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Social meets or bedroom fun?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Women what you prefer on first meet out of a social drink or just bedroom fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet definitely for a 1st meet xxx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Social meet for me. It doesn't have to be long, just long enough to establish if we both want to take things further.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Social, in a public place. For us it just makes sense I told both my kids never to meet a random stranger from the net unless it was in a crowded place it would be daft of me to ignore my own advice. Clubs are a good alternative if you like to move straight to playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social meet for me. It doesn't have to be long, just long enough to establish if we both want to take things further. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes you do get some weird ones on here so I suppose you should be careful

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Social meet for me. It doesn't have to be long, just long enough to establish if we both want to take things further.

This. "

And in a public place so if he does turn out to be using fake pics or have no social skills or simply be very odd I can make my excuses and leave.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes you do get some weird ones on here so I suppose you should be careful"

Yes both men and women should be careful. The vast majority of people on here are good people but any collection of human beings will have wrong uns in it and the net is a good place to conceal yourself.

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

After meeting a guy from here who has now left the site I insist on a social first. Claire

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Social meet for me. It doesn't have to be long, just long enough to establish if we both want to take things further. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our time is very very limited due to us both working different shift patterns so we like to play on the first meet. Although I can totally see why a single fem would want a meet in a public place first, and we'd plan in advance to accommodate that, should the chance arrive, as it's what we joined the site for and what we most desire.

Lauz x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Social for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet 1st.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women what you prefer on first meet out of a social drink or just bedroom fun?"

It depends we would 90% of the time do a social but sometimes it develops on from that and it goes full on fun. If we meet in a club its often more for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet very rare that I bend that rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social meet for me. It doesn't have to be long, just long enough to establish if we both want to take things further. "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't do socials , but there are 2 of us . And we only play at clubs or parties .

When we used to do house meets , we never did socials then either ... If we clicked we played and if not we left sharpish and moved on .

Now some may say 'they must fuck anything' .. but that's far from the case .

We have the same standards as anyone else , we just can't be doing with all the socialising which often gets in the way of play .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always insist on a social meet first. The last time I was in Fab I had some nightmare meets, far too many weirdo's and fakes. So this time I insist on a social meet somewhere public first.

It's funny how many people think offering to pick me up for a chat in their car constitutes a public social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joint

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I never do socials as I only meet in clubs. So it would be a case of meet someone in a club, chat, if we got on maybe more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy, I do prefer meeting for a drink first. Unlike some guys, I won't shag just anything and have said 'thanks but no thanks' on more than one occasion.

That said, if things are good on that first meet for a cuppa, I am more than happy to let things proceed to the bedroom, kitchen, wherever!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social everytime x

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