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The WOW! Factor

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How often (if at all) is it that you come across someone on here who immediately excites you, someone whos pictures get you feel hot and frisky, whos profile reads of intelligence, good humour and sexual promise, who makes you feel 'THIS is the exact sort of person I got into swinging to meet'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very often or you meet them and they are not a bit like you though they would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i usualy like their pictures but not very often their profile as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happens, it's a romantic myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when I accidentally click on my own profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Rarely, sadly. And even then the deep character flaws start to emerge after you get to talking.....or sometimes only after you've met, which is even worse I think.

I long to meet men who's character I can really admire as well as all the superficial stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I've gone into chat and shown my daft self on cam. And usually, the people I'll get on with the most are the ones that aren't fazed about the fact that I'm not sitting there furiously masturbating.

As a rather quirky being, I headbob to music and wave to people. The women interested through the chat are the ones I'll keep contact with the most.

This is an opinion I've already made only after being here nearly a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, I'm not into World Of Warcraft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never...although we live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rarely, sadly. And even then the deep character flaws start to emerge after you get to talking.....or sometimes only after you've met, which is even worse I think.

I long to meet men who's character I can really admire as well as all the superficial stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I see a nice pic but the profile text is a let down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one. He's not here no more though and lost touch. He was amazing. I'm hopeful of feeling like that again with a future meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly ever but it has happened and it's exactly what I'm here to find. I don't meet many or often and I have been told I'm far too fussy but it's my profile and this is the way I like to do things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only when I accidentally click on my own profile..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a couple of times in 6 years,they have matched their profiles perfectly,I still see them now and they continue to be the people I look forward to seeing the most

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally I've only felt that way about a handful of profiles I've come across/women I've met over the years, and they certainly seemed a lot more prevalent years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None for me. I get the wow moment from seeing someone in person for the first time and that has only happened a couple of times in my life

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We have done it twice....saw the profile and was very excited....both times the meets were everything we hoped they would be and we have been back for more

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Once. We lived within distance to meet a few times, got on really well, lots in common, went to a party and then he went and got a bloody vanilla girlfriend and abandoned me!!!

Grrrr.... We still chat when I see him about. He's still hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None for me. I get the wow moment from seeing someone in person for the first time and that has only happened a couple of times in my life "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Rarely and usually when I do they aren't interested in me.

Such is life!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems to be a lot of disappointed people here - alright then, supposing that such a WOW! person as I described would be around a 9 or 10 out of 10, what sort of score would a person have to get in order for you to actually want to meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a lot of disappointed people here - alright then, supposing that such a WOW! person as I described would be around a 9 or 10 out of 10, what sort of score would a person have to get in order for you to actually want to meet them?"

i dont know i like them that much until i meet them though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good pics and profile can still give you a good idea of a person however.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like to meet nice genuine guys, that are honest and respectful. That sets them high on my scale

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

the wow we click doesnt happen on the site .. you gotta meet for real to find the person

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I like to meet nice genuine guys, that are honest and respectful. That sets them high on my scale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm literally just talking to someone just like that. One small problem...he's in Glasgow Doh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I had this but he is not contactable. Didn't think I'd find it again but I think I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never happened on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to meet to really get a rounded view of how special someone is.

I met a 7 out of 10 to use a crude scale. He turned out to be all the way up to 11.

If you have an extensive wish-list and rigidly believe you need all those component parts to give you that perfect 10 I fear a very long wait, especially in the swinging sphere.

I hope you find her though.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have recently met a 10 out of 10, nice pics, true to the profile and when I met him I just thought "yes, yes, yes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened only 3/4 times. where I went on to meet them they were completely what I expected and more. One I never got to meet, it all went wrong somehow, but I'm pretty certain that even now if we met it would be amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me, I hope I'm not scored out of 10 after a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it when I see a nice ass and legs I'm like "WOW she squats"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are usually a million miles away

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Never happens to me. The only amazing people I've met sex wise have been non-Fab meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often (if at all) is it that you come across someone on here who immediately excites you, someone whos pictures get you feel hot and frisky, whos profile reads of intelligence, good humour and sexual promise, who makes you feel 'THIS is the exact sort of person I got into swinging to meet'?"

Has happened a few times and luckily I got to meet them and remain friends... Would be nice if it could happen more often though please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck me, I hope I'm not scored out of 10 after a meet. "

11 dear, 11.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck me, I hope I'm not scored out of 10 after a meet.

11 dear, 11.

"

At least all the way up to 11 (you do know it was a joke Spinal Tap quote right???)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck me, I hope I'm not scored out of 10 after a meet.

11 dear, 11.

"

Easily pleased, all I did was give you a handjob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are usually a million miles away "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a WOW moment tonight. I meet him on here about a year ago but only met tonight. His pics are nice but in person he's a wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only when I accidentally click on my own profile..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How often (if at all) is it that you come across someone on here who immediately excites you, someone whos pictures get you feel hot and frisky, whos profile reads of intelligence, good humour and sexual promise, who makes you feel 'THIS is the exact sort of person I got into swinging to meet'?

Has happened a few times and luckily I got to meet them and remain friends... Would be nice if it could happen more often though please "

Indeed.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Seems to be a lot of disappointed people here - alright then, supposing that such a WOW! person as I described would be around a 9 or 10 out of 10, what sort of score would a person have to get in order for you to actually want to meet them?"

I don't think it works like that - I really can't begin to rate people out of 10, and there are so many variables, eg according to my prevalent mood, and the dynamic between two people too. I got really excited about someone the other day though he was not what I would call good looking, we just clicked from the first message and he got wildly excited over some of the deeper aspects of me, who I was, which in turn really got me going.

But then I heard the first lie, and from there some the slippery slope was very short indeed.....!

Sometimes the spontaneous meet turns out to be the best and the one you thought would be perfect was rubbish (for you).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck me, I hope I'm not scored out of 10 after a meet.

11 dear, 11.

At least all the way up to 11 (you do know it was a joke Spinal Tap quote right???)"

God not watched that for years ! Funny as hell !

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