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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Because there's some knobs out there who think any holes a goal!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive often thought that there are some secret larger girl fans,, and for some its a guilty pleasure but all guys deny it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol take that as all than

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love love love them there cuddler n better than feeling bone ive dated one or 2 im not ashamed x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't know....never been with anyone that won't be seen in public with me...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Here we go again, but I have to ask, define curvy?

A woman can be a size 8 and curvy

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"I don't know....never been with anyone that won't be seen in public with me..."

Me neither cos I can spot them a mile off but sadly there are some around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kim kardashian is curvy!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"kim kardashian is curvy!"
So is Kylie

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't really go out anywhere with them

And jay always holds my hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?"

We will....happily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is where bits go in and out, not straight up and down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am just here to shag, not get a gf lol x.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well fat than !!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

erm .. thats not always true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive often thought that there are some secret larger girl fans,, and for some its a guilty pleasure but all guys deny it "

Stop right there mrs. Plenty of us blokes like a full figure... and I'm sure many agree.....fellas? What you all saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually offer a paper bag to put over there head when they meet me socially,saves there embarressment when i push 2 chairs together and order 2 bigbreakfasts for myself

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Curvy, is where your fingertips define a contour.

Slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"ive often thought that there are some secret larger girl fans,, and for some its a guilty pleasure but all guys deny it "

I think there is a small minority that do have this as a fetish that they keep secret and express it here.

Most people I have met are very happy to be seen out in public with me. If they won't meet in public for a social then they won't get any further anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, a woman's size has never been an issue to me. It is more about how you connect with someone, and if you can find someone that is as pervy and has the same sex drive as you, then go for it. lol!

Joking aside, If someone won't go out with you in public, then get rid of them.

there are plenty of guys like me who know how to treat a woman right.

Be good to yourself, respect yourself and then other people will too.

And don't take no s**t from any guy.

good luck in finding some fun xx

Graham xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm finding that it's like a sexual bucket list to some men... sex out doors TICK, anal sex TICK, fuck a bbw TICK!

It's not that they are genuinely attracted to larger ladies it's that it's something they want to try!

Same with some women wanting bbc, not that they are physically attracted to black men, but they think it's some kind of fetish!

But as I say it's not all men/women, thankfully lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully that's not always true ....there are some men who would gladly go anywhere with a larger lady and not try to hide the fact they are with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy is where bits go in and out, not straight up and down "

Or out and out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding that it's like a sexual bucket list to some men... sex out doors TICK, anal sex TICK, fuck a bbw TICK!

It's not that they are genuinely attracted to larger ladies it's that it's something they want to try!

Same with some women wanting bbc, not that they are physically attracted to black men, but they think it's some kind of fetish!

But as I say it's not all men/women, thankfully lol"

I can't see why a sexual bucket list is a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy, is where your fingertips define a contour.

Slowly "

I'm liking that definition!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had anyone not want to be seen me with (and believe me there's been times where they should have been!)

As for those saying men see it as a fetish, yea there are quite a few on here that message saying 'i love larger ladies, I love your fat ass ect' but they are the ones I avoid. I meet people who want to meet me for me not because I fit into a label or category

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Curvy, is where your fingertips define a contour.

Slowly

I'm liking that definition! "

Definition, is the difference............ that makes the difference......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?"

The simple fact is people and thats both men and woman will have sex with people they find sexually appealing and that may range out of the realms of people they would be comfortable taking to a social event. That could be younger, older black white yellow skinned slutty sophisticated and a myriad of other perceived types.

Now a guy with tact might think that they would rather not be seen out with someone but only a tactless or cruel person would voice it. And I reiterate this is a cross gender thing and one if I am honest makes me feel a little uncomfortable with but then people are allowed choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being on various bbw forums and discussing this kind of thing before, I think this is more common for younger blokes who are still influenced by their mates.

But as you get older you get more balls to be yourself.

However some stay in the fat closet and keep it a secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had anyone not want to be seen me with (and believe me there's been times where they should have been!)

