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What's a "switch"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As in Dom Switch Sub Switch.

Is it some twonk who can't make their mind up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly sounds that way! Cant see how its practical - You're one or the other.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No! It's someone that can do both! I'm sub so I couldn't switch but there are a lot that can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you live and learn. Not sure I think I could but hey.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No! It's someone that can do both! I'm sub so I couldn't switch but there are a lot that can! "

I'm Domme and couldn't be sub. I don't play with switches.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's that thingy that you use to switch things on and off, like lights and stuff

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"No! It's someone that can do both! I'm sub so I couldn't switch but there are a lot that can!

I'm Domme and couldn't be sub. I don't play with switches."

Neither do I! It is a trust thing for me, and so hard to find, I no longer actively advertise it...I was just stating that some can...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certainly sounds that way! Cant see how its practical - You're one or the other."

Unless you're switch. Then you're both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if they forget what part their playing mid flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would bugger it up!

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

I don't think I'm any of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A switch is not someone who can't make their mind up. A switch is able to adopt a role according to the feelings between the participants at that particular moment which can be effected by so many different things.

I love switching because I love to play out my fantasies to someone else. I love to give someone the feelings and sensations I enjoy. To see someone enjoy what I enjoy gives me a huge amount of pleasure.

I love that they then have 'payback' the next time I play with them.

The fact I can enjoy and employ both roles in my opinion means I have more opportunities to learn and understand body language and how to read responses and help someone to get the most out of the scene.

crystal

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole


"A switch is not someone who can't make their mind up. A switch is able to adopt a role according to the feelings between the participants at that particular moment which can be effected by so many different things.

I love switching because I love to play out my fantasies to someone else. I love to give someone the feelings and sensations I enjoy. To see someone enjoy what I enjoy gives me a huge amount of pleasure.

I love that they then have 'payback' the next time I play with them.

The fact I can enjoy and employ both roles in my opinion means I have more opportunities to learn and understand body language and how to read responses and help someone to get the most out of the scene.

crystal"

Everything above. I am naturally dom when i am in "normal" drab, however when amy comes out to play I am 100% sub.

When I have played as dom the lady who I have played with says I am one of the most switched on doms she has ever met in terms of tuned in with what the sub wants and needs.

No im not confused, just able to adapt and do different things.

The only other dom I know who I think is switched on also likes to experience being a sub. So maybe it takes someone who can switch to truly be able to be one of the best doms

IS all I know is I (and the people I have fun with) have a bloody good fun time being kinky in many ways and thats all I care about. If anyone thinks its cranky or stupid or daft can go play with themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As in Dom Switch Sub Switch.

Is it some twonk who can't make their mind up? "

I switch , Im not a twonk , lol I love both sides. I switch to learn. A Domme who does to another , should know what it feels like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a switch and depending on who I play with I'll sub or domme or even trade back and forth during play. For me it's the best of both worlds and helps me learn a lot more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A switch is not someone who can't make their mind up. A switch is able to adopt a role according to the feelings between the participants at that particular moment which can be effected by so many different things.

I love switching because I love to play out my fantasies to someone else. I love to give someone the feelings and sensations I enjoy. To see someone enjoy what I enjoy gives me a huge amount of pleasure.

I love that they then have 'payback' the next time I play with them.

The fact I can enjoy and employ both roles in my opinion means I have more opportunities to learn and understand body language and how to read responses and help someone to get the most out of the scene.

crystal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A switch is not someone who can't make their mind up. A switch is able to adopt a role according to the feelings between the participants at that particular moment which can be effected by so many different things.

I love switching because I love to play out my fantasies to someone else. I love to give someone the feelings and sensations I enjoy. To see someone enjoy what I enjoy gives me a huge amount of pleasure.

I love that they then have 'payback' the next time I play with them.

The fact I can enjoy and employ both roles in my opinion means I have more opportunities to learn and understand body language and how to read responses and help someone to get the most out of the scene.

crystal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm switch, but either dom or sub during any one scene, I can't go between the two roles. One's my mind is in one mindset, it stays there for the duration.

Being switch is like being bi...you have the best of both worlds

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