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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being German I know that I am expected to be somewhat "inflexible, stroppy, lacking a sense of humour but always running on time"

What stereotypes do you think the "vanilla" population would put on us swingers?

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By *eprobatepairCouple
over a year ago

london

Hawaiian shirt, moustache, medallion, hairy chest, Jaguar convertible.

And the men are worse.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Car keys in bowls.

Dull middle-ages white collar workers wearing rubberwear as they pass around a bowl of cheesey nibbles at a house party gathering.

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By *eprobatepairCouple
over a year ago

london


"Car keys in bowls.

Dull middle-ages white collar workers wearing rubberwear as they pass around a bowl of cheesey nibbles at a house party gathering.

"

You've been to the same parties as us then lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Car keys in bowls.

Dull middle-ages white collar workers wearing rubberwear as they pass around a bowl of cheesey nibbles at a house party gathering.

You've been to the same parties as us then lol "

You never know – I may well have …. But I was just thinking of the sketches you see in UK comedy, primarily one from League of Gentlemen.

People often say it is wrong to stereotype yet so much humour is based on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Car keys in bowls.

Dull middle-ages white collar workers wearing rubberwear as they pass around a bowl of cheesey nibbles at a house party gathering.

You've been to the same parties as us then lol

You never know – I may well have …. But I was just thinking of the sketches you see in UK comedy, primarily one from League of Gentlemen.

People often say it is wrong to stereotype yet so much humour is based on it."

TV programs like Allo Allo are based entirely on stereotyping and they are really funny - so while I try not to type-cast people at a personal level, I find the archetypal stereotypes amusing. Its a matter of remaining aware of them, isnt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perverts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"perverts"

who - us or the vanilla ones calling us pervs?

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

devients

no morals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"perverts

who - us or the vanilla ones calling us pervs?"

they'd consider us perverts, i know because that's precisely what I though when I first visited, then was thankfully suprised to find it's full of people just like me...perverts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mingers

Fat

Full of STD's

Perverts

Sluts

Slags

Who is the father of their kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mingers

Fat

Full of STD's

Perverts

Sluts

Slags

Who is the father of their kids

"

...this reads like you're pm's...did you copy and paste it??

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

[Removed by poster at 09/05/10 17:04:08]

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"Mingers

Fat

Full of STD's

Perverts

Sluts

Slags

Who is the father of their kids

"

i didnt know jeremy was on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mingers

Fat

Full of STD's

Perverts

Sluts

Slags

Who is the father of their kids

i didnt know jeremy was on "

ahhh, the only thing missig from the weekend...damn itv, damn it to hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mingers

Fat

Full of STD's

Perverts

Sluts

Slags

Who is the father of their kids

...this reads like you're pm's...did you copy and paste it??"

Why should i copy and paste it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mingers

Fat

Full of STD's

Perverts

Sluts

Slags

Who is the father of their kids

"

And what would they say about the women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy!!!!!!

That's what my workmates think... If only they knew I'm more choosy now than I have ever been in my very long life lol...

Oh and another dirty, they expect us all to give up washing because we have so much sex!!!

I sometimes want to correct them but instead I smile and shake my Head

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Car keys in bowls.

Dull middle-ages white collar workers wearing rubberwear as they pass around a bowl of cheesey nibbles at a house party gathering.

"

damn it knew we were doing something wrong

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I reckon they think we all sit round drinking hot chocolate all day

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"Easy!!!!!!

That's what my workmates think... If only they knew I'm more choosy now than I have ever been in my very long life lol...

Oh and another dirty, they expect us all to give up washing because we have so much sex!!!

I sometimes want to correct them but instead I smile and shake my Head"

really !!! mind you in a way the way we bitch about each other sometimes you cant really expect vanillas to have a good word for us if we dont have one for ourselves eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon they think we all sit round drinking hot chocolate all day"

.. One day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you'd be surprised what a room full of men talk about each day lol

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"Easy!!!!!!

That's what my workmates think... If only they knew I'm more choosy now than I have ever been in my very long life lol...

Oh and another dirty, they expect us all to give up washing because we have so much sex!!!

I sometimes want to correct them but instead I smile and shake my Head

really !!! mind you in a way the way we bitch about each other sometimes you cant really expect vanillas to have a good word for us if we dont have one for ourselves eh

"

This is why I go to clubs mostly and not JUST for socials

What you hear folf say about others at socials would make your hair curl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Easy!!!!!!

That's what my workmates think... If only they knew I'm more choosy now than I have ever been in my very long life lol...

Oh and another dirty, they expect us all to give up washing because we have so much sex!!!

I sometimes want to correct them but instead I smile and shake my Head

really !!! mind you in a way the way we bitch about each other sometimes you cant really expect vanillas to have a good word for us if we dont have one for ourselves eh

This is why I go to clubs mostly and not JUST for socials

What you hear folf say about others at socials would make your hair curl

"

That must why mine is really curly;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating! "

you reminded me - I watched a program on hedonism about 10 years ago while still married - and both my ex (who is a reasonable and fun loving man) and I were a bit shocked, too, especially with the fetish side of things they showed.

