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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was wondering what people actually think about them. I'm sure not many people like them regardless of if they have them themselves. I'm not against them personally. Where all humans afterall. Are they a big turn off? Whats the general consensus?

I suppose it would be quite mixed.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

not just a fat thing you know? my daughter is only 7 stone and hers are worse than mine

I don't notice them now as they are very fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had kids I have stretch marks no one has commented on them and to be honest if people don't like mine fair enough

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

They're there, can't be prevented or made to disappear and most folk have them.

No issue at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had kids I have stretch marks no one has commented on them and to be honest if people don't like mine fair enough "

I have them and are proud of them xxx

I call then love scars

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've got them. I can't do anything about them.

People can take it or leave it.

It's not worth me fussing about something I can't change.

Like it or lump it.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I am very lucky to have a man who loves them. He loves to stroke and kiss them and says all the time how much he enjoys the feel of them.

He has made quite a few women feel better, boosting their confidence with how excited and genuinely happy he is to play with and caress their skin....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a size 14 and have them, I was a size 8 before I had my kids.

My kids gave me those, if I'm enjoyed for what I have, there is always elsewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had kids I have stretch marks no one has commented on them and to be honest if people don't like mine fair enough

I have them and are proud of them xxx

I call then love scars "
Awww I like that. I have them and don't take any notice but I have other scars too so not bothered .love scars that's nice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree its not just weight gain that cause them I know many smaller people who have them. I'm not a big guy myself and so I read up on it just to find out a bit more and apparently its all to do with skin elasticity. That determines whether you'll be prone to then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think its really cool that he does that little extra to make you feel special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very lucky to have a man who loves them. He loves to stroke and kiss them and says all the time how much he enjoys the feel of them.

He has made quite a few women feel better, boosting their confidence with how excited and genuinely happy he is to play with and caress their skin.... "

I love them. They are a part of a persons story and what makes them unique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son got them because he shot up so quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering what people actually think about them. I'm sure not many people like them regardless of if they have them themselves. I'm not against them personally. Where all humans afterall. Are they a big turn off? Whats the general consensus?

I suppose it would be quite mixed."

Maybe I'm an exception to the rule but I love them!!! My ex give birth to twins of 6lb 4 and 6lb 6, which gave here what she described as ugly stretch marks! She never believed me when I told her that I loved to touch and kiss her there! But I did!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree its not just weight gain that cause them I know many smaller people who have them. I'm not a big guy myself and so I read up on it just to find out a bit more and apparently its all to do with skin elasticity. That determines whether you'll be prone to then. "

its the dermis that tears and doesn't mend, which is why you get the ridges and troughs when your body recovers from pregnancy or weight loss. I can tell you that during pregnancy they are painful and itchy. I've not had any man look revolted by them,not even younger men who might not have touched them before. When I was slim they looked worse as they weren't stretched out so the troughs are more pronounced

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By *aul n PleasureCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've had twins n was and still am a size 10 so yep got them here too can't change them so it's part of me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have them after having three kids and no ones really bothered about them. Theyre not as visible now and even if they were, its not a big deal lol just something in life that many people have to deal with

Someone i know calls them her 'tiger stripes' and 'love ribbons' lol

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most people have them, regardless of sex and body size.

I don't pay much attention to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv got them i think they ruin the way i look, but cant do nothing about them so why worry, nobody i meet is likely to say to my face they dont like them are they.

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By *he Master JMan
over a year ago

Southall


"I think most people have them, regardless of sex and body size.

I don't pay much attention to them."

I have them and have never given birth maybe it's because I am a cuddly bear lol

When I was a bouncer they would never hit me because if I fell on top of them I would have killed them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually find them quite cute on a woman, like a tigers stripes, but then I do like a soft tummy on a lady

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

the line on Shirley valentine he kissed my stretchmarks lol

I had a huge baby 10ib 8 and a half didn't think my tummy could stretch anymore had a c section and it deflated lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who knocks stretch marks is a bastard it cant be helped its either due to giving birth or being overweight, and what are you starting a thread about this for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems threads like this are started are always about woman, dragging them down.

Is it supposed to turn us on?

Insecurity is all I can think of for doing this.

One man's downfall is another man's treasure.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

OP never mentioned Females?!!! Men get em too! I read it as streach marks who ever got em ... Not having a go at women at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP never mentioned Females?!!! Men get em too! I read it as streach marks who ever got em ... Not having a go at women at all! "
I agree with what your saying, but a majority are woman.

I was pointing out all about woman, as a majority have them, and you never see a woman banging on about the male and what happens to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are my badges of honour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 6 kids but suffer faint stretch marks on my bum and legs so I don't focus on them at all I do however notice my c section scar quite often when taking pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen plenty of stretch marks on men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer to keep my top on so people arent put off by my big tummy and stretch marks, they dont look good in my photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It amazes me how defensive people get. OP said nothing about women or fat people!

