FabSwingers.com forum: Reading profiles.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you guys out there think that someone contacting you should read your profile before contacting you?

If you have made specific choices in your profile, do you think that people should respect those choices?

We think they should respect your choices and go and find compatible people. After all, we all want what we want!

We just think, if they aren't read, what the heck is the point of a profile! We always read profiles before contacting people and we think that is the only respectful way to behave.

Your thoughts?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

In an ideal world... yes they would read and pay heed to a profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say a good fifty per cent of blokes that contact me haven't gone beyond the pics. And as for the couples, well I specifically preclude couples and I still get four or five messages a day from them. Thinking of taking everything off profile including pics and see what happens, but then again what's the point? Sydney university would never pay for that bit of research would they?

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

"Do you guys out there think that someone contacting you should read your profile before contacting you?

If you have made specific choices in your profile, do you think that people should respect those choices?

We think they should respect your choices and go and find compatible people. After all, we all want what we want!

We just think, if they aren't read, what the heck is the point of a profile! We always read profiles before contacting people and we think that is the only respectful way to behave.

Your thoughts?"

totally agree. People should not contact if they dont match the requirements unless its to answer a question privately from the forums for example.

I always avoid the profiles that state they dont make cake and that they dont like a superhero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are certain things on a profile that are often left unsaid.

Sometimes these don't come out until further down the line

Absolutes like sexual preferences ie: straight should be adhered to. I can understand more flexibility with age but I wouldn't bother contacting somebody whose preferences I did not meet for a meet.

I might contact them for other reasons ie a funny post

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

it would be nice if people read profiles but lots don't. It's easy to identify them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should also read forum posts carefully too!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People should also read forum posts carefully too!!!!!!!!"

That made me chuckle, bet it goes straight over the head tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we have just been extremely lucky since joining.

But neither of us can remember receiving a message from somebody where it was obvious they have not read our profile.

Well it's either lucky or they don't like the look/sound of us lol

D + M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read the profile and if I'm not what they are looking for then fair enough as I know I can't be everybody's cup of tea....before I click off profile always have a quick perv at pics as would be rude not too as that's why they are there ..to be admired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People should also read forum posts carefully too!!!!!!!!

That made me chuckle, bet it goes straight over the head tho

Probably!! At least others will know what I mean. Isn't there a saying about practicing what you preach???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People should also read forum posts carefully too!!!!!!!!

That made me chuckle, bet it goes straight over the head tho

Probably!! At least others will know what I mean. Isn't there a saying about practicing what you preach???"

There sure is

Double standards comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People should also read forum posts carefully too!!!!!!!!

That made me chuckle, bet it goes straight over the head tho

Probably!! At least others will know what I mean. Isn't there a saying about practicing what you preach???

There sure is

Double standards comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok apologies we got a little excited and got confused over who used the word stupid! We had so many people getting outraged at what we said we were confused ourselves. Mistakes are made.

So we would appreciate it now if we can drop this and you can accept the apology in the way it is given!

We have started this thread so we can put over our opinion rather than get slated in someone else's.

Take it easy and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be arsed to read the whole thread just surprised you started this seeing as how you were going to drop the subject after the single guys thread in swingers chat forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't be arsed to read the whole thread just surprised you started this seeing as how you were going to drop the subject after the single guys thread in swingers chat forum. "

You didn't get 1 then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for not reading it.

After your last comments we aren't really interested to be honest. To coin a phrase, 'we can't be arsed' for anymore.

We would like our thread with our opinion being the topic.

Funny thing is, there are people who actually agree.

Enjoy yourself, and if you don't like our opinions please feel free to ignore this thread.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always read the profile and if I'm not what they are looking for then fair enough as I know I can't be everybody's cup of tea....before I click off profile always have a quick perv at pics as would be rude not too as that's why they are there ..to be admired

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i always read the profile and tell them I wanna fuck em anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its extremely irritating when people don't bother to read a profile but this is when the block option comes into play!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok did a small experiment. For about 5-10 minutes all my profile has said is "looking for men interested in testicle juicing" . In that ten minutes had 11 messages six of which asking what it was or expressing an interest, the other five were the generic"love your profile, wanna fuck?" Messages. Gotta love the British single man!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they should if they are interested in a meet

some do, some don't...

it is the way it is and it ain't going to change anytime soon.

filters to minimise or just put up with the ones who chance their arm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or maybe treat the chancers in the same rude way they have treated you?

