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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the most difficult one you have had to make so far in life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pepperoni passion or meat feast

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I find teh difficult decisions usually make themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Signing the paperwork to allow my son to have open heart surgery at 10 months old for an op that had never been done before in the hospital he was in. Nearly 29 years ago and all went well. Well after the next 6 ops

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Signing the paperwork to allow my son to have open heart surgery at 10 months old for an op that had never been done before in the hospital he was in. Nearly 29 years ago and all went well. Well after the next 6 ops "

Good decision then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Signing the paperwork to allow my son to have open heart surgery at 10 months old for an op that had never been done before in the hospital he was in. Nearly 29 years ago and all went well. Well after the next 6 ops

Good decision then "

As it happens if I had known then what I know now I would not have made that decision as what should have been 1 op ended up being 7.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Signing the paperwork to allow my son to have open heart surgery at 10 months old for an op that had never been done before in the hospital he was in. Nearly 29 years ago and all went well. Well after the next 6 ops

Good decision then

As it happens if I had known then what I know now I would not have made that decision as what should have been 1 op ended up being 7. "

oh . Best decision you could have made at the time given what you knew then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Signing the paperwork to allow my son to have open heart surgery at 10 months old for an op that had never been done before in the hospital he was in. Nearly 29 years ago and all went well. Well after the next 6 ops

Good decision then

As it happens if I had known then what I know now I would not have made that decision as what should have been 1 op ended up being 7.

oh . Best decision you could have made at the time given what you knew then "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Signing the paperwork to allow my son to have open heart surgery at 10 months old for an op that had never been done before in the hospital he was in. Nearly 29 years ago and all went well. Well after the next 6 ops "

That's a big big big decision to make at that time its good to see it went ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the most difficult one you have had to make so far in life?"

If I should carry on living an unhappy lie ! Or tell my hubby I want a divorce !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit moody thats one hell of a decision..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Signing the paperwork to allow my son to have open heart surgery at 10 months old for an op that had never been done before in the hospital he was in. Nearly 29 years ago and all went well. Well after the next 6 ops

That's a big big big decision to make at that time its good to see it went ok."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most Difficult.. hmmmm

Guess it was making a choice that has effected someone elses life..

So far its panned out well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the most difficult one you have had to make so far in life?

If I should carry on living an unhappy lie ! Or tell my hubby I want a divorce !!! "

Whats the worst outcome? If he loved you, would he not accept your unhappy and set you free and allow you to find happiness again elsewhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

havent made any.

as has been said, they tend to make themselves by their very outcome.

you know what they say, why pick a scab when they fall off themselves.

i tend to just jump when a decision is to be made, rather than carefully consider it, or rather i used to lol.

now that im living alone and i am the only one paying the bills, etc, then i tend to step back and take a little more time over things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the most difficult one you have had to make so far in life?

If I should carry on living an unhappy lie ! Or tell my hubby I want a divorce !!!

Whats the worst outcome? If he loved you, would he not accept your unhappy and set you free and allow you to find happiness again elsewhere? "

I did it in september! it was the right thing to do ,,,, very hard though ! And he is way to selfish to let me go !!! But time will tell just hope he finds someone to make him happy so he can leave and let me be free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the most difficult one you have had to make so far in life?

If I should carry on living an unhappy lie ! Or tell my hubby I want a divorce !!!

Whats the worst outcome? If he loved you, would he not accept your unhappy and set you free and allow you to find happiness again elsewhere?

I did it in september! it was the right thing to do ,,,, very hard though ! And he is way to selfish to let me go !!! But time will tell just hope he finds someone to make him happy so he can leave and let me be free "

well 7yrs on my mum is still trying to divorce my dad haha.. lets hope your hubbys not as much of a toss pot as my dad is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the most difficult one you have had to make so far in life?

If I should carry on living an unhappy lie ! Or tell my hubby I want a divorce !!!

Whats the worst outcome? If he loved you, would he not accept your unhappy and set you free and allow you to find happiness again elsewhere?

I did it in september! it was the right thing to do ,,,, very hard though ! And he is way to selfish to let me go !!! But time will tell just hope he finds someone to make him happy so he can leave and let me be free

well 7yrs on my mum is still trying to divorce my dad haha.. lets hope your hubbys not as much of a toss pot as my dad is "

Ahh I fear he is !!!! let's hope for a lottery win! Or a knight on a white charger to come save me !!! That would help!!!! .... Oh back to reality!!! Single beds and an atmosphere !!! But a clear conscience and freedom to live my own life out side the house

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is the most difficult one you have had to make so far in life?

If I should carry on living an unhappy lie ! Or tell my hubby I want a divorce !!!

Whats the worst outcome? If he loved you, would he not accept your unhappy and set you free and allow you to find happiness again elsewhere?

I did it in september! it was the right thing to do ,,,, very hard though ! And he is way to selfish to let me go !!! But time will tell just hope he finds someone to make him happy so he can leave and let me be free

well 7yrs on my mum is still trying to divorce my dad haha.. lets hope your hubbys not as much of a toss pot as my dad is "

7years wow I didn't know it was so difficult to part with someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the most difficult one you have had to make so far in life?

If I should carry on living an unhappy lie ! Or tell my hubby I want a divorce !!! "

I walked out 6 years ago, best thing I could have done. We have both moved on and are still friends. Was bloody hard though as I left with my car and 27p in my purse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Letting my preemie son go, rather than put him through any more agony

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

dumping someone that almost ruined my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Letting my preemie son go, rather than put him through any more agony "

Aww so sorry you had to go through that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Letting my preemie son go, rather than put him through any more agony "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was leaving a 10 year abusive relationship with a 5 year old child. With no confidence it took a long time to find the courage to leave. 11 years later and it was the best decision I've ever made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Letting my preemie son go, rather than put him through any more agony "

Hugs. Xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dumping someone that almost ruined my life "

surely thats the easiest decision you have ever made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To come back from Bulgaria, to try to get better, or to stay and see if I could get stronger there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Signing the paperwork to allow my son to have open heart surgery at 10 months old for an op that had never been done before in the hospital he was in. Nearly 29 years ago and all went well. Well after the next 6 ops "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Letting my preemie son go, rather than put him through any more agony "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having to give consent for the life support to be turned off for my Aunt.

Was Hobson's choice but very difficult for me.

I was closer to my aunt than I am to my Mother

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Leaving my dog behind with my husband when I left him and moved in with my boyfriend.

I'd had my dog since he was 7 weeks old but knew I couldn't bring him with me. Leaving him broke my heart.

Turns out it was a bad decision. Today I found out he couldn't cope and gave the dog away. The person who took him then passed him onto someone else to rehome I found out this morning when Oscar's pic was posted on Facebook looking for a home

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

For me Claire it was having to give my authorisation to allow the hospital to turn my mum's machines to be off. As an only child with no father.

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