As for those saying men see it as a fetish, yea there are quite a few on here that message saying 'i love larger ladies, I love your fat ass ect' but they are the ones I avoid. I meet people who want to meet me for me not because I fit into a label or category "

You feeling better now after your breakage? Or shall I get my coat again?

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By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport

personally i think its all bollocks

i personally love BBWs . just the same as some girls love mussels or skinny men or women

if we all liked the same it would be pretty boring

this is why i love this site i can search for my preference and others can do the same

happy swinging folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally i think its all bollocks

i personally love BBWs . just the same as some girls love mussels or skinny men or women

if we all liked the same it would be pretty boring

this is why i love this site i can search for my preference and others can do the same

happy swinging folks "

Mostly right there although its not bollocks its what some think though it is a bit disrespectful.

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By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport

well the op is tarring every man with same brush thats why its bollocks

there are plenty of men that worship the fuller figure godless like i do

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By *udereMan
over a year ago

haringey

I love curvy women all my friends know its no secret as what i find attractive is nothing to be ashamed of.

Therefore i have no problem being out in public with a lady of that description, the problem is finding ones that are not ashamed to be seen out in public with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again, but I have to ask, define curvy?

A woman can be a size 8 and curvy"

very true

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?"

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

A fact many women on here ought to realise before they get too far up themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?"

Please dont tar all guys the same, I love curvy Ladies and happy to be seen anywhere with them, Last Night I was out for a curry with a very curvy Lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are out in public it means I didn't tie the knots tight enough.

Mwhahahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

A fact many women on here ought to realise before they get too far up themselves."

Yes there are some guys on here like that. Sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

Yes there are some guys on here like that. Sadly "

Thats sadly very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had anyone not want to be seen me with (and believe me there's been times where they should have been!)

As for those saying men see it as a fetish, yea there are quite a few on here that message saying 'i love larger ladies, I love your fat ass ect' but they are the ones I avoid. I meet people who want to meet me for me not because I fit into a label or category

You feeling better now after your breakage? Or shall I get my coat again? "

Having to send a sex toy back the day you get it its destroying to the soul.... Do not take the Mickey mister, a girl has needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they are out in public it means I didn't tie the knots tight enough.

Mwhahahaha!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if they refuse to meet in a public place now it know why

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By *0shadesOfFilthMan
over a year ago

nearby

Because some of us like bigger girls, there's some nice ones on here

And yes I would always be seen out

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley


"Thankfully that's not always true ....there are some men who would gladly go anywhere with a larger lady and not try to hide the fact they are with them "

yep I would be glad to accompany my partner anywhere no matter how big they are....If I find them beautiful fuck what everyone else thinks....

just need to find that elusive one........

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

A fact many women on here ought to realise before they get too far up themselves."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?"
god I am curvy size 14 ..... long legs and big tits and they love to be seen out with me..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had anyone not want to be seen me with (and believe me there's been times where they should have been!)

As for those saying men see it as a fetish, yea there are quite a few on here that message saying 'i love larger ladies, I love your fat ass ect' but they are the ones I avoid. I meet people who want to meet me for me not because I fit into a label or category "

Doesn't necessarily mean it's a fetish, I think it's more commonly known as your type!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had anyone not want to be seen me with (and believe me there's been times where they should have been!)

As for those saying men see it as a fetish, yea there are quite a few on here that message saying 'i love larger ladies, I love your fat ass ect' but they are the ones I avoid. I meet people who want to meet me for me not because I fit into a label or category

Doesn't necessarily mean it's a fetish, I think it's more commonly known as your type! "

There's liking curvy women and then there's the messages you can receive on here. There are times where it's rather obvious I could wear a paper bag and have a lobotomy and it wouldn't matter. Some guys just wanna fuck a fat chick to tick it off or because they think we are easy (and yes I've had messages saying big girls are always more fun/open minded ect)

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Maybe I've been lucky with the guys I've met on here and I've never felt that my size is or was an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah guys who have messaged me at times have made it out that im just a box that needs ticking..

