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"Or is passion,sensuality and friendship enough to make you happy? " All those 3 are equally important but experiencing real love is the icing on the cake! | |||
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"Nope! Never been in love from my side. " Never ever? | |||
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"Nope! Never been in love from my side. " Me neither...have been in lust many times though, sometimes just for an hour or two! | |||
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"Love Don't Live Here Anymore (The song )" You abandoned me.... | |||
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"Nope! Never been in love from my side. Never ever?" No I wouldn't say so. Maybe once about 5 years ago but I screwed that up. Didn't realise it till it was over. | |||
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"Nope! Never been in love from my side. Never ever? No I wouldn't say so. Maybe once about 5 years ago but I screwed that up. Didn't realise it till it was over. " Some people never know what they have until its gone, sounds cheesy but I think in some cases its very true | |||
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"Does lust count? " I would say so... | |||
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"Does lust count? I would say so... " then I'm in lust!! ?? | |||
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"Love Don't Live Here Anymore (The song )You abandoned me.... " Great song | |||
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"Love is so important to us . Our love for each other is so special and makes every day something to look forward to . " Thats a lovely thing to have. | |||
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"i wish i could express it " Express what? Love? | |||
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"Love is very important to me My experience of it is that it is a complex emotion with different levels. I am fortunate enough to have experienced it's complexity but I have found dealing with it can be fucking difficult " I think it can be.... | |||
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"Love is very important to me My experience of it is that it is a complex emotion with different levels. I am fortunate enough to have experienced it's complexity but I have found dealing with it can be fucking difficult I think it can be...." But I'd rather feel love and deal with the pain associated with it at times, than not. | |||
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"Love is very important to me My experience of it is that it is a complex emotion with different levels. I am fortunate enough to have experienced it's complexity but I have found dealing with it can be fucking difficult I think it can be.... But I'd rather feel love and deal with the pain associated with it at times, than not. " Its a risk, but pays dividends until it goes tits up. | |||
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"For me to find that truly, madly , deeply love again will be difficult... He'd need a big ladder and a sledgehammer " Or an arrow? | |||
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"Or is passion,sensuality and friendship enough to make you happy? " They could keep me happy meanwhile for sure, I'm usually in lust with someone! But to love and be loved is more fulfilling than anything else I think. | |||
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"Or is passion,sensuality and friendship enough to make you happy? They could keep me happy meanwhile for sure, I'm usually in lust with someone! But to love and be loved is more fulfilling than anything else I think." . | |||
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" I'd rather risk being hurt than never feel love." I agree with you wholeheartedly there. | |||
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"I count myself very lucky to have a deepening enduring love. Life without Mr D would be a life adrift. It's so sad when people close themselves off from love but I understand why. I'd rather risk being hurt than never feel love." | |||
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"yes of course... love has many forms, but we can't live without it, whether it partner, family, friends... being treasured and sharing a bond is incredible. Just as sex, trust, honesty, closeness, laughter and so much more makes us form bonds too Sorry was that a bit deep for a Monday Ruby x" I think you are right, thanks for sharing xx | |||
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"If someone isn't fixated with doing something to the point where it's unhealthy. " What do you mean? | |||
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"I'm really lonely, so yes love is important. I'm not optimistic of finding any." Sometimes that's when it can bite you on the bum....we all get lonely at times. | |||
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"Still rather have lust " Lustful wench | |||
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"Still rather have lust Lustful wench " I prefer non-conformist | |||
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"Still rather have lust Lustful wench " I'd rather have lustful love | |||
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"If someone isn't fixated with doing something to the point where it's unhealthy. What do you mean?" The kind of people who are like Roy Cropper off coronation street. We know everyone deserves a partner to love them and vice versa, but in general they may not feel the need to have that sort of love in their life and they usually fill that void with hobbies, which sometimes are obsessive. | |||
