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By *ackandkate OP   Couple
over a year ago

Truro

It would stop the "look who we've shagged" trophy hunters and maybe even the daily verification gripes.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

i disagree with this as i look at peeps veris and you can find a lot of very useful info from them - ie. a couples profile which states they only play safe with veris from bareback only profiles - + loads more info! Z

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

But then how will I snoop on people?

Someone will have to know they are from real people.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I agree. Who needs to know which woman thought I was a shit shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications should be scrapped , make people think for themselves

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Verifications should be scrapped , make people think for themselves "

but they can say so much as the example i cited earlier Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

verifications are not all about who people have shagged ....... we meet loads just socially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications should be scrapped , make people think for themselves

but they can say so much as the example i cited earlier Z"

It's just my opinion , I don't understand how some people rely on the words of a stranger to decide if they going to meet another stranger.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know? "

Same as someone turning up for one meet doesn't mean they going to turn up for another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know? "

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Verifications should be scrapped , make people think for themselves

but they can say so much as the example i cited earlier Z

It's just my opinion , I don't understand how some people rely on the words of a stranger to decide if they going to meet another stranger. "

i tend not to read the veris but look at who left them! Z

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love


"verifications are not all about who people have shagged ....... we meet loads just socially "

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not! "

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not! "

Surely if you do your own homework you will find that out anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z"

And there are no fake veris on here at all.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

having been let down on both social and possible meet, at least now 5 times in past month.all were verified on profile,so for me to get verified difficult,

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By *ackandkate OP   Couple
over a year ago

Truro


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z"

'kin 'ell Z, do you mean there are people here who tell porkies?

Well, I'll go to the foot of our stairs

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z

And there are no fake veris on here at all. "

i'm sure there are. Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z

'kin 'ell Z, do you mean there are people here who tell porkies?

Well, I'll go to the foot of our stairs "

lol - it's ages since i heard that! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z

And there are no fake veris on here at all.

i'm sure there are. Z"

So why would anyone trust a veri ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of people arent always the way other people describe them.

i think its better if you can read their verifications especialy the ones they have left other people, anyone can sound nice on the phone too. when you get that desperate you will meet anyone sometimes though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Surely if you do your own homework you will find that out anyway"

Where does it say I don't?? I was merely pointing out that verifications are to show id a person is genuine and not if they're a good shag or not

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z

And there are no fake veris on here at all.

i'm sure there are. Z

So why would anyone trust a veri ? "

yawn - i don't read them - i look at who has left them if its on a profile i might be interested in - it ain't rocket science! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z

And there are no fake veris on here at all.

i'm sure there are. Z

So why would anyone trust a veri ?

yawn - i don't read them - i look at who has left them if its on a profile i might be interested in - it ain't rocket science! Z"

Why on earth would you do that ?

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By *ackandkate OP   Couple
over a year ago

Truro

Old Chinese proverb says, "Trust a veri as much as you'd trust a fart"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old Welsh proverb, let people get on and use the site as and how they wish!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And according to another thread it's ok to veri someone who turned up and had a good time only to want it taken away again because they didn't want to meet again just wanted a green tick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just bloody nosey

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z

And there are no fake veris on here at all.

i'm sure there are. Z

So why would anyone trust a veri ?

yawn - i don't read them - i look at who has left them if its on a profile i might be interested in - it ain't rocket science! Z

Why on earth would you do that ? "

i'm loosing the will to live - if i see a profile i may be into i look at who has verified them - if they have been verified by barebackers or very fat or very ugly people i won't contact said profile i may have shown interst in - i can't put this any simpler! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can always hide your verifications if you don't want others seeing who you have previously met, and you don't need to show your verification summary either!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Verifications is one of the tools I use when meeting people.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Old Welsh proverb, let people get on and use the site as and how they wish!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love looking back over our veri's , it gives us a warm feeling and brings back happy memories . We also like to see who has met who , for various reasons which we will keep to ourselves .

If you don't like the verifications , don't read them .

If you don't want veri's tell your meet .

Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z

And there are no fake veris on here at all.

i'm sure there are. Z

So why would anyone trust a veri ?

yawn - i don't read them - i look at who has left them if its on a profile i might be interested in - it ain't rocket science! Z

Why on earth would you do that ?

i'm loosing the will to live - if i see a profile i may be into i look at who has verified them - if they have been verified by barebackers or very fat or very ugly people i won't contact said profile i may have shown interst in - i can't put this any simpler! Z"

Thank you , that's all I wanted to know. Don't know why you loosing will to live as all I asked was to explain something I didn't understand from your posts.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z

And there are no fake veris on here at all.

i'm sure there are. Z

So why would anyone trust a veri ?

yawn - i don't read them - i look at who has left them if its on a profile i might be interested in - it ain't rocket science! Z

Why on earth would you do that ?

i'm loosing the will to live - if i see a profile i may be into i look at who has verified them - if they have been verified by barebackers or very fat or very ugly people i won't contact said profile i may have shown interst in - i can't put this any simpler! Z

Thank you , that's all I wanted to know. Don't know why you loosing will to live as all I asked was to explain something I didn't understand from your posts. "

lol - it just seemed to take a long time as my very 1st post was very clear! Z

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I agree. Who needs to know which woman thought I was a shit shag? "

Ah, so that's why you're hiding mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z

And there are no fake veris on here at all.

i'm sure there are. Z

So why would anyone trust a veri ?

yawn - i don't read them - i look at who has left them if its on a profile i might be interested in - it ain't rocket science! Z

Why on earth would you do that ?

i'm loosing the will to live - if i see a profile i may be into i look at who has verified them - if they have been verified by barebackers or very fat or very ugly people i won't contact said profile i may have shown interst in - i can't put this any simpler! Z"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would stop the "look who we've shagged" trophy hunters and maybe even the daily verification gripes.

"

I'd prefer if there was no verification system at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications should be scrapped , make people think for themselves

but they can say so much as the example i cited earlier Z"

I love reading veris keep plz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would stop the "look who we've shagged" trophy hunters and maybe even the daily verification gripes.

I'd prefer if there was no verification system at all. "

Why ?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It would stop the "look who we've shagged" trophy hunters and maybe even the daily verification gripes.

"

Disagree. Whilst I don't use verifications to decide who to meet I have used them to decide who not to meet i.e. the straight guy with the verification from a tv extolling the delights of his tight arse.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"i disagree with this as i look at peeps veris and you can find a lot of very useful info from them - ie. a couples profile which states they only play safe with veris from bareback only profiles - + loads more info! Z"

My view too!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Verifications should be scrapped , make people think for themselves "

Now Moody! Stop will the crazy talk!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Verifications should be scrapped , make people think for themselves

Now Moody! Stop will the crazy talk! "

This is ok if we're all clairvoyant! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you could delete a veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A verification I think should be written about the people, how they were as people, rather than who did what.

One Shit/ great shag, maybe a different story to another.

Her

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm always tempted to do a mirthful verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not against veris, just what are written in them make me want to throw up; such as...

Cock to die for (my particular favourite)

Don't pass this one by ladies

Suckable cock

Juicy cock

Thanks babes, mwah

Had me gushing in the air

Just my own critical misgivings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would stop the "look who we've shagged" trophy hunters and maybe even the daily verification gripes.

I'd prefer if there was no verification system at all.

Why ?"

People would (might) think for themselves instead of relying on twaddle that strangers on the internet have written.

Baffles me how anyone can that think that a) veri's are a true reflection of a person and b) that the veri's shown give a true representation of that person's sexual history. Madness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only show the nice ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding veris useful doesn't mean you look no further than this in establishing if the person/persons are right for you or genuine. Nor does it mean you believe what you read about how great they are in bed.

You can though glean useful information from veris that might include things the profile owner might not have disclosed.

We all like to think we can all sniff out every bit of bullshit but in truth we can't so I say the more info you to arm yourself with the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish you could delete a veri "

Especially if you've written quite a good one about someone an they turn out to b a twat an you've totally misread signals

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Finding veris useful doesn't mean you look no further than this in establishing if the person/persons are right for you or genuine. Nor does it mean you believe what you read about how great they are in bed.