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

"Ok did a small experiment. For about 5-10 minutes all my profile has said is "looking for men interested in testicle juicing" . In that ten minutes had 11 messages six of which asking what it was or expressing an interest, the other five were the generic"love your profile, wanna fuck?" Messages. Gotta love the British single man!!

I dont like the sound of testicle juicing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't be arsed to read the whole thread just surprised you started this seeing as how you were going to drop the subject after the single guys thread in swingers chat forum.

You didn't get 1 then

Nope not yet

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Or maybe treat the chancers in the same rude way they have treated you?"

if they are rude or break rules: report them

referrring to them as retards sadly puts yourself in the same bracket as them and from your posts of yesterday and today, you are surely better than that.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i sometimes make mistakes .. but usually .. no single men ... black cocks only ... no beards ... must be six foot or over .. and under 50 usually put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read and perv most profiles, is that allowed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain types of profile turn me off. The bullet point one,the angry ones,the war and peace epic ones and of course those with block capitals. I usually pass them by but can't help wondering do some people with a sense of devilment just send messages to wind the individuals up.

It could explain some inappropriate contacts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

V..., we appreciate your comments.

Maybe we should be rude more politely!

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its extremely irritating when people don't bother to read a profile but this is when the block option comes into play!"

Ah see some people would rather not use the tools the site provides to filter out those they not interested in but slate those that do then message them for not reading profile. Hey it takes all sorts to make the world go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Certain types of profile turn me off. The bullet point one,the angry ones,the war and peace epic ones and of course those with block capitals. I usually pass them by but can't help wondering do some people with a sense of devilment just send messages to wind the individuals up.

It could explain some inappropriate contacts."

Yep that's what I was thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or maybe treat the chancers in the same rude way they have treated you?

if they are rude or break rules: report them

referrring to them as retards sadly puts yourself in the same bracket as them and from your posts of yesterday and today, you are surely better than that.

Oh no!!! Who used the R word ?

Frilly is on the war path

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could explain some inappropriate contacts."

exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair point about the devilment, however we are all grown ups supposedly and not still in a playground.

However profiles sound, negative, harsh, etc, the people who are attracted to that type of profile will understand what has lead to the profile being worded that way.

If not, no worries.

We have met many decent people similar to us at Erotica and at Cap d'Agde so we have our friends, however it is always nice to meet similar people to you.

It is a shame however that some people decide that they can behave badly behind a computer screen.

Please not the word SOME!!

Regards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never read profiles because I know that no one reads mine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely think that people should read profiles. It's rude to message people when they don't. I see it as the equivalent of going up to someone at a bar, not looking at them, turning away from them and saying 'fancy a fuck' They are not interested in you as a person, any holes a goal. Oh and in real life they'd get told to F off - on here block and delete. Either way they are to be avoided. Good as a filter method tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is not stating the type of people we are not interested in simply not enough?

Let's be honest, if someone behaved in an unwelcome way in person an apology would usually be the next thing to do. However why is that not the case on here?

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

"I never read profiles because I know that no one reads mine...

two wrongs don't make a right!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you!!

It is totally rude not to read a profile exactly as you say.

Any rudeness that we then send back should therefore be expected.

Like you say though, why not just do the polite thing and read the profile?

We never get it and never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't find it and no one is owning up to the R word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never read profiles because I know that no one reads mine...

two wrongs don't make a right!

It's actually because my profile is hidden and I'm not meeting unless it's friends at socials...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Two wrongs don't make a right, however a wrong that is done on purpose is just totally rude and disrespectful and in our world we see no place for it.

Obviously these type of people come from a different world to us so we treat them the way they have treated us. They don't understand respect so we reply in way they will understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't find it and no one is owning up to the R word

It was initially used towards the end of the Single Men thread!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the messages we get maybe 25% read our profile. It's not an expectation that people do as we're simply laying out our stall. We're realistic enough to know that people will normally scan pics, might speed-read through for anything that definitely makes us incompatible and then decide to contact or not.

We don't mind either, I've never once been offended, I just politely ask, "have you realised we're out of your age range etc?".

Our profile is there for those that like the info. Most of the getting to know happens after the initial contact anyway so we are a broad church and keep an open mind as to suitability.

Expecting everyone to carefully digest your profile will lead to a lot of disappointment.

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

its hard on here for single men and some profiles take ages to read...

i once spent five minutes reading a profile and then sent a message which was immediately deleted....

hope you can see the problem with thos lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one who finds the phrase "life is MUCH too short" somewhat ironic in these circumstances?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you guys out there think that someone contacting you should read your profile before contacting you?