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"No. I loved and lost. I'm all outta love " Me too...too many comparisons made to anyone that comes into my life and too much of me taken away with that person to be able to love someone again fully and have even more love back...if I ever have somebody love me the way he did then it'll be a bonus in my life but it's not a necessity and not hugely important. | |||
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"Or is passion,sensuality and friendship enough to make you happy? " They are all rolled into one for me. | |||
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"No. I loved and lost. I'm all outta love Me too...too many comparisons made to anyone that comes into my life and too much of me taken away with that person to be able to love someone again fully and have even more love back...if I ever have somebody love me the way he did then it'll be a bonus in my life but it's not a necessity and not hugely important." I wouldn't want to be loved again like my ex loved me | |||
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"friendship is more important " but dont you love your friends? We all need to be love and be loved. | |||
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"I count myself very lucky to have a deepening enduring love. Life without Mr D would be a life adrift. It's so sad when people close themselves off from love but I understand why. I'd rather risk being hurt than never feel love." Sometimes though it's not about being closed off from it... it's just not coming across it. I'm wary because I don't understand it, but am sure if it ever were to come my way is accept it... just maybe a little cautiously! | |||
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"I count myself very lucky to have a deepening enduring love. Life without Mr D would be a life adrift. It's so sad when people close themselves off from love but I understand why. I'd rather risk being hurt than never feel love. Sometimes though it's not about being closed off from it... it's just not coming across it. I'm wary because I don't understand it, but am sure if it ever were to come my way is accept it... just maybe a little cautiously!" Its understandable to be cautious, and I think sensible. | |||
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"Everyone needs a little love in their life... " Fancy a little loving? | |||
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"Everyone needs a little love in their life... Fancy a little loving? " I already get plenty! | |||
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"Everyone needs a little love in their life... Fancy a little loving? I already get plenty! " I bet you do, but it's all about not letting people feel left out | |||
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"Everyone needs a little love in their life... Fancy a little loving? I already get plenty! I bet you do, but it's all about not letting people feel left out " Not from here I may add.. An I never leave anyone out! | |||
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"Everyone needs a little love in their life... Fancy a little loving? I already get plenty! I bet you do, but it's all about not letting people feel left out Not from here I may add.. An I never leave anyone out! " That doesn't surprise me either . That's good to hear too | |||
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"I'm really lonely, so yes love is important. I'm not optimistic of finding any." It will most likely find you though. Loves funny like that. You're open to it so that's a good start. | |||
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"No. I loved and lost. I'm all outta love " https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TnOy6HEf7HU | |||
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"Or is passion,sensuality and friendship enough to make you happy? " i love my right hand however its just friendship with my left hand on a serious note cant one have it all | |||
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"Or is passion,sensuality and friendship enough to make you happy? " Im more than happy at this... Not one to believe in love anyway... Lynn x | |||
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"I count myself very lucky to have a deepening enduring love. Life without Mr D would be a life adrift. It's so sad when people close themselves off from love but I understand why. I'd rather risk being hurt than never feel love. " If we're to look into that comment deeper love can still be felt even when we try our utmost best to stay away from it, I say this from present experience...I actually don't think it's possible to choose who with or when you fall in love, yes you can choose your life partner but to choose who you fall in love with is impossible in my opinion. I know I've loads of love inside of me to give but I made the choice a few years ago of not wanting to put myself in the position of loving and losing it again or so I thought I did, I've now after trying to tell myself I'm not and fighting the feelings, fallen head over heels with someone that I know would not and could not ever love me back, it's a stab in the heart every time I hear her tell me how much she loves her man and knowing that she'll never feel what I do for her, I couldn't ever tell her as it'd ruin our friendship which I value amongst so many other relations we have, it's very complicated and I won't go into it on here but what I'm trying to say is that the sentence 'I'd rather risk being hurt than never feel love' isn't a choice sometimes...you can feel love and still be hurting everyday...in so many different ways...love for people that have died or are in a coma etc, we can still be in love but be dying inside...ps don't shoot me, I just took that sentence in a different way to how you said it and voiced my opinion but that's cos of experiences I've had...I could exist without my families love but I wouldn't be living, it's the only love I need! Sorry a bit deep for this time of the morning! | |||
