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"I disagree not all people are beautiful in mind or in body." Good to see you in agreement... | |||
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" it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more " Obviously personality is paramount but it serves to remember this is not a POF/ dating site... People need to be physically attracted..at least I do anyway. | |||
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"so define beauty then? is a tall slim blond girl with firm body and a nasty racist bigoted attitude, more attractive than a curvy women who is tolerant of other ppl ?? " Ok smart arse, would you say Adolf Hitler, The Yorkshire Ripper, Tony Blair, Katie Hopkins etc...were beautiful?  | |||
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"so define beauty then? is a tall slim blond girl with firm body and a nasty racist bigoted attitude, more attractive than a curvy women who is tolerant of other ppl ?? Ok smart arse, would you say Adolf Hitler, The Yorkshire Ripper, Tony Blair, Katie Hopkins etc...were beautiful? "Well there are a few twisted few that would say yes  | |||
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"i expect this to cause a riot . on some ppls profiles its says will not meet mingers. will only meet slim and attractive ppl someone define attractive. all people are beautiful, black ,white, asaian, tall short male or female. it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more " Not me, I'm a right munter | |||
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" it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more Obviously personality is paramount but it serves to remember this is not a POF/ dating site... People need to be physically attracted..at least I do anyway." Me too, I'm here to have sex with people I'm physically attracted too although I do need to like them too. | |||
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"so define beauty then? is a tall slim blond girl with firm body and a nasty racist bigoted attitude, more attractive than a curvy women who is tolerant of other ppl ?? Ok smart arse, would you say Adolf Hitler, The Yorkshire Ripper, Tony Blair, Katie Hopkins etc...were beautiful? "bit unfair associating the 1st two with that horrible woman..   | |||
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"I agree with the OP, now, shag me someone who is way too hot for me...our minds will meld and we will become one..even if u are thick as fuck " ^LMAO!  | |||
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"so define beauty then? is a tall slim blond girl with firm body and a nasty racist bigoted attitude, more attractive than a curvy women who is tolerant of other ppl ?? Ok smart arse, would you say Adolf Hitler, The Yorkshire Ripper, Tony Blair, Katie Hopkins etc...were beautiful?
bit unfair associating the 1st two with that horrible woman..
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"so define beauty then? is a tall slim blond girl with firm body and a nasty racist bigoted attitude, more attractive than a curvy women who is tolerant of other ppl ?? " Only for people into tall slim blond girls with firm bodies who go by physical attraction alone and are not too bothered about holding a conversation. Physically attractive yes. But mentally ugly. For those of us into curvy women (are curves not just as attractive as tall slim blonde?) the second lady you mention sounds ideal | |||
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"i expect this to cause a riot . on some ppls profiles its says will not meet mingers. will only meet slim and attractive ppl someone define attractive. all people are beautiful, black ,white, asaian, tall short male or female. it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more " Ok. So shag my 83 year old neighbour. She's got no teeth, greasy hair, smells and has a big wart thing on her eye. But hey, inside she is a beautiful person. | |||
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"i expect this to cause a riot . on some ppls profiles its says will not meet mingers. will only meet slim and attractive ppl someone define attractive. all people are beautiful, black ,white, asaian, tall short male or female. it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more Ok. So shag my 83 year old neighbour. She's got no teeth, greasy hair, smells and has a big wart thing on her eye. But hey, inside she is a beautiful person. " LMFAO classic i am weeping with tears here I really am and no I don't want to shag your neighbor. | |||
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"i expect this to cause a riot . on some ppls profiles its says will not meet mingers. will only meet slim and attractive ppl someone define attractive. all people are beautiful, black ,white, asaian, tall short male or female. it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more " Geezer no matter how frustrated, annoyed, desponded and frigged off at other peoples profiles and there reluctance to minger mercy fuck you really can't force them to do it its not a nice thing at all for them to contemplate. | |||
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"i expect this to cause a riot . on some ppls profiles its says will not meet mingers. will only meet slim and attractive ppl someone define attractive. all people are beautiful, black ,white, asaian, tall short male or female. it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more " I find it funny. 99 times out of 100 when somebody puts on their profile no mingers that are not very attractive themselves. I always think of the phrase pot kettle and black. I often wonder if somebody has had the balls to tell somebody who has on their profile no mingers they are actually mingers themselves. I would avoid anybody who has no mingers in their profile like the plague. That one comment tells me an awful lot about their personality. In case anybody is wondering I don't think I would be classed as a minger PMSL. | |||
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" it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more Obviously personality is paramount but it serves to remember this is not a POF/ dating site... People need to be physically attracted..at least I do anyway." Everybody needs to be attracted to somebody they are going to meet for sex. Is it really necessary for some people to put no mingers on their profile? If you get contacted by somebody you are not attracted to you just say thanks but no thanks. | |||
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" it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more Obviously personality is paramount but it serves to remember this is not a POF/ dating site... People need to be physically attracted..at least I do anyway. Everybody needs to be attracted to somebody they are going to meet for sex. Is it really necessary for some people to put no mingers on their profile? If you get contacted by somebody you are not attracted to you just say thanks but no thanks. " Although I only consider myself at most 60% minger, I'd move straight by a profile that had that sort of comment on... Same as if it said no skinny bints (I'm def not skinny) - might mean there'd be more chance of getting a meet but I'm not keen on profiles that use derogatory language to state their preferences... As others have said, attractiveness is subjective and the person that makes me go "Phwoar!" may well make others go "Eeeewwwwww" as I'm sure I'll have that effect on some too | |||