If you have made specific choices in your profile, do you think that people should respect those choices?

We think they should respect your choices and go and find compatible people. After all, we all want what we want!

We just think, if they aren't read, what the heck is the point of a profile! We always read profiles before contacting people and we think that is the only respectful way to behave.

Your thoughts?"

Yes they should read them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't find it and no one is owning up to the R word

It was initially used towards the end of the Single Men thread!! "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We understand it is hard for single men, but do you not think profiles tell you if there are shared interests or not?

If the couple actually were looking for single guys then they should have at least replied, but if they weren't looking then it would be unwanted attention would it not.

To be honest, wouldn't reading the profile mean that we are not wasting our time or bothering people who do not want to be bothered?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could explain some inappropriate contacts."

I actually think you might be right.

Have noticed that a lot of the ranty profiles listing in serious terms what they don't want etc are the same people who get lots of hassle.

I have a single profile elsewhere and get far more messages saying my profile is hilarious than anything else.

It's clear some guys don't read it but last I checked I wasn't a diva so I just carry on being myself rather than turning anal about how important me and my profile are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for you sensible comment Red!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The word retard was used by us.

We have no problems in owning up to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest you don't use that word on here, unless you want to come and say it to my son's face. It's a disgusting word !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you guys out there think that someone contacting you should read your profile before contacting you?

If you have made specific choices in your profile, do you think that people should respect those choices?

We think they should respect your choices and go and find compatible people. After all, we all want what we want!

We just think, if they aren't read, what the heck is the point of a profile! We always read profiles before contacting people and we think that is the only respectful way to behave.

Your thoughts?"

If it was me reading your profile I wouldn't contact you because it says no single men.That is your choice I would respect that.However if I was you then I would block them.There would probably be no need for threads like these then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We understand it is hard for single men, but do you not think profiles tell you if there are shared interests or not?

If the couple actually were looking for single guys then they should have at least replied, but if they weren't looking then it would be unwanted attention would it not.

To be honest, wouldn't reading the profile mean that we are not wasting our time or bothering people who do not want to be bothered?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once have I ever messaged someone without reading the profile.

She was smoking hot from her pics..but fully lesbian. .but she was nice about it. Turned out a funny convo

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

People of whatever gender that haven t read your profile is surely a filter in itself you ve said no single men delete block move on, replying with aresponse ( rude or other) is wasting your time and lifes way too short

As others have said some people won t bother and that is nt likely to alter,

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suggest you don't use that word on here, unless you want to come and say it to my son's face. It's a disgusting word !!!!"

I agree.I work with disabled young people but thankfully most people are mature enough not to use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only once have I ever messaged someone without reading the profile.

She was smoking hot from her pics..but fully lesbian. .but she was nice about it. Turned out a funny convo

I remember reading your profile B and complementing you on it. Cos you're one of the good guys so they do exist

(I'm in a happy mood lol. Just had chocolate cake)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only once have I ever messaged someone without reading the profile.

She was smoking hot from her pics..but fully lesbian. .but she was nice about it. Turned out a funny convo

I remember reading your profile B and complementing you on it. Cos you're one of the good guys so they do exist

(I'm in a happy mood lol. Just had chocolate cake)"

gimme some!

You're awesome too and you know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suggest you don't use that word on here, unless you want to come and say it to my son's face. It's a disgusting word !!!!

I agree.I work with disabled young people but thankfully most people are mature enough not to use it

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only once have I ever messaged someone without reading the profile.

She was smoking hot from her pics..but fully lesbian. .but she was nice about it. Turned out a funny convo

I remember reading your profile B and complementing you on it. Cos you're one of the good guys so they do exist

(I'm in a happy mood lol. Just had chocolate cake)

gimme some!

You're awesome too and you know that.

I've saved you .......a crumb ........

sorry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only once have I ever messaged someone without reading the profile.

She was smoking hot from her pics..but fully lesbian. .but she was nice about it. Turned out a funny convo

I remember reading your profile B and complementing you on it. Cos you're one of the good guys so they do exist

(I'm in a happy mood lol. Just had chocolate cake)

gimme some!

You're awesome too and you know that.

I've saved you .......a crumb ........

sorry lol

Bitch. I take back everything I said now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, set your profile to only look for single women and then you won't be bothered with any messages at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suggest you don't use that word on here, unless you want to come and say it to my son's face. It's a disgusting word !!!!