You can though glean useful information from veris that might include things the profile owner might not have disclosed.

We all like to think we can all sniff out every bit of bullshit but in truth we can't so I say the more info you to arm yourself with the better.

"

at last - someone who has said what i wanted and tried to say but failed! Thank you! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding veris useful doesn't mean you look no further than this in establishing if the person/persons are right for you or genuine. Nor does it mean you believe what you read about how great they are in bed.

You can though glean useful information from veris that might include things the profile owner might not have disclosed.

We all like to think we can all sniff out every bit of bullshit but in truth we can't so I say the more info you to arm yourself with the better.

"

exactly this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would stop the "look who we've shagged" trophy hunters and maybe even the daily verification gripes.

I'd prefer if there was no verification system at all.

Why ?

People would (might) think for themselves instead of relying on twaddle that strangers on the internet have written.

Baffles me how anyone can that think that a) veri's are a true reflection of a person and b) that the veri's shown give a true representation of that person's sexual history. Madness."

They are just a part of a process though . First the profile text and pictures , then the list of preferences , then a selection of veri's . From this a message , a feel of the connection , perhaps a phone call and then a meet .

Seems reasonable , and surely useful as part of the bigger picture .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not bothered how they feel, I just want them as a trophy shag, its not like I am gonna marry them lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding veris useful doesn't mean you look no further than this in establishing if the person/persons are right for you or genuine. Nor does it mean you believe what you read about how great they are in bed.

You can though glean useful information from veris that might include things the profile owner might not have disclosed.

We all like to think we can all sniff out every bit of bullshit but in truth we can't so I say the more info you to arm yourself with the better.

"

I suspect 95% of traffic to my profile is people who land on thedevilinus' profile and think 'wow - you met those guys? lucky fecker'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we both like the verification system and may use it to help to determine a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding veris useful doesn't mean you look no further than this in establishing if the person/persons are right for you or genuine. Nor does it mean you believe what you read about how great they are in bed.

You can though glean useful information from veris that might include things the profile owner might not have disclosed.

We all like to think we can all sniff out every bit of bullshit but in truth we can't so I say the more info you to arm yourself with the better.

I suspect 95% of traffic to my profile is people who land on thedevilinus' profile and think 'wow - you met those guys? lucky fecker'"

Exactly a case in point, you know what a twat I really am.!

Oh no, hang on......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will happily meet the couple with just a few veri's from other nice couples.... totally unaware of the fact that the couple does bareback gangbangs every weekend (not on the site).

Because they have a few nice veri's, they are happy. Cool.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"It would stop the "look who we've shagged" trophy hunters and maybe even the daily verification gripes.

"

we get grief over not showing our veris

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"It would stop the "look who we've shagged" trophy hunters and maybe even the daily verification gripes.

"

I agree.....that it should be an option for both the giver and receiver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had our veri's and friends list up until someone started sending us nasty, malicious emails. We were worried that our friends and Veri's would be targeted by them. Not many meets nowadays as a result but what can you do. Diddly squat.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Veris are one of the indicators that help me decide if I want to meet...I've also met non verified people after using the other indicators I personally use...I tend to ignore the "made me gush like niagra falls" type veris, but the "shit shag, fell asleep whilst going down on him/her" are more likely to make me think there's probably a good laugh can be had here...end of the day (sorry, I sound like a fecking football manager) for me is a bit more likely to get me interested

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I do read veri`s but I don't look at the persons profile that left them, I am interested in the person and not who they have met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have paid people a fortune to verify us so if they are taken away can we get our money back..Ive kept the receipts

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By *ot monkey71Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

bad idea, not giving reason just is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" if they have been verified by barebackers or very fat or very ugly people i won't contact said profile i may have shown interest in "

Riiiiiight ...

I am with you on the barebacking but what has the looks or build of previous meets got to do with the price of fish ?

Some people are not bothered by build and 'ugly' is subjective, yet you would not meet someone you fancied because they have met with people you don't fancy ?

Am I reading that right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe it should just be a tick to say "Verified as genuine" because at the end of the day that's all it means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would stop the "look who we've shagged" trophy hunters and maybe even the daily verification gripes.