Never fucked a ssbbw b4.. TICK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I've been lucky with the guys I've met on here and I've never felt that my size is or was an issue "

this for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't particularly have a type of woman I'm attracted to. However I would say I have always been drawn towards curvy bigger women. However if I have chosen to spend time with them and they have been willing to spend time with me, then I would always be proud to seen in public with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't particularly have a type of woman I'm attracted to. However I would say I have always been drawn towards curvy bigger women. However if I have chosen to spend time with them and they have been willing to spend time with me, then I would always be proud to be* seen in public with them "

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I love curvy women and get the chance to be seen with them as often as I can...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because they arent very confident and worry about what other people think.

they think it makes them look good to be seen with a fit woman.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"because they arent very confident and worry about what other people think.

they think it makes them look good to be seen with a fit woman."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if your like a blank of wood your not curvy ........ and you don't see that a lot do you . Its shape and not a size.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

My curves have curves. I've been roughly the same size all my adult life. I've yet to meet a boyfriend, partner, husband, playmate who hasn't been happy to be seen with me.

My meets were always social first and stated on my profile along with my dress size.

There are "straight" men who wouldn't have a social with a tv, I suppose it's how you look at it really.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm finding that it's like a sexual bucket list to some men... sex out doors TICK, anal sex TICK, fuck a bbw TICK!

It's not that they are genuinely attracted to larger ladies it's that it's something they want to try!

Same with some women wanting bbc, not that they are physically attracted to black men, but they think it's some kind of fetish!

But as I say it's not all men/women, thankfully lol"

What's wrong with having a fantasy?

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"ive often thought that there are some secret larger girl fans,, and for some its a guilty pleasure but all guys deny it

Stop right there mrs. Plenty of us blokes like a full figure... and I'm sure many agree.....fellas? What you all saying? "

I agree, i've ranged in size from a 26 down to my current 16/18 & i've never had a b/f who was ashamed to be seen outside with me, kissed me publicly etc etc. I think you've met some arses if that's your thought, such a shame xxx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"My curves have curves. I've been roughly the same size all my adult life. I've yet to meet a boyfriend, partner, husband, playmate who hasn't been happy to be seen with me.

My meets were always social first and stated on my profile along with my dress size.

There are "straight" men who wouldn't have a social with a tv, I suppose it's how you look at it really."

That is very true....I've been slim (size 10) from the age of 16 to 19....I had far less confidence then...Now it's a case of take me or leave me..I'm conscious of what I eat and have lost a stone as I don't want to get too big but over all I'm the most confident I've been in years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My curves have curves. I've been roughly the same size all my adult life. I've yet to meet a boyfriend, partner, husband, playmate who hasn't been happy to be seen with me.

My meets were always social first and stated on my profile along with my dress size.

There are "straight" men who wouldn't have a social with a tv, I suppose it's how you look at it really.

That is very true....I've been slim (size 10) from the age of 16 to 19....I had far less confidence then...Now it's a case of take me or leave me..I'm conscious of what I eat and have lost a stone as I don't want to get too big but over all I'm the most confident I've been in years "

agreed its nothing to do how fat, thin, tall or short you are its all about you and how you carry yourself as a person, in my humble opinion its all about personailty,

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

A fact many women on here ought to realise before they get too far up themselves."

A point I made some time ago: by virtue of being on this site, regardless of whether you look like Susan Boyle or Kate Moss SOME men will not be seen in public with you.

The sad thing is SOME women don't realise that.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Maybe I've been lucky with the guys I've met on here and I've never felt that my size is or was an issue "

Nor I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My curves have curves. I've been roughly the same size all my adult life. I've yet to meet a boyfriend, partner, husband, playmate who hasn't been happy to be seen with me.

My meets were always social first and stated on my profile along with my dress size.

There are "straight" men who wouldn't have a social with a tv, I suppose it's how you look at it really.

That is very true....I've been slim (size 10) from the age of 16 to 19....I had far less confidence then...Now it's a case of take me or leave me..I'm conscious of what I eat and have lost a stone as I don't want to get too big but over all I'm the most confident I've been in years "
"well...in my humble opinion...you still look gorgeous now!! x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

A fact many women on here ought to realise before they get too far up themselves.

A point I made some time ago: by virtue of being on this site, regardless of whether you look like Susan Boyle or Kate Moss SOME men will not be seen in public with you.