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"i expect this to cause a riot . on some ppls profiles its says will not meet mingers. will only meet slim and attractive ppl someone define attractive. all people are beautiful, black ,white, asaian, tall short male or female. it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more I find it funny. 99 times out of 100 when somebody puts on their profile no mingers that are not very attractive themselves. I always think of the phrase pot kettle and black. I often wonder if somebody has had the balls to tell somebody who has on their profile no mingers they are actually mingers themselves. I would avoid anybody who has no mingers in their profile like the plague. That one comment tells me an awful lot about their personality. In case anybody is wondering I don't think I would be classed as a minger PMSL. " So people have to be attractive to be allowed to specify they want sex with attractive people? Are you going to extend that to black people only being allowed to have sex with. Black people, fat people with fat people, tall people with tall people? Is someone specifies a type they prefer on their profile but they don't appeal to you then pass them by. Telling them they dont deserve attractive, black fat, tall because they are not the same is futile. No need to use emotive words like mingers though  | |||
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"I disagree not all people are beautiful in mind or in body." You are in both, even though we have not met yet | |||
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"so define beauty then? is a tall slim blond girl with firm body and a nasty racist bigoted attitude, more attractive than a curvy women who is tolerant of other ppl ?? " I can't help but think that the opening post and title were designed to be provocative and controversial but this post suggests that you are just as capable of pigeon holing people as the people you ate being critical of. | |||
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"Many of us like different things at different times. We may have very brief sexual connection with someone without discovering more of their personality, as ugly as that may be. We chop and change on physical preferences, sometimes gender. When we were 18 or so, we found different people attractive to those that we do now, magic changed our automatic preference and tastes. I think most of us would find a more socially and sexually involved session with someone we found less attractive as a person to be outside of our interests. But we are different, and some people clamour for convicted murderers in prison etc. The op himself states his preferences in his profile. Id find a different profile that used words like ugly to be off putting. Our tastes are just that, and work for us. You probably wont change others' tastes, but may influence how they express them. Im all for respect for others, so would not aim to think of and label others in derogatory ways. " You always write so well.  | |||
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"i expect this to cause a riot . on some ppls profiles its says will not meet mingers. will only meet slim and attractive ppl someone define attractive. all people are beautiful, black ,white, asaian, tall short male or female. it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more " I dont agree with that. Some have falled from the top branch of the ugly tree and blah de blah all the way down | |||
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""Show me a man with a beautiful stunning sexy gorgeous wife. And I'll show you someone that's cheating on her with someone less attractive" said a famous wealthy divorce lawyer once." that's exactly what happened to me | |||
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"Yes I agree its the person inside that counts.......as long as they're not a minger " | |||
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"i expect this to cause a riot . on some ppls profiles its says will not meet mingers. will only meet slim and attractive ppl someone define attractive. all people are beautiful, black ,white, asaian, tall short male or female. it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more " Since I aim to get up close and personal I prefer to find the person I am doing so with to be attractive to me. However, what I consider attractive is not necessarily what others may consider attractive. | |||
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"it is the person inside that counts" I liken this to the saying "it's the taking part that counts" - which is generally said by losers or people too scared to try. | |||
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"It's fairly difficult to stick my dick in a soul and I like to be attracted to what it goes in so... "
If we were dating them and forming a lasting relationship then yes, we would want to meet people beautiful on the inside and outside. As, to be blunt, we use this site to meet people to fuck, then appearance and mutual kinks are our priority. Though obviously you need to be decent craic too. That said we've been lucky and all our playmates are wonderful in the bedroom and wonderful people too | |||
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"it is the person inside that counts I liken this to the saying "it's the taking part that counts" - which is generally said by losers or people too scared to try." I tend to get that said to me as I'm leaving a meet | |||
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"it is the person inside that counts I liken this to the saying "it's the taking part that counts" - which is generally said by losers or people too scared to try. I tend to get that said to me as I'm leaving a meet " | |||
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"i expect this to cause a riot . on some ppls profiles its says will not meet mingers. will only meet slim and attractive ppl someone define attractive. all people are beautiful, black ,white, asaian, tall short male or female. it is the person inside that counts, our bodies are just a sheel to carry our sprits souls or personality nothing more " Yes someone's personality and attitude are important as we have to like being in their company. However to get up close and personal we have to be physically attracted otherwise its not going to happen, no matter how lovely they are! | |||
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"I hate the word minger its so ugly " Try munter...........so much more civilised would you agree? | |||
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"When I see the 'No Mingers' on a profile I know that I stand no chance of getting anywhere with the owners. Not because I'm a minger (though I probably in the opinion of those who post as such on their profile) but rather that I find the whole concept of being objectified based on an initial opinion from a static image to be somewhat removed from the ethos of swinging. It offers no insight into the type of person I am in any way other than a fleeting physical judgement. I think it devalues swinging into something approaching an on-line sex site mentality. " Like in any community of like minded individuals there will be all sorts, shapes and sizes. My own experience leads me to believe that you just cannot judge a book by its cover. The other thing that goes into the mix is personal preference and peoples right to exercise it. Personally I am attracted to rotund bisexual Catholics..............none smokers and without tattoos of course! | |||
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