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By *pplecrunch OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yeovil

Is it wrong to be on a swinging site just to talk to others and read the forums?

I'm a single female and had a few nasty experiences, also a single mum so hard to sort out meets.

Help please and thank you x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

You can use this site any way you see fit.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

do YOU think its wrong?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Do what you want as long as you don't mislead people.

Enjoy.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Of course it's not....use fab as how you want to to use it...I rarely meet but here for the banter and forums if I fancy a meet then I'll arrange it...have fun on here we are not a bad bunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the site how you want to use it!!

Lots of people use the site for different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can use this site any way you see fit."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course not im sure theres others that also just like to chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Why would that be wrong? As long as you do not lead people into thinking that you want to meet them, you are free to perve.

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By *pplecrunch OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yeovil

I've just had a message from a guy calling me a few nasty names because I said I wasn't meeting and here due to friends I have made. He blocked me as well.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, there is nothing wrong as long as you make it clear on your profile you aren't looking to meet. That way no one can accuse you of wasting their time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a message from a guy calling me a few nasty names because I said I wasn't meeting and here due to friends I have made. He blocked me as well. "

Saved you the time it would've taken to block him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course it isnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a message from a guy calling me a few nasty names because I said I wasn't meeting and here due to friends I have made. He blocked me as well. "

His own problem not yours use the place as you will...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I've just had a message from a guy calling me a few nasty names because I said I wasn't meeting and here due to friends I have made. He blocked me as well. "

well if he blocked you is there any point letting it bother you? do what you want when you want

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I've just had a message from a guy calling me a few nasty names because I said I wasn't meeting and here due to friends I have made. He blocked me as well. "
And?

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By *ooking4you69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I've just had a message from a guy calling me a few nasty names because I said I wasn't meeting and here due to friends I have made. He blocked me as well. "

Don't let them get to you. A lot of guys seem to think it's a "meet and fuck me now" kind of site. Our block button gets used quite a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a message from a guy calling me a few nasty names because I said I wasn't meeting and here due to friends I have made. He blocked me as well.

Saved you the time it would've taken to block him."

Maybe best to counter block,in case he decides he hasn't got his venom out of his system

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Use the forum how you see fit, some people use it for meets, some like the social element and some may just use it as a way of talking to other people, just because its a swinging site doesn't mean every member has to swing, just use it to fulfill whatever purpose you want it for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in similar position, single mum, small town no transport etc, iv not met anybody yet, are a couple of guys I would like to meet, and if circumstances give me the opportunity then I will, but not looking for anybody else, it's not wrong, there are no rules that say being a member of this site means we have to meet! Thanks to a forum post I discovered the warm home allowance and got £135 off my gas and electric bill!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, as people say, its how you want to use it.

I'm hardly the poster boy for swinging. 3 meets in 3 years. I like the forums - and may even make it to a social one of these days!

I think I'm about ready for meet number four actually, I'll have to check and see when my annual service is due.....

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By *ibbyhunterCouple
over a year ago

keighley


"Use the site how you want to use it!!

Lots of people use the site for different things "

just don't look at some people's profile more than once with out saying hi ,, you could get called a profile stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use the site how you want to use it!!

Lots of people use the site for different things

just don't look at some people's profile more than once with out saying hi ,, you could get called a profile stalker "

Not necessarily, people view mine more than once as its so long it has to be read in chapters.

Im thinking of putting it out as a free e-book...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is wrong, you should be out banging everyone who asks otherwise you are just a time waster

Opinionated of Orpington

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Of course it's not wrong.... there isn't a right or wrong in this type of thing. But may be you should ask yourself 'why'?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is it wrong to be on a swinging site just to talk to others and read the forums?

I'm a single female and had a few nasty experiences, also a single mum so hard to sort out meets.

Help please and thank you x"

if one of us said it was wrong what would you do?

Use the site exactly as you want and only be influenced by others to the good.

Welcome and enjoy.

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By *icple123Couple
over a year ago

st albans


"I've just had a message from a guy calling me a few nasty names because I said I wasn't meeting and here due to friends I have made. He blocked me as well.

Saved you the time it would've taken to block him.

Maybe best to counter block,in case he decides he hasn't got his venom out of his system "
. agree with this block button can be very handy and feel free to use the site as you see fit! Perv away, chat, read the forums whatever you want

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