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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Sexual conversations from the get go....do you prefer this or do you like to have a normal conversation that leads to the sexual side?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal conversation that leads to sexual side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't talk about it I get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexual conversations from the get go....do you prefer this or do you like to have a normal conversation that leads to the sexual side? "

Normal conversation first leading onto the sexual side

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By *ohnandLucyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Break the ice with a bit of social chat, then start the flirting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i don't talk about it I get on with it. "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal then leading on. Get to know that person a little first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat an see

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Brief normal convo then a 'what shall we do?' convo

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i might say hello first

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Normal chat, anyone that starts with sexual just gets ignored and notes added to their profile for when they message again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a big fan of sex talk... Prefer friendly banter and flirting... Leave the sexy stuff for in the flesh... For everything else there's 0871 haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood,, quite often i'll just delete sexual messages though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexual conversations from the get go....do you prefer this or do you like to have a normal conversation that leads to the sexual side? "

Depends on how strong the attraction is i suppose

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By *mokeynbubblyCouple
over a year ago

poole

A normal conversion which normally turns dirty very quickly if im involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i don't talk about it I get on with it. "

you luvre a chin wag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It bores the arse off me straightaway,I really can't be bothered to keep the conversation going,with people I know its fine as we also talk about lots of other things,but in a getting to know you way its not for me,theres a difference between discussing what your sexual likes and dislikes and providing a cyber wank service which lots seem to want

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Break the ice with a bit of social chat, then start the flirting..."

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to open with 'fancy a fuck' and then move into my chosen specialist subject of 'Jams and Preserves'

I get all the pussy at the W.I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexual conversations from the get go....do you prefer this or do you like to have a normal conversation that leads to the sexual side? "

I dont like overtly sexual chat when not knowing or met someone. I dont mind if ive already met them or chatted for a while. But dont like guys who dont talk about anything else but sex......it kills any form of conversation and becomes boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of normal chatting then a bit of flirting id the way I like to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i don't talk about it I get on with it. "

Then between sessions, you yack yack yack....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't do flirty or sexy talk : before, during or after sex

That applies in physical form, text or message

just makes me cringe or LOL when people try it with me

it all seems so insincere and cliched

'Naughty pics' also leave me pretty flat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of normal chatting then a bit of flirting id the way I like to go. "

Flirting i dont mind but dislike continous heavy sexual chat...bores me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking about in person

Beside discussing likes and dislikes there's not much dirty chat goes on from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of normal chatting then a bit of flirting id the way I like to go. "

Snap - I like this approach too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It bores the arse off me straightaway,I really can't be bothered to keep the conversation going,with people I know its fine as we also talk about lots of other things,but in a getting to know you way its not for me,theres a difference between discussing what your sexual likes and dislikes and providing a cyber wank service which lots seem to want"

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I can't do flirty or sexy talk : before, during or after sex

That applies in physical form, text or message

just makes me cringe or LOL when people try it with me

it all seems so insincere and cliched

'Naughty pics' also leave me pretty flat "

I have to agree it does nothing for me and I end up coming out with humour or to not respond to the message

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I was talking about in person

Beside discussing likes and dislikes there's not much dirty chat goes on from us"

It's rude to talk with your mouth full!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was talking about in person

Beside discussing likes and dislikes there's not much dirty chat goes on from us

It's rude to talk with your mouth full!

A"

Haha

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester

Need to know them first or may as well ring 0898

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

apparently even when I am trying to be good I still do innuendo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexual conversations from the get go....do you prefer this or do you like to have a normal conversation that leads to the sexual side? "

Fancy a shag?

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Sexual conversations from the get go....do you prefer this or do you like to have a normal conversation that leads to the sexual side?

Fancy a shag? "

Not tonight I'm washing my hair lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a big fan of sex talk... Prefer friendly banter and flirting... Leave the sexy stuff for in the flesh... For everything else there's 0871 haha x"

What's the rest of your phone number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal conversation that leads up to sexual.

Get to know the person, and if there's a mutual attraction and chemistry, keep going etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a big fan of sex talk... Prefer friendly banter and flirting... Leave the sexy stuff for in the flesh... For everything else there's 0871 haha x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on my mood really. 95% of the time normal chatting first shows me they have a little more to them just a couple sexual messages that end quickly because they are only used to saying the thing over and over. I like to ease into what we both like and take things from there...if done properly it can make things pretty interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think i've ever sent a message trying to be a bit serious let alone being all saucy from the outset. A slow build up is always nice.

But, there's always so much you can talk about before you actually get to it.

....be nice if i get a meet out from all the messaging. That rarely happens either too. I need to seal the deal somehow lol.

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By *eeree70Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Big turn off if the msg just jumps straight to it. Got to have some cheeky banter and flirting me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By nature I am polite so it would always be polite conversation with me. Of course I am happy to join in with some innuendo if the lady steers the conversation that way.

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