I agree.I work with disabled young people but thankfully most people are mature enough not to use it

Thank you xx"

As said in the previous thread I think most people on here would find the word offensive and totally inappropriate regardless of the context in which it was used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read profiles on Fab? Are you mad?? lol...

Some do, some don't, even if they know they don't meet your preferences, they'll still message if your pics are hot or they've got full balls....

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I get messages from couples, single guys and single females who obviously haven't read my profile...does it bother me? Nope. Do I start threads about it? Nope. Do I use site tools to sort this? Yep, the block button is my bestest mate

OP, if you don't accept that there are many people in all categories who don't read your profile, no amount of threads or shouty caps in your profile or 797 reiterations that you don't meet single guys is going to make a shite of difference

By the way, I've struggled to keep my single male personality , BlondeDaz from messaging you...the wee bastard is still trying to break through and send his patented "Great arse, fancy a fuck" one liner so apologies in advance if he manages to take over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get messages from couples, single guys and single females who obviously haven't read my profile...does it bother me? Nope. Do I start threads about it? Nope. Do I use site tools to sort this? Yep, the block button is my bestest mate

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

They don't have to read mine and since mine is largely there for mirth purposes I don't mind. Equally, I expect them not to mind if I don't wish to meet them

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't be bothered to read this thread, just popped in to see if there was any free cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only once have I ever messaged someone without reading the profile.

She was smoking hot from her pics..but fully lesbian. .but she was nice about it. Turned out a funny convo

I remember reading your profile B and complementing you on it. Cos you're one of the good guys so they do exist

(I'm in a happy mood lol. Just had chocolate cake)

gimme some!

You're awesome too and you know that.

I've saved you .......a crumb ........

sorry lol

Bitch. I take back everything I said now!

He he

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I made 27 chocolate chip cup cakes earlier. There are considerably fewer now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I made 27 chocolate chip cup cakes earlier. There are considerably fewer now though."

I'm off to the shops , I need cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I made 27 chocolate chip cup cakes earlier. There are considerably fewer now though.

I'm off to the shops , I need cake

Life IS much too short not to eat cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like the sound of testicle juicing

Its a new method to improve throughput at the spirm clinic......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't be bothered to read this thread, just popped in to see if there was any free cake?"

Why aint you fat mate? You sound as though you should be, but your not......

Sorry.......Just the musings of a jealous fool....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, this is supposed to be fun isn't it? Always happy to read profiles, some don't bother, its life on here. I often find the first few sentences of a profile dictate whether I want to read the rest or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why aint you fat mate? You sound as though you should be, but your not......

Sorry.......Just the musings of a jealous fool....

Threadworms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why aint you fat mate? You sound as though you should be, but your not......

Sorry.......Just the musings of a jealous fool....

Threadworms."

Can you send me a stool sample? Need me some of those bad boys!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Why aint you fat mate? You sound as though you should be, but your not......

Sorry.......Just the musings of a jealous fool....

Threadworms."

*removes Lib from hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I made 27 chocolate chip cup cakes earlier. There are considerably fewer now though.

I'm off to the shops , I need cake

Get me some please. I've run out (or eaten it all)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you send me a stool sample? Need me some of those bad boys! "

Sure thing, they are awesome. I can eat what I like without exercising and the only real downside is you wake up in the morning with a brown finger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see arguments like this in a thread - and this isn't the first thread the OP has slated single men for not reading their profile in - it makes me feel less comfortable about meeting up with couples as a single woman, esp couples who appear to come across as rather aggressive, I would not want to put myself in a vulnerable situation. You really are not doing yourselves any favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you send me a stool sample? Need me some of those bad boys!

Sure thing, they are awesome. I can eat what I like without exercising and the only real downside is you wake up in the morning with a brown finger."

Sweet! I'll chuck you a couple of trays of muffins for the favour dude.....and a box of latex gloves to get round the brownfinger problem.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you send me a stool sample? Need me some of those bad boys!

Sure thing, they are awesome. I can eat what I like without exercising and the only real downside is you wake up in the morning with a brown finger.

Sweet! I'll chuck you aa couple of trays of muffins for the favour dude.....and a box of latex gloves to get round the brownfinger problem....."

Ewww lol

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"When I see arguments like this in a thread - and this isn't the first thread the OP has slated single men for not reading their profile in - it makes me feel less comfortable about meeting up with couples as a single woman, esp couples who appear to come across as rather aggressive, I would not want to put myself in a vulnerable situation. You really are not doing yourselves any favours. "

I know what you mean, I rarely meet couples outside of club/party environment...obviously once I've met them there, then I'm happy to meet externally too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you send me a stool sample? Need me some of those bad boys!

