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By *onkeydicksparties OP   Man
over a year ago

SALISBURY Sat 20th MAY Mixed Erotic Party

What do you think of relationships with a big age gap are you in one.

Do you think they work long term.

What is your biggest age gap you have had.

Was it a good relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. all this and much , MUCH more - tune in next week to find out the answers and the result of the phone-in viewers poll!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"".. all this and much , MUCH more - tune in next week to find out the answers and the result of the phone-in viewers poll!"

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What age difference do you mean?

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one of them born in 1979, the other 1980. a year apart, yet separated by a decade. A forbidden love! One bound by he ideals disco funk and groove, the other with a sworn allegiance to new romantic synth pop.. but how can those 2 star crossed lovers ever make others see what they see??

FIND OUT NEXT WEEK!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one of them born in 1979, the other 1980. a year apart, yet separated by a decade. A forbidden love! One bound by he ideals disco funk and groove, the other with a sworn allegiance to new romantic synth pop.. but how can those 2 star crossed lovers ever make others see what they see??

FIND OUT NEXT WEEK!! "

hahah ya nutty squirrel

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

22 years between us, where in our 8th year and blissfully happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't ha e much of an age gap, 11 years, but he shows me a trick or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

hahah ya nutty squirrel "

hehe... "nutty is as nutty does, ma'am.." hehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

hahah ya nutty squirrel

hehe... "nutty is as nutty does, ma'am.." hehe x "

Now Now Squirely, hope ya Dyson is in working order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

hahah ya nutty squirrel

hehe... "nutty is as nutty does, ma'am.." hehe x

Now Now Squirely, hope ya Dyson is in working order "

Sucks like a dyson

Put that on your profile an guarantee the messages will come flooding in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

hahah ya nutty squirrel

hehe... "nutty is as nutty does, ma'am.." hehe x

Now Now Squirely, hope ya Dyson is in working order

Sucks like a dyson

Put that on your profile an guarantee the messages will come flooding in "

I really wouldn't like to say or is that some kind of blow ya own trumpet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't blow my own trumpet if I wanted to

Only want a women around my instrument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't blow my own trumpet if I wanted to

Only want a women around my instrument "
don't put that on ya profile then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't blow my own trumpet if I wanted to

Only want a women around my instrument "

Ah shame .. Self suckers are all the rage!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't blow my own trumpet if I wanted to

Only want a women around my instrument

Ah shame .. Self suckers are all the rage!! "

Am more of a licker then a sucker

Unless she wants to be sucked

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By *restatynCplCouple
over a year ago

Rhyl

Mr - 53

Mrs - 27

Both loving life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about woman 10yrs older than man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr - 53

Mrs - 27

Both loving life!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how about woman 10yrs older than man? "

Nothing wrong with that

I love women older then me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There 10 years between me and my fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Now Now Squirely, hope ya Dyson is in working order "

PMSL.. its in fine condition.. theres practically nothing it can't bring a shine to, even those hard to reach areas are no match against its relentless power hehehe! x

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By *leepyangelCouple
over a year ago

over the hill and far away

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By *leepyangelCouple
over a year ago

over the hill and far away


"Mr - 53

Mrs - 27

Both loving life!

"

Wow!

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

Me 48

Lily. 24

Been together 6 years in June happy healthy fun relationship ,

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Chance would be a fine thing

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By *otandhottererCouple
over a year ago

dursley

I think j need to be a certain age to enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 year age gap with us, i wouldnt recomend it, not so good when they get old and die before you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's a problem with a big age gap but it is going to affect couples when they are much older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Now Now Squirely, hope ya Dyson is in working order

PMSL.. its in fine condition.. theres practically nothing it can't bring a shine to, even those hard to reach areas are no match against its relentless power hehehe! x"

Ohhh the dyson love affair continues pfft

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I know couples with very big age gaps some have lasted over thirty years and some have broken up, a bit like all relationships.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I love older men and tend to meet them in a fab sense....in a dating sense I tend to go for someone 38 etc as the older men I've met have had children and no longer want any more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was 13 years older then me and we were together 12 years.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I'm 11 years older than zed. Works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years between us and I wouldn't change it for the world. He's got wonderful gentlemanly attitudes, but is a kinky bugger too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely believe that age has no bearing on whether relationships are a success, if there is a connection and both people are willing to compromise (as with all relationships) then it will be a strong relationship.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Works for us! In every aspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

JN - 20

SP - 43

Been together a year and two months now

Everything is going brilliantly, I love him more than anything and I'm happier than I've ever been!