The sad thing is SOME women don't realise that."
For some its a sex site .......... people here are for nothing more then sex . And don't wish to know them or about them ... so would never wish to be seen in public its SEX.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think if a guy has 'issues' about being seen with this or that kind of person then its his problem!! we all have our preferances but it costs absolutely nothing yo be kind..polite and above all...non judgemental

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never been messaged by a guy who I thought has wanted to shag me as a tick box. Up until I had the internet every guy I had been out with weren't naturally attracted to big women. They where attracted to me as a person and generally I was the biggest person they had been with. I'm talking boyfriends not just shags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because there's some knobs out there who think any holes a goal!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

A fact many women on here ought to realise before they get too far up themselves.

A point I made some time ago: by virtue of being on this site, regardless of whether you look like Susan Boyle or Kate Moss SOME men will not be seen in public with you.

The sad thing is SOME women don't realise that.For some its a sex site .......... people here are for nothing more then sex . And don't wish to know them or about them ... so would never wish to be seen in public its SEX."

I agree! Apart from a social meet to start with I don't normally plan on being seen in public with someone on here.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Because there's some knobs out there who think any holes a goal!!"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

A fact many women on here ought to realise before they get too far up themselves.

A point I made some time ago: by virtue of being on this site, regardless of whether you look like Susan Boyle or Kate Moss SOME men will not be seen in public with you.

The sad thing is SOME women don't realise that.For some its a sex site .......... people here are for nothing more then sex . And don't wish to know them or about them ... so would never wish to be seen in public its SEX."

I agree, but you sometimes get the impression some want to be wined and dined and introduced to the parents before getting down to bumping uglies!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've never been messaged by a guy who I thought has wanted to shag me as a tick box. Up until I had the internet every guy I had been out with weren't naturally attracted to big women. They where attracted to me as a person and generally I was the biggest person they had been with. I'm talking boyfriends not just shags

"

This for me too. My boyfriends last girlfriend was a petite blonde German...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because there's some knobs out there who think any holes a goal!! "

Is that such a bad thing though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men I've met are seen in public with me. I'm a size 18

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"My curves have curves. I've been roughly the same size all my adult life. I've yet to meet a boyfriend, partner, husband, playmate who hasn't been happy to be seen with me.

My meets were always social first and stated on my profile along with my dress size.

There are "straight" men who wouldn't have a social with a tv, I suppose it's how you look at it really.

That is very true....I've been slim (size 10) from the age of 16 to 19....I had far less confidence then...Now it's a case of take me or leave me..I'm conscious of what I eat and have lost a stone as I don't want to get too big but over all I'm the most confident I've been in years "well...in my humble opinion...you still look gorgeous now!! x""

Thanks for the compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People live out their kinky dreams here so they like different things from their normal life. Like 20s man meeting 50s/60s woman for sex , Most would never wish to be seen out in public . Just have sex and go, most I bet would run a mile if they had too be seen in public .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lots of attention on here

But I think I am more conscious out in real clubs bars in public etc so try life myself away

Swingers clubs I am a little more ok so will wear dresses etc

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I've never been messaged by a guy who I thought has wanted to shag me as a tick box. Up until I had the internet every guy I had been out with weren't naturally attracted to big women. They where attracted to me as a person and generally I was the biggest person they had been with. I'm talking boyfriends not just shags

This for me too. My boyfriends last girlfriend was a petite blonde German... "
jay was married to a 5ft 6 size 10 blonde, then he met me

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

A fact many women on here ought to realise before they get too far up themselves.

A point I made some time ago: by virtue of being on this site, regardless of whether you look like Susan Boyle or Kate Moss SOME men will not be seen in public with you.

The sad thing is SOME women don't realise that.For some its a sex site .......... people here are for nothing more then sex . And don't wish to know them or about them ... so would never wish to be seen in public its SEX.

I agree! Apart from a social meet to start with I don't normally plan on being seen in public with someone on here."

An honest response!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No strings attached sex based on fantasy and sexual attraction doesn't have to be complex. If someone wants to have sex with you and you want to have sex with them, nothing else matters.

