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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

With your kids ??? My sons 25 with a son of his own an hes been at mine last few hours. My phones not stopped bleeping txts an what ever. So he say ok dad who is she this time lol what would you say. I told him the truth an why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my girls are so open with each other, we talked about everything.. With the exception of Fab. That's my secret.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we're as open as all of us are comfortable with

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my girls don't know im here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not at all open. Usually keep things to myself and about Fab - noone knows.

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Me and my girls are so open with each other, we talked about everything.. With the exception of Fab. That's my secret. "

Lol he even knows im on here no secrets no point. We have even neen known to like the same women as freaky as that sounds

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Both my children know, they are my next of kin and I've heard a few horror stories of people ending up in hospital from clubs or dressed in fet gear and there is no way I want them to find out that way. They are both very cool with it but obviously don't want to talk details.

I also didn't want them thinking the stereotype and wanted to explain the reality of it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children know they can say absolutely anything to me..we have the best conversations over the breakfast table and i know i can say and ask them things without causing embarrassment.

However, what we do is strictly private.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

My girls know I 'internet date' but that's about it!!!

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Think we both gave up pretending a few yrs back as we bumped into each other at a dealers pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My children know they can say absolutely anything to me..we have the best conversations over the breakfast table and i know i can say and ask them things without causing embarrassment.

However, what we do is strictly private. "

This is how we are too,they really don't need to know what Mum and Dad get up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our grown up children know that we have an open marriage & both date other people, god knows why that's any more acceptable than swinging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My girls know I 'internet date' but that's about it!!! "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I wouldn't tell my children any details of my sex life from vibrators to swinging.

I hate it when my own mum tells me what goes on in her sex life. I cringe inside. Wouldn't want to do that to my children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol it's bad enough my 9 year old told me he wants to get naked with girls and then going in to the birds and bees talk and telling him he'll go prison if he gets naked with girls before 21.

Like feck am I explaining swinging to him lol.

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Personally, I wouldn't tell my children any details of my sex life from vibrators to swinging.

I hate it when my own mum tells me what goes on in her sex life. I cringe inside. Wouldn't want to do that to my children. "

Yep very much see your point....I think we are no longer father an son we are best mates an no matter what the problem there for each other 100%. Hes even rung me when thing have got a little to handy in the pub now thats somthing a little special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My close family and friends know.

Mr and I have recently been outed as well, cue an embarrassing convo with his eldest. But its done now, she was pretty epic about it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Im early open to those who are important. I think they and others probably expect I get up to far worse than I really do. That said, I am not an angel.

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Im early open to those who are important. I think they and others probably expect I get up to far worse than I really do. That said, I am not an angel. "

Slut

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My sons know I have "friends" that I see or go away for the weekend with but they think it is internet dating too, they don't really worry about it as I am quite open with them about sex etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always been open with my son from when he was little, forgeting that kids tend to tell other people. he knows im on here, im not good at keeping secrets, that and i dont give a damn.

i dont tell him everything though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not open at all, family and friends would never understand.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't blab about my sex life freely with anyone. Their sex life is their business and mine is my business.

Anyone asking a question will be told either the truth or to mind their own, depending who it is asking and what the question is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With your kids ??? My sons 25 with a son of his own an hes been at mine last few hours. My phones not stopped bleeping txts an what ever. So he say ok dad who is she this time lol what would you say. I told him the truth an why not "

As in the same one that likes his bikes and I would like

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"With your kids ??? My sons 25 with a son of his own an hes been at mine last few hours. My phones not stopped bleeping txts an what ever. So he say ok dad who is she this time lol what would you say. I told him the truth an why not

As in the same one that likes his bikes and I would like "

As I said we have even been known to go for the same girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am closer to my dad than my mum so he knows a little bit more about me in that he thinks I date over the internet, but neither of them know what I actually get upto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't blab about my sex life freely with anyone. Their sex life is their business and mine is my business.