Today I actually feel a bit sad for those Vanillas who could have some fun but wont allow themselves for outdated old-fashioned and useless guilt trips.

Now how perspectives can change over the years, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating!

you reminded me - I watched a program on hedonism about 10 years ago while still married - and both my ex (who is a reasonable and fun loving man) and I were a bit shocked, too, especially with the fetish side of things they showed.

Today I actually feel a bit sad for those Vanillas who could have some fun but wont allow themselves for outdated old-fashioned and useless guilt trips.

Now how perspectives can change over the years, eh? "

I have the same line for men outside this site that question why i'm still single; I tell them to ask themselves the question as to why they're not still single in ten years time when they find they're married and still not getting a blow job!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating!

you reminded me - I watched a program on hedonism about 10 years ago while still married - and both my ex (who is a reasonable and fun loving man) and I were a bit shocked, too, especially with the fetish side of things they showed.

Today I actually feel a bit sad for those Vanillas who could have some fun but wont allow themselves for outdated old-fashioned and useless guilt trips.

Now how perspectives can change over the years, eh?

I have the same line for men outside this site that question why i'm still single; I tell them to ask themselves the question as to why they're not still single in ten years time when they find they're married and still not getting a blow job! "

Do you get blow jobs on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating!

you reminded me - I watched a program on hedonism about 10 years ago while still married - and both my ex (who is a reasonable and fun loving man) and I were a bit shocked, too, especially with the fetish side of things they showed.

Today I actually feel a bit sad for those Vanillas who could have some fun but wont allow themselves for outdated old-fashioned and useless guilt trips.

Now how perspectives can change over the years, eh?

I have the same line for men outside this site that question why i'm still single; I tell them to ask themselves the question as to why they're not still single in ten years time when they find they're married and still not getting a blow job!

Do you get blow jobs on here?"

there are all kinds of employment opportunities onhere, as long as you have the right skills and tools required for the post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating!

you reminded me - I watched a program on hedonism about 10 years ago while still married - and both my ex (who is a reasonable and fun loving man) and I were a bit shocked, too, especially with the fetish side of things they showed.

Today I actually feel a bit sad for those Vanillas who could have some fun but wont allow themselves for outdated old-fashioned and useless guilt trips.

Now how perspectives can change over the years, eh?

I have the same line for men outside this site that question why i'm still single; I tell them to ask themselves the question as to why they're not still single in ten years time when they find they're married and still not getting a blow job!

Do you get blow jobs on here?"

I have had more blow jobs in vanilla world than swinging world.

Drink has a lot to answer for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating!

you reminded me - I watched a program on hedonism about 10 years ago while still married - and both my ex (who is a reasonable and fun loving man) and I were a bit shocked, too, especially with the fetish side of things they showed.

Today I actually feel a bit sad for those Vanillas who could have some fun but wont allow themselves for outdated old-fashioned and useless guilt trips.

Now how perspectives can change over the years, eh?

I have the same line for men outside this site that question why i'm still single; I tell them to ask themselves the question as to why they're not still single in ten years time when they find they're married and still not getting a blow job!

Do you get blow jobs on here?

I have had more blow jobs in vanilla world than swinging world.

Drink has a lot to answer for

"

Perhaps you should check out your tackle, i hear women are a lot more particular when they're sober

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating!

you reminded me - I watched a program on hedonism about 10 years ago while still married - and both my ex (who is a reasonable and fun loving man) and I were a bit shocked, too, especially with the fetish side of things they showed.

Today I actually feel a bit sad for those Vanillas who could have some fun but wont allow themselves for outdated old-fashioned and useless guilt trips.

Now how perspectives can change over the years, eh?

I have the same line for men outside this site that question why i'm still single; I tell them to ask themselves the question as to why they're not still single in ten years time when they find they're married and still not getting a blow job!

Do you get blow jobs on here?

I have had more blow jobs in vanilla world than swinging world.

Drink has a lot to answer for

"

When I blow into my vanilla milkshake drink it always goes frothier and all over the place...been told to suck harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating!

you reminded me - I watched a program on hedonism about 10 years ago while still married - and both my ex (who is a reasonable and fun loving man) and I were a bit shocked, too, especially with the fetish side of things they showed.

Today I actually feel a bit sad for those Vanillas who could have some fun but wont allow themselves for outdated old-fashioned and useless guilt trips.

Now how perspectives can change over the years, eh?

I have the same line for men outside this site that question why i'm still single; I tell them to ask themselves the question as to why they're not still single in ten years time when they find they're married and still not getting a blow job!

Do you get blow jobs on here?