"

I will go for that, ok they are fun for the first 6 months ok for the following months then the following 2 years I have lost interest as its more about the people for me. I don't rely on them as I socially meet anyway in the main first time and make it a point I don't verify them pre meeting as I don't think its right to verify because its the "polite thing" same with meeting people at socials which are often a smiler because I have chatted with both parties in the past and they hate each other but still do the warm milk cosy verification. Would it be better to stop them? In all honesty yes they have done their day and have become little more than the 1970's bumper stickers on cars "my other cars a Porsche" or "truck drivers fuck good" etc.

HOWEVER taking them away well if I had to do it I would feel as bad as I would stealing a Chupa Chup from a 3yr old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish you could delete a veri "

You don't have to show a veri... You can choose which ones you want to show... Or not show any... Your choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one shag with same people may be a shit shag to someone else I hate all the treat her right she deserves it how do they know?

Verifications are not about whether someone is a good shag or not

All they need to should show if the person is genuine or not!

Totally - and if they're being truthful in their profile. Z

And there are no fake veris on here at all.

i'm sure there are. Z

So why would anyone trust a veri ?

yawn - i don't read them - i look at who has left them if its on a profile i might be interested in - it ain't rocket science! Z

Why on earth would you do that ? "

I do that to see if I know them, more chance they will turn up then, not interested in whats said though; one persons great shag is another's shit shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had our veri's and friends list up until someone started sending us nasty, malicious emails. We were worried that our friends and Veri's would be targeted by them. Not many meets nowadays as a result but what can you do. Diddly squat."

Why don't you mention it on your profile as I have seen on profiles that say they will let people who they are interested in see their verification's to prove they are genuine, I think they show some for a day just to show the person they are exchanging messages with that they have met people, besides from your pictures, its pretty obvious you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would stop the "look who we've shagged" trophy hunters and maybe even the daily verification gripes.

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True. But if they annoy you that much just don't show them

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

Am I missing something here?...can't recall seeing anything on this site that forces me to read, send, or display verifications.

What other people choose to do has no impact on me whatsoever.Why do people insist on posting voyeuristic critical opinions on what people choose to say about each other...beats me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe someone has put, they wouldn't meet someone who had met someone else who was overweight and ugly. Wow

Guilty by association.

(Can't be asked to scroll back and quote them)

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Verifications is one of the tools I use when meeting people."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well having read this thread it's apparent that swinging today is far less about meeting like-minded people for fun and more about having read 'Forensics for Dummies'before starting an investigation.

Seriously. It's just disheartening.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If they were anonymous maybe someone would leave 20 for someone and it would look like they had loads...

I make my own mind up but I do use someone's veris as a tool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well having read this thread it's apparent that swinging today is far less about meeting like-minded people for fun and more about having read 'Forensics for Dummies'before starting an investigation.

Seriously. It's just disheartening. "

Dont worry despite what people say about being choosy, they arent that fussy at all really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use met in person veri's as a filter and as a tool.

Making them anonymous would make it easier for fake veri's and I dont think it would work. Ironically if we could protect the women's identity then we would show our veri's.

We only display them when we feel we can trust the person(s) we are talking too, as our single female friends already get enough attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well having read this thread it's apparent that swinging today is far less about meeting like-minded people for fun and more about having read 'Forensics for Dummies'before starting an investigation.

Seriously. It's just disheartening. "

I actually think it just sounds more involved than it is because people are going into details about the pros and cons.

I consider us people who look with care at profiles but it's a 2 minute process.

Read profile, 30 seconds, quick browse of pics and age requirements etc and then a speed look at veris and a quick decision yes or no.

It probably takes 2 minutes, no agonising, but this just gives you a feel to go with, nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well having read this thread it's apparent that swinging today is far less about meeting like-minded people for fun and more about having read 'Forensics for Dummies'before starting an investigation.

Seriously. It's just disheartening.

Dont worry despite what people say about being choosy, they arent that fussy at all really."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think maybe it should just be a tick to say "Verified as genuine" because at the end of the day that's all it means. "

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