FabSwingers.com forum: tips for a meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

got a meet tonigh, going out for a drink and stuff before we go back to hotel. Don't know how I should dress or anything or what the etiqutte should be *sorry spelt it wrong*. Wanna make a good impression on the couple as they have traveled ages to meet me. Don't want to turn up and be disappointing. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre-meet nerves are normal.

Dress in a way that makes YOU feel sexy and comfortable. If they've travelled ages to meet you then you've already made a good impression so just be yourself.

Good luck and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'll be as nervous as you. Just try and be yourself.

Good luck and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rule 1 turn up

Then take it from there

Relax enjoy yourself

Remember you are under no obligation to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short black dress heels and lots of thigh on show usually does the trick for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress in what makes you feel comfortable and sexy, and just be yourself,most of all enjoy the experience nerves and all good luck hope you have a wonderful time x

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

"They'll be as nervous as you. Just try and be yourself.

Good luck and have fun

Have fun, but don't be coerced into anything that you don't want to do; remember that you can say 'no'.

Reading your profile, I would suggest that you let a friend know that you are going out and where you will be, arrange to call him/her to confirm that you are safe, at intervals through the evening, and enjoying yourself or to come and get you if things don't work out the way that you were expecting them to.

Don't drink too much, and be wary of anyone that drinks excessively and then wants to Top you; safety first, every time.

Doctor Nasty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They'll be as nervous as you. Just try and be yourself.

Good luck and have fun

Have fun, but don't be coerced into anything that you don't want to do; remember that you can say 'no'.

Don't drink too much, and be wary of anyone that drinks excessively and then wants to Top you; safety first, every time.

Doctor Nasty

will do that. thanks. don't wanna get tied up then something bad to happen. haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would echo what others have said and put emphasis on a safety call. Someone who knows where you are and who will contact the relevant authorities if required.

Don't drink too much, and if you feel that others are highly intoxicated then I wouldn't play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would echo what others have said and put emphasis on a safety call. Someone who knows where you are and who will contact the relevant authorities if required.

Don't drink too much, and if you feel that others are highly intoxicated then I wouldn't play. "

What everyone else has said too. Trust your instincts. If you feel uneasy you can walk away. Doesn't matter how far they have travelled.

Have fun. x

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