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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right ppl, I'm going to a social event on Monday night in a local hotel. A lady I know is on here is going. She does not know me that we'll. But and here is the but I recognise her pics and know its 100% her. Should I mention it too her? She's not been on fab in weeks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right ppl, I'm going to a social event on Monday night in a local hotel. A lady I know is on here is going. She does not know me that we'll. But and here is the but I recognise her pics and know its 100% her. Should I mention it too her? She's not been on fab in weeks.. "

NO

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

is the social non fab related, if so..... don't mention it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is the social non fab related, if so..... don't mention it.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is the social non fab related, if so..... don't mention it.

This "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I was hoping everyone say yes!!! Grrrrr it will be hard. Will I at least flirt? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you have flirted with her anyway? Or just because you know she's on Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big no no.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you have flirted with her anyway? Or just because you know she's on Fab?"
I would have flirted anyway!! She's lovely

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

yes .. if you want to come across as a knob ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you have flirted with her anyway? Or just because you know she's on Fab? I would have flirted anyway!! She's lovely "

Then do that but don't mention Fab. Good luck and enjoy

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Would you have flirted with her anyway? Or just because you know she's on Fab? I would have flirted anyway!! She's lovely "

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you have flirted with her anyway? Or just because you know she's on Fab? I would have flirted anyway!! She's lovely

Then do that but don't mention Fab. Good luck and enjoy "
thank u!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don't mention it and don't go overboard with the flirting either just because you know she's interested in recreational sex. People do have outside interests and it isn't very discreet to mention it.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Sure, give her one over the bar - that'll break the ice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No don't mention it and don't go overboard with the flirting either just because you know she's interested in recreational sex. People do have outside interests and it isn't very discreet to mention it. "
hi best advice yet! This could be a repeat social situation. I'll mail u specifics now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right.

just so i understand it in my own mind (its sunday and i struggle before midday lol)

this social event is nothing to do with swinging, correct?

this woman is attending, quite possibly because it has nothing to do with swinging, again correct?

and you are asking whether you should out her (not publicly, just between yourselves) and probably hope it ends in you in bed together, correct?

have you messaged her in the past and gotten any form of response?

my advice would be to just treat her as you would any other woman in that social situation.

just because she is on here doesnt mean she is interested in shagging anyone, anyplace, anytime (or maybe it does, we dont know lol)

play it cool and save yourself looking like a cnut/stalker/wierdo (delete as applicable)

and above all, have a nice evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only mention it in the morning

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By *ctaviusStuntMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Do what you want and live with whatever happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd mention it, don't be put off by little details that she's not been on here in ages. Or it's a social function that may require a certain ettiquette. Just go for it. Any woman that has ever been a member is permanently horny and will shag pretty much the first (and probably at least the 2nd and 3rd) person that approaches them. She won't think it's creepy or a little stalkerish, she'll find your approach irresistable.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"I'd mention it, don't be put off by little details that she's not been on here in ages. Or it's a social function that may require a certain ettiquette. Just go for it. Any woman that has ever been a member is permanently horny and will shag pretty much the first (and probably at least the 2nd and 3rd) person that approaches them. She won't think it's creepy or a little stalkerish, she'll find your approach irresistable.

"

Would work for me... right there and then in front of everyone, it'd be knickers off, and legs akimbo alternatively... try some DISCRETION!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a female myself..... I wouldn't want anyone approaching me. From any of the sexy sights. While im out enjoying a vanilla night. It would make me feel very uncomfortable to say the least. Potential disaster zone....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very telling the attitudes between posters on this forum and the Irish forums where he's posted the exact same question

There they seem to think its perfectly ok to out someone in a social gathering

And then they wonder why the scene there is so undercover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very telling the attitudes between posters on this forum and the Irish forums where he's posted the exact same question

There they seem to think its perfectly ok to out someone in a social gathering

And then they wonder why the scene there is so undercover "

They probably think op meant fab social event and whether to let her know via fab before he attends. That's what I read from op.

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I just read the irish version and the general consensus is pretty much the same as this one.

so not sure why somone just said that "the irish forum was all up for him outting her".

:/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just read the irish version and the general consensus is pretty much the same as this one.

so not sure why somone just said that "the irish forum was all up for him outting her".

:/"

I thought that too

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I just read the irish version and the general consensus is pretty much the same as this one.

so not sure why somone just said that "the irish forum was all up for him outting her".

:/

I thought that too "

me three....the majority said it was creepy and not to do it

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

have to say i am with the majority... I wouldn't do it.......

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Get yourself a dinner jacket, with sponsored by Fabswingers written across the back. Let her make the next move. If this subtle approach doesn't work, consider taping a Sky remote to your crotch. Following no response to this, get a ping pong sized bat and stick a piece of paper to it. This should say, 'you look gr8, wanna suk me off?' you then raise this at the start of every conversation. Also remember to wear something over your face, so only your lower body is visible to everyone, but answer queries to this by referring to a high profile job and a need for discretion...

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Just send her a veri on tuesday.

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By *ctaviusStuntMan
over a year ago

plymouth

you cant win on this one. whatever you do will some how be made wrong. To not mention it and hit on her is probably the worst scenario, especially if she later finds out you knew she was on here.

If you are certain the person on here is one and the same, and there is no doubt what so ever then if they dont want to be recognised then maybe they should take more care about that.

Of course the profile you have seen could well be fake and she may wish to know an ex or someone is pretending to be her.

If you have a good heart and good intention you cant be wrong. To be honest i dont even know why you are asking people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be totally wrong to mention it.

You don't know how she regards her life in Fab and if she is prepared for her Fab life and vanilla life to combine

You may cause her great discomfort and embarrassment

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why ?

Why do you think that because she's been a member of fab you have to mention it?

Will you be mentioning that you have used toothpaste in the past ?

Will you sidle up to her and whisper that you know she breathes in and out ?

The fact that you have to ask if it's okay is a CLEAR indication that it isn't okay.

It's obvious you know it's not the done thing.

You also say she's not been on here for a few weeks. Maybe she tried it and didn't like it and want's to forget it.

Your question makes me think that you are a little over excited that she's investigated swinging and cant wait to see if she'll give out.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've just got all creeped out!

Imagine being with friends and someone you barely know announcing to you that they 'know' about you sexually ......ewwwwwwwww

Can't decide if i'd leave like a lady or retrieve his first course with my bare fist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First rule of fab, you don't talk about fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right ppl, I'm going to a social event on Monday night in a local hotel. A lady I know is on here is going. She does not know me that we'll. But and here is the but I recognise her pics and know its 100% her. Should I mention it too her? She's not been on fab in weeks.. "

No.

Jump out from behind the door and shout "SURPRISE!"

She'll love that... that's a guaranteed shag right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First rule of fab, you don't talk about fab "

Talk about fight club instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First rule of fab, you don't talk about fab "

This!!

And ..

Don't overdo the flirting.

Leave it a few days after the social and send her a message on fab.

At least this way she knows you are discreet when in a public setting, it may work in your favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right ppl, I'm going to a social event on Monday night in a local hotel. A lady I know is on here is going. She does not know me that we'll. But and here is the but I recognise her pics and know its 100% her. Should I mention it too her? She's not been on fab in weeks..

No.

Jump out from behind the door and shout "SURPRISE!"

She'll love that... that's a guaranteed shag right there. "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never know,she might recognise you and say hello

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