I have had more blow jobs in vanilla world than swinging world.

Drink has a lot to answer for

Perhaps you should check out your tackle, i hear women are a lot more particular when they're sober "

Tell me about it. Beer googles are dangerous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating!

you reminded me - I watched a program on hedonism about 10 years ago while still married - and both my ex (who is a reasonable and fun loving man) and I were a bit shocked, too, especially with the fetish side of things they showed.

Today I actually feel a bit sad for those Vanillas who could have some fun but wont allow themselves for outdated old-fashioned and useless guilt trips.

Now how perspectives can change over the years, eh?

I have the same line for men outside this site that question why i'm still single; I tell them to ask themselves the question as to why they're not still single in ten years time when they find they're married and still not getting a blow job!

Do you get blow jobs on here?

I have had more blow jobs in vanilla world than swinging world.

Drink has a lot to answer for

Perhaps you should check out your tackle, i hear women are a lot more particular when they're sober

Tell me about it. Beer googles are dangerous "

bring out the bobfoc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating!

you reminded me - I watched a program on hedonism about 10 years ago while still married - and both my ex (who is a reasonable and fun loving man) and I were a bit shocked, too, especially with the fetish side of things they showed.

Today I actually feel a bit sad for those Vanillas who could have some fun but wont allow themselves for outdated old-fashioned and useless guilt trips.

Now how perspectives can change over the years, eh?

I have the same line for men outside this site that question why i'm still single; I tell them to ask themselves the question as to why they're not still single in ten years time when they find they're married and still not getting a blow job!

Do you get blow jobs on here?

I have had more blow jobs in vanilla world than swinging world.

Drink has a lot to answer for

Perhaps you should check out your tackle, i hear women are a lot more particular when they're sober

Tell me about it. Beer googles are dangerous

bring out the bobfoc"

TBH i preferred Knight Rider.

A much better looking chassis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating!

you reminded me - I watched a program on hedonism about 10 years ago while still married - and both my ex (who is a reasonable and fun loving man) and I were a bit shocked, too, especially with the fetish side of things they showed.

Today I actually feel a bit sad for those Vanillas who could have some fun but wont allow themselves for outdated old-fashioned and useless guilt trips.

Now how perspectives can change over the years, eh?

I have the same line for men outside this site that question why i'm still single; I tell them to ask themselves the question as to why they're not still single in ten years time when they find they're married and still not getting a blow job!

Do you get blow jobs on here?

I have had more blow jobs in vanilla world than swinging world.

Drink has a lot to answer for

Perhaps you should check out your tackle, i hear women are a lot more particular when they're sober

Tell me about it. Beer googles are dangerous

bring out the bobfoc

TBH i preferred Knight Rider.

A much better looking chassis."

i think there's two of them on this site...are they aware of your interest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sad, pathetic women with low self esteem allowing their husbands to pimp them out for their own gratification.

Ugly men who happened upon women of low self esteem who couldn't believe their luck!

Saw a programme on tv about swinging: "shocked" by how suburban they all were and "normal".

Didn't give it another thought until I divorced and discovered adult dating!

you reminded me - I watched a program on hedonism about 10 years ago while still married - and both my ex (who is a reasonable and fun loving man) and I were a bit shocked, too, especially with the fetish side of things they showed.

Today I actually feel a bit sad for those Vanillas who could have some fun but wont allow themselves for outdated old-fashioned and useless guilt trips.

Now how perspectives can change over the years, eh?

I have the same line for men outside this site that question why i'm still single; I tell them to ask themselves the question as to why they're not still single in ten years time when they find they're married and still not getting a blow job!

Do you get blow jobs on here?

there are all kinds of employment opportunities onhere, as long as you have the right skills and tools required for the post!"

Equal opportunities?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mingers

Fat

Full of STD's

Perverts

Sluts

Slags

Who is the father of their kids

"

Not forgetting that we can't possibly love our partners to want to do it in the first place!

XXXX

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

How do you stop your girlfriend giving you a blow-job?

Marry Her!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you stop your girlfriend giving you a blow-job?

Marry Her!!!"

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"Hawaiian shirt, moustache, medallion, hairy chest, Jaguar convertible.

And the men are worse."

pmsl

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

.


"Hawaiian shirt, moustache, medallion, hairy chest, Jaguar convertible.

And the men are worse.

pmsl "

You saw my meet Friday lol

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"Hawaiian shirt, moustache, medallion, hairy chest, Jaguar convertible.

And the men are worse.

pmsl

You saw my meet Friday lol"

its the maracas and mexican mustache i laffed at lol

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire


"

Drink has a lot to answer for

"

Did it take away the taste?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Drink has a lot to answer for

Did it take away the taste?"

So are stereotypes a practical way of typecasting people, habits, cultures, a fuel for fun and humour and as such justified ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

donald and jaqueline from the tv series benidorm xx

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