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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies if you meet up with a guy for the first time and he doesn't offer to buy you a drink.. Do you walk away or stay and see how it goes?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Ladies if you meet up with a guy for the first time and he doesn't offer to buy you a drink.. Do you walk away or stay and see how it goes?"
I wouldn't be amused. I'm all for sharing but guess I'm old fashioned expecting the guy to get the first drink in

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

In fact I'd be seathing and would find it difficult to be pleasant. Someone did it to a friend of mine and I still dislike the guy

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Ladies if you meet up with a guy for the first time and he doesn't offer to buy you a drink.. Do you walk away or stay and see how it goes?"

If its a fab meet - I buy my own. Equality and all that... if its a date, I'd expect him to offer, but I'd also offer back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies if you meet up with a guy for the first time and he doesn't offer to buy you a drink.. Do you walk away or stay and see how it goes?"

What did you do?...buy her a drink or not?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would buy the first drink. I always do unless the man goes into a paddy about it. I would buy a couple more after too if I wanted more

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I prefer to get my own, but then I always offer to get them one, too

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Guess I'm just old fashioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol. Well I wouldn't dream of not buying the first drink but if the woman insists on paying for her own I wouldn't argue either. Equality is also important. However there's nowt wrong with a bit of old fashioned chivalry from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You take it in turns to buy a drink. Where we come from it's called rounds. It doesn't matter who gets the first round in but all should take it in turns to buy a round. If it's time to leave before all has got a round it doesn't matter, no big deal. People who have soft drinks can be omitted from buying a round if they are on driving duties.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"In fact I'd be seathing and would find it difficult to be pleasant. Someone did it to a friend of mine and I still dislike the guy

"

When I mentioned to a charmer buying his own drink without offering me one was poor form he retorted: "this ain't a date love!"

Needless to say I didn't sit down.

If you're coming to my home, sleeping in my bed, drinking my coffee, using my shower yet buying half a Peroni is seen as a date...bye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In fact I'd be seathing and would find it difficult to be pleasant. Someone did it to a friend of mine and I still dislike the guy

When I mentioned to a charmer buying his own drink without offering me one was poor form he retorted: "this ain't a date love!"

Needless to say I didn't sit down.

If you're coming to my home, sleeping in my bed, drinking my coffee, using my shower yet buying half a Peroni is seen as a date...bye!

"

That is very poor form. Date or not if you are in company and you go to the bar all in your company should be asked if they want one.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Lol. Well I wouldn't dream of not buying the first drink but if the woman insists on paying for her own I wouldn't argue either. Equality is also important. However there's nowt wrong with a bit of old fashioned chivalry from time to time "

This

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

imo the gent gets the first drink esp if he asked ME for a date

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"In fact I'd be seathing and would find it difficult to be pleasant. Someone did it to a friend of mine and I still dislike the guy

When I mentioned to a charmer buying his own drink without offering me one was poor form he retorted: "this ain't a date love!"

Needless to say I didn't sit down.

If you're coming to my home, sleeping in my bed, drinking my coffee, using my shower yet buying half a Peroni is seen as a date...bye!

That is very poor form. Date or not if you are in company and you go to the bar all in your company should be asked if they want one. "

That's how I saw it. If I'd got to the bar first I'd have asked "what you having?" Common courtesy!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Whoever gets there first gets the drinks in. Them's the rules in my world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm meeting in a bar and got there first I would text and ask what he wanted and have it waiting for him

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"If I'm meeting in a bar and got there first I would text and ask what he wanted and have it waiting for him "

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"If I'm meeting in a bar and got there first I would text and ask what he wanted and have it waiting for him "

Sorry, I wouldn't drink anything I hadn't seen opened or poured in front of me. Maybe I am over cautious, but have had friends who have had drinks spiked. I'd rather buy my own, or buy a round when we are both there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there isn't a Stella waiting for me when I arrived I am out of there...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Some folk have short arms and deep pockets

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"If I'm meeting in a bar and got there first I would text and ask what he wanted and have it waiting for him

Sorry, I wouldn't drink anything I hadn't seen opened or poured in front of me. Maybe I am over cautious, but have had friends who have had drinks spiked. I'd rather buy my own, or buy a round when we are both there."

Jeez, I never even thought of that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm meeting in a bar and got there first I would text and ask what he wanted and have it waiting for him

Sorry, I wouldn't drink anything I hadn't seen opened or poured in front of me. Maybe I am over cautious, but have had friends who have had drinks spiked. I'd rather buy my own, or buy a round when we are both there."

Very sensible.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"If I'm meeting in a bar and got there first I would text and ask what he wanted and have it waiting for him "

I'll save ya a text, it's Strongbow please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always buy the first drink then go from there. Usually I end up getting a couple more, I like to be the gentleman generally, in a very non-flash way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't give a fuck who buys what.

I'll buy drinks I dont mind.

If they want to buy drinks that's cool too.

I honestly don't f'ng care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don't give a fuck who buys what.

I'll buy drinks I dont mind.

If they want to buy drinks that's cool too.

I honestly don't f'ng care. "

what if they turn up and shes clutching a bottle of tequila already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want a drink thanks....just a fuck for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don't give a fuck who buys what.

I'll buy drinks I dont mind.

If they want to buy drinks that's cool too.

I honestly don't f'ng care.

what if they turn up and shes clutching a bottle of tequila already "

We drink it and fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don't give a fuck who buys what.

I'll buy drinks I dont mind.

If they want to buy drinks that's cool too.

I honestly don't f'ng care.

what if they turn up and shes clutching a bottle of tequila already

We drink it and fuck! "

oooh now where to lick the salt from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don't give a fuck who buys what.

I'll buy drinks I dont mind.

If they want to buy drinks that's cool too.

I honestly don't f'ng care.

what if they turn up and shes clutching a bottle of tequila already

We drink it and fuck!

oooh now where to lick the salt from "

hmmmmm

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