FabSwingers.com forum: Would you

By *ooking4you69 OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Meet up with a married man/woman if they were honest enough to say they were married but the spouses didn't know they played??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

Definitely not. Too much potential for drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo not, never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are the options again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No big no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont shoot me but, if I'm honest,yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I couldn't knowingly but I'm sure I've played with many unwittingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would ~ for me it's the person not their marital status that I'm interested in.

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

yes from us

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

It's an issue for their conscience and not mine.

Would never actively go after anyone specifically because they're married though.

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By *ooking4you69 OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Personally it doesn't affect our decision to meet up with them, each to their own I say..... Just wanted to see how many were for or against the idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met men at clubs who turned out to be married so I guess if we liked someone enough and they were honest we would consider it.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Personally I would not go out my way to meet a attached guy...I'm sure I've played with some in a club situation though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.If the marriage is that bad they should grow some bollocks and leave it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to me a year or so ago, I met a guy who said he was single, gave me no reason to think otherwise and we met a few times, pretty much became a fwb thing. I then received several abusive texts and a voicemail from his girlfriend. I was mortified I'd played with someone else's partner, god knows how she felt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes beggars cant be choosers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'd have a relationship with a married woman. I wouldn't go looking for it. On the flipside if I had a gf or a wife I wouldn't cheat.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Yes, and have, not only from this site but others as well. As previous posters have put, it's not my conscience that is in need of a prick(pardon the pun).

If it isn't me, they will get their fun elsewhere anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes from SP

No from JN

So, as a couple, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Meet up with a married man/woman if they were honest enough to say they were married but the spouses didn't know they played??

No. Z

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nope!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and have done.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Meet up with a married man/woman if they were honest enough to say they were married but the spouses didn't know they played??

No for sure.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Yes. I'd have a relationship with a married woman. I wouldn't go looking for it. On the flipside if I had a gf or a wife I wouldn't cheat."

this is interesting - if you were in a relationship you wouldn't cheat but how would you feel if your partner cheated? Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not. Too much potential for drama. "

I don't need the grief from an irate partner. I may have played unknowingly but at least then I could look them in the eye and say I didn't know. Might not mean anything to some, but means a lot to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met married men. would prefer single guys though. And yes I am married and cheating. Not proud of it but it's my choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was close to playing with a married woman one evening while out with mutual friends, however after a few drinks, after a little feel of her breasts and bending her over the patio table, knowing that she lived 3 doors away hubby was home looking after her children. I decided not too, well not in the friends garden. But did walk her home with one of the friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i would.

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes have done

And will do again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Neither would it be my wish to be lied to in order for me to sleep with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ultimately swinging is about sex. It is notimy job to be the moral compass for other adults relationships of which I know nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Knowing my luck, I'd get caught mid-coitus.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

yes ... having been married i see the other side of being in a sexless marriage so have no qualms . if she s seeking sex elsewhere she must have her reasons

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Not intentionally no but not everyone is truthful on here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...

Prefer single men though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have done in the past..

i was selfish, younger and hadn't been cheated on

i grew up n got cheated on, got myself some morals then. So no i wouldn't. Sometimes im even uncomfortable talking to married/attached guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I would not go out my way to meet a attached guy...I'm sure I've played with some in a club situation though "

Ditto.....you never know if the info they give you is correct anyways,

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"yes beggars cant be choosers."

You're weird but your honesty really makes me laugh at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

It's an issue for their conscience and not mine.

Would never actively go after anyone specifically because they're married though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm here for fun and friendship, not to help people cheat.

The downside is just how many attractive women there are who're already coupled up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what i do hate is the liars who have long term partners and deny their partner even when asked outright..

lose all respect for a person then.

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By *prilia boyMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes and have it depends on the others circumstances we shouldn't be so quick to judge

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

that'll depend on the risk for reward ratio . .. .tidy v hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and have it depends on the others circumstances we shouldn't be so quick to judge "

personally for me and in my eyes there is never a decent excuse to cheat

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By *heHoneymonstersCouple
over a year ago

cambridge

Nope, I love my husband and him me swinging is to enhance our already wonderful sex life, if one partner feels the need to sleep with anougher person without their spouse knowing in whatever situation then they need to work out whats wrong at home

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Yes and have done. "

me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and have it depends on the others circumstances we shouldn't be so quick to judge "

Here's the thing though...I don't care about the circumstances, I don't want to be involved. It's nothing to do with judgement (although yes I do personally dislike cheats), I just want guilt free simple fun. And lets be honest, there are usually 3 sides to every story...his, hers and the truth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I hate when they tell me all their marriage problems

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Yes, I have done in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No.

I question that stance regularly.

It's a no for the moment though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would (goodgirl) but bad boy wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done. Now she and I and her husband are all friends (no playing) Have been for a while now. Strange how things work out sometimes...

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