FabSwingers.com forum: Am i, or am not

By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

I've been wondering for a while and maybe you guys can help.

As a singleton, can i really be classed as a swinger or am i just a tool for the swinging couple fraternity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been wondering for a while and maybe you guys can help.

As a singleton, can i really be classed as a swinger or am i just a tool for the swinging couple fraternity?"

You are you you don't need a label to have fun just go out and enjoy yourself.

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I've been wondering for a while and maybe you guys can help.

As a singleton, can i really be classed as a swinger or am i just a tool for the swinging couple fraternity?

You are you you don't need a label to have fun just go out and enjoy yourself."

i agree i don't need the label. But the label is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been wondering for a while and maybe you guys can help.

As a singleton, can i really be classed as a swinger or am i just a tool for the swinging couple fraternity?

You are you you don't need a label to have fun just go out and enjoy yourself.

i agree i don't need the label. But the label is there"

take it off then ..... ohhhh where is it stuck?

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

Up me crack lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah here for our pleasure.

Dont get stuck with labels. Just enjoy.

There's no way im retrueving your label from your crack

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"I've been wondering for a while and maybe you guys can help.

As a singleton, can i really be classed as a swinger or am i just a tool for the swinging couple fraternity?"

Does it matter?

Be what you want to be.

One of the good things on here is that there is a wide variety of people with a wide range of preferences. So decide who you are and what you want, and go for it. Labels count for little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah here for our pleasure.

Dont get stuck with labels. Just enjoy.

There's no way im retrueving your label from your crack"

I think u should .... u r qualified !!

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Nah here for our pleasure.

Dont get stuck with labels. Just enjoy.

There's no way im retrueving your label from your crack"

This is a serious question, I don't want this thread getting waylaid and becoming the focus of my crack lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

To many - singles aren't and won't ever be swingers - although personally I feel they need to move out of the dark ages, realise that 'wife-swapping' and swinging aren't the same - and not get hung up on a label.

To others (us included!) if someone chooses to use the label swinger, be they couple or single (of either sex!!), then all is good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the resistance to calling singles swingers comes from how the term originated. I understand the term was coined based on the idea of swinging away then back to a partner. So the traditionalists might say that singles can't be swingers as there's noone to swing away from or back to. Personally the label does not matter as mmf and ffm and mmmmmmf etc.,couldn't happen without singles. So I think the argument is a moot point within the swinging lifestyle.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes, you're a tool. When are you coming to give me my tune up for the year?

Seriously, with so many people wanting MFM and other combinations of three there has to be a single somewhere or one partner is always going to be excluded. We singles serve a purpose and inhabit the world of swing so I don't see why we can't call ourselves swingers.

Now, get your name down for the social in June as we are short of single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah here for our pleasure.

Dont get stuck with labels. Just enjoy.

There's no way im retrueving your label from your crack

I think u should .... u r qualified !!

Puts on mask gloves pasd the lube minx im going in.

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Nah here for our pleasure.

Dont get stuck with labels. Just enjoy.

There's no way im retrueving your label from your crack

I think u should .... u r qualified !!

Puts on mask gloves pasd the lube minx im going in. "

leave my crack out this guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah here for our pleasure.

Dont get stuck with labels. Just enjoy.

There's no way im retrueving your label from your crack

I think u should .... u r qualified !!

Puts on mask gloves pasd the lube minx im going in.

leave my crack out this guys lol"

Nope she wants to ferret around - leave her be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging, i guess, is more than a title, its a state of mind lol.

sounds trite, but stay with me.

if you just shag around and nothing more, then how are you any different to any singleton that falls out of a nightclub, d*unk, and shags the first thing moving.

its about the social aspect of it

the play

the lead up

the anticipation

and so on

there is so much more to it than just sex.

so only you can decide if you are a swinger or not.

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"swinging, i guess, is more than a title, its a state of mind lol.

sounds trite, but stay with me.

if you just shag around and nothing more, then how are you any different to any singleton that falls out of a nightclub, d*unk, and shags the first thing moving.

its about the social aspect of it

the play

the lead up

the anticipation

and so on

there is so much more to it than just sex.

so only you can decide if you are a swinger or not. "

Em i do enjoy the social side of the scene, so by your reckoning, I'm a 'SWINGER'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been wondering for a while and maybe you guys can help.

As a singleton, can i really be classed as a swinger or am i just a tool for the swinging couple fraternity?"

Sir , you are a tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"swinging, i guess, is more than a title, its a state of mind lol.

sounds trite, but stay with me.

if you just shag around and nothing more, then how are you any different to any singleton that falls out of a nightclub, d*unk, and shags the first thing moving.

its about the social aspect of it

the play

the lead up

the anticipation

and so on

there is so much more to it than just sex.

so only you can decide if you are a swinger or not.

Em i do enjoy the social side of the scene, so by your reckoning, I'm a 'SWINGER'

so you have answered your own question.

hth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and, just to muddy the waters somewhat, i dont think couples that are only interested in the sex, to the detriment of the social side of things are proper swingers either

(that should stir up a little debate. im off to work lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and, just to muddy the waters somewhat, i dont think couples that are only interested in the sex, to the detriment of the social side of things are proper swingers either

(that should stir up a little debate. im off to work lol)"

To flip the coin , couples who seek the social side over the sex are not proper swingers either

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"and, just to muddy the waters somewhat, i dont think couples that are only interested in the sex, to the detriment of the social side of things are proper swingers either

(that should stir up a little debate. im off to work lol)

To flip the coin , couples who seek the social side over the sex are not proper swingers either

Social sex = swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im quite happy to not be classed as a swinger,some are the most judgemental people I have ever come across

Ill continue to do my own thing having fun and not giving a shit about the labels other people feel the need to place on me to make them feel more secure

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I've been wondering for a while and maybe you guys can help.

