FabSwingers.com forum: Would you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.....meet someone from here to whom you knew you we're ideologically opposed?

There are some great debates on here and aside from the fence-sitters (not a criticism) people fall often fall firmly in one camp or another.

The people I often find most interesting aren't necessarily people I agree with but those who I have a mental tussle with.

Just curious whether ideology would mean you automatically rule someone in or out?

Mrs D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....meet someone from here to whom you knew you we're ideologically opposed?

There are some great debates on here and aside from the fence-sitters (not a criticism) people fall often fall firmly in one camp or another.

The people I often find most interesting aren't necessarily people I agree with but those who I have a mental tussle with.

Just curious whether ideology would mean you automatically rule someone in or out?

Mrs D"

Don't they say opposites attract?!

I wouldn't rule someone out just because they have opposing views to mine, sometimes it can be those opposing views that are at the centre of the "connection", I am naturally drawn to strong minded assertive men - it doesn't mean I have to agree with them!!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I had a lovely chat with a hang 'em all, UKIP supporting suspected Daily Mail reader at the Xtasia Social. Very different to what I was expecting from his posts on the forum. Mind you he had a 'bostin' Wolverhampton accent and so it was hard to take much of what he was saying too seriously...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a lovely chat with a hang 'em all, UKIP supporting suspected Daily Mail reader at the Xtasia Social. Very different to what I was expecting from his posts on the forum. Mind you he had a 'bostin' Wolverhampton accent and so it was hard to take much of what he was saying too seriously...

Haha, living in the area I understand what you mean.

It does fascinate me, I find conviction quite sexy

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

".....meet someone from here to whom you knew you we're ideologically opposed?

There are some great debates on here and aside from the fence-sitters (not a criticism) people fall often fall firmly in one camp or another.

The people I often find most interesting aren't necessarily people I agree with but those who I have a mental tussle with.

Just curious whether ideology would mean you automatically rule someone in or out?

Mrs D

Don't they say opposites attract?!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

No problem whatsoever with people that have opposing views. The way they deliver those views is another matter entirely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....meet someone from here to whom you knew you we're ideologically opposed?

There are some great debates on here and aside from the fence-sitters (not a criticism) people fall often fall firmly in one camp or another.

The people I often find most interesting aren't necessarily people I agree with but those who I have a mental tussle with.

Just curious whether ideology would mean you automatically rule someone in or out?

Mrs D

Don't they say opposites attract?!

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how they put their views. If polite then fine.

If they're an aggressive bore forget them!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I suppose it's the fact that people's personalities attract me more than anything and that is a driving factor for me wanting to meet them. I like to find out how people think, I am great at asking questions that lead people into chatting about themselves, I should of been a psychologist

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"Depends how they put their views. If polite then fine.

If they're an aggressive bore forget them! "

I have met and am good friends with people who have very different views to my own it's not what their views are necessarily but how they put them across that would be an issue. That said there are certain core values held by some that would make it difficult for me to warm to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the subject is brought up and they can have a discussion without arguing,

I would meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i might meet them if i was desperate maybe. i find the less i know about most people the more i would be likely to meet them. so there arent many men i would want to meet on the forums but there are a few women i wouldnt mind meeting because i like what they post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem meeting them for a social. If those opposing views were brought up verbally it may be an issue though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am left wing, he is a Tory. We don't discuss politics!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passionate views and strong opinions are an attractive trait,not allowing other people to have their opinion or ruining a battle of words by becoming personal,spiteful and belittling them is an ugly trait and shows a lack of maturity and intelligence,I wouldn't want to waste my precious time on the latter type of person as I can't find any attraction in that sort of personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I have good friends that are totally different from me and we all get on great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a self centred opinionated manic depressive with psychotic tendancies i relish meeting people with differing views to myself.

Usually in a forest.

At night

Arry the Axe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I suppose how you express yourself is pretty key. I'm often guilty of not expressing myself in the most diplomatic way!

If someone composes a well thought out, detailed and robust reply in a thread, no matter how I might disagree with the sentiment I sometimes find myself thinking, God that's sexy.

There may yet be an issue though where I see a topic and what somebody says (not how they say it) repulses me. Not happened yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said I sound like Ray Winstone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Passionate views and strong opinions are an attractive trait,not allowing other people to have their opinion or ruining a battle of words by becoming personal,spiteful and belittling them is an ugly trait and shows a lack of maturity and intelligence,I wouldn't want to waste my precious time on the latter type of person as I can't find any attraction in that sort of personality"

I would apply that to anyone I met (and an occasional forum poster) under any circumstances not just swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said I sound like Ray Winstone?