The moment one party wants more than that, or is insecure, it naturally becomes more complex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, a woman's size has never been an issue to me. It is more about how you connect with someone, and if you can find someone that is as pervy and has the same sex drive as you, then go for it. lol!

Joking aside, If someone won't go out with you in public, then get rid of them.

there are plenty of guys like me who know how to treat a woman right.

Be good to yourself, respect yourself and then other people will too.

And don't take no s**t from any guy.

good luck in finding some fun xx

Graham xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young."

Because to some regardless that they are on a sex site are old fashioned...I was brought up with very old fashioned morals etc...regardless if I'm going to shag a guy I still want to be treated with respect and curiosity...I also like a night out with a potential shag...if that's wrong then shot me...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young.

Because to some regardless that they are on a sex site are old fashioned...I was brought up with very old fashioned morals etc...regardless if I'm going to shag a guy I still want to be treated with respect and curiosity...I also like a night out with a potential shag...if that's wrong then shot me..."

Courtesy not curiosity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young."

It's called showing respect. If someone doesn't want to be seen with me why the heck would I want to have sex with him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young."

Sorry if I'm wrong, don't shoot me down but that smacks of no self loving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had anyone not want to be seen me with (and believe me there's been times where they should have been!)

As for those saying men see it as a fetish, yea there are quite a few on here that message saying 'i love larger ladies, I love your fat ass ect' but they are the ones I avoid. I meet people who want to meet me for me not because I fit into a label or category

You feeling better now after your breakage? Or shall I get my coat again?

Having to send a sex toy back the day you get it its destroying to the soul.... Do not take the Mickey mister, a girl has needs "

Aww you know me....I do like to take the piss a bit matey....you did sound rather vexed though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young.

Sorry if I'm wrong, don't shoot me down but that smacks of no self loving. "

They dont mean anything to me though, its just sex, makes a change from having a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no shame in being seen with a curvy woman, all women are beautiful so nobody should have any shame in being with them

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over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

A fact many women on here ought to realise before they get too far up themselves.

A point I made some time ago: by virtue of being on this site, regardless of whether you look like Susan Boyle or Kate Moss SOME men will not be seen in public with you.

The sad thing is SOME women don't realise that.For some its a sex site .......... people here are for nothing more then sex . And don't wish to know them or about them ... so would never wish to be seen in public its SEX.

I agree! Apart from a social meet to start with I don't normally plan on being seen in public with someone on here."

First meet for me is a social in a public place. After that I don't want to meet in public. It's called being discreet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young.

It's called showing respect. If someone doesn't want to be seen with me why the heck would I want to have sex with him? "

Presumably you'd only initially want to have sex with him because you are attracted to him and him with you for the same reason.

What's more important, that he finds you attractive or that his 'mates' find you attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?"

Why do people make sweeping statements slating a whole gender based on their own personal experience?

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

It's anybody who would make you feel uncomfortable that has the problem. If you like someone, be proud, show them off! Sexuality and self confidence is the most powerful, empowering thing in anyone, irrespective of shape or otherwise, in our opinion...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young.

It's called showing respect. If someone doesn't want to be seen with me why the heck would I want to have sex with him?

Presumably you'd only initially want to have sex with him because you are attracted to him and him with you for the same reason.

What's more important, that he finds you attractive or that his 'mates' find you attractive. "

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

A fact many women on here ought to realise before they get too far up themselves."
wow! Say it how it is sweet... Don't hold back!! Lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Why do people make sweeping statements slating a whole gender based on their own personal experience?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

A fact many women on here ought to realise before they get too far up themselves. wow! Say it how it is sweet... Don't hold back!! Lmfao "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have no shame in being seen with a curvy woman, all women are beautiful so nobody should have any shame in being with them "

All women are not beautiful so it's disingenuous of you to say so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young.

It's called showing respect. If someone doesn't want to be seen with me why the heck would I want to have sex with him?

Presumably you'd only initially want to have sex with him because you are attracted to him and him with you for the same reason.

What's more important, that he finds you attractive or that his 'mates' find you attractive.

"

everyone has their own standards and terms of play. I am a great person, and would be dammed if id ever be some guys dirty sleezy guilty pleasure. If he is not comfortable to openly and proudly admit to liking women of a certain size im simply NOT intested.