JN

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"JN - 20

SP - 43

Been together a year and two months now

Everything is going brilliantly, I love him more than anything and I'm happier than I've ever been!

JN "

Aww that's lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely believe that age has no bearing on whether relationships are a success, if there is a connection and both people are willing to compromise (as with all relationships) then it will be a strong relationship. "

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I was 12 yrs older than an ex and we lasted for 8 very happy years

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Questions like this puzzle me.

It depends on the personality/character type/dynamic of the couple not their ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer to meet and date older men. I was seeing someone until recently who was 14 years older than me, and he was the perfect gentleman. I think 14 years would be my limit though ... But never say never!! Late 30s to early 40s = perfection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Questions like this puzzle me.

It depends on the personality/character type/dynamic of the couple not their ages. "

This.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"22 years between us, where in our 8th year and blissfully happy

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Is he 27 or 71?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"22 years between us, where in our 8th year and blissfully happy

Is he 27 or 71? "
71

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trouble is someone older thinks they know better than you a lot of the time.

things arent so interesting to them because they have seen and done it all already. When they get old they start to get things wrong with them.

if they have grown up kids from their first marriage it makes things comlicated.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"trouble is someone older thinks they know better than you a lot of the time.

things arent so interesting to them because they have seen and done it all already. When they get old they start to get things wrong with them.

if they have grown up kids from their first marriage it makes things comlicated."
we have no problems in our relationship he's mentally younger than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"trouble is someone older thinks they know better than you a lot of the time.

things arent so interesting to them because they have seen and done it all already. When they get old they start to get things wrong with them.

if they have grown up kids from their first marriage it makes things comlicated."

See he doesn't have that attitude, I'm the younger one with a medical condition and as for the kids, if you see them as a complication then the relationship is bound to fail. His kids are not a complication, they are a part of our relationship. Every decision we make we take the kids into consideration and they come first. I don't see them as a complication, I see them as an asset.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"trouble is someone older thinks they know better than you a lot of the time.

things arent so interesting to them because they have seen and done it all already. When they get old they start to get things wrong with them.

if they have grown up kids from their first marriage it makes things comlicated.

See he doesn't have that attitude, I'm the younger one with a medical condition and as for the kids, if you see them as a complication then the relationship is bound to fail. His kids are not a complication, they are a part of our relationship. Every decision we make we take the kids into consideration and they come first. I don't see them as a complication, I see them as an asset. "
this is so spot on ruby

we love having both my kids and grandkids around they keep me young and make lily a gilf lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"JN - 20

SP - 43

Been together a year and two months now

Everything is going brilliantly, I love him more than anything and I'm happier than I've ever been!

JN "

From my perspective, JN is my 3rd serious relationship. The others have been around my age or older and have been both male and female.

JN was below my minimum age limit when we started chatting - by about 7 years - but as soon as we met it was instant.

How I describe it is 'we fit' : we are the perfect match in so many ways it is untrue and the second guessing each other is, at times, a little bit freaky

Whilst I have had younger sexual partners before, I have always left it there because I didn't want to be with someone who was on a different page in the book of life.

With JN though I have someone who behaves well beyond his years and in many respects demonstrates far more maturity than a lot of guys my own age (including me at times)

Small in build he maybe, but big on resolve : he knows his mind, he knows what he likes, he knows what he wants and he knows how to get there.

Don't think for one minute that I exercise all the control in the relationship, because nothing could be further from the truth - well except in the bedroom, but then again he likes that

SP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 19 husband 32. Lasted 6 years but he was a very old 32. Every year he seemed to age a further 5 years. In my opinion yes relationships can work as long as you both want the same things and on each others wavelength.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been together for about 2yrs with a 16 year age gap. I love having a younger man in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 year age gap here, to be honest I don't think anyone ever notices, we never really consider it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my brothers married to an older woman who has got granchildren she told me that he doesnt realy like kids and gets fed up with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my brothers married to an older woman who has got granchildren she told me that he doesnt realy like kids and gets fed up with them. "

Then may I suggest the relationship won't last. I knew when we got together that he came as part of a team of 4. If I didn't have a good relationship with the kids then our relationship wouldn't be as strong as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my brothers married to an older woman who has got granchildren she told me that he doesnt realy like kids and gets fed up with them.

