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"I know loads of women that like porn " So do I! But they are only on this site! All the women I know outside of fan have no apparent sex drive at all! Apart from maybe one... | |||
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"I like porn, nothing wrong with my sex drive either. Is it you? " Correct me if I'm wrong.... But you're on fab. ;) | |||
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"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day " This is what majority of my female friends are like. Don't like anything visual. Like to hear/read about it only. It seems that they actually get turned off by anything visual! | |||
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"What's with women not liking porn? I know the majority of women on here are sexual and do like it... But have any of you fellas met 'non fab' women? Most of the women I know are not sexual in the slightest. Has anyone else come across this? What's happened to women's sex drives?!? Why do most women hate porn or anything sexual? Lol" Huh? Watching porn is not having sex, it's the exact opposite!! I don't need porn to turn me on or get me off, and if there's a man in the room, porn is entirely unecessary!! | |||
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"There's loads of women not on here that love porn my mates all watch it and none are on here " Oh right! Omg... I don't know any women from outside of fab who like porn! | |||
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"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day This is what majority of my female friends are like. Don't like anything visual. Like to hear/read about it only. It seems that they actually get turned off by anything visual!" Because it looks all contrived and fake to me, why would that turn me on | |||
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"not a big porn fan, the grunting, oohing and aahing does my tits in." | |||
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"What's with women not liking porn? I know the majority of women on here are sexual and do like it... But have any of you fellas met 'non fab' women? Most of the women I know are not sexual in the slightest. Has anyone else come across this? What's happened to women's sex drives?!? Why do most women hate porn or anything sexual? Lol Huh? Watching porn is not having sex, it's the exact opposite!! I don't need porn to turn me on or get me off, and if there's a man in the room, porn is entirely unecessary!!" Eh? I didn't say watching porn was having sex. But yeah... | |||
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"There's loads of women not on here that love porn my mates all watch it and none are on here Oh right! Omg... I don't know any women from outside of fab who like porn!" There will be lots of women who won't admit it...but watch it. I used to be embarrassed to say I watched it before I cane on here . | |||
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"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day This is what majority of my female friends are like. Don't like anything visual. Like to hear/read about it only. It seems that they actually get turned off by anything visual! Because it looks all contrived and fake to me, why would that turn me on " Yeah... This is what my best friend says. Its fake! What I said to her is well yeah its fake but doesn't it turn you on? She said not at all. | |||
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"could be the way they have been brought up and having hang ups about the way they look, most women seem to worry about the way they look too much, comparing themselves to other women all the time. most men dont give a toss do they." I think secretly, it might be this. I wouldn't dare ask though haha! | |||
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"they all say that but if you can actually get her down to look for 5 the damp patch in her pants says different " Lol... She won't! Its 'disgusting' apparently! | |||
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"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day This is what majority of my female friends are like. Don't like anything visual. Like to hear/read about it only. It seems that they actually get turned off by anything visual! Because it looks all contrived and fake to me, why would that turn me on Yeah... This is what my best friend says. Its fake! What I said to her is well yeah its fake but doesn't it turn you on? She said not at all." See, we have already given you our reasons why.....Are you still confused then? | |||
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"There's loads of women not on here that love porn my mates all watch it and none are on here Oh right! Omg... I don't know any women from outside of fab who like porn! There will be lots of women who won't admit it...but watch it. I used to be embarrassed to say I watched it before I cane on here ." Ahh right... I think society discourages women from being sexual. | |||
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" Eh? I didn't say watching porn was having sex. But yeah... " You did equate the two - ie watching porn meant having a sex drive. Not so - if you have sex drive you seek real sex!! Porn seems to me to depict crap sex most of the time anyway. | |||
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"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day This is what majority of my female friends are like. Don't like anything visual. Like to hear/read about it only. It seems that they actually get turned off by anything visual! Because it looks all contrived and fake to me, why would that turn me on Yeah... This is what my best friend says. Its fake! What I said to her is well yeah its fake but doesn't it turn you on? She said not at all. See, we have already given you our reasons why.....Are you still confused then? " No no, I've got some answers! These answers are sufficient for the time being haha. | |||
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" Eh? I didn't say watching porn was having sex. But yeah... You did equate the two - ie watching porn meant having a sex drive. Not so - if you have sex drive you seek real sex!! Porn seems to me to depict crap sex most of the time anyway." Ahh I see what you mean. That wasn't an intentional comparison. Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap? | |||
