FabSwingers.com forum: The local guy i find so fit has joined fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Theres a guy that i adore he is so fit.he lives local to me and ive spoken to him a few times in our local pub.all my mates fancy him but i get butterflys and so nervous when i speak to him even if its a quick hello.hes so nice to talk to and stunning looking too.i recived a message today on here with a pic and it was him my heart nearly exploded out of my chest ive replyed but not showed him a face pic as i dont know what to do i cant belive hes on fab will he think im a slag becuse im on here i want him so bad but im too scared to tell him who i am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he thinks you're a slag for being on here-

a) what does that make him?

b) he's not worth knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think you're a slag for being on here?

I don't think I am and I wouldn't want anything to with a man that did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you want from this guy. If it's just sex then bite the bullet and tell hom who you are. If you think there might be a chance of a relationship one day then I wouldn't reveal your identity.

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

He's here for the same reason as you. Go for it you've got nothing to loose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

play it cool ......You go over the top he will run a mile maybe as there lots of nice people here and lots looking to play around live out there dreams . You may get hurt if not. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't hesitate to play my hand but I'm gung-ho.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Theres a guy that i adore he is so fit.he lives local to me and ive spoken to him a few times in our local pub.all my mates fancy him but i get butterflys and so nervous when i speak to him even if its a quick hello.hes so nice to talk to and stunning looking too.i recived a message today on here with a pic and it was him my heart nearly exploded out of my chest ive replyed but not showed him a face pic as i dont know what to do i cant belive hes on fab will he think im a slag becuse im on here i want him so bad but im too scared to tell him who i am."

Just wondering how he managed to send you a message?

I'm also from cannock and i tried to message you months ago, but could'nt because it says on your profile "Not looking for single guys".

I assume that blocks all single males from emailing you?

As for telling this guy who you are, i'd just be honest with him. He obviously is here looking for some fun, so go for it. If he turns you down then i'm available, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's here for the same reason as you. Go for it you've got nothing to loose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would he think you're a slag if he's on here too? If you think he thinks you're a slag then what does that make him?

Personally I think if he's on here and looking for the same thing then go for it, message him back! You don't get what you want out of life by playing it cool and not saying what you want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How has he messaged you if you've blocked single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its fait? Get chatting and see where it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you still face him in the pub if it doesn't work out ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If he thinks you're a slag for being on here-

a) what does that make him?

b) he's not worth knowing"

i dont think he will think im a slag as ive only been with one guy of here.hes a nice person and has only joined today but i dont want him to see me in a diffrent light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you're a slag for being on here?

I don't think I am and I wouldn't want anything to with a man that did "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How has he messaged you if you've blocked single guys? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he thinks you're a slag for being on here-

a) what does that make him?

b) he's not worth knowing

i dont think he will think im a slag as ive only been with one guy of here.hes a nice person and has only joined today but i dont want him to see me in a diffrent light."

So if you had been with 10 guys then you're a slag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How has he messaged you if you've blocked single guys? "

i messaged him first as i saw his fit body on his profile pic and it was new and local but i never new it was him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you still face him in the pub if it doesn't work out ?"

Thats what im worried of as i will see him on friday i dont know what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you still face him in the pub if it doesn't work out ?

Thats what im worried of as i will see him on friday i dont know what to do "

maybe its best to do it face to face rather than through a website...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe its fait? Get chatting and see where it goes "

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By *atinbootsTV/TS
over a year ago

Market Rasen

Go for it... Arrange a social meet first then take things from there...

If he really does give you butterflies every time you've seen him then you've got to ask yourself one question: how will you feel if you don't take this chance? Something brought him to fab too so don't let that get in the way...

It's better to try and accept the result than to never have tried at all... And I bet you'll get the result you're looking for! We only live once - go for it... X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you still face him in the pub if it doesn't work out ?

Thats what im worried of as i will see him on friday i dont know what to do

maybe its best to do it face to face rather than through a website..."

i cant tell him its me face to face i can barely speak to him as it is without getting nervous ive had dreams about this guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would you do if he told all his mates and everyone you know that you're on here? Some people aren't discreet.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Can you still face him in the pub if it doesn't work out ?

Thats what im worried of as i will see him on friday i dont know what to do

maybe its best to do it face to face rather than through a website..."

Good suggestion, maybe wait for a moment when you can get him on his own in the pub and mention it then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go for it... Arrange a social meet first then take things from there...

It's better to try and accept the result than to never have tried at all... And I bet you'll get the result you're looking for! We only live once - go for it... X

thank you so much that is really good advice im going to have to pluck the courage up(have some moet lol)and tell him who i am.thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you still face him in the pub if it doesn't work out ?

Thats what im worried of as i will see him on friday i dont know what to do

maybe its best to do it face to face rather than through a website...

i cant tell him its me face to face i can barely speak to him as it is without getting nervous ive had dreams about this guy"

Suck it up women we all have our weak spots you got over come this one once the ice has bin broke your laughing

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"What would you do if he told all his mates and everyone you know that you're on here? Some people aren't discreet. "

I think that is a two way street, if he did that, then she could tell all his mates and everyone he knows he's on here aswel.

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By *atinbootsTV/TS
over a year ago

Market Rasen

"thank you so much that is really good advice im going to have to pluck the courage up(have some moet lol)and tell him who i am.thank you."

No prob hunni

Fingers crossed for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he he im near Penkridge so wasnt me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell him who I was, if he thought badly about me afterwards then it's his loss and I'd know then he's not someone worth thinking about (good girl)

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Well as its bleedin' obvious who the guy in question is I think we should leave it there...

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