Then may I suggest the relationship won't last. I knew when we got together that he came as part of a team of 4. If I didn't have a good relationship with the kids then our relationship wouldn't be as strong as it is. "

Thats where your wrong because they have been together for over 20 years, get on ok in other ways, no marriage is perfect, some people stay together for other reasons, not everyone gets divorced because they get annoyed about some things, obviously the kids dont bother him that much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16yrs between us, don't even notice or think about it anymore, if others do well it's up to them, and, up to them what they think... It used to bother me when we first got together. I used to imagine everyone was looking at us. But now quite frankly my dears I really don't give a damn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of the most important long term relationships in my life were with women ten years younger than myself - both felt very right and loving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my brothers married to an older woman who has got granchildren she told me that he doesnt realy like kids and gets fed up with them.

Then may I suggest the relationship won't last. I knew when we got together that he came as part of a team of 4. If I didn't have a good relationship with the kids then our relationship wouldn't be as strong as it is.

Thats where your wrong because they have been together for over 20 years, get on ok in other ways, no marriage is perfect, some people stay together for other reasons, not everyone gets divorced because they get annoyed about some things, obviously the kids dont bother him that much."

Which is not what you said in your previous post! You said, he doesn't really like kids and gets fed up with them, not what you've just said! Its very difficult to debate something with someone who changes things!

If the kids don't bother him then they aren't going to be an issue, if he doesn't like them then it is going to be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my brothers married to an older woman who has got granchildren she told me that he doesnt realy like kids and gets fed up with them.

Then may I suggest the relationship won't last. I knew when we got together that he came as part of a team of 4. If I didn't have a good relationship with the kids then our relationship wouldn't be as strong as it is.

Thats where your wrong because they have been together for over 20 years, get on ok in other ways, no marriage is perfect, some people stay together for other reasons, not everyone gets divorced because they get annoyed about some things, obviously the kids dont bother him that much.

Which is not what you said in your previous post! You said, he doesn't really like kids and gets fed up with them, not what you've just said! Its very difficult to debate something with someone who changes things!

If the kids don't bother him then they aren't going to be an issue, if he doesn't like them then it is going to be! "

Oh dear sorry, maybe i should of said he said he doesnt like kids much.

i realy dont know as i dont live with them, im just saying what i was told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and Andy are 15 years apart and is the best and most fulfilling relationship I've had. I've always gone out with older men and the relationships have been good ones. I had a bf younger than me, and one just 2 years older than me, and they were horrible relationships. The biggest age gapped relationship I've had is 30 years. We split because he wanted to get married but I wasn't ready for that commitment, but we left on good terms and are still friends now.

Lauz x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would be never dream of getting in a relationship with someone whose kids are dependable. I spent 16 years putting my son first (which I loved) and being restricted. Now I want to do what I like, when I like and with who I like without having to take kids into consideration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey x the lad Im seeing for past two months is 30 years younger. His mum and dad know all about us and are happy ! Lol It cant possibly last as he needs to have his own family etc but Im enjoying it whilst I can. I think its slightly different for older guy younger woman and the woman can still have kids x

See ya next Sat gorgeous - cant wait for the best party in Salisbury xx

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By *onkeydicksparties OP   Man
over a year ago

SALISBURY Sat 20th MAY Mixed Erotic Party


"Hey x the lad Im seeing for past two months is 30 years younger. His mum and dad know all about us and are happy ! Lol It cant possibly last as he needs to have his own family etc but Im enjoying it whilst I can. I think its slightly different for older guy younger woman and the woman can still have kids x

See ya next Sat gorgeous - cant wait for the best party in Salisbury xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to people but I think an age gap of maybe 10 years or so can sometimes look a bit uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 yrs

Been together 5 yrs

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By *onkeydicksparties OP   Man
over a year ago

SALISBURY Sat 20th MAY Mixed Erotic Party


"20 yrs

Been together 5 yrs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"22 years between us, where in our 8th year and blissfully happy

"

I. Recently had a 23 year old guy fall for me. I'm 41. Does it matter that it's the women who's older? How does society view this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck to people but I think an age gap of maybe 10 years or so can sometimes look a bit uncomfortable "

Who gives a toss how it 'looks'?

It's how it feels for the 2 people in the relationship that is important.

If our relationship makes other people uncomfortable then that is their 'issue' to deal with whilst we get on with being happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"JN - 20

SP - 43

Been together a year and two months now

Everything is going brilliantly, I love him more than anything and I'm happier than I've ever been!