Sure thing, they are awesome. I can eat what I like without exercising and the only real downside is you wake up in the morning with a brown finger.

Sweet! I'll chuck you aa couple of trays of muffins for the favour dude.....and a box of latex gloves to get round the brownfinger problem.....

Ewww lol"

What? Just two guys swapping weight loss tips is all.......sheesh!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I ve got cake,

only for those that read profiles though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you send me a stool sample? Need me some of those bad boys!

Sure thing, they are awesome. I can eat what I like without exercising and the only real downside is you wake up in the morning with a brown finger.

Sweet! I'll chuck you aa couple of trays of muffins for the favour dude.....and a box of latex gloves to get round the brownfinger problem.....

Ewww lol

What? Just two guys swapping weight loss tips is all.......sheesh!

There was a lot of brown finger action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ve got cake,

only for those that read profiles though

I read your profile Darren.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I just read your profile.

And if I was a couple I wouldn't message you even ic I was a couple.

I like how you have written in BLOCK CAPS:

"Any couples who do message us. No touching, no kissing, just watch each other".

Can I ask what the fucking point a couple would message you for?

They can't do jack shit by the sounds of it.

Just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I just read your profile.

And if I was a couple I wouldn't message you even ic I was a couple.

I like how you have written in BLOCK CAPS:

"Any couples who do message us. No touching, no kissing, just watch each other".

Can I ask what the fucking point a couple would message you for?

They can't do jack shit by the sounds of it.

Just an observation. "

I might have just pissed my pants a tiny bit laughing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't understand why the op hasn't blocked single men. Have I missed something?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"OP I just read your profile.

And if I was a couple I wouldn't message you even ic I was a couple.

I like how you have written in BLOCK CAPS:

"Any couples who do message us. No touching, no kissing, just watch each other".

Can I ask what the fucking point a couple would message you for?

They can't do jack shit by the sounds of it.

Just an observation. "

Peoples preferences are valid whatever they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand why the op hasn't blocked single men. Have I missed something?

I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking that. If I was a single guy I'd feel compelled to message lol.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I was recently contacted by a guy who was very polite and sent a very good first message, wondering if I could meet him that afternoon for a coffee.

He smoked, was really short and wanted me to travel to see him 25 miles away. I told him to read my profile as the answer to his question was in there as despite that stuff I've just mentioned, I clearly state I'm not meeting at the moment because I'm recovering from surgery.

His answer was yeah, he saw that but people don't update their profiles so he took a chance.

There will always be chancers.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I don't understand why the op hasn't blocked single men. Have I missed something?

it's a long story covering 2 threads, they prefer to get into a tit for tat with the guys who do not read their profile but then write asking for a meet.

Their point that it is wrong that people don't read profiles and it would improve their chances to match with like minded if they did, is spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I just read your profile.

And if I was a couple I wouldn't message you even ic I was a couple.

I like how you have written in BLOCK CAPS:

"Any couples who do message us. No touching, no kissing, just watch each other".

Can I ask what the fucking point a couple would message you for?

They can't do jack shit by the sounds of it.

Just an observation. "

I have to agree with you Greedy.If I want to play dominoes,i'll visit my Mum!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't understand why the op hasn't blocked single men. Have I missed something?

it's a long story covering 2 threads, they prefer to get into a tit for tat with the guys who do not read their profile but then write asking for a meet.

Their point that it is wrong that people don't read profiles and it would improve their chances to match with like minded if they did, is spot on

I see, thank you. I find it hard to keep up with the youngsters

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I don't understand why the op hasn't blocked single men. Have I missed something?

I can t quote directly ( I could iI can t be arsed going to the other thread,!) its says on their profile no single guys so if we state that why should we or words to that effect,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't understand why the op hasn't blocked single men. Have I missed something?

I can t quote directly ( I could iI can t be arsed going to the other thread,!) its says on their profile no single guys so if we state that why should we or words to that effect,

Ah right. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

Wagon wheel please!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

Chocolate hob nob x 6 for moi please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was for people living in Reading Berkshire........ guess I read it wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

Chocolate hob nob x 6 for moi please."

Id like six wagon wheels but just eaten a massive bowl of clotted cream ice cream with honeycombe

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"I don't understand why the op hasn't blocked single men. Have I missed something?

If they did, they wouldnt get as many messages.....

And were is the fun in not getting messages from people you have no interest in meeting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

One of each too cheeky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be bothered to this thread.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Any couples who do message us. No touching, no kissing, just watch each other".