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"Most porn is aimed at men" Exactly - I was just about to say this... It's men who pay for porn - so it's aimed at them, and completely misses the mark for many women.... I'd love to watch some good porn, but 99% of it is just too simplistic and boring - and very disappointing!!! I'd pay for good women's porn - and so would a lot of non-Fab women that I know - it just isn't out there.. and we're a little bit fed up about it!!! | |||
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"A sexy story yep. A shit porno no thanks. Rather make my own with my 'vanilla non fab' girlies thanks haha. Not all non fab women are frigid, I have several non fab ladies that watch porn and make their own with their bfs/partners. I have a few short vids of using my toys on them for their bfs haha. Just depends on who you know. " Ahhh... Ok ok... So it seems that there are *some* sexual, non fab women at least... Thank heavens for that! I must just be meeting the boring ones haha! Having said that, some of the negative points pointed out here by the fabbers do seem to be generic. Through fan and normal world! I think there's not much in porn for women... More for men. I guess women prefer to be prepared than just being thrown into a sex session. I'm going to research it later! | |||
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"Most porn is aimed at men Exactly - I was just about to say this... It's men who pay for porn - so it's aimed at them, and completely misses the mark for many women.... I'd love to watch some good porn, but 99% of it is just too simplistic and boring - and very disappointing!!! I'd pay for good women's porn - and so would a lot of non-Fab women that I know - it just isn't out there.. and we're a little bit fed up about it!!! " That's interesting. So what do you ladies want to see then? What makes it good for you? I'm going to try this out haha! | |||
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"I like porn, nothing wrong with my sex drive either. Is it you? Correct me if I'm wrong.... But you're on fab. ;)" Yes well I'm old n not had my mere | |||
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"I like porn, nothing wrong with my sex drive either. Is it you? Correct me if I'm wrong.... But you're on fab. ;)Yes well I'm old n not had my mere " need lol | |||
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"I like porn, nothing wrong with my sex drive either. Is it you? Correct me if I'm wrong.... But you're on fab. ;)Yes well I'm old n not had my mere need lol" Ha.... Right... Gonna make a new post. | |||
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"Most porn is aimed at men Exactly - I was just about to say this... It's men who pay for porn - so it's aimed at them, and completely misses the mark for many women.... I'd love to watch some good porn, but 99% of it is just too simplistic and boring - and very disappointing!!! I'd pay for good women's porn - and so would a lot of non-Fab women that I know - it just isn't out there.. and we're a little bit fed up about it!!! That's interesting. So what do you ladies want to see then? What makes it good for you? I'm going to try this out haha!" I like watching gay male porn. It's on the whole more realistic | |||
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" Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap?" It's not real - they are people paid to fake it and look like it - mechanical, void of sensuality or sublety or seduction, it's just sex for the camera angle, not for the enjoyment of those participating. And I feel no need for it anyway. | |||
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" Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap? It's not real - they are people paid to fake it and look like it - mechanical, void of sensuality or sublety or seduction, it's just sex for the camera angle, not for the enjoyment of those participating. And I feel no need for it anyway." Cool cool! Basically, it just has to be realistic... | |||
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" Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap? It's not real - they are people paid to fake it and look like it - mechanical, void of sensuality or sublety or seduction, it's just sex for the camera angle, not for the enjoyment of those participating. And I feel no need for it anyway. Cool cool! Basically, it just has to be realistic..." the noises women make in porn are laughable. Some just can't act | |||
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" Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap? It's not real - they are people paid to fake it and look like it - mechanical, void of sensuality or sublety or seduction, it's just sex for the camera angle, not for the enjoyment of those participating. And I feel no need for it anyway. Cool cool! Basically, it just has to be realistic..." Even if it was, I for one would not bother, I just feel no need to watch people have sex, but then I am kinaesthetic in the fuller sense. | |||
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" Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap? It's not real - they are people paid to fake it and look like it - mechanical, void of sensuality or sublety or seduction, it's just sex for the camera angle, not for the enjoyment of those participating. And I feel no need for it anyway. Cool cool! Basically, it just has to be realistic... the noises women make in porn are laughable. Some just can't act " Real life women do it too. We were at a party recently and a woman was trying for an Oscar. It was so fake is was embarrassing. We had to leave the room. | |||
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"Keep porn light hearted & real & you have winning formula, what pisses me off in a lot of the new films is guys & gushing. Every guy you meet wants to shove his hand up your pussy as hard as he can hoping to make you squirt, guys can be influenced into thinking what they have seen in porn is the thing they should do. Kim x" I suppose guys like that just want to please women. They are trying hard. I find it a total turn off though and move away. I am apparently a disappointment because I don't put on an amazing show. Fine by me, they can find someone else. | |||