Im not talking about dating or anything other than NSA here but if he isnt accepting to himself of his own likes then why should i allow myself to be just a tick box for his fantasy

Would a proud gay man who is open to his family and friends then seek out fun with someone in the closet still?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young.

It's called showing respect. If someone doesn't want to be seen with me why the heck would I want to have sex with him?

Presumably you'd only initially want to have sex with him because you are attracted to him and him with you for the same reason.

What's more important, that he finds you attractive or that his 'mates' find you attractive. "

Well obviously, I don't and never would meet anyone I wasn't attracted to and if I thought the man I was meeting wasn't attracted to me then it would go no further than a social meet - which has happened in the past.

I'm not quite getting what you mean by his mates finding me attractive though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Would a proud gay man who is open to his family and friends then seek out fun with someone in the closet still? "

Yeah why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no shame in being seen with a curvy woman, all women are beautiful so nobody should have any shame in being with them

All women are not beautiful so it's disingenuous of you to say so! "

Everyone is beautiful to someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Because some men are more than happy to fuck an ugly, fat, and most importantly, willing bird but don't want anyone they know to find out.

A fact many women on here ought to realise before they get too far up themselves.

A point I made some time ago: by virtue of being on this site, regardless of whether you look like Susan Boyle or Kate Moss SOME men will not be seen in public with you.

The sad thing is SOME women don't realise that.For some its a sex site .......... people here are for nothing more then sex . And don't wish to know them or about them ... so would never wish to be seen in public its SEX.

I agree! Apart from a social meet to start with I don't normally plan on being seen in public with someone on here.

An honest response! "

Like all things, it depends on what you want physically and emotionally. It's about being honest with yourself and the person you're meeting.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?

Why do people make sweeping statements slating a whole gender based on their own personal experience?

"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young.

It's called showing respect. If someone doesn't want to be seen with me why the heck would I want to have sex with him?

Presumably you'd only initially want to have sex with him because you are attracted to him and him with you for the same reason.

What's more important, that he finds you attractive or that his 'mates' find you attractive.

Well obviously, I don't and never would meet anyone I wasn't attracted to and if I thought the man I was meeting wasn't attracted to me then it would go no further than a social meet - which has happened in the past.

I'm not quite getting what you mean by his mates finding me attractive though? "

I think it means that if his mates are going to take the piss out of him for dating a fat bird...then he is likely not to be seen out in public...that is a general _iew as I've never met a guys mates when I have met him on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no shame in being seen with a curvy woman, all women are beautiful so nobody should have any shame in being with them

All women are not beautiful so it's disingenuous of you to say so! "

You can't say that! It implies that not all women are beautiful!

You will be kicked out of The Sisterhood....

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I have no shame in being seen with a curvy woman, all women are beautiful so nobody should have any shame in being with them

All women are not beautiful so it's disingenuous of you to say so!

You can't say that! It implies that not all women are beautiful!

You will be kicked out of The Sisterhood.... "
lol

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"So why do men say they love curvy woman better but wont be seen in public with them ?"
not all men! Thats like saying not all men Wank!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young.

It's called showing respect. If someone doesn't want to be seen with me why the heck would I want to have sex with him?

Presumably you'd only initially want to have sex with him because you are attracted to him and him with you for the same reason.

What's more important, that he finds you attractive or that his 'mates' find you attractive.

everyone has their own standards and terms of play. I am a great person, and would be dammed if id ever be some guys dirty sleezy guilty pleasure. If he is not comfortable to openly and proudly admit to liking women of a certain size im simply NOT intested.

Im not talking about dating or anything other than NSA here but if he isnt accepting to himself of his own likes then why should i allow myself to be just a tick box for his fantasy

Would a proud gay man who is open to his family and friends then seek out fun with someone in the closet still? "

I agree everyone has their own terms of play. The men I meet seldom have "sub" on their profile and have never asked for a verification.

My time here was purely for mutual, enjoyable NSA sex. Playmates matched my meet criteria and a great time was had. In six years I've only had one person who behaved like an arse in public: I didn't even sit down!