Can I ask what the fucking point a couple would message you for?

Voyeurism & Exhibitionism

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

Chocolate hob nob x 6 for moi please.

Id like six wagon wheels but just eaten a massive bowl of clotted cream ice cream with honeycombe

That sounds yummy, I ve a slice of triple layered chocolate cake with doubl e cream if you d like a swap mines the healthy option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can write what they like on their profiles and similarly post any thread they want that isn't abusive or offensive. If you get annoyed by it just don't read it. The forums are for people to discuss matters relating to their swinging activities if you don't like the posts just agree to differ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

I don't mean to be all demanding but seriously......NO party rings???

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm tempted to message the OP and ask for a meet just to see what happens. Shall I? Or is that too silly?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I'm tempted to message the OP and ask for a meet just to see what happens. Shall I? Or is that too silly?

I had the very same thought,

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm tempted to message the OP and ask for a meet just to see what happens. Shall I? Or is that too silly?

I had the very same thought,

Let's do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any couples who do message us. No touching, no kissing, just watch each other".

Can I ask what the fucking point a couple would message you for?

Voyeurism & Exhibitionism

I couldn't just watch. I'd have to get to stuck in!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I'm tempted to message the OP and ask for a meet just to see what happens. Shall I? Or is that too silly?

I had the very same thought,

Let's do it!

Behave you two...I'm still fighting to stop BlondeDaz coming thru and messaging

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm tempted to message the OP and ask for a meet just to see what happens. Shall I? Or is that too silly?

I had the very same thought,

Let's do it!

Behave you two...I'm still fighting to

stop BlondeDaz coming thru and

messaging

It's too late....the bottle has been cast into the sea, message on it's way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

I don't mean to be all demanding but seriously......NO party rings???

I picked them up and put then back again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm tempted to message the OP and ask for a meet just to see what happens. Shall I? Or is that too silly?

I had the very same thought,

Let's do it!

Behave you two...I'm still fighting to

stop BlondeDaz coming thru and

messaging

It's too late....the bottle has been cast into the sea, message on it's way....

Glutton for punishment! Brace yourself for the backlash!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

I don't mean to be all demanding but seriously......NO party rings???

I picked them up and put then back again

Oh.........

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Any couples who do message us. No touching, no kissing, just watch each other".

Can I ask what the fucking point a couple would message you for?

Voyeurism & Exhibitionism

I couldn't just watch. I'd have to get to stuck in!"

that's you and their profile is them....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

Chocolate hob nob x 6 for moi please.

Id like six wagon wheels but just eaten a massive bowl of clotted cream ice cream with honeycombe

lightweight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I just read your profile.

And if I was a couple I wouldn't message you even ic I was a couple.

I like how you have written in BLOCK CAPS:

"Any couples who do message us. No touching, no kissing, just watch each other".

Can I ask what the fucking point a couple would message you for?

They can't do jack shit by the sounds of it.

Just an observation. "

Made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

Chocolate hob nob x 6 for moi please.

Id like six wagon wheels but just eaten a massive bowl of clotted cream ice cream with honeycombe

lightweight

Also had a bag of revels and a bag of m and m's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm tempted to message the OP and ask for a meet just to see what happens. Shall I? Or is that too silly?

I had the very same thought,

Let's do it!

Well,did you message them?Spill the beans!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

Chocolate hob nob x 6 for moi please.

Id like six wagon wheels but just eaten a massive bowl of clotted cream ice cream with honeycombe

lightweight

Also had a bag of revels and a bag of m and m's

I'm on a diet and your really not helping....

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I'm tempted to message the OP and ask for a meet just to see what happens. Shall I? Or is that too silly?

I had the very same thought,

Let's do it!

Well,did you message them?Spill the beans!

Or a better idea...dont...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't read all your profile as the first part put me right off!!!

What's all the shouty caps for??

It's really not a major drama if someone contacts us and hasn't fully read our profile... If they interest us then we will continue with contact! If they don't then we will politely tell them so.

Even the single guys that contact us get a polite message back!

I would suggest using your filters then searching for the profiles that meet your needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

Chocolate hob nob x 6 for moi please.

Id like six wagon wheels but just eaten a massive bowl of clotted cream ice cream with honeycombe

lightweight

Also had a bag of revels and a bag of m and m's

I'm on a diet and your really not helping....

Don't worry, you'll be fine once you get your worms!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be lovely to be contacted by people who have read your profile first but that would be an ideal world, we don't tend to reply to the ones that obviously haven't but then those people complain that they don't get replies to their messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have hit cross buns

No reason

Just sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP

I didn't read all your profile as the first part put me right off!!!