JN

Aww that's lovely "

Brilliant, hope for us all. I am not concerned about age at all. Met and/or dated +20 to -20 from when I was 17 to 52. All were such fun ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three of the happiest relationships I've known amongst family & friends have had big age gaps , 2 the guys were/are older by 11 & 22 years. The other , the lady was 13 years older .

No-one ever questioned it , they all fitted together . Age is but a number & if it feels right then it will be right !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This week a lady agreed to meet for a social, we spoke oh the phone, my age is on my profile and I was looking forward to the natter.

Then, perhaps stupidly, I wrote to her on What's App. Described myself as white hair, I went white age 36 .. Eyebrows remain black (bit like Philip Scofield or Alistair Darling). She asked me "how old are you" ... Then she cancelled the social, 5 yrs too old. Pity.

I know everyone has a prefernce, but who knows what might have been. I have huge energy, love a giggle ...

So to some its just a number, to others its so much more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This week a lady agreed to meet for a social, we spoke oh the phone, my age is on my profile and I was looking forward to the natter.

Then, perhaps stupidly, I wrote to her on What's App. Described myself as white hair, I went white age 36 .. Eyebrows remain black (bit like Philip Scofield or Alistair Darling). She asked me "how old are you" ... Then she cancelled the social, 5 yrs too old. Pity.

I know everyone has a prefernce, but who knows what might have been. I have huge energy, love a giggle ...

So to some its just a number, to others its so much more. "

Stick to the Silver Fox in future.

Alistair Darling ... they aren't just eyebrows !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Three of the happiest relationships I've known amongst family & friends have had big age gaps , 2 the guys were/are older by 11 & 22 years. The other , the lady was 13 years older .

No-one ever questioned it , they all fitted together . Age is but a number & if it feels right then it will be right !

"

Think it would be my kids complaining. He's a year older than my daughter ??

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

me 33

him 64

been partners and best friends for 6 and half years.

My new club buddy is 58 tomorrow.

Just love the older, distinguished gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a thing for the older guy, at the age of 17 I was dating a 40 year old but I wanted different things from life, on here I prefer the older guy as they seem to treat me with more respect and look to pleasure me, the most recent being 20+ years older than me and knows exactly which buttons to press

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere


"my brothers married to an older woman who has got granchildren she told me that he doesnt realy like kids and gets fed up with them.

Then may I suggest the relationship won't last. I knew when we got together that he came as part of a team of 4. If I didn't have a good relationship with the kids then our relationship wouldn't be as strong as it is.

Thats where your wrong because they have been together for over 20 years, get on ok in other ways, no marriage is perfect, some people stay together for other

reasons, not everyone gets divorced because they get

annoyed about some things,

obviously the kids dont bother him

that much.

Which is not what you said in your previous post! You said, he doesn't really like kids and gets fed up with them, not what you've just said! Its very difficult to debate something with someone who changes things!

If the kids don't bother him then they aren't going to be an issue, if

he doesn't like them then it is

going to be! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one of them born in 1979, the other 1980. a year apart, yet separated by a decade. A forbidden love! One bound by he ideals disco funk and groove, the other with a sworn allegiance to new romantic synth pop.. but how can those 2 star crossed lovers ever make others see what they see??

Love it x

FIND OUT NEXT WEEK!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think of relationships with a big age gap are you in one.

Do you think they work long term.

What is your biggest age gap you have had.

Was it a good relationship."

My wife is 12 years younger than me, she is 34yrs old, I consider myself fairly highly sexed but I find it very difficult keeping up with her needs

guess I would turn a blind eye if she had a work place fling as it would reduce her sexual appetite at home, she has a good few toys but they just don't seem enough for her at times and she tires me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres 18 yrs between me and other half,and we have the best laughs ever ,and hes more immature than the kids lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think age gap when the man is older seems to get a lot less attention than when the woman is older. We have had the occasional looks from people passing by or couples nudging each other and looking our direction. I dont really think about it until you notice someone doing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"22 years between us, where in our 8th year and blissfully happy

I. Recently had a 23 year old guy fall for me. I'm 41. Does it matter that it's the women who's older? How does society view this?"

I wouldnt mind if my son was seeing a much older woman as long as she didnt have kids.

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By *erfectlyPervertedCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It works for us.

