FabSwingers.com forum: how to introduce swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hello, im just cruious to know.

i have been swinging for a while and i am currently getting close to this nice girl. she dose have a wild and kinky side in bed and we often disscuss fantacies. we both share similar ones which involve others.

she dose not know i am a swinger and i am wondering how to approach this with her as i want to be honest however i really dont want to scare this girl away as i do see potential with her.

also was this the case for any couples that have now taken to swinging?

she has made it clear to me she has never experianced any involvement in the past for swinging or even in the experimental collage years.

advice please.

thanks

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd stop swinging and concentrate on her. Maybe mention it in the future but introducing others into a new relationship is going to cause issues.

By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

If you are already talkingabout fantasies then you are halfway there.

Do wha I did and just ask her like I did my wife if she ever wanted turn her fantasie into a reality, see what she says do not mention your swinging side yet just let it flow and see what happens, if she says no then you are seriously going to have to decide what you want more her or swinging