FabSwingers.com forum: Too big for anal?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had a few girls who 'love' anal tell me that I'm too big... Is there any advice on how to make it easier? I'm a gentle guy it's not like I hammer it in. I'm around 9" but the issue is my girth....

Haha - this sounds like a 'I've got a massive cock' post but it's not, would love any decent advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have the same problem myself

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Take your time and loads of lube and I mean loads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does look a little big lol, shouldn't be impossible though with lots of lube & preparation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few girls who 'love' anal tell me that I'm too big... Is there any advice on how to make it easier? I'm a gentle guy it's not like I hammer it in. I'm around 9" but the issue is my girth....

Haha - this sounds like a 'I've got a massive cock' post but it's not, would love any decent advice

Lots of lube, lots of finger teasing, perhaps try some toys first to get things moving in the right direction. Also relaxation techniques on your partners part will help. You need a fully relaxed lady to take things further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9" girth or long?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"9" girth or long?

9 in length

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks some great advice already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ide be biting leather for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been turned down for vaginal sex a few times due to my size, but always reassure people that even the biggest cocks should be perfectly comfortable for a woman to receive provided the guy using it is gentle enough - it rarely convinces those who've already made their minds up though.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've taken a thick 10" before without too much trouble. It's all in the preparation. Fist them first, elbow deep, perhaps. After that they won't complain about your cock...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"9" girth or long?

9 in length "

You sure about that?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I asked a Lady of the night if she did anal,?

She said " yes, but it'd be £60 !!"

I said " no thanks, thats a bit expensive," as I walked away she said " tight arse,!!"

I said " in that case, okay then,,"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Just find someone who has been having anal with large objects ( butternut squashes / melons ) for years and can let anything in and can't stop anything exiting either.

Job done.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"9" girth or long?

9 in length

You sure about that?"

depends where you put the tape measure I guess

Personally, its all about preparation. My other half is very big, and we can do it, but I need to be really relaxed, and very turned on (not usually a problem) and take it slowly. Certain positions are better

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

You'd find a man who could take it im sure.

They are generally bigger all round.

My BESTEST and most helpful idea to date is this one ....

Get a rubbery dildo with similar but larger dimensions than yours and bingo! Practice on yourself..... tadaaaaa !

Im pleased with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her to bite the pillow and just push

Well someone had to say it eventually

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I am at the opposite end of the scale to the OP in both length & girth and find that most ladies prefer it as it fits rather nicely

Also, when doing dp I'm usually the one who gets to go up her bum, which suits me just fine!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

lube and camera angle

lube to make entry easier...

camera angle to make her ass look wider

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

Oh go on ,,, I'll say it

Oh look its another 'look at ive got a massive cock ' thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"9" girth or long?

9 in length

You sure about that?"

It's neither !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget that anal sex is much easier with a thorough warm up beforehand, the anus is much more able to receive a penis if the muscles are given sufficient time and gentle enough stimulus to relax them (and of course plenty of lubrication).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my cock gives great anal..and even rubs the pussy inside

2for1!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"I asked a Lady of the night if she did anal,?

She said " yes, but it'd be £60 !!"

I said " no thanks, thats a bit expensive," as I walked away she said " tight arse,!!"

I said " in that case, okay then,,"

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Don't forget that anal sex is much easier with a thorough warm up beforehand, the anus is much more able to receive a penis if the muscles are given sufficient time and gentle enough stimulus to relax them (and of course plenty of lubrication)."

and thats with any sized cock!! I have never seen one that has been TOO BIG for the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've taken a thick 10" before without too much trouble. It's all in the preparation. Fist them first, elbow deep, perhaps. After that they won't complain about your cock...

Lol!!!! Classic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and thats with any sized cock!! I have never seen one that has been TOO BIG for the job

As I say, its not that the cock is TOO BIG, its the guy using it is NOT GENTLE enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had same problem due to girth. I find using plenty of lube and easing in plus cock has to be totally rock hard so tip can enter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ass is a muscle...it will stretch, little ease and lube, sorted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha - this sounds like a 'I've got a massive cock' post but it's not, would love any decent advice

Are you sure it's not? You said pretty much the same thing 2 weeks ago about DP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some funny messages but some good advice too! Thanks people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe you can't find a lady with a big arse

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

As I say, its not that the cock is TOO BIG, its the guy using it is NOT GENTLE enough!"

