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By *r-Unique OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

It may seem obvious to say that everyone or a lot of people gets nervous on their first meet, but I was wondering:

1. Why are you nervous? What's your biggest fear?

2. Is each meet completely different or are there similarities. So you feel less nervous?

3. At what point do those nerves disappear whilst on the meet? Is it after chatting for a certain amount of time, when you kiss or when you get a laugh out of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im lucky I don't get nervous but I guess I go with no preconceived ideas, expectations or hopes other than to get on with someone. I do though tend to chat for a bit on the phone well before meeting and so have a rapore established when I do meet in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually wasn't nervous on my first meet which surprised me.

I was my typical cheeky self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's the fear of meeting the mad axeman that gets me

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I tell myself nerves are a form of excitement.

Although I hardly meet...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"it's the fear of meeting the mad axeman that gets me "
And you think he's not fucking shitting himself once you get hold of his axe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's the fear of meeting the mad axeman that gets me "

I'm not that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's the fear of meeting the mad axeman that gets me And you think he's not fucking shitting himself once you get hold of his axe? "

good point ... I am relatively safe then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's the fear of meeting the mad axeman that gets me

I'm not that bad "

much as this might not do your reputation any good ... ure a mere pussy cat

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

I'd say there's probably (I haven't met up yet but can sense this) a fear of rejection. We are certainly, in at least one sense, a more liberated group of individuals, but ultimately we do fall prey to our innate insecurities. We're scared that we may not get on with the other party, that we may not be able to perform, or that they may not particularly like the way we look or something we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's the fear of meeting the mad axeman that gets me

I'm not that bad

much as this might not do your reputation any good ... ure a mere pussy cat "

Good my plans working

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By *r-Unique OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

The threads I have created side I've been back have had poor responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's the fear of meeting the mad axeman that gets me And you think he's not fucking shitting himself once you get hold of his axe?

good point ... I am relatively safe then "
worse a poisoner . You can see the axe coming and they have to carry it , poison is deadly !

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By *r-Unique OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"it's the fear of meeting the mad axeman that gets me And you think he's not fucking shitting himself once you get hold of his axe?

good point ... I am relatively safe then worse a poisoner . You can see the axe coming and they have to carry it , poison is deadly ! "

Why did I think of Batman & Robin starring Uma Thurman when you said that, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's the fear of meeting the mad axeman that gets me And you think he's not fucking shitting himself once you get hold of his axe?

good point ... I am relatively safe then worse a poisoner . You can see the axe coming and they have to carry it , poison is deadly !

Why did I think of Batman & Robin starring Uma Thurman when you said that, lol"
. Lol cos uma is a fox .yummy

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By *r-Unique OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"it's the fear of meeting the mad axeman that gets me And you think he's not fucking shitting himself once you get hold of his axe?

good point ... I am relatively safe then worse a poisoner . You can see the axe coming and they have to carry it , poison is deadly !

Why did I think of Batman & Robin starring Uma Thurman when you said that, lol. Lol cos uma is a fox .yummy "

A lot of the fit women in 90s films/tv shows are milfs now . For the record who am I talking to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's the fear of meeting the mad axeman that gets me And you think he's not fucking shitting himself once you get hold of his axe?

good point ... I am relatively safe then worse a poisoner . You can see the axe coming and they have to carry it , poison is deadly !

Why did I think of Batman & Robin starring Uma Thurman when you said that, lol. Lol cos uma is a

fox .yummy

A lot of the fit women in 90s films/tv shows are milfs now . For the record who am I talking to?"
. Twerking queen . I like milfs

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By *r-Unique OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"The threads I have created side I've been back have had poor responses "

Too complicated - you need to simplify the questions.

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By *r-Unique OP   Man
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"The threads I have created side I've been back have had poor responses

Too complicated - you need to simplify the questions."

What's complicated about this one

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