Tank Girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad was 19 years older than my mum, sadly he died many years ago but they were perfect for each other. I remember on the rare occasion he'd pick me up from school, my mates would think he was my grandad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"22 years between us, where in our 8th year and blissfully happy

I. Recently had a 23 year old guy fall for me. I'm 41. Does it matter that it's the women who's older? How does society view this?

I wouldnt mind if my son was seeing a much older woman as long as she didnt have kids."

Why is that? Is it because you wouldn't want the 'grandchildren' not to be yours? X

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"22 years between us, where in our 8th year and blissfully happy

I. Recently had a 23 year old guy fall for me. I'm 41. Does it matter that it's the women who's older? How does society view this?

I wouldnt mind if my son was seeing a much older woman as long as she didnt have kids."

Don't think that has anything to do with you though does it? What would you do if she did have kids?

My grandad married a woman younger than his daughter (my mum) lol they were together for years, he even had his vascectomy reversed to try and give her children but it didn't work and they split up. They are still good friends though.

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over a year ago


"22 years between us, where in our 8th year and blissfully happy

I. Recently had a 23 year old guy fall for me. I'm 41. Does it matter that it's the women who's older? How does society view this?

I wouldnt mind if my son was seeing a much older woman as long as she didnt have kids.

Don't think that has anything to do with you though does it? What would you do if she did have kids?

My grandad married a woman younger than his daughter (my mum) lol they were together for years, he even had his vascectomy reversed to try and give her children but it didn't work and they split up. They are still good friends though. "

No it wouldnt have anything to do with me, my sons an adult but luckily hes quite sensible.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Hey x the lad Im seeing for past two months is 30 years younger. "

That makes him 18. ..

I'm 29 and wouldn't go that young.

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over a year ago


"22 years between us, where in our 8th year and blissfully happy

I. Recently had a 23 year old guy fall for me. I'm 41. Does it matter that it's the women who's older? How does society view this?

I wouldnt mind if my son was seeing a much older woman as long as she didnt have kids.

Don't think that has anything to do with you though does it? What would you do if she did have kids?

My grandad married a woman younger than his daughter (my mum) lol they were together for years, he even had his vascectomy reversed to try and give her children but it didn't work and they split up. They are still good friends though.

No it wouldnt have anything to do with me, my sons an adult but luckily hes quite sensible. "

To be honest I probably wouldn't be happy if it was one of my kids as you want the best for them and I would be worried about them being on their own in the prime of their life cos their partner had dropped dead lol

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over a year ago

Oldest was 14 years older when I was 19 and she 33. Youngest was last year - she was 19 (daughter of a fab member and yes mum knows before any one neg comments!). Have had fun with a few 23 yr olds here too.... Never seems to matter tbh but some folks on here do set limits - and that's their choice and should also be respected.

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By *onkeydicksparties OP   Man
over a year ago

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"It works for us.

Tank Girl "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think huge age gaps are fine so long as both of you are still alive. It's when one of you are deceased that it starts to get a tad extreme

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By *usty_n_LustyCouple
over a year ago

Kent

My Dad is 64 my step-mum is 32.... so 32 years difference. They have been together 9 years and are extremely happy.

I find it very entertaining introducing her as my step-mum as she is 8yrs younger than me

xxx

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By *onkeydicksparties OP   Man
over a year ago

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"My Dad is 64 my step-mum is 32.... so 32 years difference. They have been together 9 years and are extremely happy.

I find it very entertaining introducing her as my step-mum as she is 8yrs younger than me

xxx"

cool

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By *harma and GregCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

12 years between me and hubby and people say I look older then him I know I act it some times! We have a good dynamic that works well 12 years and still going strong he is my everything and I am his

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My sons last g/f he was 22 and she was 38, thought I would find it strange seeing them together but I didn't. They've split up now but not because of the age difference he's seeing someone his own age now

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By *onkeydicksparties OP   Man
over a year ago

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"JN - 20

SP - 43

Been together a year and two months now

Everything is going brilliantly, I love him more than anything and I'm happier than I've ever been!

JN

Aww that's lovely :-

Brilliant, hope for us all. I am not concerned about age at all. Met and/or dated +20 to -20 from when I was 17 to 52. All were such fun ... "

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over a year ago


"My sons last g/f he was 22 and she was 38, thought I would find it strange seeing them together but I didn't. They've split up now but not because of the age difference he's seeing someone his own age now

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