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By *risky_Mare OP   Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Here's a starter for ten - I never really use this word, what does it mean to you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh I use the word. If I use it it to describe a lady or a couple or a picture or a scene in a film or video I mean it causes me to feel sexually aroused. The word evokes something deeper and even otherworldly than just something being sexy or horny. There's a sense of being transported to a different reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I write erotic stories

So much classier than saying porn

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By *reaminmycoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Putney

It's the more sensual side more artistic form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An erotic story would be different to a pornographic story though...it's not a matter of sounding classier. The quality of writing or in video the cinematography is different. Not necessarily any less explicit but the feelings it evokes are different for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the more sensual side more artistic form"

I agree the sensuality and artistry is at a deeper level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the more sensual side more artistic form

I agree the sensuality and artistry are* at a deeper level"

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

I would say eroticism stimulates the mind and uses the imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erotic is a pseuds word to justify porn

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By *reaminmycoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Putney


"Erotic is a pseuds word to justify porn"

Your opinion but the English language is beautiful and has many names for the same thing but with slightly different emphasis not all porn is Erotic and not all Erotic things are porn as said before it can stimulate the mind with an idea some fully clothed stuff can be very Erotic but couldn't be classed as porn and that's my opinion

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By *risky_Mare OP   Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, I don't think it's just pornographic, I get a slightly 'dark' sense with the word too, artistic, yes, a touch kinky maybe, but something 'other' about it too, seductive and suggestive. I can imagine one finger sliding slowly along a surface being made into a very erotically charged image without actually showing anything. I guess it evokes mood too sometimes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erotic evokes thoughts of mystery,seduction, and taboo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erotic is a pseuds word to justify porn

Your opinion but the English language is beautiful and has many names for the same thing but with slightly different emphasis not all porn is Erotic and not all Erotic things are porn as said before it can stimulate the mind with an idea some fully clothed stuff can be very Erotic but couldn't be classed as porn and that's my opinion"

Proves my point

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By *reaminmycoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Putney


"Yes, I don't think it's just pornographic, I get a slightly 'dark' sense with the word too, artistic, yes, a touch kinky maybe, but something 'other' about it too, seductive and suggestive. I can imagine one finger sliding slowly along a surface being made into a very erotically charged image without actually showing anything. I guess it evokes mood too sometimes?"

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By *reaminmycoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Putney


"Erotic is a pseuds word to justify porn

Your opinion but the English language is beautiful and has many names for the same thing but with slightly different emphasis not all porn is Erotic and not all Erotic things are porn as said before it can stimulate the mind with an idea some fully clothed stuff can be very Erotic but couldn't be classed as porn and that's my opinion

Proves my point"

Like wise !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you started to hit the spot when you said 'There's a sense of being transported to a different reality.'

I see 'the erotic' as that side of sexuality that is primarily about the mind and the imagination. One thing that humans can be grateful for is the fact our sexual desires and longings are vitally linked to your psyche and our subconcious. Even the most dull witted individual, when they become aroused, is beholden to their workings of their sexual subconcious.

I talk of things being 'erotic' because I find I am very aware of the way my mind and imagination work away to make me feel arousal, and want to be physical, but erotic always starts in the mind.

For me sex entirely devoid of eroticism is just procreation, which has a purpose all of it's own. But eorticism is how humans elevate their sexuality and desires and fantasies to something magnificent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you started to hit the spot when you said 'There's a sense of being transported to a different reality.'

I see 'the erotic' as that side of sexuality that is primarily about the mind and the imagination. One thing that humans can be grateful for is the fact our sexual desires and longings are vitally linked to your psyche and our subconscious. Even the most dull witted individual, when they become aroused, is beholden to their workings of their sexual subconscious.

I talk of things being 'erotic' because I find I am very aware of the way my mind and imagination work away to make me feel arousal, and want to be physical, but erotic always starts in the mind.

For me sex entirely devoid of eroticism is just procreation, which has a purpose all of it's own. But eroticism is how humans elevate their sexuality and desires and fantasies to something magnificent."

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By *risky_Mare OP   Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think you started to hit the spot when you said 'There's a sense of being transported to a different reality.'

...........

I talk of things being 'erotic' because I find I am very aware of the way my mind and imagination work away to make me feel arousal, and want to be physical, but erotic always starts in the mind.

