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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And how is it affected by ageing or other factors?

TO what extent do us girls take responsibility for a "not so amazing sex" session?

A lot of men like their girls to be feminine, not bolshy and ladettes - are we emasculating the lads at times? Its ok to have an opinion but are we disempowering them sometimes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've grown in confidence with age however if I have a "not so amazing sex session" then I definately shoulder some responsibility.

I think that speaks more of my insecurity/paranoia than it does about anything else haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to be brutal here but as long as i enjoy myself im not really too fussed if the other party did or didnt!!

abuse to the usual address!! xx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

sometimes it doesn't gel and its just no ones fault

best not apportion blame really

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Fortunatly for me, its very rare i dont have an amazing sex session. Now i put it down to a few things, one being my age and having no inhabitions, another that the guys i go with are also confident and experienced. Another factor is if there coming to my house i spend at least a couple of weeks chatting to them beforehand until i know its the right time to meet. If i was with someone and it didnt work out then i wouldnt really blame anyone just put it down to not being compatable

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"And how is it affected by ageing or other factors?

TO what extent do us girls take responsibility for a "not so amazing sex" session?

A lot of men like their girls to be feminine, not bolshy and ladettes - are we emasculating the lads at times? Its ok to have an opinion but are we disempowering them sometimes?

"

You'd think they'd avoid bolshy ladettes then wouldn't you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sometimes it doesn't gel and its just no ones fault

best not apportion blame really

"

i like that - the concept of not apportioning blame either way - that is not what good sex is about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sorry to be brutal here but as long as i enjoy myself im not really too fussed if the other party did or didnt!!

abuse to the usual address!! xx "

bad girl lol pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And how is it affected by ageing or other factors?

TO what extent do us girls take responsibility for a "not so amazing sex" session?

A lot of men like their girls to be feminine, not bolshy and ladettes - are we emasculating the lads at times? Its ok to have an opinion but are we disempowering them sometimes?

You'd think they'd avoid bolshy ladettes then wouldn't you "

And they don't , lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fortunatly for me, its very rare i dont have an amazing sex session. Now i put it down to a few things, one being my age and having no inhabitions, another that the guys i go with are also confident and experienced. Another factor is if there coming to my house i spend at least a couple of weeks chatting to them beforehand until i know its the right time to meet. If i was with someone and it didnt work out then i wouldnt really blame anyone just put it down to not being compatable"

good point about the diminishing inhibitions - very true for us girls

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"And how is it affected by ageing or other factors?

TO what extent do us girls take responsibility for a "not so amazing sex" session?

A lot of men like their girls to be feminine, not bolshy and ladettes - are we emasculating the lads at times? Its ok to have an opinion but are we disempowering them sometimes?

You'd think they'd avoid bolshy ladettes then wouldn't you

And they don't , lol "

Is that a question or a statement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My playmates want to please me: that's what they want and I expect, why bother otherwise!

That said there have been times we've been so knackered that it's not been brilliant but time spent just cuddling, chatting with no pressure usually revitalises things!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My playmates want to please me: that's what they want and I expect, why bother otherwise!

That said there have been times we've been so knackered that it's not been brilliant but time spent just cuddling, chatting with no pressure usually revitalises things! "

Quite agree with you there, nice and chilling and sensual and .... does it everytime, especially when there is no pressure on the girls and boys

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