Nette just went all moist lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said I sound like Ray Winstone?

Nette just went all moist lol

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bung her in a taxi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a fence sitter so I can't say what I'd do really.

I agree with what Ryan said though.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Haha, living in the area I understand what you mean.

It does fascinate me, I find conviction quite sexy"

Ditto!!

The same night I was at one point sat between a die hard Tory and a serious socialist!!

Didn't talk much politics but both were great guys and everyone got on fine.

Personal beliefs are to be respected - but as Ryan said - it's how people interact and express any convictions that counts. I enjoy the company of anyone so long as they're not racist, bigoted or religious nutters! Diversity is great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love those types, there is nothing better than a badness fuck with someone I don't like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you meet someone from fab you dont talk about politics or what newspaper you read though usually anyway, they are more likely to talk about their wives or other people they have met.

i wouldnt want to meet anyone who didnt like animals though, i think they would be a certain type i wouldnt like.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Yes I'd meet someone I disagreed with ideologically. An active mind is a turn on so the ability to debate and get one's point across is attractive to me, even if we don't agree. We'd have to be able to agree to disagree though.

I wouldn't meet someone I disagreed with unless the mental spark was there though.

I'm not looking for marriage or a relationship so compatibility of views isn't important in the least.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"No problem whatsoever with people that have opposing views. The way they deliver those views is another matter entirely. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends, for me. in some cases ideological opposition can be stimulating and in kind of a brainy nerdy bitch. however, i think that there are cases where it would cause me to not want to meet, i.e. if they're incredibly disrespectful, willfully ignorant once new evidence is shared with them, or don't practice what they themselves preach..... or try to convert me.

what really makes me want to meet someone is showing they have a modicum of intellect, a sense of humour,

and

veris and cock pics that make me cream, shudder and tremble in anticipation.

*yanks tongue out of cheek and places it firmly in chastity device for remainder of today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for me someone who disagrees with me is quite a big turn on.

Confident women do it for me.

$0.02

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it depends, for me. in some cases ideological opposition can be stimulating and in kind of a brainy nerdy bitch. however, i think that there are cases where it would cause me to not want to meet, i.e. if they're incredibly disrespectful, willfully ignorant once new evidence is shared with them, or don't practice what they themselves preach..... or try to convert me.

what really makes me want to meet someone is showing they have a modicum of intellect, a sense of humour,

and

veris and cock pics that make me cream, shudder and tremble in anticipation.

*yanks tongue out of cheek and places it firmly in chastity device for remainder of today.

When you're back in your old home town next make sure you look me up, would love to share a heavenly ice cream with you, I really enjoy your posts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people I would meet but bigots don't do it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what really makes me want to meet someone is showing they have a modicum of intellect, a sense of humour,

and

veris and cock pics that make me cream, shudder and tremble in anticipation.

*yanks tongue out of cheek and places it firmly in chastity device for remainder of today.

When you're back in your old home town next make sure you look me up, would love to share a heavenly ice cream with you, I really enjoy your posts x

i haven't been able to afford to visit yet. nearly three years now. munchkin on that long a journey, a place he doesn't remember, etc has to be handled carefully as well. I'm going to try to bring him over the summer, if ican book a room at the main hhotel. expensive as hell, i know, but only real option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what really makes me want to meet someone is showing they have a modicum of intellect, a sense of humour,

and

veris and cock pics that make me cream, shudder and tremble in anticipation.

*yanks tongue out of cheek and places it firmly in chastity device for remainder of today.

When you're back in your old home town next make sure you look me up, would love to share a heavenly ice cream with you, I really enjoy your posts x

Inbox me I have a way to cut your costs by 90% re accommodation xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely - I think there would be nothing finer than a group of like minded naked adults having a mass debate together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my favourite people on here are the complete polar opposite to me. I like people who stand by their convictions and are passionate about the way they explain their reasoning. I also enjoy giving them a good ribbing about it and their replies.

There are some that take themselves far too seriously though. Those that cannot take any form of joke or criticism, those are the ones I tend to avoid. That being said, I will give anyone a chance, what they do with it is up to them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

I've even heard it be said in some parts men date women

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You said I sound like Ray Winstone?

You do! I kept expecting you to start advertising bets, or something....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said I sound like Ray Winstone?

You do! I kept expecting you to start advertising bets, or something....

Woss the odds on Tina's going down?

Sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you asking would i fuck a tory then yes they fucked me for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On serious note sometimes heated arguments lead to great sex.

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