Anyone asking a question will be told either the truth or to mind their own, depending who it is asking and what the question is."

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

my kids family dont know about fab but they do know i live an open lifestyle they even know some of my "special friends" not the down dirty of it though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to my own detriment i treat V's kids as friends, rather than kids.

especially when it comes to having a laugh.

not much is off limits.

when they are with their mates and they start the whole 'i did your mom last night' thing, i always tell them so did i, and she loved it.

always told to shut up, and the ribbing stops.

i get annoyed listening to kids giving each other shit, so stop it straight away in this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With your kids ??? My sons 25 with a son of his own an hes been at mine last few hours. My phones not stopped bleeping txts an what ever. So he say ok dad who is she this time lol what would you say. I told him the truth an why not

As in the same one that likes his bikes and I would like

As I said we have even been known to go for the same girls "

Yeah... That's kinda weird bro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With your kids ??? My sons 25 with a son of his own an hes been at mine last few hours. My phones not stopped bleeping txts an what ever. So he say ok dad who is she this time lol what would you say. I told him the truth an why not "

I have 3 boys (12,13 & 18) and I wouldn't dream of explaining to them about this lifestyle. They know I meet different women through dating sites and that's enough. Their lives are complicated enough as it is without that bit of additional knowledge. I think there's a danger of viewing the swinging scene as being 'normal' if you're exposed to it it everyday - it's not 'normal' and that's part of the attraction for me.

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"With your kids ??? My sons 25 with a son of his own an hes been at mine last few hours. My phones not stopped bleeping txts an what ever. So he say ok dad who is she this time lol what would you say. I told him the truth an why not

As in the same one that likes his bikes and I would like

As I said we have even been known to go for the same girls

Yeah... That's kinda weird bro. "

Not at the same time I might add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum and her partner know.. not details but if i went to a hotel id inform them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My children know they can say absolutely anything to me..we have the best conversations over the breakfast table and i know i can say and ask them things without causing embarrassment.

However, what we do is strictly private. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With your kids ??? My sons 25 with a son of his own an hes been at mine last few hours. My phones not stopped bleeping txts an what ever. So he say ok dad who is she this time lol what would you say. I told him the truth an why not

As in the same one that likes his bikes and I would like

As I said we have even been known to go for the same girls

Yeah... That's kinda weird bro.

Not at the same time I might add"

Yeah even I'm not that weird... Hehe x

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"With your kids ??? My sons 25 with a son of his own an hes been at mine last few hours. My phones not stopped bleeping txts an what ever. So he say ok dad who is she this time lol what would you say. I told him the truth an why not

As in the same one that likes his bikes and I would like

As I said we have even been known to go for the same girls

Yeah... That's kinda weird bro.

Not at the same time I might add

Yeah even I'm not that weird... Hehe x"

You sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With your kids ??? My sons 25 with a son of his own an hes been at mine last few hours. My phones not stopped bleeping txts an what ever. So he say ok dad who is she this time lol what would you say. I told him the truth an why not "
yep tell truth he old enough my girls 27/24 this time have know from start me being on fab.they worried when i was single that natural.but they said as long as im happy they were fine

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"With your kids ??? My sons 25 with a son of his own an hes been at mine last few hours. My phones not stopped bleeping txts an what ever. So he say ok dad who is she this time lol what would you say. I told him the truth an why not yep tell truth he old enough my girls 27/24 this time have know from start me being on fab.they worried when i was single that natural.but they said as long as im happy they were fine "

My thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mum and her partner know.. not details but if i went to a hotel id inform them."
my mum knows she guessed.she wasnt shocked.asked if she had told my dad..god no was her reply he would want to come to clubs with you..pmsl

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"My mum and her partner know.. not details but if i went to a hotel id inform them.my mum knows she guessed.she wasnt shocked.asked if she had told my dad..god no was her reply he would want to come to clubs with you..pmsl "

Tipical dad hes just looking out for you

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

My daughter is 32 and knows I have meets. She just doesn't know what site I'm on.

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