FabSwingers.com forum: Ggrrrrrr

By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Fed up of my vanilla friend telling me I need to settle down with just one guy. I do not want or need a relationship nor do I want to have a single fb. Sge says she is excepting and non judgmental of my choice so I don't get why she keeps wanting these little chats with me.

She was annoyed I went out to meet a guy gor fun instead of going out with her even though we neve had plans to go out. I would never ditch a friend for sex.

Actually considering breaking ties with her.

What are your thoughts.....???

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

by the age of 35, I would think you would know your own mind and be able to explain to your friend to but out of your life if it is causing you upset.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bring her along with u on an mff...I'm free

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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I know my own mind very well and I know exactly what I like

The more the merrier lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I know my own mind very well and I know exactly what I like

The more the merrier lol"

there you go....

onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I would never ditch a friend for sex.

Actually considering breaking ties with her."

So you are ditching her for sex?

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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"bring her along with u on an mff...I'm free"

I did bring her along on a social I arranged so she could see it wasn't all about the sex

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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

" I would never ditch a friend for sex.

Actually considering breaking ties with her.

So you are ditching her for sex? "

No just can't deal with the fact she keeps sayi g I'm not judging but........

So she us judging me and trying to sway me back to one man at a time

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's a tricky one. I'd just say I'm having a champion time and to leave it at that. Show her the forums. Then she'll see how nice, sane, well adjusted and normal we all are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like their friends and connections to confirm to their own parameters. That is the way society works. She just wants you to be like her. Perhaps the time has come to see less of each other?

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

She sounds controlling and manipulative.

Her actions and opinions are not your responsibility, or in your control

But the way you choose to react to her is!

Sometimes you have to detach and distance yourself from people.

Maybe you tell her far too much about your private life!

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

i think.you gotta keep your ideals high.and know that the sky belongs to no one. keep hold of all that you are. you gotta gather up what you need you need to choose your direction and when the time is right for you dont. . . you got to go. x x X

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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"People like their friends and connections to confirm to their own parameters. That is the way society works. She just wants you to be like her. Perhaps the time has come to see less of each other?"

This is what I was thinking.

I have never and will never be the type of person that conforms.

I only stopped dying my hair crazy colours as it was drying my hair really badly and it started falling out lol

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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"She sounds controlling and manipulative.

Her actions and opinions are not your responsibility, or in your control

But the way you choose to react to her is!

Sometimes you have to detach and distance yourself from people.

Maybe you tell her far too much about your private life!

I don't tell her half of it just the tamer sruff lol

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

sit her down and tell her your sex life is your business and it wont be discussed again if she wants to remain a friend

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Point out the jealousy is not a nice trait

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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"Point out the jealousy is not a nice trait

Haha she wears rose tinted glasses when it comes to guys and relationships so I don't think that the issue

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