FabSwingers.com forum: What a let down.!

By *limBobStretchedPants OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

So I had a meet arranged for today. Supposed to meet at 12 go for a social lunch and see how things develop. After waiting in the restaurant I get a txt that says "sorry not interested today" I mean wtf!! I have booked tables and arranged my day and after nearly an hour of waiting the person decides they are not interested !!! Grrrrr

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Very bad form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I had a meet arranged for today. Supposed to meet at 12 go for a social lunch and see how things develop. After waiting in the restaurant I get a txt that says "sorry not interested today" I mean wtf!! I have booked tables and arranged my day and after nearly an hour of waiting the person decides they are not interested !!! Grrrrr"

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By *limBobStretchedPants OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Ruins the whole day really. At least I know I can always go out in the evening but my time is precious as I don't get a lot of it free. Damn hospitality industry lol.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Very bad form. "

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Not nice at all. Block button required for that one me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unforgivable.......especially so late and in such an abrupt manor.

Block and move on, good luck

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Very bad manners, stuff'em, chin up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's happened to me before on my single profile. Its such bad manners to wait until the person is actually at the venue to then let them down. Many people, myself included, have to re arrange things to sort meets as I have little spare time so to have that happen is not good. I've had a few cancel the day before or the morning of the meet and as frustrating as that is, I haven't wasted my time getting ready or travelling to the venue. I hope your next meet is more successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats not on I don't know how people can do it I wouldnt id feel to gulity x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well the do gooders cant defend this person by saying perhaps they had a crisis. if they left it until you were in restaurant. then i think he/ she is a despicable shit and should be reported. its people like those who give genuine swingers a bad name. hope they have the same happen to them one day.

good luck matey and carry on swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can guarantee it won't be the last time you'll be let down. Just keep going.

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By *limBobStretchedPants OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Thanks for the support everyone. I know I am not alone in this situation. I guess it's back to bed now ha ha unless anyone want to come out and drink lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

To arrange any kind of a meet and receive a txt saying "sorry not interested today" is bang out of order!!! Regardless of what you have arranged for that meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not nice at all. Block button required for that one me thinks

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By *limBobStretchedPants OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just gone to block the profile. It's now not available for me to view. Get the feeling I was being taken for a ride the whole time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well the do gooders cant defend this person by saying perhaps they had a crisis. if they left it until you were in restaurant. then i think he/ she is a despicable shit and should be reported. its people like those who give genuine swingers a bad name. hope they have the same happen to them one day.

good luck matey and carry on swinging"

Bloody do gooders always doing good. What bastards.

OP, what a shit start to the day for you. It's still early though so still enough time for it not to be totally wasted. Better luck next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just gone to block the profile. It's now not available for me to view. Get the feeling I was being taken for a ride the whole time. "

Report as a no show and block so she will be blocked if she decides to unblock. Blimey, lots of blocks there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To arrange any kind of a meet and receive a txt saying "sorry not interested today" is bang out of order!!! Regardless of what you have arranged for that meet...."

this. That's a terrible excuse

forget that person .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sucks but if they are going to behave like that I think you dodged a bullet...

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By *limBobStretchedPants OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

good luck matey and carry on swinging

Bloody do gooders always doing good. What bastards.

OP, what a shit start to the day for you. It's still early though so still enough time for it not to be totally wasted. Better luck next time. "

Thanks guys. Who knows I might go out tonight with the guys. Pissed off and angry and meet the girl of my dreams. On the other hand Monday might just be a write off with a hangover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww, you poor love, that's not nice at all. Chin up x

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By *limBobStretchedPants OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Aww, you poor love, that's not nice at all. Chin up x"

Thanks I will.

I guess I should of guessed that too good to be true profile. The lady who likes a hairy man, doesn't mind a few extra pounds etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just gone to block the profile. It's now not available for me to view. Get the feeling I was being taken for a ride the whole time.

Report as a no show and block so she will be blocked if she decides to unblock. Blimey, lots of blocks there lol"

can you block them if theyve already blocked you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aww, you poor love, that's not nice at all. Chin up x

Thanks I will.

I guess I should of guessed that too good to be true profile. The lady who likes a hairy man, doesn't mind a few extra pounds etc "

We are not all after Adonis you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dam what an awful way to be treated! !! ....time and effort you put into meeting completely wasted because they couldn't be bothered !! ..keep going sweetie xxx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

okay... i am going to be the conroversial one...

did you not call them before you left?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just gone to block the profile. It's now not available for me to view. Get the feeling I was being taken for a ride the whole time.

Report as a no show and block so she will be blocked if she decides to unblock. Blimey, lots of blocks there lol

can you block them if theyve already blocked you ?"

Yes you can but I can only seem to do it on the phone app, on the normal desktop site there doesn't seem to be that option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I hope you said to them you was feeling let down .. Next time meet maybe in a local pub for a drink .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 'name n shame' board should be used to out the time wasting idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and shame I think saves anyone else being let down

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Just gone to block the profile. It's now not available for me to view. Get the feeling I was being taken for a ride the whole time. "

I would report the profile and let Admin take a look.

You can do this from a PM between you or the blue menu to the left when you click on the profile ( it is still there even if they have blocked you )

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