For me sex entirely devoid of eroticism is just procreation, which has a purpose all of it's own. But eorticism is how humans elevate their sexuality and desires and fantasies to something magnificent."

Hmm, I think that your erotic and my sensual are overlapping though.....;-)

I find my arousal starts more in the senses than the imagination per se, I am much more kinaesthetic than cerebral or visual when it comes to arousal.

What sets me off is not usually imagining a scene or even a scenario (which the word erotic evokes for me) but a feeling, even if something visual inspired the train of thought......and I think sensuality elevates, but I guess you would call that erotic anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you started to hit the spot when you said 'There's a sense of being transported to a different reality.'

...........

I talk of things being 'erotic' because I find I am very aware of the way my mind and imagination work away to make me feel arousal, and want to be physical, but erotic always starts in the mind.

For me sex entirely devoid of eroticism is just procreation, which has a purpose all of it's own. But eorticism is how humans elevate their sexuality and desires and fantasies to something magnificent.

Hmm, I think that your erotic and my sensual are overlapping though.....;-)

I find my arousal starts more in the senses than the imagination per se, I am much more kinaesthetic than cerebral or visual when it comes to arousal.

What sets me off is not usually imagining a scene or even a scenario (which the word erotic evokes for me) but a feeling, even if something visual inspired the train of thought......and I think sensuality elevates, but I guess you would call that erotic anyway."

I think erotic includes sensual. I find sex in the dark can be very erotic as other senses are heightened. I think the erotic has something intoxicating about it, that draws you in. Sensuality and eroticism go hand in hand for me.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Erotic to me is feeding the mind to fill in the gaps of what could happen from sensory stimulation.

Porn is someone else filling the gaps, usually more then one........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you started to hit the spot when you said 'There's a sense of being transported to a different reality.'

...........

I talk of things being 'erotic' because I find I am very aware of the way my mind and imagination work away to make me feel arousal, and want to be physical, but erotic always starts in the mind.

For me sex entirely devoid of eroticism is just procreation, which has a purpose all of it's own. But eorticism is how humans elevate their sexuality and desires and fantasies to something magnificent.

Hmm, I think that your erotic and my sensual are overlapping though.....;-)

I find my arousal starts more in the senses than the imagination per se, I am much more kinaesthetic than cerebral or visual when it comes to arousal.

What sets me off is not usually imagining a scene or even a scenario (which the word erotic evokes for me) but a feeling, even if something visual inspired the train of thought......and I think sensuality elevates, but I guess you would call that erotic anyway.

I think erotic includes sensual. I find sex in the dark can be very erotic as other senses are heightened. I think the erotic has something intoxicating about it, that draws you in. Sensuality and eroticism go hand in hand for me."
I couldnt agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erotic to me is feeding the mind to fill in the gaps of what could happen from sensory stimulation.

Porn is someone else filling the gaps, usually more then one........"

Yes well expressed.

I see porn as akin to a sugary energy drink. No nutrition, nothing that will give you long term joy, just a hit to satisfy the most basic, urgent need.

Whereas the erotic and sensual is like a lovingly prepared and made meal, full of spice and flavour, that arouses you with it's smell and appearance, and from the work you put into make it, even before you eat it, and, importantly, share it with whoever you made it for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difference between erotic and porn, is the same as eating a carefully prepared and presented cake, or eating a block of icing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Erotic to me is feeding the mind to fill in the gaps of what could happen from sensory stimulation.

Porn is someone else filling the gaps, usually more then one........"

Yes well expressed.

I see porn as akin to a sugary energy drink. No nutrition, nothing that will give you long term joy, just a hit to satisfy the most basic, urgent need.

Whereas the erotic and sensual is like a lovingly prepared and made meal, full of spice and flavour, that arouses you with it's smell and appearance, and from the work you put into make it, even before you eat it, and, importantly, share it with whoever you made it for."

fancy a curry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between erotic and porn, is the same as eating a carefully prepared and presented cake, or eating a block of icing."

Exactly, well said (and shorter than what I said, even if the same!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between erotic and porn, is the same as eating a carefully prepared and presented cake, or eating a block of icing."

I make excellent cake too !