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"Keep porn light hearted & real & you have winning formula, what pisses me off in a lot of the new films is guys & gushing. Every guy you meet wants to shove his hand up your pussy as hard as he can hoping to make you squirt, guys can be influenced into thinking what they have seen in porn is the thing they should do. Kim x I suppose guys like that just want to please women. They are trying hard. I find it a total turn off though and move away. I am apparently a disappointment because I don't put on an amazing show. Fine by me, they can find someone else." Its true... Men do love to please women. For me, if I know I'm pleasing the woman, I feel good. If I don't think I'm pleasing her, I feel bad and its not as good. Weird I know but it seems to be programmed into the majority of the descent guys! | |||
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"Keep porn light hearted & real & you have winning formula, what pisses me off in a lot of the new films is guys & gushing. Every guy you meet wants to shove his hand up your pussy as hard as he can hoping to make you squirt, guys can be influenced into thinking what they have seen in porn is the thing they should do. Kim x I suppose guys like that just want to please women. They are trying hard. I find it a total turn off though and move away. I am apparently a disappointment because I don't put on an amazing show. Fine by me, they can find someone else. Its true... Men do love to please women. For me, if I know I'm pleasing the woman, I feel good. If I don't think I'm pleasing her, I feel bad and its not as good. Weird I know but it seems to be programmed into the majority of the descent guys!" . Infact, there was one girl ages ago who I was playing with and she made no noise what so ever. Was not expressive at all. Anyway, I never came in the end because I really thought something was wrong. It turns out she did want it?!? Anyway, we stayed friends but I never went back there! Us guys can get funny about this issue I guess. | |||
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"We watch porn together as a couple. We're addicted to the XXX Parodies. They're funny and surprisingly well acted. We do have to fast forward the actual sex scenes though... Women making dodgy gagging noises and 25minute long single camera angle sex scenes are dull as dishwater. To the OP the topic might not have come up with women outside fab. If might be you that they're not comfortable talking about this subject with. Just a possibility!" I don't know.. Haha | |||
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" Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap? It's not real - they are people paid to fake it and look like it - mechanical, void of sensuality or sublety or seduction, it's just sex for the camera angle, not for the enjoyment of those participating. And I feel no need for it anyway. Cool cool! Basically, it just has to be realistic... the noises women make in porn are laughable. Some just can't act Real life women do it too. We were at a party recently and a woman was trying for an Oscar. It was so fake is was embarrassing. We had to leave the room." How do you know its fake noises though im usualy quiet but sometimes make a lot of noise. | |||
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"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day " I like to read erotic books too. I am gathering quite a nice selection now | |||
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"I love watching porn, it's a fantasy too make one, lol x" its my fantasy to make a girl girl porn movie. so horny thinking about it | |||
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" All the women I know outside of fan have no apparent sex drive at all! Apart from maybe one..." You mean they don't want to have sex with you? How peculiar | |||
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" All the women I know outside of fan have no apparent sex drive at all! Apart from maybe one... You mean they don't want to have sex with you? How peculiar " Not exactly, I wouldn't really want to have sex with my friends thanks... That would be a bit odd. | |||
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" All the women I know outside of fan have no apparent sex drive at all! Apart from maybe one... You mean they don't want to have sex with you? How peculiar Not exactly, I wouldn't really want to have sex with my friends thanks... That would be a bit odd." All the women you know are your friends? Wow, super popular! if they are all your friends why are you watching porn with them, isn't that a bit odd? | |||
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" All the women I know outside of fan have no apparent sex drive at all! Apart from maybe one... You mean they don't want to have sex with you? How peculiar Not exactly, I wouldn't really want to have sex with my friends thanks... That would be a bit odd. All the women you know are your friends? Wow, super popular! if they are all your friends why are you watching porn with them, isn't that a bit odd?" Eh? Have I said that I am watching porn with them? Youve misunderstood I think. Im asking why women dont like porn, not why my friends dont watch porn with me. Do you have lots of male friends? Do you watch porn with them?!?! If you imagine watching porn with your closest male friends, do you think it would be odd? ;) | |||
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"There is a whole range of possibilities when answering this question. A better question may be; Why do some men make generalisations when talking about the female population? Ian't it more appropriate to appreciate that all humans are different and have varying fantasies." That may or may not be a better question, but its not relavant to this thread. Feel free to make a new thread for that! Lol | |||