What's all the shouty caps for??

It's really not a major drama if someone contacts us and hasn't fully read our profile... If they interest us then we will continue with contact! If they don't then we will politely tell them so.

Even the single guys that contact us get a polite message back!

I would suggest using your filters then searching for the profiles that meet your needs. "

They were advised to do this about 2 hours ago.THEY OBVIOUSLY HAVENT READ THE THREADS!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have hit cross buns

No reason

Just sayin

My goodness, do they hide in a cupboard and shoot you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I have hit cross buns

No reason

Just sayin

My goodness, do they hide in a cupboard and shoot you

No, he hasn't got a punch bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just done a biscuit run , I have apple crumble cookies , triple choc cookies , choc hobnobs and wagon wheels.

Chocolate hob nob x 6 for moi please.

Id like six wagon wheels but just eaten a massive bowl of clotted cream ice cream with honeycombe

lightweight

Also had a bag of revels and a bag of m and m's

I'm on a diet and your really not helping....

Don't worry, you'll be fine once you get your worms!

Just waiting for the lib to pass a movement.......and then there's royal mail.....I'm gonna starve by then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you guys out there think that someone contacting you should read your profile before contacting you?

If you have made specific choices in your profile, do you think that people should respect those choices?

We think they should respect your choices and go and find compatible people. After all, we all want what we want!

We just think, if they aren't read, what the heck is the point of a profile! We always read profiles before contacting people and we think that is the only respectful way to behave.

Your thoughts?"

Some of them are so long and life's so short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No longer hit

Cross buns are bit

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

"Two wrongs don't make a right, however a wrong that is done on purpose is just totally rude and disrespectful and in our world we see no place for it.

Obviously these type of people come from a different world to us so we treat them the way they have treated us. They don't understand respect so we reply in way they will understand."
well iv read both your posts and you have been given advice(use the block button)you have chosen to ignore it so I can only conclude you thrive on the drama,you have been given the tools to stop all these msgs but you just wont use them,cutting your nose off to spite your face springs to mind,and yes before you ask I used to get lots of msgs from people I didn't want to meet but I used my common sense and used the block button problem solved,and breathe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are very grateful for all your sdvice, however we are able to decide what we will do on our profile.

As for the words we use, it is of course a free world and we will use as well decide we see fit.

Guys, if you don't like please feel free to trot on past our profile or our thread.

Honestly, we don't mind, we wouldn't want to meet you anyway.

Have fun now.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"We are very grateful for all your sdvice, however we are able to decide what we will do on our profile.

As for the words we use, it is of course a free world and we will use as well decide we see fit.

Guys, if you don't like please feel free to trot on past our profile or our thread.

Honestly, we don't mind, we wouldn't want to meet you anyway.

Have fun now.

Did you expect everyone to agree with you then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They obviously did!Im just waiting for the sound of the door slamming as they go to the bottom of the garden and eat a worm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are very grateful for all your sdvice, however we are able to decide what we will do on our profile.

As for the words we use, it is of course a free world and we will use as well decide we see fit.

Guys, if you don't like please feel free to trot on past our profile or our thread.

Honestly, we don't mind, we wouldn't want to meet you anyway.

Have fun now.

You obviously don't think that others should have differing opinions to yours,

You've been advised to use your filters.

It would save you unwanted messages and you having to put moaning threads up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys, if you don't like please feel free to trot on past our profile or our thread.

Honestly, we don't mind, we wouldn't want to meet you anyway.

Have fun now.

thank fuck for that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It is you who expect others to accept your opinions isn't it?

Correct us of course, but is it not you telling us what to do, not the other way round?

We don't mind putting up moaning messages if we have something to moan about.

Like we said, feel free not to read them.

Regards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are glad you like our comments about not wanting to meet you, the guy above.

You wouldn't get a choice anyway.

Have fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"It is you who expect others to accept your opinions isn't it?

Correct us of course, but is it not you telling us what to do, not the other way round?

We don't mind putting up moaning messages if we have something to moan about.

Like we said, feel free not to read them.

Regards."

the answer lies in your own hands but you choose not to accept that. You might want to remove groups sex from your list though...or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have not asked anyone anywhere to agree with us.

It is a free world, you have your choices and we have ours.

All we ask is for our choices to be respected.

Not a lot to ask really, but it seems it is for some of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is you who expect others to accept your opinions isn't it?