I don't mind mine, but then I don't have that many (especially for a fat woman ). Most people have them. Nothing to get excited about in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i prefer to keep my top on so people arent put off by my big tummy and stretch marks, they dont look good in my photos. "

I whip my clothes off and prance around naked. Might even give my stomach a little wobble if I'm in a playful mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have an issue with them. They make me who I am

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I would kiss them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they were on me, I'm guessing I would hate them. I was lucky and didn't get any, although I hate my c-section scar...I always tell potential meets about it (you can hardly see it, but for me it's a big point of insecurity). Either of these on another lady wouldn't bother me tho x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

most ladies have them .. if they ve had children .. id kiss them then id kiss next to them .. and anywhere else i fancy kissing .. mmm

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I must have been very lucky after my two children as i dont have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i prefer to keep my top on so people arent put off by my big tummy and stretch marks, they dont look good in my photos. "

I know what u men but sod it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have them.A result of having three gorgeous kids who are now wonderful caring adults!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not something I've ever given a second thought to. Never in my life met a guy whose even mentioned them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most people have them, regardless of sex and body size.

I don't pay much attention to them."

I thought most people have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not something I've ever given a second thought to. Never in my life met a guy whose even mentioned them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have them

No one ever mentioned them its just part of us! Normal and Natural

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Not something I've ever given a second thought to. Never in my life met a guy whose even mentioned them

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same here

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

i've got them and have had some since i was very young when i was very slim - i don't worry too much about them and certainly wouldn't really notice any one else. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spaghetti junction here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP didn't mention weight gain or was not gender specific, some people are so defensive... I've got shit loads, I don't like them but they're part of me so I've learnt to live with them!

Would I be put off by a man with them? No

Do I care if men see mine? Yes, very self conscious of my mummy tummy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP didn't mention weight gain or was not gender specific, some people are so defensive... I've got shit loads, I don't like them but they're part of me so I've learnt to live with them!

Would I be put off by a man with them? No

Do I care if men see mine? Yes, very self conscious of my mummy tummy!

"

This ^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I started this thread because I had a genuine interest in what people thought about stretch marks. I didn't make it gender bias so I'm not sure why any gender would take it personally. By no means am I insecure about my stretch marks because they are part of me 'it is what it is' lol. Hopefully nobody is offended by my interest

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I started this thread because I had a genuine interest in what people thought about stretch marks. I didn't make it gender bias so I'm not sure why any gender would take it personally. By no means am I insecure about my stretch marks because they are part of me 'it is what it is' lol. Hopefully nobody is offended by my interest "

i'm not!Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started this thread because I had a genuine interest in what people thought about stretch marks. I didn't make it gender bias so I'm not sure why any gender would take it personally. By no means am I insecure about my stretch marks because they are part of me 'it is what it is' lol. Hopefully nobody is offended by my interest "
my apologies for my post..sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started this thread because I had a genuine interest in what people thought about stretch marks. I didn't make it gender bias so I'm not sure why any gender would take it personally. By no means am I insecure about my stretch marks because they are part of me 'it is what it is' lol. Hopefully nobody is offended by my interest "

I wasn't offended either,If you stick around you'll learn that some people get off on acting personally insulted at nothing

I have some,I don't really like them even though they're barely visible now,but no one has ever mentioned them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started this thread because I had a genuine interest in what people thought about stretch marks. I didn't make it gender bias so I'm not sure why any gender would take it personally. By no means am I insecure about my stretch marks because they are part of me 'it is what it is' lol. Hopefully nobody is offended by my interest

I wasn't offended either,If you stick around you'll learn that some people get off on acting personally insulted at nothing

I have some,I don't really like them even though they're barely visible now,but no one has ever mentioned them"

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By *heHoneymonstersCouple
over a year ago

cambridge

I had a baby at 18 so got my share of strechmarks but hubby loves everysingle on of them and they along with alllll my other inperfections make me who I am and if that turns others off "each to their own"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got some on my legs when I was a skinny teenager. I had three babies and didn't get one. So they are faint now but they never ever bothered me one bit. I don't care about them on other people either.

X

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I like to call them my pregnancy scars or baby scars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something that bothers me, everyone has some imperfections. Although it does remind me of Tom Conti in Shirley Valentine when he says about stretch marks, "...they show that you are alive, that you have given life; don’t be ashamed of these marks. They are beautiful." - Remember that one next time you're asked chaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not something that bothers me, everyone has some imperfections. Although it does remind me of Tom Conti in Shirley Valentine when he says about stretch marks, "...they show that you are alive, that you have given life; don’t be ashamed of these marks. They are beautiful." - Remember that one next time you're asked chaps."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have heard people voice their opinions about weight, color, height, race and everything under the sun when it comes to preferences but never heard anyone complaining about stretch marks on other people.

Im not particularly fond of mine but I have never actually noticed them on other people so I usually assume no one really notices mine.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

I notice them on a womans belly and abdomen they are they are super sexy! They say I am a fit and fertile woman I have given birth!

What could be more attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I notice them on a womans belly and abdomen they are they are super sexy! They say I am a fit and fertile woman I have given birth!

What could be more attractive? "

Well I could blame mine on my son now but truth is they were there before I had him lol. So what if present without giving birth then?

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"I notice them on a womans belly and abdomen they are they are super sexy! They say I am a fit and fertile woman I have given birth!

What could be more attractive?

Well I could blame mine on my son now but truth is they were there before I had him lol. So what if present without giving birth then?"

You had a sexy mummies belly before you were a mummy! That's cheating! How can I ever believe anything I see again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I notice them on a womans belly and abdomen they are they are super sexy! They say I am a fit and fertile woman I have given birth!

What could be more attractive?

Well I could blame mine on my son now but truth is they were there before I had him lol. So what if present without giving birth then?

You had a sexy mummies belly before you were a mummy! That's cheating! How can I ever believe anything I see again? "

Im just special like that

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