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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

does anyone insist their meet bring them a gift etc? have heard this not something i do! x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"does anyone insist their meet bring them a gift etc? have heard this not something i do! x"
Fucking hell no! Do you?

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"does anyone insist their meet bring them a gift etc? have heard this not something i do! x"

Bugger that! If I choose to take a gift it's my choice. And I've only done that a few times with regular meets on 'special' occasions...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as paying for it if you ask me

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Same as paying for it if you ask me "
I tend to think the same...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does anyone insist their meet bring them a gift etc? have heard this not something i do! x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy told me a woman he met insisted on money being transfered to her bank acc so she could buy lingerie for the meet! He told her no and she refused to meet. Prostitution if you ask me.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

If you see this please report the profile/message.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

I always take a gift to my meets..... me well I mean, Whst more could a woman possibly want

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I always take a gift to my meets..... me well I mean, Whst more could a woman possibly want "
A refund?

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"I always take a gift to my meets..... me well I mean, Whst more could a woman possibly want A refund? "

Oops! Flamed! Lol!

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket


"I always take a gift to my meets..... me well I mean, Whst more could a woman possibly want A refund? "

They feel too embarrassed to ask for 2p back

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I always take a gift to my meets..... me well I mean, Whst more could a woman possibly want A refund?

They feel too embarrassed to ask for 2p back "
Hahahahaha.....

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


" "
Is 2p too much?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


" Is 2p too much? "

Way too much in my case

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket


" Is 2p too much? "

I'm just glad they scrapped the half pennies

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

i find a Turd wrapped in newspaper a nice wee ice breaker and not as obvious as the usual flowers. x X X

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I'd never ask for anything, always appreciate a bottle of vino collapso or bunch of daffs...if I'm visiting I'll take wine and/or Cumbrian specialities - I've gifted sausages and Kendal mint cake in the past

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It's a gift if they turn up looking like their pictures. Anything else is a bonus.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I usually take a gift anyway, bottle of wine or something, but if I was asked, I'd find that very ill mannered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never take a gift and wouldn't accept one either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't! Seen woman on another site do this, all holding the hand out.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Is 2p too much?

Way too much in my case "

That's cos your priceless Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never expect a gift and wouldn't dream of asking for one either. I've taken a bottle of wine as he was cooking a meal and I was staying overnight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've seen it in profiles and been approached with the offers.

All a bit sad, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swingers site.. not a cash for gash..

Its yet another abusive nature of the swinging etiquette to abuse gullible men.

Play nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time men agree to buy gifts for meets because they think it allows them access to fanny then the more some women will ask for them

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe it's the way I've been bought up - if I'm a guest in someones house, I take a small gift - in swinging, it's usually a bottle of wine. I gave a bottle of Cabernet Sauvignon once and it was called 'Fab Cab' which I thought was apt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site.. not a cash for gash..

Its yet another abusive nature of the swinging etiquette to abuse gullible men.

Play nicely

"

Cash for gash!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"All the time men agree to buy gifts for meets because they think it allows them access to fanny then the more some women will ask for them"

I'd already 'got access to fanny' so the fact that I took a bottle of wine had no influence on whether I was going to shag her or not. It's not a bribe, I consider it polite. If I was ASKED, however, that's a different kettle of fish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's the way I've been bought up - if I'm a guest in someones house, I take a small gift - in swinging, it's usually a bottle of wine. I gave a bottle of Cabernet Sauvignon once and it was called 'Fab Cab' which I thought was apt. "

a bottle of wine is just a refreshment,like bringing a packed lunch

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Why is the title 'rinsing'? I thought it was about ways to rinse ones hair which proves I'm a sad git for reading it.

Badanna: I could extend my hospitality to some nibbles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rinsing is a slang term for women using their 'beauty and charm' to get gifts off guys.

C4 Documentary 'Sex, Lies and Rinsing'

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Rinsing is a slang term for women using their 'beauty and charm' to get gifts off guys.

C4 Documentary 'Sex, Lies and Rinsing'"

Well, fancy that! I never knew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the time men agree to buy gifts for meets because they think it allows them access to fanny then the more some women will ask for them

I'd already 'got access to fanny' so the fact that I took a bottle of wine had no influence on whether I was going to shag her or not. It's not a bribe, I consider it polite. If I was ASKED, however, that's a different kettle of fish. "

That was my point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the time men agree to buy gifts for meets because they think it allows them access to fanny then the more some women will ask for them

I'd already 'got access to fanny' so the fact that I took a bottle of wine had no influence on whether I was going to shag her or not. It's not a bribe, I consider it polite. If I was ASKED, however, that's a different kettle of fish.

That was my point"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If I was asked I'd say no, have a wank, watch some porn and swig the wine mesen *Cumbrian Accent*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is the title 'rinsing'? I thought it was about ways to rinse ones hair which proves I'm a sad git for reading it.