As a singleton, can i really be classed as a swinger or am i just a tool for the swinging couple fraternity?

Sir , you are a tool

Great! Brought back down to earth. Ouch! That hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and, just to muddy the waters somewhat, i dont think couples that are only interested in the sex, to the detriment of the social side of things are proper swingers either

(that should stir up a little debate. im off to work lol)

To flip the coin , couples who seek the social side over the sex are not proper swingers either

swinging used to be party based.

parties are social occasions

social wins lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I've been wondering for a while and maybe you guys can help.

As a singleton, can i really be classed as a swinger or am i just a tool for the swinging couple fraternity?

Sir , you are a tool

Great! Brought back down to earth. Ouch! That hurt"

I told you that you were a tool too.

One more and it's official.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and, just to muddy the waters somewhat, i dont think couples that are only interested in the sex, to the detriment of the social side of things are proper swingers either

(that should stir up a little debate. im off to work lol)

To flip the coin , couples who seek the social side over the sex are not proper swingers either

swinging used to be party based.

parties are social occasions

social wins lol"

A party where the car keys wer put in a pot , and you drew the keys of your playmate .

So unless you just had a chat with the key holder it's sex that wins !

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I've been wondering for a while and maybe you guys can help.

As a singleton, can i really be classed as a swinger or am i just a tool for the swinging couple fraternity?

Sir , you are a tool

Great! Brought back down to earth. Ouch! That hurt

I told you that you were a tool too.

One more and it's official.

Before it gets worse Good night God bless sleep tight'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and, just to muddy the waters somewhat, i dont think couples that are only interested in the sex, to the detriment of the social side of things are proper swingers either

(that should stir up a little debate. im off to work lol)

To flip the coin , couples who seek the social side over the sex are not proper swingers either

swinging used to be party based.

parties are social occasions

social wins lol

A party where the car keys wer put in a pot , and you drew the keys of your playmate .

So unless you just had a chat with the key holder it's sex that wins !

you mean people just sat in dark corners on their own, until the bowl came out?

hardly.

social wins lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm a single female who enjoys spending time on a swinging website meeting likeminded people. Bit of a mouthful that though, so can I borrow the name swinger? I promise not to abuse it. Much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and, just to muddy the waters somewhat, i dont think couples that are only interested in the sex, to the detriment of the social side of things are proper swingers either

(that should stir up a little debate. im off to work lol)

To flip the coin , couples who seek the social side over the sex are not proper swingers either

swinging used to be party based.

parties are social occasions

social wins lol

A party where the car keys wer put in a pot , and you drew the keys of your playmate .

So unless you just had a chat with the key holder it's sex that wins !

you mean people just sat in dark corners on their own, until the bowl came out?

hardly.

social wins lol

Well the swingers stayed after the chat and had sex , the chatters said their goodbyes and drove home with their own car keys !

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm a single female who enjoys spending time on a swinging website meeting likeminded people. Bit of a mouthful that though, so can I borrow the name swinger? I promise not to abuse it. Much. "

Call MrMan at tool so that it's official and you can abuse him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a swingle .....you can be one too.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'm a single female who enjoys spending time on a swinging website meeting likeminded people. Bit of a mouthful that though, so can I borrow the name swinger? I promise not to abuse it. Much.

Call MrMan at tool so that it's official and you can abuse him.

I abused him months ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget any labels...Just have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I borrow your tool? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and, just to muddy the waters somewhat, i dont think couples that are only interested in the sex, to the detriment of the social side of things are proper swingers either

(that should stir up a little debate. im off to work lol)

To flip the coin , couples who seek the social side over the sex are not proper swingers either

swinging used to be party based.

parties are social occasions

social wins lol

A party where the car keys wer put in a pot , and you drew the keys of your playmate .

So unless you just had a chat with the key holder it's sex that wins !

you mean people just sat in dark corners on their own, until the bowl came out?

hardly.

social wins lol

Well the swingers stayed after the chat and had sex , the chatters said their goodbyes and drove home with their own car keys !

ah no, they went for the socialising, they stayed for the sex lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm a swingle .....you can be one too.

Ooo, ooo, oooh! I wanna be like you ooo ooo. I wanna walk like you, talk like you.

Are you the Queen of the Swingles?

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Can I borrow your tool? x"

Oi! I'm not a tool, I'm a free man lol

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

Call MrMan at tool so that it's official and you can abuse him.

I abused him months ago

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ok i give up, I'm a tool

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Call MrMan at tool so that it's official and you can abuse him.

I abused him months ago

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ok i give up, I'm a tool

Will you be changing your name?

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

Call MrMan at tool so that it's official and you can abuse him.

I abused him months ago

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ok i give up, I'm a tool

Will you be changing your name?

if i change my name to The Tool . People are going to think that ive got a one foot appendage

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Call MrMan at tool so that it's official and you can abuse him.

I abused him months ago

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ok i give up, I'm a tool

Will you be changing your name?

if i change my name to The Tool . People are going to think that ive got a one foot appendage "

Erm, maybe not quite a foot but bigger than my size three I think.

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