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oh man... I must be dreadful at writing messages

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By *rinking-in-la OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We just got a wink from a very pretty woman so I wrote a message to say hello and so on. Got deleted without being read... my first line must habe been awful. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know, I have the exact same problem!?

You get an A in English and you message someone who just deletes you. Best learn this text speak people talk about, save sum time!!

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By *rinking-in-la OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Do you know, I have the exact same problem!?

You get an A in English and you message someone who just deletes you. Best learn this text speak people talk about, save sum time!! "

To be fair I managed to miss spell part of my OP so it stands to reason. Maybe I needed to study harder at school.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Maybe she winked you by accident (it happens) maybe you were not what she was looking for...don't worry about it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be wrong but to me a wink tells me .

A . Someone has read your profile

B looked at your pics and liked what they see

So can not understand why . When you message them back saying thanks for the wink . They delete . Why bother winking you in the first place . . Or am I getting this all wrong . I am getting on a bit so have a excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may be wrong but to me a wink tells me .

A . Someone has read your profile

B looked at your pics and liked what they see

So can not understand why . When you message them back saying thanks for the wink . They delete . Why bother winking you in the first place . . Or am I getting this all wrong . I am getting on a bit so have a excuse "

agree with this, appart from the getting on bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may be wrong but to me a wink tells me .

A . Someone has read your profile

B looked at your pics and liked what they see

So can not understand why . When you message them back saying Thanksgiving for the wink . They delete . Why bother winking you in the first place . . Or am I getting this all wrong . I am getting on a bit so have a excuse

agree with this, appart from the getting on bit "
Awww and that's why I wuvs yer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you wink by mistake, whwn you have to confirm that you want to wink them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you wink by mistake, whwn you have to confirm that you want to wink them ?"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

if you send a wink to someone in scotland does it come out as a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you wink by mistake, whwn you have to confirm that you want to wink them ?"

You're right too, just tried it. You would have got a wink if it didnt ask for confirmation

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Ohh bollocks ignore me...it's blocking not winking ok I take back everything I said and going yo have a lie down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt it depend what your on whether you have to confirm you meant to wink?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

However on an iPad it doesn't ask for a confirmation to send the wink

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i tried to wink legs .. it wanted confirmation .. the told me im too old grrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you wink by mistake, whwn you have to confirm that you want to wink them ?

You're right too, just tried it. You would have got a wink if it didnt ask for confirmation "
yes had to confirm too . Still sent it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe the single women was really one of the many fake profiles on here

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Well tosh has got a wink and it didn't ask for confirmation wink sent from iPad lol

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By *rinking-in-la OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I may be wrong but to me a wink tells me .

A . Someone has read your profile

B looked at your pics and liked what they see

So can not understand why . When you message them back saying thanks for the wink . They delete . Why bother winking you in the first place . . Or am I getting this all wrong . I am getting on a bit so have a excuse "

It is entirely up to them. Maybe changed their mind? Maybe decided I looked like the back of a bus after all. Maybe my message was so boring they could not help but delete it?

I will study how to be more exciting. Any tips?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

'fancy a length' always works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you wink by mistake, whwn you have to confirm that you want to wink them ?

You're right too, just tried it. You would have got a wink if it didnt ask for confirmation yes had to confirm too . Still sent it though "

Yes, and thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohh bollocks ignore me...it's blocking not winking ok I take back everything I said and going yo have a lie down "
Now that is true . I am forever blocking people on my phone . Its just under the reply

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I may be wrong but to me a wink tells me .

A . Someone has read your profile

B looked at your pics and liked what they see

So can not understand why . When you message them back saying thanks for the wink . They delete . Why bother winking you in the first place . . Or am I getting this all wrong . I am getting on a bit so have a excuse "

I don't get that. However, my face pics are only on private so if I message and include one then they delete I know that I am not what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well tosh has got a wink and it didn't ask for confirmation wink sent from iPad lol "
A wink from you would be lovely no matter where it come from gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are two people on our profile. We aren't always together when we log onto fab.

When my OH is on here he browses profiles and any guys he thinks I may like he winks. He also winks avatars of large breasts. Its just an instant response, he likes the avatar, he may not have read the profile.

When I go on fab I may read a message from a guy, look at his profile and I know hes not for me. I delete the message without response.

We are of the opinion that a wink is just a friendly hello at the time. There are no expectations from that, it doesn't mean a definite message back or a meet. There is no definite contract.

Its no big deal is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are two people on our profile. We aren't always together when we log onto fab.

When my OH is on here he browses profiles and any guys he thinks I may like he winks. He also winks avatars of large breasts. Its just an instant response, he likes the avatar, he may not have read the profile.

When I go on fab I may read a message from a guy, look at his profile and I know hes not for me. I delete the message without response.

We are of the opinion that a wink is just a friendly hello at the time. There are no expectations from that, it doesn't mean a definite message back or a meet. There is no definite contract.

Its no big deal is it. "
Guess not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just like to tease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just like to tease"
Ive noticed

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I might be wrong ( usually am in technical stuff,) the mobile site prompts you to confirm the wink the desktop site doesn t, I m often embarrassed as my sausage finger tends to press it bu mistake I get them so rarely I guess everyone must be on mobile,

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Have to say if anyone winks or messages us I (the polite fem) always says thanks but no thanks if we aren't interested

Julie x

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Have to say if anyone winks or messages us I (the polite fem) always says thanks but no thanks if we aren't interested

Julie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However on an iPad it doesn't ask for a confirmation to send the wink "

It does cheeky - I just tried to wink you! Xx

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