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"Love has scrwed me over more than once with cheating etc I haven't had a proper relationship in about 4 years. N its a bit upsetting but now im used to single life dun half miss the spooning tho x" Oh you don't need love to spoon jump on in and snuggle up hun | |||
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" I count myself very lucky to have a deepening enduring love. Life without Mr D would be a life adrift. It's so sad when people close themselves off from love but I understand why. I'd rather risk being hurt than never feel love. If we're to look into that comment deeper love can still be felt even when we try our utmost best to stay away from it, I say this from present experience...I actually don't think it's possible to choose who with or when you fall in love, yes you can choose your life partner but to choose who you fall in love with is impossible in my opinion. I know I've loads of love inside of me to give but I made the choice a few years ago of not wanting to put myself in the position of loving and losing it again or so I thought I did, I've now after trying to tell myself I'm not and fighting the feelings, fallen head over heels with someone that I know would not and could not ever love me back, it's a stab in the heart every time I hear her tell me how much she loves her man and knowing that she'll never feel what I do for her, I couldn't ever tell her as it'd ruin our friendship which's I value amongst so many other relations we have, it's very complicated and I won't go into it on here but what I'm trying to say is that the sentence 'I'd rather risk being hurt than never feel love' isn't a choice sometimes...you can feel love and still be hurting everyday...in so many different ways...love for people that have died or are in a coma etc, we can still be in love but be dying inside...ps don't shoot me, I just took that sentence in a different way to how you said it and voiced my opinion but that's cos of experiences I've had...I could exist without my families love but I wouldn't be living, it's the only love I need! Sorry a bit deep for this time of the morning!" Actually I totally agree and for what little it's worth, sorry you're in that situation. I've loved someone once who was completely indifferent to me. In some respects I'd rather he was unattainable as there wasn't even a circumstance I could blame, he didn't end up hating me or have a better offer, he was just not that interested in me when i was his girlfriend. Yes, that sure hurts. I also never intended to invite love in when I met Mr D, I was extracting myself from a fruitless jealous relationship and wanted a bit of sex as I was very quickly missing it. We met via a sex contact site, I think I instantly felt like I'd come home when we met but thought this isn't happening kid, he lives 300 miles away. It's a one night stand...... Part of the reason I said I feel so very lucky, because he loved me back. | |||
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"Or is passion,sensuality and friendship enough to make you happy? " | |||
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"Love is important...not experienced it in a while and I miss it " | |||
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" I instantly felt like I'd come home when we met but thought this isn't happening kid, he lives 300 miles away. It's a one night stand...... Part of the reason I said I feel so very lucky, because he loved me back. i felt exactly the same when i met my twat! to find love like ours once was amazing (i'm a widow) but to find it twice is incredible " Absolutely fantastic, you've made me grin from ear to ear, and I love your name!! | |||
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"Love has scrwed me over more than once with cheating etc I haven't had a proper relationship in about 4 years. N its a bit upsetting but now im used to single life dun half miss the spooning tho x Oh you don't need love to spoon jump on in and snuggle up hun " well if your offering I cant down a spoon sesh xx | |||
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"Or is passion,sensuality and friendship enough to make you happy? " The lot life is better when you experience all the emotions. | |||
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" I instantly felt like I'd come home when we met but thought this isn't happening kid, he lives 300 miles away. It's a one night stand...... Part of the reason I said I feel so very lucky, because he loved me back. i felt exactly the same when i met my twat! to find love like ours once was amazing (i'm a widow) but to find it twice is incredible " brought a tear too my eye that kid amazing | |||
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"Love is important...not experienced it in a while and I miss it " | |||
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