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Nerves, what are they all about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do I get nervous?

I'm a sales manager, meet loads of people on a daily basis! Used to doing sales presentations in front if hundreds of directors and buyers! But I'm as nervous as hell about meeting a lady for a social meet on Friday?? Any doctors here can explain to me and possibly give me some medication for the nerves.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Why do I get nervous?

I'm a sales manager, meet loads of people on a daily basis! Used to doing sales presentations in front if hundreds of directors and buyers! But I'm as nervous as hell about meeting a lady for a social meet on Friday?? Any doctors here can explain to me and possibly give me some medication for the nerves. "

Aw I think that's sweet - it's 'cos it's personal, and you care!! Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do I get nervous?

I'm a sales manager, meet loads of people on a daily basis! Used to doing sales presentations in front if hundreds of directors and buyers! But I'm as nervous as hell about meeting a lady for a social meet on Friday?? Any doctors here can explain to me and possibly give me some medication for the nerves.

Aw I think that's sweet - it's 'cos it's personal, and you care!! Good luck!"

Yes that's definitely the case! Hope she's as excited!

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are a good thing, it's all part of the fun.

You wouldn't want it to just be routine would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a read of Diamondsmiles thread yesterday on nerves. You'll realise you are not alone and if anything she'll be even more nervous than you. I think the nervous excitement is all part of the fun of meeting. Enjoy the anticipation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the other recent thread about nerves.

Might make you feel better to know you're not alone.

I regularly do 3 hour presentations to a large lecture hall of strangers, no notes, no death by powerpoint, just ad-hoc from memory, doesn't phase me one bit but other people say they'd be terrified.

Arrange a meet and I fall apart. Good to be outside your comfort zone though sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nerves are a good thing, it's all part of the fun.

You wouldn't want it to just be routine would you?"

this. It's natural and much better than being a right cocky ***

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

http://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/262746

This is the one, hopefully it'll let you know a lot of us get scared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone gets nervous when they meet someone for the first time I know I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all, you've made me feel better already!! Much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervous every single time....I quite like that though, its all part and parcel of it for me some people like rollercoasters and skydiving for such feelings....i'm a big chicken with such things so get my nervous excitement in this way embrace it and don't think for a moment your alone in the nerves dept! may you have many more nervous moments good sir!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the fear of not getting an hard on what else can any man be afraid of,have a good meet mate.

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