Badanna: I could extend my hospitality to some nibbles "

If a multi pack of cheese and onion walkers fell in my lap I'd be ever so grateful

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Yes I always expect to be honoured in the appropriate manner. Small golden statues of myself or maybe sacrifice a goat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I always expect to be honoured in the appropriate manner. Small golden statues of myself or maybe sacrifice a goat."

would that be an excited effigy of yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if they ask for gifts or money ....... people should see the signs and say no . As should not be on here if its there job and only here for what they can get from people . Report .... as some mug could really get taken to the cleaners for a lot of money . It should not come into swinging, Lets say a person into this could have a field day here .. some lonely person no joy from his mail but could if he payed for this and that no its not on .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why is the title 'rinsing'? I thought it was about ways to rinse ones hair which proves I'm a sad git for reading it.

Badanna: I could extend my hospitality to some nibbles

If a multi pack of cheese and onion walkers fell in my lap I'd be ever so grateful "

You sexy bitch!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Yes I always expect to be honoured in the appropriate manner. Small golden statues of myself or maybe sacrifice a goat.

would that be an excited effigy of yourself?"

Yes of course. I'm a big fan of the Roman approach to effigy's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I always expect to be honoured in the appropriate manner. Small golden statues of myself or maybe sacrifice a goat.

would that be an excited effigy of yourself?

Yes of course. I'm a big fan of the Roman approach to effigy's."

could be a useful toy that. Do you do it in a large?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Yes I always expect to be honoured in the appropriate manner. Small golden statues of myself or maybe sacrifice a goat.

would that be an excited effigy of yourself?

Yes of course. I'm a big fan of the Roman approach to effigy's.

could be a useful toy that. Do you do it in a large?"

I do small, medium, large and actual size IF U NO WAT I MEAN!!¡

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I always expect to be honoured in the appropriate manner. Small golden statues of myself or maybe sacrifice a goat.

would that be an excited effigy of yourself?

Yes of course. I'm a big fan of the Roman approach to effigy's.

could be a useful toy that. Do you do it in a large?

I do small, medium, large and actual size IF U NO WAT I MEAN!!¡"

I'll have one in each size. Send them to my room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always take a gift to my meets..... me well I mean, Whst more could a woman possibly want A refund? "

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"If I was asked I'd say no, have a wank, watch some porn and swig the wine mesen *Cumbrian Accent*"

That's not a bad accent for a Southerner, but we'd usually "nek" the wine oursen

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

fools and their money

and the brass neck of some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pffft no way given or received - we give out a brew whilst we chat but thats it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I've never asked for nor received anything other than the sex. I've taken gifts usually edible as guys accommodate me and have picked me up and dropped me home so I thought it was just polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I've never asked for nor received anything other than the sex. I've taken gifts usually edible as guys accommodate me and have picked me up and dropped me home so I thought it was just polite "

sorry had to smile - anything edible is me and him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I've never asked for nor received anything other than the sex. I've taken gifts usually edible as guys accommodate me and have picked me up and dropped me home so I thought it was just polite

sorry had to smile - anything edible is me and him "

I realised what id put the minute I hit post. . I take cake and recently chocolates for us to share but we never got to eat them, just each other

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If I was asked I'd say no, have a wank, watch some porn and swig the wine mesen *Cumbrian Accent*

That's not a bad accent for a Southerner, but we'd usually "nek" the wine oursen "

Gizashag and I'll bring you some Liebfraumilch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gift is always appreciated but I've never asked for one. I took a gift for a man taking me to a party and have in the past been given a bottle of wine.

Many guys recoil at the thought of a social so can imagine how they would react at being told to bring a gift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I've never asked for nor received anything other than the sex. I've taken gifts usually edible as guys accommodate me and have picked me up and dropped me home so I thought it was just polite

sorry had to smile - anything edible is me and him

I realised what id put the minute I hit post. . I take cake and recently chocolates for us to share but we never got to eat them, just each other "

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"If I was asked I'd say no, have a wank, watch some porn and swig the wine mesen *Cumbrian Accent*

That's not a bad accent for a Southerner, but we'd usually "nek" the wine oursen

Gizashag and I'll bring you some Liebfraumilch "

Liebfraumilch? I'm a classy Blue Nun kinda gal I'll have you know...or should that be Black Tower...maybe that would be better on a BBC thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes take pink champagne and strawberries.........but fun with food is on the agenda lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Sometimes take pink champagne and strawberries.........but fun with food is on the agenda lol "

I've used champagne and strawberries...those combined with sex is a real winner.

Caz: a cup of tea and I'm yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes take pink champagne and strawberries.........but fun with food is on the agenda lol "

Do you

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would never dream of asking or expecting a gift but its lovely when someone does bring one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never dream of asking or expecting a gift but its lovely when someone does bring one

"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I would never dream of asking or expecting a gift but its lovely when someone does bring one

"

That's a good attitude.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Sometimes take pink champagne and strawberries.........but fun with food is on the agenda lol

I've used champagne and strawberries...those combined with sex is a real winner.

Caz: a cup of tea and I'm yours "

Kettle is always on for you Stevie Boy...bloody hurry up and get up here, I've burnt out 17 fecking elements since I joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting........

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