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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Strange place fabswingers.

I was chatting to a lady, we agreed to meet, date, time, the lot.

I booked the hotel room, she messaged to say that was fine, she knew the hotel and can't wait ...

Then she blocked me. ... Really ?? !!! ***

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

She changed her mind and was too scared to tell you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you found someone else to share the room with. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She changed her mind and was too scared to tell you..."

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Report the profile to admin...some get off on the chase once they have achieved the chase the thrill is no longer there....use the room and put a meet up I'm sure something will come up..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's happened to me before. Not sure why they'd go to all that trouble and waste their time but hey ho, the wonderful world of fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strange place fabswingers.

I was chatting to a lady, we agreed to meet, date, time, the lot.

I booked the hotel room, she messaged to say that was fine, she knew the hotel and can't wait ...

Then she blocked me. ... Really ?? !!! *** "

Sorry that has happened to you. I guess it's part of being on this site. Some people like to mess people around or maybe nerves got the better of her. Either way you've been let down and have a hotel room going to waste. Not nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy wind me up for bout month x coming down to stay at a hotel while working etc

Then just stopped x

Profile was gone etc

For some it is the chase n the fact they are chicken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strange place fabswingers.

I was chatting to a lady, we agreed to meet, date, time, the lot.

I booked the hotel room, she messaged to say that was fine, she knew the hotel and can't wait ...

Then she blocked me. ... Really ?? !!! *** "

Was she "meet in person" verified?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hotel is near Ascot/Bracknell for next Tuesday, 22nd.

Good idea twinkletoes, I will post a meet and see what happens.

Pity, she looked and sounded lovely and I am so in need of a pussy to ride my tongue for a few hours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you can either put the room to good use or be able to cancel it without losing any money

You are right,people can behave very strangely on here at times

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

In future either book a cancellable room or meet for coffee/drinks first and book the room then. That way if you meet and either don't click or are not what was expected you can walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had the same thing happen with a couple a few weeks ago.just one off those things and there loss!!!;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotel is near Ascot/Bracknell for next Tuesday, 22nd.

Good idea twinkletoes, I will post a meet and see what happens.

Pity, she looked and sounded lovely and I am so in need of a pussy to ride my tongue for a few hours!"

I never book a room until the person has arrived at the hotel, it's easy to just walk up and pay these days

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Hotel is near Ascot/Bracknell for next Tuesday, 22nd.

Good idea twinkletoes, I will post a meet and see what happens.

Pity, she looked and sounded lovely and I am so in need of a pussy to ride my tongue for a few hours!

I never book a room until the person has arrived at the hotel, it's easy to just walk up and pay these days "

Or to do it on your smartphone using the coffee shops WiFi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Her profile has vanished from the site now. ... Lesson learned.

The hotel has a cancel before 12 on day no charge rule so I will see if I can meet up with those I have met with before and if not cancel on the day.

Strange place indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ever meet in a hotel specifically I meet in the bar then go halves if they show. I generally only do hotel meets now if I'm staying in one for another reason.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Chatted - as in swapped messages?

Or chatted - as in spoke on the phone and knew for sure she wasn't a guy in their 60's?

There's a big difference!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP still hasn't answered whether said person was "meet in person" verified..

I'm guessing nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you book a meet for a hotel with someone you've never met I think you have to accept it's a calculated risk.

Maybe you said something that put her off. Maybe she read a forum post that made het feel you weren't for her after all. Maybe she decided that swinging wasn't for her... who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to happen to me all the time until I refused to send them my crb check.

Plain sailing now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit that if this happened to me...and it hasn't by the way...I'd be far too embarrassed to post about it in the Forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you book a meet for a hotel with someone you've never met I think you have to accept it's a calculated risk.

Maybe you said something that put her off. Maybe she read a forum post that made het feel you weren't for her after all. Maybe she decided that swinging wasn't for her... who knows?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes get that a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's terrible

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"She changed her mind and was too scared to tell you..."

Or she was a he.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strange place fabswingers.

I was chatting to a lady, we agreed to meet, date, time, the lot.

I booked the hotel room, she messaged to say that was fine, she knew the hotel and can't wait ...

Then she blocked me. ... Really ?? !!! *** "

To be honest, just let it go..

The closest Ive been to this situation is at the point of exchanging numbers with a lady, she didn't bother any further, I thought this rather odd but left it alone.

But to be blocked for doing nothing wrong is indeed downright rude.

An explanation would have be nice, I don't thinks it's worth chasing tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does leave me slightly bemused the suggestions that ot was a bloke, men really do get blamed for everything...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It does leave me slightly bemused the suggestions that ot was a bloke, men really do get blamed for everything..."

They do.

But let's be realistic. Nobody knows the details of the profile in question, whether it was verified, new, had pics (that weren't 'borrowed') or - as I questioned earlier - whether any actual real conversation occurred via phone to confirm gender.

It wouldn't be the first case of 'Martha' really being 'Arthur' now would it.

At the end of the day if all common sense failsafes have been employed and someone gets stood up - they deserve sympathy.

If not - then they must share some of the blame for the outcome (or lack of!) themselves!!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few men have told me similar stories, booking hotels then they dont turn up, sometimes they just like winding people up. Men, women and couples too.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's the nature of the swinging game I guess, that's why I don't do random meets and get to know someone before hand...I've never really been let down and on the one occasion I was I put it down to experience and moved on...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Quite a few men have told me similar stories, booking hotels then they dont turn up, sometimes they just like winding people up. Men, women and couples too."

.......... and maybe that is why "some" people have no pressure social meet before going to all that trouble.....

too many people think with their nether regions at times to go thru basic common sense checks and balances....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite a few men have told me similar stories, booking hotels then they dont turn up, sometimes they just like winding people up. Men, women and couples too.

.......... and maybe that is why "some" people have no pressure social meet before going to all that trouble.....

too many people think with their nether regions at times to go thru basic common sense checks and balances...."

spot on

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