Correct us of course, but is it not you telling us what to do, not the other way round?

We don't mind putting up moaning messages if we have something to moan about.

Like we said, feel free not to read them.

Regards."

I don't expect anyone to agree with my opinions!!

And I think you will find advising and telling are 2 different things!!

You go head and moan if you think it's going to help your cause.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"We have not asked anyone anywhere to agree with us.

It is a free world, you have your choices and we have ours.

All we ask is for our choices to be respected.

Not a lot to ask really, but it seems it is for some of you."

have fun, that's why were here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We politely ask once more, please do not tell us what to do.

You do as you wish and we will do as we wish.

Simple really, but it seems a hard concept for you to grasp.

Strange....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are glad you like our comments about not wanting to meet you, the guy above.

You wouldn't get a choice anyway.

Have fun."

You do realise you can use the reply and quote which would be easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were cold because your windows were open, you'd just shut your windows rather than whinge about the cold and want everyone to have a discussion about it right?

Just use your filters to keep out the draught of single guys.....its so simple its laughable.......

Somebody used the phrase cutting off your nose to spite your face......perfectly observed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"We are glad you like our comments about not wanting to meet you, the guy above.

You wouldn't get a choice anyway.

Have fun.

You do realise you can use the reply and quote which would be easier "

stop telling them what to do, they don't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are glad you like our comments about not wanting to meet you, the guy above.

You wouldn't get a choice anyway.

Have fun."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"We politely ask once more, please do not tell us what to do.

You do as you wish and we will do as we wish.

Simple really, but it seems a hard concept for you to grasp.

Strange...."

well you told us to have fun, just returning the favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone shouldn't stop posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is you who expect others to accept your opinions isn't it?

Correct us of course, but is it not you telling us what to do, not the other way round?

We don't mind putting up moaning messages if we have somethings to moan about.

Like we said, feel free not to read them.

Regards."

OP you posed a question, not just had a moan.

You didn't say please only respond if you agree so people tried to suggest what is obvious to most already.

People are flummoxed because you have a simple option that you don't wish to take.

Only some people will read your profile, including your target market. If you have no interest in men it's easier therefore to block men rather than hope they'll follow instructions or in some cases orders.

In every walk of life people fail to follow instructions, why should your profile be any different,? Hoping they'll come to their senses with blocked capitals is futile, they're not reading the content.

Block and be happy, leave the floodgates open and be damned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have not asked anyone anywhere to agree with us.

It is a free world, you have your choices and we have ours.

All we ask is for our choices to be respected.

Not a lot to ask really, but it seems it is for some of you."

Sorry but your original post does ask in your first question for people to agree with you!

You come across as very aggressive and would certainly put me off, as a single woman, from meeting people like you, I would not want to put myself in a vulnerable situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cut our nose off?

Funny really, we have had more contact from decent couples than we have had in ages!

So maybe we are just fine thanks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think everyone shouldn't stop posting. "

ok....Damn! I just did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were cold because your windows were open, you'd just shut your windows rather than whinge about the cold and want everyone to have a discussion about it right?

Just use your filters to keep out the draught of single guys.....its so simple its laughable.......

Somebody used the phrase cutting off your nose to spite your face......perfectly observed. "

Ffs no the window would have respect and closed itself if it got cold

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Cut our nose off?

Funny really, we have had more contact from decent couples than we have had in ages!

So maybe we are just fine thanks."

I'm glad to hear it. Have fun (not an order just a hope for you)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cut our nose off?

Funny really, we have had more contact from decent couples than we have had in ages!

So maybe we are just fine thanks."

Well at least you've had messages from decent couples!!

Have fun now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were cold because your windows were open, you'd just shut your windows rather than whinge about the cold and want everyone to have a discussion about it right?

Just use your filters to keep out the draught of single guys.....its so simple its laughable.......

Somebody used the phrase cutting off your nose to spite your face......perfectly observed.

Ffs no the window would have respect and closed itself if it got cold

Maybe but it would have spent 6 hours procrastinating beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were cold because your windows were open, you'd just shut your windows rather than whinge about the cold and want everyone to have a discussion about it right?

Just use your filters to keep out the draught of single guys.....its so simple its laughable.......

Somebody used the phrase cutting off your nose to spite your face......perfectly observed.

Ffs no the window would have respect and closed itself if it got cold

Lol, I have lazy windows....maybe I should tell it in BIG BLOCK CAPS TO SHUT IT'S SELF!!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Just going round in circles so I think we can leave it there now

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