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"Keep porn light hearted & real & you have winning formula, what pisses me off in a lot of the new films is guys & gushing. Every guy you meet wants to shove his hand up your pussy as hard as he can hoping to make you squirt, guys can be influenced into thinking what they have seen in porn is the thing they should do. Kim x I suppose guys like that just want to please women. They are trying hard. I find it a total turn off though and move away. I am apparently a disappointment because I don't put on an amazing show. Fine by me, they can find someone else. Its true... Men do love to please women. For me, if I know I'm pleasing the woman, I feel good. If I don't think I'm pleasing her, I feel bad and its not as good. Weird I know but it seems to be programmed into the majority of the descent guys!. Infact, there was one girl ages ago who I was playing with and she made no noise what so ever. Was not expressive at all. Anyway, I never came in the end because I really thought something was wrong. It turns out she did want it?!? Anyway, we stayed friends but I never went back there! Us guys can get funny about this issue I guess." I understand what you're saying. No-one wants to fuck a dead fish. I was just meaning blokes that try too hard. There's a difference between wanting someone to have fun, and trying much too hard. x | |||
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"Keep porn light hearted & real & you have winning formula, what pisses me off in a lot of the new films is guys & gushing. Every guy you meet wants to shove his hand up your pussy as hard as he can hoping to make you squirt, guys can be influenced into thinking what they have seen in porn is the thing they should do. Kim x I suppose guys like that just want to please women. They are trying hard. I find it a total turn off though and move away. I am apparently a disappointment because I don't put on an amazing show. Fine by me, they can find someone else. Its true... Men do love to please women. For me, if I know I'm pleasing the woman, I feel good. If I don't think I'm pleasing her, I feel bad and its not as good. Weird I know but it seems to be programmed into the majority of the descent guys!. Infact, there was one girl ages ago who I was playing with and she made no noise what so ever. Was not expressive at all. Anyway, I never came in the end because I really thought something was wrong. It turns out she did want it?!? Anyway, we stayed friends but I never went back there! Us guys can get funny about this issue I guess. I understand what you're saying. No-one wants to fuck a dead fish. I was just meaning blokes that try too hard. There's a difference between wanting someone to have fun, and trying much too hard. x" Yeah I see what you mean. A lot of girls on here that I've spoken to seem to be really turned off by guys who try too hard. Because they look desperate. | |||
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"A woman's sex drive has nothing to do with her liking (or disliking) porn. I find that almost every woman I've ever met has been sexual in some way or another - even if its asexual. " | |||
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"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake.." this | |||
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"What's with women not liking porn? I know the majority of women on here are sexual and do like it... But have any of you fellas met 'non fab' women? Most of the women I know are not sexual in the slightest. Has anyone else come across this? What's happened to women's sex drives?!? Why do most women hate porn or anything sexual? Lol" Where are you getting this bollocks from? | |||
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"What's with women not liking porn? I know the majority of women on here are sexual and do like it... But have any of you fellas met 'non fab' women? Most of the women I know are not sexual in the slightest. Has anyone else come across this? What's happened to women's sex drives?!? Why do most women hate porn or anything sexual? Lol Where are you getting this bollocks from? Lol " | |||
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"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake.." Yep, the fake stuff is incredibly boring but there is far more stuff that isn't. | |||
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"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake.." What porn do you like ? Xx | |||
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"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day " I agree. I'd rather read a good erotic story than watch it. Guys are stimulated more visually, women prefer a build up, reading, teasing, flirting, etc | |||
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"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake.. What porn do you like ? Xx" i like doing stuff that could be classified as non boring porn | |||
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"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake.. Yep, the fake stuff is incredibly boring but there is far more stuff that isn't." true, still more fun doing it though x | |||
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"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake.. What porn do you like ? Xxi like doing stuff that could be classified as non boring porn " Hehe Suzy I bet you have some great moves xx | |||
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"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake.. What porn do you like ? Xxi like doing stuff that could be classified as non boring porn Hehe Suzy I bet you have some great moves xx" with friends, i hope so | |||
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"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake.. What porn do you like ? Xxi like doing stuff that could be classified as non boring porn Hehe Suzy I bet you have some great moves xxwith friends, i hope so " Lol your so sexy xx | |||
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"What's with women not liking porn? I know the majority of women on here are sexual and do like it... But have any of you fellas met 'non fab' women? Most of the women I know are not sexual in the slightest. Has anyone else come across this? What's happened to women's sex drives?!? Why do most women hate porn or anything sexual? Lol" Some men don't like porn. I do t like salmon, now don't asume by my statement that it's strange to not like Salmon. | |||
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