OR the woman isnt relaxed enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I say, its not that the cock is TOO BIG, its the guy using it is NOT GENTLE enough!

OR the woman isnt relaxed enough..."

That too, but gentleness from the guy can help greatly with that.

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

Its threads like this that makes me think I don't want to be bigger! My less than 9 inches is doing me proud!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Haha - this sounds like a 'I've got a massive cock' post but it's not, would love any decent advice

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well that wouldn't be coming anywhere near my arse that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tears make the best lube anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say we are to big cos they dont like anal.. only hardcore girls do lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always knew being average had its benefits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marry me Tina please

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Tears make the best lube anyway..."

You could also try a bit of deep throat first to really get her eyes watering...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm average could you send the anal lovibg girls my way pleaseee

Every cloud lol

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Sorry but I'd run a mile of that came anywhere near my virgin ass!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry but I'd run a mile of that came anywhere near my virgin ass!!

but my cocks 2 miles ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not just anal.... I'd like to do DP and things too! Just gotta find a girl who can trust me and that is up for it

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

maybe you should try the stoma thread

x X X

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

Haha - this sounds like a 'I've got a massive cock' post but it's not, would love any decent advice

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it does sound like that and the pics suggest maybe a new tape measure

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I usually experience a sharp pain on the initial stretching only lasts a few seconds, but usually ride the cock first and guide it in at my own pace, then its fine after that.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"It's not just anal.... I'd like to do DP and things too! Just gotta find a girl who can trust me and that is up for it

Yeah because girls love to be used to tick things off your list...

not seeing much in it for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three words: douche, lube, poppers

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Three words: douche, lube, poppers

My mind needs rinsing,,,,, I just read that as ploppers,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say we are to big cos they dont like anal.. only hardcore girls do lol."

Porno lines aside, I do see lots of the sexy (and they know it) girls on here specifically requesting guys with big cocks for anal sex - perhaps their considerable confidence makes them more willing to receive large cocks anally, or maybe they simply state they enjoy anal sex from large cocks in order to further elicit male desire on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will let any man I fancy fuck me anally as long as I do the driving. Once we're coasting he can take over

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

too big for anal ? . ma bAwz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice cock !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you gorgeous xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not overly bothered about anal, had it once, no biggie. Any woman i've been with, i've found her lady bits to be rather tight as it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive made some great new friends out of this thread! Thanks again x

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By *NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

St Albans

Haha - this sounds like a 'I've got a massive cock' post but it's not, would love any decent advice

what works for me is lots of lub - rimming works well

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

A hot bath and a nice massage...

I could do the massage for her

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"Sorry but I'd run a mile of that came anywhere near my virgin ass!!

but my cocks 2 miles ..."

Looks like I better get my running shoes on then outrun one that size!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha yikes

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"9" girth or long?

9 in length

You sure about that?"

If that's 9" - all I'll say is "fuck me you have massive hands" !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some people are just horrible on here :-/ i always try to be nice. Some people really say such hurtful things. Wish I was as perfect

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"9" girth or long?

9 in length

You sure about that?

If that's 9" - all I'll say is "fuck me you have massive hands" !!

Play nice! All I will say, is it is all true!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol honestly id stop moaning. U have a huge cock which I and any other bloke would wants! And ur having sex which can not be said for some ie me!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"9" girth or long?

9 in length

You sure about that?

If that's 9" - all I'll say is "fuck me you have massive hands" !!

Bit uncalled for

Looks like it sizes up well enough to me.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"9" girth or long?

9 in length

You sure about that?

If that's 9" - all I'll say is "fuck me you have massive hands" !!

Play nice! All I will say, is it is all true!"

I'll take your word for it!

Guess like many I'm just a tad cynical the moment someone starts quoting numbers in a thread or on a profile.

You know how most have a tendency to be very generous with their tape measures and camera angles!

OP - if Foxy says it's true - I stand (well lie down actually) corrected and humbly apologise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouchy

it scares the shit out of me. Pardon the pun

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It partly is about starting when your partner knows that they are ready. Very heightened horniness should make it much easier. Position makes a lot of difference too, as does someones experience - they can also know what works for them. If you do group play, consider going in second, after someone else has prepared the way. As others say, use tons of lube. If it stays tough, get your partner to control their impaling on your cock, as they may relax more, without feeling under pressure. Maybe your partners need to be asking this too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some really great pieces of advice

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