FabSwingers.com forum: Regulars?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've found that I am definitely part of the quality over quantity club. But i'm finding it a little hard to find genuine women who are after the same, and have been verified in some way! So I'd like to hear some stories of people who have found regular buddies on here and how it started! People who are looking for the same are also welcome to comment!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I brought him off ebay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found they just naturally occur over time,its not something you can make happen

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been looking for years! And it seems to me, around here, most men prefer quantity!

Oh well, will keep my fingers crossed as usual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I brought him off ebay

Free P&P?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found they just naturally occur over time,its not something you can make happen"

This... I also think, some you just instantly click with.. And they seem to be on your wavelength

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It started with a kiss!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I brought him off ebay

Free P&P?"

No....

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I had a few regular friends, then a FB - and now a partner.

I didn't go looking - it just happened.

Guess I'm just lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a year of this, not planned... No drama.

It ran its course... Im currently auditioning for a new regular

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

On a more serious note I prefer quality over quantity...I rarely meet so not really looked for regular however it would be nice to meet someone you click with on a friendship level and have fun also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I brought him off ebay

I searched eBay for you but could only find a lamb cutlet in stockings

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I brought him off ebay

I searched eBay for you but could only find a lamb cutlet in stockings

I do worry about you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a threesome and it just sort of happened from there its been nearly a year of good and bad times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I brought him off ebay

I searched eBay for you but could only find a lamb cutlet in stockings

I do worry about you...

it was a very nice lamb cutlet but post and packing was a rip off

... and thank you for worrtinh? My social worker said I was special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I brought him off ebay

bought....

sorry, thats another for the 'gets on my tits' thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were very lucky the first guy we ever met has become a very good friend with lots of regular meets and hopefully many more in the future. Nearly every other meet we have had have just been social, think im too bloody fussy

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I met someone 3.5 years ago and we clicked straight away and have been seeing each other regularly ever since. Circumstances have changed unfortunately, so I too am looking for a new FWB!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have found they just naturally occur over time,its not something you can make happen"

I guess that does make sense.

I'm hoping I attracted similar minded people to this thread, so let me ask another question: When i find women who have like 5 different verification's every month for several months, I find it to be a proper turn off

. Do other people feel the same then? Whats your verification limit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found they just naturally occur over time,its not something you can make happen

I guess that does make sense.

. Do other people feel the same then? Whats your verification limit?

But what are the veris for? Socials or full on marathon sex sessions with five blokes and a cucumber? Veris can be very misleading

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On a more serious note I prefer quality over quantity...I rarely meet so not really looked for regular however it would be nice to meet someone you click with on a friendship level and have fun also

Thats exactly the sort of thing i'm looking for! Someone to share all the dirty secrets with, but also someone to just enjoy a drink or coffee with, perhaps some touching and rubbing under the table! Not always just a shag and out!

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

Quality over quantity any day.

Thats until you find that regular partner then you go balls out for the quantity as you know it will be quality every time

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

my regular friends just happened. Didn't go looking, just met socially and then kept meeting.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

"I have found they just naturally occur over time,its not something you can make happen"

this completely. When I meet, it's with the intention of there being future meets but just because you get on socially doesn't always mean you're compatible in sex. I've had meets that didn't get past 1 play session because that spark, although there when chatting socially, just wasn't in play.

My best friend is a former partner I met on here, neither planned or expected the level of friendship we have before meeting.

I've also got play friends on here that I've known for a few years now and though we don't meet that often, again, I don't think we ever expected to be friends as long as we have been

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I brought him off ebay

bought....

sorry, thats another for the 'gets on my tits' thread lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're the ones I can't get enough of x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I brought him off ebay

I read that as, you 'brought him off' then went shopping for shoes.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

Yep quality for me too. I've met some great cpls in my time and the play just gets better and better as you discover each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer regular meets and although it's early days, so far so good. I have meet a few people who I've clicked with socially but really didn't do it for me sexually. The trouble with this is that you don't know until you try - unless that is anyone else has a different approach?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like variety. Just as well, as one visit from me is normally enough to last most peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too greedy ( good girl) lol no seriously we are hoping to meet people regularly who we click with but it's trial and error had a few in the past then took a break for a while it's like starting over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely quality, it's so different being with someone you connect with . Well for me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a regular 18 yo and now its moved to something more x I wasnt even looking either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"play just gets better and better as you discover each other x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with most comments on here.

Finding someone you connect with is so much more fun than just random one offs. Its the banter, the getting to know what makes them tick that I find most appealing.

It's more relaxing and I feel a lot more comfortable and able to enjoy myself with people with whom I have built up a relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Quite decent insight thanks to all!

I think I might be having an issue because of my age range.. perhaps I should be looking for a more mature woman? Any thoughts on that? Or am I just stereotyping younger people?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I have found a few regular buddies. The first thing I guess is ...none of them use phrases like "quality over quantity".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got mine from Anne Summers, even got a free pump and puncture repair kit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for those who share the same sense of humour as me and can bounce of my cheeky conversations. If they can do that, i know they're for keeps.

I rarely meet off here but when i do - i love a good laugh, cheeky conversations and some good sex.

...i know not everyone is looking for the same thing as me. And i'm not really what everyone looks for in terms of appearance and so forth. But, i've found some that like me for me and we have met regularly and has been fab!

So, just let it happen naturally.

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