I was looking for respectful playmates and that's when I found: Iooked for and expected nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get why it bothers women if a man they want to have sex with wouldnt want to be seen with them, especialy if they are very young.

It's called showing respect. If someone doesn't want to be seen with me why the heck would I want to have sex with him?

Presumably you'd only initially want to have sex with him because you are attracted to him and him with you for the same reason.

What's more important, that he finds you attractive or that his 'mates' find you attractive.

Well obviously, I don't and never would meet anyone I wasn't attracted to and if I thought the man I was meeting wasn't attracted to me then it would go no further than a social meet - which has happened in the past.

I'm not quite getting what you mean by his mates finding me attractive though?

I think it means that if his mates are going to take the piss out of him for dating a fat bird...then he is likely not to be seen out in public...that is a general _iew as I've never met a guys mates when I have met him on here..."

Ah right, got it now. Thanks Cheeky. I've never had that problem either. Wouldn't really want to bump into his or my mates if I was meeting for a social. Nosey buggers round here

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have no shame in being seen with a curvy woman, all women are beautiful so nobody should have any shame in being with them

All women are not beautiful so it's disingenuous of you to say so!

You can't say that! It implies that not all women are beautiful!

You will be kicked out of The Sisterhood.... "

I'll get over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who ate all the flys ? :-

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Who ate all the flys ? :- "
i've opened quite a few .... It that counts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because there's some knobs out there who think any holes a goal!!"

say but true.

I like both slim and curvy women and like to be see with both of them. it is the person that matter.

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over a year ago


"I've never had anyone not want to be seen me with (and believe me there's been times where they should have been!)

As for those saying men see it as a fetish, yea there are quite a few on here that message saying 'i love larger ladies, I love your fat ass ect' but they are the ones I avoid. I meet people who want to meet me for me not because I fit into a label or category "

Personaly I like the ones who are honest ! What I hate are the ones that say "you're not fat" WTF umm yer !!!! I am !!!

And in answer to your question for some men (not all) its social pressure to be seen to like the super model ! Just like media tells girls they should be thin !!!

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over a year ago


"I've never had anyone not want to be seen me with (and believe me there's been times where they should have been!)

As for those saying men see it as a fetish, yea there are quite a few on here that message saying 'i love larger ladies, I love your fat ass ect' but they are the ones I avoid. I meet people who want to meet me for me not because I fit into a label or category

Personaly I like the ones who are honest ! What I hate are the ones that say "you're not fat" WTF umm yer !!!! I am !!!

And in answer to your question for some men (not all) its social pressure to be seen to like the super model ! Just like media tells girls they should be thin !!! "

To be fair to some men what they see as been fat and what you see as been fat might now be the same. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flys ......spiderman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a fatty me!! Last a good few days! Yum!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female size is such an emotive subject that it often dominates the wider discussion. There are lots of reasons people choose not to 'publicise' their relationships.

Change your point of reference and sustitute the term 'curvy women' with young men, old women, black men, bi guys or girls, swingers! The list goes on and on.

The bottom line is if there is genuine attraction on both sides and the motivation is no strings sex, then insecurities around external factors shouldn't necessarily stop people acting on that real attraction without requiring some kind of external or public affirmation.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

because some are prepared to listen & believe every word someone says to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Presumably you'd only initially want to have sex with him because you are attracted to him and him with you for the same reason.

What's more important, that he finds you attractive or that his 'mates' find you attractive.

everyone has their own standards and terms of play. I am a great person, and would be dammed if id ever be some guys dirty sleezy guilty pleasure. If he is not comfortable to openly and proudly admit to liking women of a certain size im simply NOT intested.

Im not talking about dating or anything other than NSA here but if he isnt accepting to himself of his own likes then why should i allow myself to be just a tick box for his fantasy

Would a proud gay man who is open to his family and friends then seek out fun with someone in the closet still? "

I presume you know the story of Romeo and Juliet? Juliet may have been Romeo's secret, but I am sure he did not consider her either dirty or sleazy.

Unfortunately the insecurities of some guys mean they are simply not willing to butt up against peer pressure and the expectations of their 'circle' when the driver is no strings sex.

Some women need that. Other women just need to know he finds her genuinely attractive and desires her.

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