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Erotic to me is feeding the mind to fill in the gaps of what could happen from sensory stimulation.

Porn is someone else filling the gaps, usually more then one........"

And seduction is the ability to create the erotic thoughts in the person you are with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooh I use the word. If I use it it to describe a lady or a couple or a picture or a scene in a film or video I mean it causes me to feel sexually aroused. The word evokes something deeper and even otherworldly than just something being sexy or horny. There's a sense of being transported to a different reality. "

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between erotic and porn, is the same as eating a carefully prepared and presented cake, or eating a block of icing.

I make excellent cake too ! "

So, a homemade curry, and homemade cake for dessert. Sounds like a fine, decadent banquet to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erotic to me is feeding the mind to fill in the gaps of what could happen from sensory stimulation.

Porn is someone else filling the gaps, usually more then one........

And seduction is the ability to create the erotic thoughts in the person you are with. "

Yes. Teasing out a wild, powerful, yet secretive rare animal inside someone with an expertly chosen bait of erotic ideas and energies. Hmm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between erotic and porn, is the same as eating a carefully prepared and presented cake, or eating a block of icing.

I make excellent cake too !

So, a homemade curry, and homemade cake for dessert. Sounds like a fine, decadent banquet to me "

Is that the 3 of us?? I'm a connoisseur of decadence and debauchery

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By *risky_Mare OP   Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Erotic to me is feeding the mind to fill in the gaps of what could happen from sensory stimulation.

Porn is someone else filling the gaps, usually more then one........

And seduction is the ability to create the erotic thoughts in the person you are with. "

Ah now you are talking!

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By *risky_Mare OP   Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


""Erotic to me is feeding the mind to fill in the gaps of what could happen from sensory stimulation.

Porn is someone else filling the gaps, usually more then one........"

Yes well expressed.

I see porn as akin to a sugary energy drink. No nutrition, nothing that will give you long term joy, just a hit to satisfy the most basic, urgent need.

"

Nor even that, that's why I have no interest in it.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Eroticism to us is more of a psychological thing than a visual thing alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between erotic and porn, is the same as eating a carefully prepared and presented cake, or eating a block of icing.

I make excellent cake too ! "

Do you make it Bob Marley style - wi' jam in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between erotic and porn, is the same as eating a carefully prepared and presented cake, or eating a block of icing.

I make excellent cake too !

So, a homemade curry, and homemade cake for dessert. Sounds like a fine, decadent banquet to me

Is that the 3 of us?? I'm a connoisseur of decadence and debauchery "

Well, if your excellent cake can satisfy two, then why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between erotic and porn, is the same as eating a carefully prepared and presented cake, or eating a block of icing.

I make excellent cake too !

Do you make it Bob Marley style - wi' jam in?"

if the man wants jam,the man gets jam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between erotic and porn, is the same as eating a carefully prepared and presented cake, or eating a block of icing.

I make excellent cake too !

So, a homemade curry, and homemade cake for dessert. Sounds like a fine, decadent banquet to me

Is that the 3 of us?? I'm a connoisseur of decadence and debauchery

Well, if your excellent cake can satisfy two, then why not "

cake should be shared, I'm a sharer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad to see that eroticism & sensuality is alive & well on here....I was beginning to think it was all about 'quick shags' & 'notches on the bedposts'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between erotic and porn, is the same as eating a carefully prepared and presented cake, or eating a block of icing.

I make excellent cake too !

Do you make it Bob Marley style - wi' jam in?

if the man wants jam,the man gets jam "

Once you have jam, you know you need cream to go with it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eroticism to us is more of a psychological thing than a visual thing alone. "

for me it's invoking every sense and savouring each second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm glad to see that eroticism & sensuality is alive & well on here....I was beginning to think it was all about 'quick shags' & 'notches on the bedposts' "

You make of it what you will. If you want an erotic and sensual time you find it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difference between erotic and porn, is the same as eating a carefully prepared and presented cake, or eating a block of icing.

I make excellent cake too !

Do you make it Bob Marley style - wi' jam in?

if the man wants jam,the man gets jam

Once you have jam, you know you need cream to go with it lol"

You can supply the cream, I'm bringing cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erotic evokes thoughts of mystery,seduction, and taboo. "

Yes, I agree with that touch of taboo!

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