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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right I'm in a bit of a confusion here, I'd like to know your views

I met a woman off here, say 18 months ago, and since then, I was looking on her profile on here, mainly the pictures, because well, everyone perv on everyone's pictures on her.

I wasn't messaging, or winking or liking her pics, but I assume she saw me on her "recently viewed" page

Can I ask, she blocked me because of it, me acting like a perv I guess

Is this harmless? Or is it a big annoyance for you couples/single ladies

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Just go into stealth mode and it won't happen again.

People could assume you are a pic collector just using their profile for walk bank material and they don't like it so block persistent lookers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the incite, I needed to look at it from anther persons view as I thought it was harmless

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Personally, I don't block someone for viewing me, when I actually look at who's viewed me I notice some seem to look,loads but never message and that's their choice. I also perve in stealth so no-one knows if I view them multiple times or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Stealth mode ey? If it's harmless, I may have to do so

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I rarely look at Who's Looked At Me so it would matter little to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode ey? If it's harmless, I may have to do so"

Go to 'Privacy' and then to 'Browsing Options' and there should be an option that says 'Hide Me'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stealth mode ey? If it's harmless, I may have to do so

Go to 'Privacy' and then to 'Browsing Options' and there should be an option that says 'Hide Me'.

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Cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I'm in a bit of a confusion here, I'd like to know your views

I met a woman off here, say 18 months ago, and since then, I was looking on her profile on here, mainly the pictures, because well, everyone perv on everyone's pictures on her.

I wasn't messaging, or winking or liking her pics, but I assume she saw me on her "recently viewed" page

Can I ask, she blocked me because of it, me acting like a perv I guess

Is this harmless? Or is it a big annoyance for you couples/single ladies"

People get uneasy if you constantly look and don't speak the biggest part of the site use the hide at looked at feature why not do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've blocked single guys from looking if they are local just because we don't want to be recognised nothing personal just didn't want to take the risk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've blocked single guys from looking if they are local just because we don't want to be recognised nothing personal just didn't want to take the risk."

Yes I understand discretion, but I had already met her! Just liked her pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've blocked single guys from looking if they are local just because we don't want to be recognised nothing personal just didn't want to take the risk."

you looked at me earlier

Stalker!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"We've blocked single guys from looking if they are local just because we don't want to be recognised nothing personal just didn't want to take the risk.

you looked at me earlier

Stalker! "

I've just looked at you 3 times so ner near ner ner ner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never block someone for just looking,find it quite funny seeing same people looking alot and never saying a word,not bothered if there local,personally im in stealth mode

I think some people do like to be seen looking,they like to be noticed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well really, she said only ever meet once so I thought there's no point contacting again, but I often like to get noticed looking

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People block for all kinds of seasons, the main one being to save you and them time and effort, if they notice you but theyre not interested. If I was blocked, Id just accept it at that, and find other things to put my focus on. Users see lack of compatibility, which may just be that they're taking a break, have different sexual needs etc.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I struggle to understand why people are bothered about being blocked: so what?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to understand why people are bothered about being blocked: so what?!! "

I presume its to do with rejection and not being wanted. In reality if they block you or not if they don't want to chat or meet you then they don't want to meet and you live with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not fussed about it, I just wanted to see if anyone else thought it was issue, couldn't care less, just bit curious

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

I suppose if she only wants to meet guys once, then she thinks you've had your fill, so no point looking at her, haha.... don't take it personally fella, we all get blocked sometimes, you just have to accept it, have a giggle to yourself and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont care who looks at my profile or how often thats what its there for.

most of the time anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe as you had met her before she was wondering why you kept looking at her and not saying hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've blocked single guys from looking if they are local just because we don't want to be recognised nothing personal just didn't want to take the risk."

You can block 'all single guys' from mailing but you can't block them from looking.

You can block a profile from looking but not groups of people. Unless you search for all local men and block every single profile.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"We've blocked single guys from looking if they are local just because we don't want to be recognised nothing personal just didn't want to take the risk."

I use a different tactic,

I m actually a single bi female, but I ve marked my profile as a single straight male, then no one looks at all,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you lost any sleep over it?

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