for wanking purposes xxxxx"
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made me giggle bk to the subject in hand i prob have my haters but as i rarely get past ans five msgs before my brain starts to cry i never notice if i have nasty mail somewhere down the list ....

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Attention seeker thats all,blame everybody except themselves"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few throw dummy out comments but no hate mail...

Can't say we've been on the receiving end of hate mail either, which I'm surprised at

It must be pretty crap though."

i am just doing the final Edit and your first will be with you shortly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u do decide to leave OP..I'll just let u know I've laminated ur pics for wanking purposes xxxxx

have you laminated mine, I don't want to be left out lol...?!

Do you really have to ask? This is pads we are talking about right?

Ha ha very true

his posts make me laugh!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Put all your filters on and message the people you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u do decide to leave OP..I'll just let u know I've laminated ur pics for wanking purposes xxxxx

have you laminated mine, I don't want to be left out lol...?!

I've done better than that, from all the pics u have sent me, I have recreated a 3d version of ur face..ur make up gets ruined on a daily basis x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u do decide to leave OP..I'll just let u know I've laminated ur pics for wanking purposes xxxxx

have you laminated mine, I don't want to be left out lol...?!

Do you really have to ask? This is pads we are talking about right?

winkwankfacial4mywankbank x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u do decide to leave OP..I'll just let u know I've laminated ur pics for wanking purposes xxxxx

have you laminated mine, I don't want to be left out lol...?!

I've done better than that, from all the pics u have sent me, I have recreated a 3d version of ur face..ur make up gets ruined on a daily basis x"

You're a creative genius my friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had great fun on FAB

But the hate messages just got too much and was going to leave

But so many nice people on here convinced me to stay

There's really nice people on here especially the couples

What kind of hate messages ? You mean from guys you have shown no interest in, or are these just random people, firing abuse ?

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